Is there not practical wisdom, in commencing every day with the

steady effort, to make as much of it, as if it were to be our whole

existence. If we have duties to perform, in themselves severe and

laborious, we may inquire, if there be not some way, by which to

invest them with pleasant associations? A man may find amusement

in his free thoughts, while following his plough upon the hill

side; in digging up the words for a dictionary, or in copying out

a brief. He may train himself, by an inefficient and shrinking

spirit, to recoil from these tasks, as insupportable burdens. How

many men find their pleasure, in what would be the positive horror

and torment of the indolent! How weak the spirit, and how silly

the vanity which we display, in ever renewing narrations of our

little personal troubles, pains and misfortunes! If we would have

the discretion to measure the sympathy, which we may expect from

others, in such discourses, by that, which we are conscious of

feeling for theirs of the same character, it would go far to teach

us the folly of that querulous spirit, which doles forth the story

of sufferings and sorrows, as though the narrator were the only

sufferer, and were entitled to a monopoly of all the passing pity.

Note 59, page 169.

This compendium of the moral acquirements, entering into the

character of an accomplished philosopher, I consider one of the

happiest, which any book of morals can show. Here is an ample

volume of ethics, on a page. How differently would a modern

auto-biographer have announced the same facts! In what rounded

periods and circuitous expressions would he have striven to

convey the same ideas, to impress the reader, that his modesty

forbade the frank personality of the Roman philosopher. The

whole spirit of this admirable summary would have evaporated in

barren generalities. What we admire in the ancients is their

noble simplicity and directness, which disdains the vanity of

circumlocution, that wishes to hide itself under the semblance of

modesty.

It seems to me, that it would not be amiss for the clergy of the

day to seek the models of their homilies and sermons in such a

manner of declaring moral truth. Abstract ethical declamation,

and all the scholastic acquirements and the _limæ labor_ are but

poor substitutes for that searching directness, which, avoiding

abstractions and generalities, appeals at once to the personal

consciousness. I allow, that I should love to hear such sermons,

as that of Dr Primrose to his fellow prisoners, in the Vicar of

Wakefield. There is no eloquence, there can be none, except in

simple and direct appeals to thought and conscience.

Note 60, page 171.

Various writers of splendid genius have tasked their imagination,

to present us with the results of endowing a person with

immortality on earth. Such a character has been delineated with

great power by Godwin, in his St Leon; and by Croly in the story

of _Salathiel, or the Wandering Jew_. It is an instructive labor,

to record the wanderings, changes, weariness, abandonment, and

final despair of a wretch cursed with immortality; and by the

circumstance rendered a monster, out of relation with human beings;

and cut off from all real sympathy with his mortal kind. It is

questionable, whether these writers, or any others who have drawn

similar pictures, have formed adequate conceptions, of what would

be the actual result of an earthly immortality. The view of the

author before me seems just. I can easily imagine the immortal

delivered from earthly sorrows. But, when I contemplate him

divested of the hopes, fears, affections and sympathies, which

trace their origin to our common mortal nature, I cannot imagine

the affections, that are to replace these.

I can conceive none other, than a being, who would become drowsy

at sixty, and sleepy at a hundred. All beyond presents to me a

lethargy of almost unconscious existence, from which my fancy can

devise no effort of sufficient energy to arouse him. In fact, it

is sufficient, that nature has awarded, in her universal decree,

that man should not be out of analogy and relation with the rest

of nature; to convince us, that the decision involves our best

interest. The more our views of nature enlarge, the more we become

conscious, that she has arranged all her laws with such perfect

wisdom, that if we could reverse any of them, we should do it at

the expense of our own happiness.

Of all pictures of men, rendered immortal upon earth, the most

forcible, brief and revolting, is that of Swift. ‘After this

preface, he gave me a particular account of the Struldbrugs among

them. He said, they commonly acted like mortals, till about

thirty years old; after which they grew melancholy and dejected,

increasing in both till they came to fourscore. This he learned

from their own confession; for otherwise, there not being more than

two or three of that species born in an age, they were too few to

form a general observation by. When they come to fourscore years,

which is reckoned the extremity of living in this country, they

had not only all the follies and infirmities of other men, but

many more, which arose from the dreadful prospect of never dying.

They were not only opinionative, covetous, peevish, morose, vain,

talkative, but incapable of friendship, and dead to all natural

affection, which never descended below their grandchildren. Envy

and their impotent desires are their prevailing passions. But those

objects, against which their envy seems particularly directed,

are the vices of the younger sort, and the death of the old. By

reflecting on the former, they find themselves cut off from all

possibility of pleasure; and whenever they see a funeral, they

lament, and repine, that others have gone to a harbor of rest, at

which they can never hope to arrive. They have no remembrance of

anything, but what they learned, and observed in their youth and

middle age, and even that is very imperfect; and for the truth or

particulars of any fact, it is safer to depend on common tradition,

than their best recollection. The least miserable among them, are

those, who turn to dotage, and entirely lose their memories. These

meet with more pity and assistance, because they want many bad

qualities, which abound in others.

‘If a Struldbrug happen to marry one of his kind, the marriage is

dissolved of course, by the courtesy of the kingdom, as soon as the

younger of the two comes to be fourscore; for the law thinks it a

reasonable indulgence, that those, who are condemned, without any

fault of their own, to a perpetual continuance in the world, should

not have their misery doubled by the load of a wife. As soon as

they have completed the term of eighty years, they are considered

dead in law. At ninety they lose their teeth and hair, and have

no distinction of taste, but eat and drink whatever they can get,

without relish or appetite. The diseases they were subject to,

still continue without increasing, or diminishing. In talking, they

forget the common appellations of things, and the names of persons,

even of those, who are their nearest friends and relations. For the

same reason, they can never amuse themselves with reading, because

their memory will not serve to carry them from the beginning of a

sentence to the end; and by this defect they are deprived of the

only entertainment whereof they might be capable.

‘They were the most mortifying sight I ever beheld, and the

women more horrible than the men. Besides the usual deformities

in extreme old age, they acquired an additional ghastliness, in

proportion to their number of years, which is not to be described;

and among half a dozen, I soon distinguished who was the oldest,

although there was not above a century or two between them.

‘The reader will easily believe, from what I have heard and seen,

that my keen appetite for perpetuity and life was much abated. I

grew heartily ashamed of the pleasing visions I had formed, and

thought no tyrant could invent a death into which I would not run

with pleasure, from such a life. The king heard all that had passed

between me and my friends upon this occasion, and rallied me very

pleasantly, wishing I could send a couple of Struldbrugs to my own

country, to arm our people against the fear of death.’

Note 61, page 171.

Fear, absolutely useless, gratuitous fear, probably constitutes

much the largest proportion of the whole mass of human misery;

and of this proportion the fear of death is the principal part.

There are but very few people who, in examining the feeling of

revulsion and horror, most constantly present to their minds, will

not find it to be the dread of death. The whole observation, which

I have made upon human nature, has only enlightened me the more

as to the universality and extent of the influence of this evil.

I see it infusing bitterness into the bosoms of the young, before

they are as yet capable of reflection; and ceasing not to inspire

its terrors into the heart, which has experienced the sorrows of

fourscore winters. I see little difference in the alarm with which

it darkens the mind of the heir, elate with youthful hope, and the

galley slave--those apparently the most happy, and the tenants of

penitentiaries and lazar-houses. All cling alike convulsively to

life, and shudder at the thought of death.

Part, and perhaps the greater part, of this fear is a sad

heritage, which has been transmitted down to us, an accumulating

fund of sorrow, for a hundred generations. I have stated my

conviction in another place, that our education, religious

ceremonies, domestic manners, in short, all the influences of the

present institutions of society tend to increase this evil. I am

well aware, at the same time, that the number of those, who will

admit it to be an evil, is but small. Most view it as it has been

considered in all Christian countries, from time immemorial, as

an instrument in the hand of God and his servants, to awe, and

restrain the mind, recall it from illusions and vanities, and

reduce it to the seriousness and obedience of religion. The broad

declamation of the pulpit for effect, revolting representations of

hell-torment and the vindictive justice of God, have passed with

a readier tolerance, under a kind of tacit allowance, that if the

means were unworthy, the proposed end was such as would sanctify

them. It is almost unnecessary to remark, that all my hope of

producing any useful impression is with the small, but growing

number, (in the next age, I trust, it will be a majority) who

hold this whole doctrine in utter unbelief; who have no faith in

amendment and conversion, that grows out of the base and servile

principle of fear; and least of all the fear of death; who believe

that a great reform, a thorough amelioration of our species, will

never be effected, until it is made a radical principle of our

whole discipline, and all our social institutions, to bring this

servile passion completely under the control of our reason. With

these, it is a deep and fixed conviction, that every thing base,

degrading and destructive of intellect and improvement, readily

associates with fear; and that the basis of true religion, generous

conception, high thoughts and really noble character, is firmly

laid in a young mind, when trained to become as destitute of fear,

as if it were conscious of being a sinless angel, above the reach

of pain or death.

It would be to no purpose for me to pause in this place, to obviate

the strictures of those who will denounce this doctrine, by quoting

from the scriptures the frequent inculcations of the _fear of the

Lord_, and the Apostle’s declaration, that by the _terrors of the

Lord we persuade men_. The true and religious fear, inculcated

in the scriptures, not only has no relation to the passion I am

discussing, but cannot exist, any more than the other requisite

traits of religious character, in a bosom swayed by the grovelling

and selfish passion of servile fear.

That nature has implanted in our bosoms an instinctive dread of

death, I readily admit. But fear, as a factitious and unnatural

addition to the true instincts of human nature, has been so

accumulated by rolling down through a hundred generations, that we

are in no condition to know the degree, in which nature intended

we should possess it. We have innumerable base propensities,

which we charge upon nature, that are, in fact, no more, than the

guilty heritage, bequeathed us by our ancestors. Nature could have

implanted no higher degree of instinctive dread of death, than

just what was requisite, to preserve the race from prodigal waste,

or rash exposure of a gift, which, once lost, is irretrievable.

If nature has inwrought in any constitution one particle of fear,

beyond what was required for this result, she has, as in all other

excessive endowments, granted reason and judgment, to regulate, and

reduce it to its due subordination.

Will not religion achieve the great triumph of casting out the

base principle of fear? I would be the last to deny, or undervalue

the trophies of true religion. I have no doubt that religion has,

in innumerable instances, extracted the pain and poison from the

sting of death. More than this, it would unquestionably produce

this triumph in every case, if every individual were completely

under the influence of the true principle. It would attain this end

by processes and discipline exactly concurrent, if not similar,

with those I am about to propose. But it is a lamentable fact,

that very few are under the influence of true religion. Of those,

whom charity deems most sincerely pious, under all professions and

forms, the far greater number exhibit, on the bed of dangerous

sickness, the same fear of death with the rest. We consider this

a generally conceded fact; for, among all but the most extravagant

sects, death-bed terror, or triumph has ceased to be considered a

test of the personal religion of the deceased. Even in the cases

of enthusiastic triumph in the last moments, which we have all

witnessed, and which are justly so soothing to the survivors, it

would often be difficult to determine the respective influence of

laudanum, and partial insanity doing its last work upon the nervous

system.

Be this as it may, the triumph over the fear of death, which I

would inculcate, should not be tested by the equivocal deportment

of the patient, in the near view of death; but by his own joyous

consciousness of deliverance from this tormenting thraldom and

bondage, during his whole life. Let fear and horror crowd what

bitterness they may into the last few hours, it can bear but little

proportion to the long agony of a whole life, passed in _bondage

through fear of death_. To produce the desired triumph, the highest

training of philosophy should concur with the paternal spirit and

the immortal hopes of the gospel; and a calm, reasoning, unboasting

fearlessness of death should enable us to taste all the little of

pure and innocent joy, that may be found between the cradle and

the grave--as unmolested, as unsprinkled with this fear, as if the

destroyer were not among the works of God.

How may this result be obtained? How may a generation be so trained

as to lose not a particle of enjoyment, nor be influenced to one

unworthy act, by the fear of death? To answer these questions, in

the requisite detail of illustration, would require volumes. It

might, perhaps, best be done by selecting a single child as an

example; and by developing, at every advancing step, the process

of his training; pointing out every instance, in which it would be

necessary to withdraw him from the influence of the present systems

of discipline; in which, in a word, his whole education should

be conducted with a preponderant purpose, among other desirable

results, to render him perfectly fearless of death. It is hoped

that some one of those, who believe this a chief desideratum in the

reformation and improvement of the present system of education,

will take this great point in hand; and in this way indicate to

the age the modes of discipline, through which this result may

be expected. It is obvious, that a much severer discipline would

be required for the first generation so trained, than for the

second; who, with less transmitted cowardice than their parents,

would perpetuate a constantly improving moral constitution to the

generations to come. My present plan admits only a brief summary of

motives and arguments, commonly adduced, as calculated to diminish,

regulate, and subdue the fear of death. It is evident, that these

motives and arguments are predicated upon present opinions, and

such as may be supposed capable of acting upon the existing

generation, enduring the hereditary and inculcated bondage of this

passion.

1. The terrific and undefinable images of horror, that

imagination affixes to the term _death_, are founded in an entire

misconception. The word is the sign of no positive idea whatever.

It conjures up a shadowy horror to the mind, finely delineated,

as a poetic personage, by Milton; and implies some agony that is

supposed to lie between the limits of existence and non-existence,

or existence in another form. This is simple illusion. So long

as we feel, death is not--and when we cease to feel, or commence

feeling in a changed form, death has been:--_fuit mors_. So

that the term imports a mere phantom of the imagination. In the

words of Droz, ‘it is not yet; or it is past.’ If one can arrest

the _punctum stans_, and the actual sensation, where waking

consciousness terminates, and sleep commences, he can tell us, what

death is. Every one is conscious of having passed through this

change; but no one can give any account, what were his sensations

in the dividing moment of interval between wakefulness and sleep.

2. Imagination is allowed to settle all the circumstances, and

form all the associations belonging to the supposed agony of this

event. It is one of the few important incidents in life, upon which

reason is never allowed to fix a calm and severe scrutiny. It has

been seen in a light, too sacred and terrible, to permit such a

lustration. ‘It is dreadful,’ says common apprehension, ‘for it

is the breaking up the long and tender partnership, and producing

a separation between the body and the soul--dreadful, because it

is the wages of sin, and is appointed to be a perpetual memorial

of the righteous displeasure of God in view of sin;’ ‘dreadful,’

say others, who most unphilosophically believe that man was not

originally intended to be mortal, ‘because a violence upon nature;

dreadful, because a departure of the spirit from the regions

of the living, and the light of the sun, into an unknown and

eternal condition. Suns will revolve, moons wax and wane, years,

revolutions, ages, counted by all the particles of mist in the

sea, will elapse, but the place, whence the spirit is gone, will

never know it more.’ ‘It is terrible,’ says common apprehension,

‘for it is often preceded and accompanied by spasm, and convulsive

struggle.’ The psalmody, which we sing in church, speaks of the

_ghastly paleness_, the _chill sweat_, and the _mortal coldness_,

circumstances all, which, seen in other associations, would assume

no aspect of peculiar terror.

Then, too, the attendants in the sick room with a look of horror

inspect the extremities of the patient, and petrify bystanders with

the terrible words, ‘he is struck with death,’ as though the grisly

phantom king of the poet’s song had invisibly glided in, and, with

his icy sceptre, given his victim the blow of mortal destiny. Who

knows not that, though there are usually mortal symptoms, which

enable an experienced eye to foresee approaching dissolution,

the term _death-struck_ imports nothing but the weakest vulgar

prejudice, a prejudice under the influence of which millions have

been suffered to expire, that might have been roused! Innumerable

persons, pronounced to be in that situation, have actually

recovered; and no moment, in the ordinary forms of disease, can

with any certainty be pronounced beyond hope and the chances of

aid, but that which succeeds the last sigh. Thus every thought of

the living, and every aspect of the dying, by a wayward ingenuity,

heightens the imagined horror of the event.

Then there are conversations and hymns and funeral odes and

Night Thoughts, which speak of the coldness, silence and eternal

desolation of the grave; as though the unconscious sleeper felt the

chill of the superincumbent clay, the darkness of his narrow house

or this terrible isolation from the living. The pale and peaceful

corpse is contemplated with a look of horror. Two, of stout heart

and tried friendship, abide near the kneaded clod, until the living

are relieved from their ghostly terrors, by its deposition out of

their sight in the narrow house. The family, the children, the

friends alike showing the creeping horror, glide quick and silently

on tiptoe through the apartment, where the sleeper lies. The first

nightfall after the disease is one of peculiar and unmitigated

horror. The family, however disinclined to union before, this

evening unite, with that impress on their countenances, which words

reach not. Now return to their thoughts the nursery tales, the

thrilling narratives of haunted houses and wandering ghosts; and

if the minister comes among them, it is probably to evoke before

their imaginations condemned spirits doomed to eternal sufferings,

quenchless flames, groans without respite, and all the ineffable

and eternal torments, that the clerical vocabulary of centuries has

accumulated.

Need we wonder, that in a christian country, and among families

of the best training, such impressions have become so universal,

that they, who would be reputed brave, blazon their courage, by

affirming their readiness to sleep in a cemetery, or the funeral

vault of a church! It requires no extraordinary effort, and nothing

more than the simple triumph of reason among the faculties, to

enable any man, to sleep alone in a charnel house with as little

dread, as in the apartment of an inn, so that the places were alike

in comfort and salubrity. It does not require us to be wise, or

courageous; but simply not cowards and fools, to feel as little

horror in the view of corpses, as statues of plaster or marble.

One of the most terrible ideas of death, after all, is, that we

shall thus, immediately upon our decease, inflict this shrinking

revulsion of terror upon all, who look at our remains.

The view, which reason takes of the sick and dying bed is, that,

in the far greater number of mortal cases, the transition from

life to death is as imperceptible, as the progress of the sun

and the seasons. One faculty dies after another. The victim has

received the three warnings unconsciously. Ordinarily, a person may

be said to have paid a third part of his tribute of mortality at

forty-five; half at fifty-five; and the whole at three score and

ten.

When acute and severe sickness assails the patient, he has passed

through what may be called the agony of death at a very early

period of his disease. His chief suffering is past, as soon the

irritability and the vigorous powers of life have been broken down.

When the disorder assumes the typhoid and insensible form, the

dull sleep, that precedes the final rest of the tomb, is already

creeping upon him; and severe suffering is precluded. If there are

convulsions after this, as often happens, they are seldom more

than spasmodic movements, impressed by the nervous action upon

the tendons, more terrible to the beholder, than the sufferer;

differing little from those starts and struggles, with which many

persons in high health commence sleeping and waking. He who has

experienced the sensation of fainting, and, still more, of an

epileptic fit, has suffered, I am ready to believe, all that there

is in dying.

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