How now, my friend! What, quite another man![101]

I abhor a fellow who servilely complies with whatsoever I propose, and

keeps pace with me in all my motions,—my shadow can do that better than

yourself,—but my friend must deal plainly and impartially, and assist

me faithfully with his judgment. And thus you see one way of discerning

a flatterer from a friend.

9. Another difference observable betwixt them in the resemblance they

bear to each other is, that a true friend will not rashly commend

nor imitate every thing, but only what really deserves it; for, as

Sophocles says,

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