LET us now descend to minute matters, which, though not so important as
those we mentioned, are still far from inconsiderable. Of these laughter
is one.
FREQUENT and loud laughter is a sure sign of a weak mind, and no less
characteristic of a low education. It is the manner in which low-bred
men express their silly joy, at silly things, and they call it being
merry.
I DO not recommend upon all occasions a solemn countenance. A man may
smile, but if he would be thought a gentleman and a man of sense, he
would by no means laugh. True wit never made a man of fashion laugh; he
is above it. It may create a smile, but as loud laughter shews, that a
man has not the command of himself, every one, who would wish to appear
sensible, must abhor it.
A MAN’S going to sit down, on a supposition that he has a chair behind
him, and falling for want of one, occasions a general laugh, when the
best pieces of wit would not do it; a sufficient proof how low and
unbecoming laughter is.
BESIDES, could the immoderate laugher hear his own noise, or see the
faces he makes, he would despise himself for his folly. Laughter being
generally supposed to be the effects of gaiety, its absurdity is not
properly attended to; but a little reflection will easily restrain it;
and when you are told, it is a mark of low-breeding, I persuade myself
you will endeavour to avoid it.
SOME people have a silly trick of laughing, whenever they speak; so that
they are always on the grin, and their faces ever distorted. This and a
thousand other tricks, such as scratching their heads, twirling their
hats, fumbling with their button, playing with their fingers, &c. &c.
are acquired from a false modesty, at their first outset in life. Being
shame-faced in company, they try a variety of ways to keep themselves in
countenance; thus, they fall into those awkward habits I have mentioned,
which grow upon them, and in time become habitual.
NOTHING is more repugnant likewise to good-breeding than horse play of
any sort, romping, throwing things at one another’s heads, and so on.
They may pass well enough with the mob, but they lessen and degrade the
gentleman.