With the honorable exception of some towns and districts in our

country, the epitaphs and monumental inscriptions are utterly

beneath criticism. The greater portion are from Watts, and the

other minor poets, too often little more than extravagant, coarse,

miserable conceits. Here and there, a beautiful quotation from

the Bible, such as ‘Blessed are the dead, who die in the Lord;’

‘Man cometh forth, like a flower, and is cut down,’ only serve

to render the worthlessness of the remainder more conspicuous

by contrast. What adds to the unpleasant effect is, that no

inconsiderable portion of them are absolutely misspelt, to say

nothing of the punctuation. Strange, that survivors should incur

the expense of a slab, and permit a stone-cutter to select, spell,

and point the inscriptions. It is to be hoped, that some competent

writer will, ere long, take in hand this matter, so vital to the

literary reputation of our country, and introduce a thorough and

general reform, by wiping away this national stain, and introducing

that beautiful and sublime simplicity, which ought always to

characterize monumental inscriptions.

Akin to the bad taste of this sort, is the slovenly manner in which

our church-yards are kept, in whole sections of the country. Who

has not felt pain, at seeing many and even most of these places

sacred to memory, in the western county especially, uninclosed,

trampled upon by cattle, and the narrow heap of turf disturbed by

swine?

Of writers, whose works have been immortalized by the muse

of melancholy, I am acquainted, in the French language, with

Chateaubriand, who has produced occasional passages of this class

not to be surpassed; and Lamartine, whose poetry breathes a rich

and deep strain of melancholy. Young’s Night Thoughts, Blair’s

Grave, and Porteus ‘on Death,’ are celebrated English specimens

of this class of poetry. In our country the Thanatopsis of Bryant

ranks quite as high as either of the former writers in this walk.

Some of the lines are of exquisite beauty, as paintings of the

trophies of the tomb. Another age will do justice to many of the

thoughts in the Sorotaphion of a young poet, who has written on the

remote shores of Red River.

The first lines of the inscription on the famous Roman statue of

Sleep are the sublimest concentration of melancholy thought:

‘It is better to sleep, than wake; and best of all to be in marble.’

The same may be said of that of the orphan nun, who died in the

prime of youth and beauty: ‘I was alone among the living. I am

alone here.’

But it is in the book of Job, that poetic images, upon which has

been thrown the shade of a sublime melancholy, are set forth, with

a power and pathos that leave little more, to succeeding writers in

that walk, than to study, combine, and reproduce their features.

How perfectly has this author given utterance to the groans of one

in utter despondency and bereavement! Here the heart speaks its

own language, with a simplicity and truth to make its way to every

other heart. These features fix the date of this poem at a period

antecedent to the settled art of writing, and plagiarizing the

shadow of a shade, more conclusively than volumes of criticism.

He copied not; but drank at the fountain; feeling deeply, and

expressing what he felt.

Note 53, page 150.

When in my travels I pass through a town, or village, which I have

not seen, if I have sufficient leisure, the first place which

I visit, is uniformly the church-yard. The feeling that I am a

stranger, that I know not the scenery, and that it knows not me,

naturally induces a sort of pensive meditation, which disposes me

for that sojourn. I form certain estimates of the taste and moral

feeling of the people, from the forms and devices of the slabs

and monuments; and the order in which the consecrated ground is

inclosed, and kept. The inscriptions are ordinarily, in too bad a

taste to claim much interest, though there are few church-yards,

that cannot show some monuments, which, by their eccentric

variation from the rest, mark character. All this is a matter of

trifling interest, compared with the throng of remembrances and

anticipations, that naturally crowd upon the spirit of a stranger

in such a place. Youth with its rainbows, and its loves; mature

age with its ambitious projects; old age in the midst of children,

death in the natal spot, or the house of the stranger; eternity

with its dim and illimitable mysteriousness; these shadowy images,

with their associated thoughts, pass through the mind, and return,

like the guests at an inn. While I look up towards the rolling

clouds, and the sun walking his unvarying path along the firmament,

how natural the reflection, that they will present the same aspect,

and suggest the same reflections, that the trees will stand forth

in their foliage and the hills in their verdure, to him who comes

after me, when I shall have taken my place with the unconscious

sleepers about me! I never fail to recollect the charming

reflections in a number of the Spectator, that treats upon a visit

to Westminster Abbey, the most impressive writing of the kind, as

it seems to me, in our language.

Here is the place to reflect upon the folly, if not the guilt, of

human hatred and revenge, ambition and avarice, and the million

puerile projects and cares, that are incessantly over-clouding the

sunshine of existence. What an eloquent lesson do these voiceless

preachers read, upon the wisdom of most of those thoughts and

solicitudes, that disturb our course through life!

The heart cannot but be made better by occasional communion with

these tenants of the narrow house, where--

‘Each waits the other’s license to disturb

The deep, unbroken silence.’

Note 53a, page 152.

It is questionable, how far they could lay claim to be the real

friends of humanity, who would reason away this last, best solace

of human wretchedness, even were it proved an illusion. But man

is just as certainly and necessarily a religious being, as he

is a being constituted with appetites and passions. Grant, that

there are people, who seem wholly destitute of the religious

sentiment. Such are the real Atheists from internal conviction; for

observe, there are many, who assume to be such, to pass for free

and independent thinkers, and who are most likely, in their dying

moments, to require absolution and extreme unction. But if there

are men thus monstrously constituted, so are there individuals

apparently as destitute of the common appetites and passions. We

take no account of such exceptions, in indicating a general rule;

and say, that man is constituted a religious being, and possessed

of certain appetites and passions; although there may be selected a

few individuals, who seem entirely without either.

Religion is the key stone of the arch of the moral universe. It

is the fountain of endearing friendship; and on it are founded

those sublime relations, which exist between the visible and the

invisible world; those, who still sojourn here, and those who

have become citizens of the country beyond us. It is the poesy of

existence, the basis of all high thought and virtuous feeling; of

charities and morals; and the very tie of social existence. Let no

person claim to be good, while laying an unhallowed hand upon this

ark of the covenant of the Eternal with the children of sorrow and

death.

Note 54, page 154.

Treatises upon the evidences of religion may be useful for

theological students; and I have heard people affirm, that they

have been rescued by such works from the gloom of unbelief. But,

believing, as I do, that we were constituted religious animals,

if such a term may be admitted, and that the religious sentiment

is a part of our organization, I have quite as much confidence in

the arguments of the heart, as of the head. I undertake not to

pronounce, whether M. de Chateaubriand were a good christian, or

not. But I affirm, that I have nowhere seen my own views of the

process, by which the original endowment of the religious sentiment

is called into action, so eloquently described, as in the following

extract from that writer.

‘My mother, after being thrown, at the age of seventy-two years,

into a dungeon, where she saw a part of her children perish,

expired at last upon a couch of straw, to which her miseries

had consigned her. The remembrance of my errors infused great

bitterness into her last days. In death she charged one of my

sisters to recall me to that religion, in which I had been reared.

My sister transmitted me the last wish of my mother. When this

letter reached me beyond the seas, my sister herself was no more.

She had died from the consequences of her imprisonment. These two

voices, proceeding from the tomb, this death, which served as the

interpreter of the dead, deeply struck me. I did not yield, I

admit, to great supernatural lights. My conviction proceeded from

the heart. I wept, and I believed.’

Note 55, page 157.

The belief naturally originated by the sentiment of religion, or

what may be called the faith of the heart, is presented in the last

fruitless attempt of the old man, to cheer the despair of Paul in

the exquisite tale of Paul and Virginia. ‘And why deplore the fate

of Virginia? Virginia still exists. There is, be assured, a region,

in which virtue receives its reward. Virginia now is happy. Oh! if

from the abode of angels, she could tell you, as she did, when she

bade you farewell, “O Paul, life is but a trial. I was faithful to

the laws of nature, love and virtue. Heaven found I had fulfilled

my duties, and snatched me forever from all the miseries, I might

have endured myself; and all, I might have felt for the miseries

of others. I am placed above the reach of all human evils, and you

pity me! I am become pure and unchangeable, as a particle of light,

and you would recall me to the darkness of human life. O Paul! O

my beloved friend! Recollect those days of happiness, when in the

morning we felt the delightful sensations excited by the unfolding

beauties of nature; when we gazed upon the sun, gilding the peaks

of those rocks; and then spreading his rays over the bosom of the

forests. How exquisite were our emotions, while we enjoyed the

glowing colors of the opening day, the odors of our shrubs, the

concerts of our birds! Now at the source of beauty, from which

flows all that is delightful on earth, my soul intuitively sees,

tastes, hears, touches, what before she could only be made sensible

of through the medium of our weak organs. Oh! what language can

describe, those shores of eternal bliss, which I inhabit forever!

All, that infinite power and celestial bounty can confer, that

harmony, which results from friendship with numberless beings,

exulting in the same felicity, we enjoy in unmixed perfection.

Support, then, the trial which is allotted you, that you may

heighten the happiness of your Virginia, by love, which will know

no termination, by hymeneals, which will be immortal. There I will

calm your regrets; I will wipe away your tears. Raise your thoughts

towards infinite duration, and bear the evils of a moment.”’

Note 56, page 160.

Phrenologists affirm, that along the centre of the crown is

situated the organ of veneration, or religious sentiment; that,

where it is large, the subject is strongly endowed with religious

feeling, and the contrary, when it is otherwise; that, with some

few monstrous exceptions, all possess this organ in a larger

or smaller degree; and that, as the sentiment springing from

the action of this organ is directed towards proper or improper

objects, enlightened by reason, rendered gloomy by fear, or

superstitious by credulity, is the religious character of the

person. Neither my subject, nor my inclination calls upon me to

agitate a system, which has generally been met only with unsparing

ridicule, instead of manly argument. With its doctrines or merits I

intermeddle not in this place. But, as far as the system declares,

that those people, whom we call pious, whose tone of mind seems

to dispose them to strong religious feeling, are so inclined

from organization, rather than volition, or argument, I most

confidently believe. Morals, whatever is taught by the science of

ethics, dogmas, ceremonies, commonly phrased religion, make, in

my mind, no part of it. I consider religion to be simply love,

originating from instinctive impulses of veneration in the mind,

for whatever is powerful, beneficent, and worthy of love. Its

native tendency is to expend its affection, first upon the unknown

and incomprehensible power, from whom we derived our being, whom

the heart, without argument, intuitively perceives to be good.

Its next and associated tendency is philanthropy, or the love of

what bears the impress and image of God. If we possess not this

original organization, no argument will ever persuade us to be

religious. If we have it, we may be liberal, or bigoted, Christians

or Mahometans, earnest or cold, according to our proportion of

endowment, our training and circumstances. We may even adopt the

flippant arguments of the unbelieving, and enlist ourselves under

their banner. But the original principle is still within us,

uneradicated, and uneradicable; and ready, if circumstances should

favor the change, to present us in the form of devotees, or, as

the phrase is, _converted_. The whole wisdom and excellence of

religious training consist in enlightening this noble sentiment,

and giving it a right direction. I am the rather confirmed in these

views, by having remarked, that the chief, palpable and tangible

influences of religion, which I have witnessed in all the sects,

that I have had occasion to observe, have seemed to me to result

from the affectionate spirit of their worship, creating in them

strong dispositions to love one another.

Open the gospels and the epistles, and what is the first impression

from perusing these unique and original writings, so wholly unlike

any other recorded compositions, and bearing upon a theme of

such astonishing import? The simplicity and fervor, with which

the spirit of love is impressed upon the pages. The strong and

before unwitnessed manifestation of this spirit was the striking

aspect, which the first Christians presented to pagan beholders.

‘See!’ said they, ‘how these Christians love one another.’ Every

time, I peruse the writings of the New Testament, this peculiar

badge of discipleship seems more visibly impressed upon them. In

what other institution, but that of Christianity, was it ever

practicable to possess all things in common? Where has been the

community, in which no one felt want, when a disciple had wherewith

to satisfy it? In what other chronicles do we meet with such

affecting and sublime examples of devotion to each other, and a

constancy of affection, which showed itself proof against all other

human passions, selfishness, hope, fear, earthly love, and the

terror of death? What tenderness and singleness of heart in their

affection for each other! How beautifully they demonstrate, that

the sentiment, which actuated them, had gained a complete triumph

over all considerations, arising from objects below the sun? He on

whose bosom the loved disciple leaned must certainly be admitted to

know the peculiar and distinguishing feature of his religion. This

feature stands forth embodied in all his teachings. Philanthropy

is the predominant trait in the life of him, _who went about doing

good_. Consider the basis of religion to be a sentiment implanted

in our constitution, and this result would naturally be expected to

flow from its development.

True religion, consisting in an enlightened and affectionate

direction of the heart towards the divinity, and manifesting

itself in love to the human family, and in consequent obedience to

the universal and unchangeable laws of the Creator, can only be

expected to result from the highest discipline of the mind, and the

ultimate exercise of the purest reason. But the sentiment, from

which this religion springs, in some form or other, as naturally

impels the heart towards God, and its faith and aspirations towards

immortality, as fishes desire to find their home in the water,

or birds in the air; and as everything, that has life, obeys the

peculiar instincts and impulses impressed by the divine hand. Why

else, should every people under heaven, in all time, have been

found with a religion in some form, and hopes and fears beyond the

grave? Consider religion in this light, and its hopes are as sure,

as those objects, towards which the instincts of all other animals

prompt them.

Do I undervalue morals, since I do not deem them a part, of

what should be properly called religion? I trust, I cannot be

so mistaken. Ethics may be taught, as a science, and, however

important, seems to me no more a part of religion, than mathematics

or natural philosophy. Love will create morals; and its perfection

the perfection of morals, that we ascribe to angels. All that has

been urged from the pulpit, in regard to faith and works, as cause

and effect, may, with still more justice, be applied to love and

duty. Love is the faith of the heart, and its original impress,

when rightly trained in the science of ethics, and enlightened

by pure and simple reason, produces its results in the best

exemplification of the christian character.

Note 57, page 165.

That person has no right to complain of the shortness of life,

who lies in bed, either sleeping, or dozing, until nine; and

thus voluntarily consigns to unconsciousness a twelfth part of

his existence. As little reason has he for indulging a querulous

spirit on this score, if he spends without object a considerable

portion of his time with people, about whom he knows nothing,

except that they are incapable of furnishing a moment’s pleasure,

or instruction to any one. If each one noted down at night the

incidents of the day, that had occupied his time, and how much of

it he had appropriated to each, I fear all that portion, that we

call people of leisure would be able to show but a lean schedule

either of utility or enjoyment, as the result.

Complaints of the brevity of life are equally interdicted to all

those, who do not wisely improve every hour of the brief and

uncertain present. He, who regretted his stinted fortune, would

find, and deserve little sympathy, if, in the very moments of

complaining, he was seen inconsiderately squandering from that

limited fund. To form a resolution to mark every moment of life,

that we might, with a succession of pleasant ideas, would probably

triple the duration of most human lives. To sleep no more than

nature requires, to rise early, to discipline ourselves to preserve

an elastic and active spirit and a vigorous will, are parts of

this resolution. It is a much greater part, than is commonly

apprehended, to waste as little time as possible on those, who are

incapable of understanding us, and whom we are as little capable of

understanding. Reciprocal good feeling is much more likely to be

created, and sustained by those who are determined to avoid this

course, than those who, from mere unmeaning civility and common

etiquette, bring their incompatibilities together, to make common

stock of a mutual weariness with each other, which soon ripens into

concealed, if not expressed ill feeling.

They, who are accustomed to think in this direction, will easily

fill out the fine outline of the author’s views touching the right

mode to arrest the flight of time. To add to this sketch would

require an extent of detail, for which I have here no place. The

general principle of this process seems to consist in meeting pain

and adversity with a spirit so philosophic and firm that they will

recoil from it; and to dwell upon every innocent enjoyment, as

though it were our first, and would be our last; to prolong it by

investing it with all possible moral relations; and to discipline

the mind never to become hackneyed, sated, wearied, and callous to

the sense of objects in which man is bound to feel an interest,

alike by his duty and his nature.

Never was a more stupid maxim, than that common one, that _nil

admirari_ is the proper motto of a philosopher. To preserve a

freshness, a juvenile sensibility of the heart for the admiration

of whatever is new, beautiful and striking, for all the pleasures

of taste and the understanding, seems to me the true secret of

the highest wisdom. Who can fail to be inspired with disgust at

witnessing the common spectacle of _cognoscenti_, men of _virtu_,

travelled fools, who have been everywhere, and seen everything; and

by the contemptuous sneer, with which they effect to see, hear,

feel and speak of all, that passes under their present observation,

instruct you, that they are too wise, and of a taste too refined,

to be pleased with what satisfies untravelled people. For my part,

when I hear them boast of the music, paintings and architecture

of continental Europe, and England, as though all the sources of

beauty were there, I can only say, that nature is always at hand,

to mock at all the puny efforts of art; that she delights to mould

living faces and forms in remote country cottages, that no _beau

idéal_ can reach; that the songs of the birds, that return from

other climes to their forsaken groves with the first sunny days

of spring constitute a music richer to the heart, than the most

fashionable opera; and that a pure spring landscape is a pictured

thousand times more splendid, than any that ever adorned the walls

of the Louvre. He, who preserves, to his utmost age, his youthful

sensibility of heart, and who is willing to be pleased with

whatever will impart innocent pleasure, will find innumerable and

never failing occasions to give his heart up to the full impulses

of joy.

‘I pity,’ says Sterne, ‘the man, who can travel from Dan to

Beersheba, and cry ’tis all barren; and yet so it is; and so is

all the world, to him who will not cultivate the fruits it offers.

I declare said I, clapping my hands cheerly together, that were

I in a desert, I would find in it the wherewith to call forth

my affections. If I could not do better, I would fasten them on

some sweet myrtle, or seek some melancholy cypress, to connect

myself to. I would court its shade, and greet it kindly for its

protection; I would cut my name upon it, and swear, it was the

loveliest tree in the desert. If its leaves withered, I would teach

myself to mourn; and when they rejoiced, I would rejoice with them.’

Note 58, page 166.

I consider it no unimportant part of the process of prolonging our

earthly sojourn, to lay in, if I may so speak, as great a stock

as possible, of pleasant remembrances. I appeal to the experience

of every one, if the sudden recollection of a foolish thing that

we have said, or done, returning upon us after a lapse of years,

has not brought back with the convulsive shudder of shame, a long

train of associated remembrances, which have carried us back whole

days upon the scene? How long seem the periods, in which these

incidents occurred! Pleasant recollections are no less efficient,

in prolonging the periods, in which they occurred, adding their

duration to the sum of the fugitive existence that is stealing from

us.

For myself I can confidently affirm, that I have long since learned

to find my purest and most abiding satisfactions in the memory

of the past. I repeat all its happier passages and incidents. I

recall the bright days, verdant landscapes, loved persons, and

joyous sensations from their shadowy mansions. I renew my youthful

sports; and watch for the trout along the flush spring brooks. I

seat myself again on the sunny banks of the pleasant spots of my

career. I would be glad to convey some idea of the vivid pleasure,

I experience after a lapse of forty winters, from the deeply

impressed remembrance of one beautiful spring morning, after a

long and severe winter, when I was still a school-boy. The vast

masses of snow were beginning to melt. The birds of prey, shut up

in their retreats during the bitter winter, sailed forth in the

mild clear blue. The blue bird whistled; and my heart expanded with

joy and delight unknown, in the same degree, before or since. The

place where these thoughts, comprising my youthful anticipations,

hopes and visions occurred, will never be obliterated from my mind,

while memory holds her seat. I have a thousand such treasured

recollections, with which I can at any time, and to a certain

extent, cheer pain, sorrow and decay. These are enjoyments stored

beyond the reach of fortune, which we can prolong, and renew at

pleasure.

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