3. Reason, calmly surveying the case of the dying person himself,

sees many alleviations, of which imagination, sketching under

the influence of the dread of death, takes no account. He finds

himself, in this new predicament, the absorbing object of all

interests and all solicitude and affection. It is not in human

nature, that this should not call up complacent emotions and

slumbering affections from their secret cells. The subsequent

progress towards the last moment brings an imperceptibly increasing

insensibility, manifested by drowsiness and sleep. Of those, who

preserve the exercise of their faculties entire to the last, many

instances are recorded of persons, who had shown the most unmanly

dread of death in their health, that have met dissolution with the

calmness of perfect self-possession. Of the rest, the greater

number die with little more apparent pain and struggle, than

accompany the act of sleeping. The greater freshness, vigor and

nervous irritability of young people and children cause that most

of the exceptions are of this description. In a great number of

cases, which I have witnessed, I have paused in doubt, whether the

person had yielded his last sigh, or not, after he had actually

deceased. To soften the last infliction, nature almost invariably

veils it under a low delirium, or absolute unconsciousness.

4. It is impossible to imagine a more obvious and unquestionable

principle of philosophy, than that every reasoning faculty of our

nature must declare to us, loudly and unequivocally, and with an

influence as strong as reason can command, that it is wisdom, nay,

the dictate of the least portion of common sense, to dread, to

resist, to repine, to groan, as little as possible, in view of an

endurance absolutely inevitable. If it be hard to sustain when met

with a fearless, resigned and unmurmuring spirit, it must certainly

be still harder, when we are obliged to bend our necks to it with

the excruciating addition of shrinking fear, dreadful anticipation

and ineffectual struggles to evade it, and with murmurs and groans,

at finding the inutility of these efforts. Innumerable examples

prove to us, that nature has kindly endowed us with reason and

mental vigor to such an extent, that, under the influence of

right motive and training, no possible form of suffering can be

presented, over which this power may not manifest, and has not

manifested a complete triumph.

Of these innumerable examples, it is only necessary to cite those

of the martyrs, of all forms of religion. These prove farther,

that this undaunted self-possession, in every conceivable shape

and degree of agony, was not the result of a rare and peculiar

temperament, a want of sensibility, or the possession of uncommon

physical courage; that it was not because there was no perception

of danger, or susceptibility of pain; this magnanimity, this

impassibility to fear and pain and death has been exhibited in

nearly equal degrees by people of every age, each sex and all

conditions. Let the proper motive be supplied, let the martyr have

had the common influence of the training of his faith, and the

consequence failed not. All the shades and varieties of natural and

mental difference of character were noted in the deportment of the

sufferers. But they were alike in the stern proof of a courage,

which defied death. The fact is proved by them, as strongly as

moral fact can be proved, that the mind of every individual might

find in itself native self-possession and vigor, to enable it to

display an entire ascendency over fear, pain and death.

Nor does this fact rest solely for support on the history of

martyrs, or sufferers at an _Auto da fé_, or by torture in any of

its forms. We could find examples of it in every department of

history, and every view of human character. The red men of our

wilderness, as we have elsewhere seen, are still more astonishing

illustrations of this fact--I say astonishing, because the timid

and effeminate white man shivers, and scarcely credits his senses,

as he sees the young Indian warrior smoking his pipe, singing

his songs, boasting of his victories and uttering his menaces,

when enveloped in a slow fire, apparently as unmoved, as reckless

and unconscious of pain, as if sitting at his ease in his own

cabin. All, that has been found necessary, by this strange

people, to procure this heroism, is, that the children, from

boyhood, should be constantly under a discipline, every part and

every step of which tends directly to shame and contempt at the

least manifestation of cowardice, in view of any danger, or of a

shrinking consciousness of pain in the endurance of any suffering.

The males, so trained, never fail to evidence the fruit of their

discipline. Sentenced to death, they almost invariably scorn to fly

from their sentence, when escape is in their power. If in debt,

they desire a reprieve, that they may hunt, until their debts

are paid. They then voluntarily return, and surrender themselves

to the executioner. Nothing is more common than for a friend to

propose to suffer for his friend, a parent for a child, or a child

for a parent. When the sufferer receives the blow, there is an

unblenching look, which manifests the presence of the same spirit,

that smokes with apparent unconcern amidst the crackling flames.

A proof, that this is the fruit of training, and not of native

insensibility, as others have thought, and as I formerly thought

myself, is that this contempt of pain and death is considered a

desirable trait only in the males. To fly, like a woman, like her

to laugh, and weep, and groan, are expressions of contempt, which

they apply to their enemies with ineffable scorn. The females,

almost excluded from witnessing the process of Spartan discipline,

by which the males acquire their mental hardihood, partake not of

the fruits of it, and with some few exceptions, are shrinking and

timid, like the children of civilization.

I know, that there will not be wanting those, who will condemn

alike the training and the heroism, as harsh, savage, unfeeling,

stoical and unworthy to be admitted, as an adjunct to civilization.

But no one will offer to deny, that the primitive Christian, put in

conflict with a hungry lion, that Rogers at the Smithfield stake,

that the young captive warrior, exulting, and chanting his songs

while enduring the bitterest agonies that man can inflict, in the

serene and sublime triumph of mind over matter, and spirit over the

body, is the most imposing spectacle we can witness, the clearest

proof we can contemplate, that we have that within us which is not

all of clay, nor all mortal; or doubt, that these persons endure

infinitely less physical pain, in consequence of their heroic

self-possession, than they would have suffered, had they met their

torture in paroxysms of terror, shrinking and self-abandonment.

However we may reason, however we may decry these views, as

savage, impracticable, unnatural and undesirable, the fact is,

that we all feel alike upon this subject. The thousands in a Roman

amphitheatre only evinced a trait, that belongs to our common

nature, when they instantly, and without consulting each other,

gave the signal to save that gladiator, who most clearly manifested

cool self-possession and contempt of death. After witnessing the

execution of a criminal, who shows courage, the spectators go away

describing, with animated gesture, and in terms of admiration, the

fearlessness of the fellow the moment before his death. We all

speak with unmingled satisfaction of the circumstance, in the death

of our friends, that they departed in the conscious dignity of

self-possession and hope. All readers are moved with one sensation,

as they read the record of the noble trait in the character of

Cæsar, gracefully folding himself in his mantle, after he had

received so many mortal thrusts. Few of us hear unmoved of the old

English patriot, who requested the executioner to support him up

the steps to the scaffold, adding that he would shift for himself

to get down; or of the other, who cried, as he stooped his head to

the block, _dulce et decorum est pro patria mori_! If I recollect,

it is Silliman, who gives the affecting notice of the last hours of

the duke of Richmond, the late governor general of Canada. Invested

with all conceivable circumstances to render life desirable, he

was bitten by a favorite dog in a rabid state; and died, in the

most excruciating tortures, of the terrible hydrophobia. When

the horrible paroxysm was felt by him to be approaching, he was

accustomed to nerve his sinking courage by these words; ‘Henry,

remember, that none of your ancestors were cowards.’ I give the

trait from recollection, but have heard substantially the same

account from other sources. This is the secret of the perverse

general admiration of warriors, and heroes, and great generals. It

is this principle in its blindness, which finds a niche of favor

in so many hearts for duellists. In a word, intrepidity, deny it

who may, is the trait which finds more universal favor with human

nature in general than any other. Why? Because we are weak and

frail beings, exposed to innumerable pains and dangers; and the

quality we most frequently need, is courage. Without it life is

a living death, a long agony of fear. With it, we die but once,

enduring at the most but a momentary pang, never anticipated, never

embittering a moment in advance with imaginary suffering.

We have no hesitation in affirming, that it would be no more

difficult to educate the coming generation of civilized people to

this spirit, than it is to impart it to the whole race of males

among the red men. However inferior we may count these people, in

comparison with ourselves in other respects, they have at least one

manifest advantage over us; they never torment themselves, because

they know they must die.

But we are told that the actual possession of this spirit would

produce such a recklessness of life, that the great ends of

Providence would be defeated; and people would expose themselves

to death with so little concern, that the race would waste away

and become extinct. We never need combat a theory, an abstract

opinion, when the case can be settled by a fact. Is it so with the

warriors of the red men? On the contrary, can another people be

found so wary, so adroit to evade, or resist danger, so fertile

in expedients to save life? The coward of their number meets the

death he would fly; and the intrepid warrior puts forth all the

resources of his instinctive sagacity, all his keen and practised

discernment, to discover the best means of evasion. If he must meet

that death, which his skill cannot evade, nor his powers resist, he

instantly settles down upon the resource of his invincible heroism

of endurance.

In fact, one of the direct fruits of the intrepidity we would

wish to see universal, is, that it will give its possessor all

possible chances for preserving health and life. It saves him from

the influence of fear, a passion among the most debilitating, and

adverse to life, of any to which our nature is subject. Braced by

his courage, he passes untouched amidst a contagious epidemic, to

which the timid and apprehensive nature falls a victim. In danger

it gives him coolness and self-command, to discover, and avail

himself of all his chances of wise resistance, or probable escape.

In sickness, he has all the aids to recover, which nature allows,

in being delivered from the most dangerous symptom in innumerable

maladies, the debilitating persuasion of the patient, that he shall

not rise from his sickness. In a word, the direct reverse of the

charge is the fact. The wise and enlightened fearlessness, which

I consider it so important to acquire, is in every way as much

the preserver of life, as it is indispensable to happiness; as

cowardice proverbially runs in the face of the hideous monster that

it creates.

5. The fact, that an evil is felt to be alleviated, which is shared

in common with all around us, has been generally recognised, though

this perverted sympathy has been traced to the basest selfishness,

by a humiliating analysis of our nature, which I have neither space

nor inclination to develope. We all know, that the same person, who

is most beneficent, most active in his benevolence, and large in

his wishes to do good, would shrink from a great calamity, which

he saw himself destined to encounter, for the first and the last

among his whole race. But inform him, that by an impartial award

he shares it in common with all his kind, and you reconcile him at

once to his lot. Whether the spirit of his resignation in this case

be pure, or polluted in its origin, it is not my present purpose

to inquire. It is sufficient to be assured, that there is such a

feeling deeply inherent in human nature. The suffering patient, as

he lays himself down to part from all friends, to be severed from

all ties, to see the green earth, the bright sun, and the visible

heavens no more, and to be conscious, that the everlasting circle

of ages will continue its revolutions without ever bringing him

back to the forsaken scene, cannot repine, that he has been put

upon this bitter trial alone. He must be deeply conscious, view

it in what aspect he may, that it presents no new harshness nor

horror to him. Of all the countless millions, that have passed

away, and been replaced by others, like the vernal leaves, death

has stood before every solitary individual of the mighty mass,

the same phantom king of terrors. Each has contemplated the same

inexorable, irreversible award, been held in the same suspense

of hopes, and fears, and compelled to endure the same struggles.

Looking upon the immense mortal drama of ages, the actors seem

slowly and imperceptibly to enter, and depart from the scene. But

in the lapse of one short age, the hopes, fears, loves and hatreds

of all the countless millions have vanished, to be replaced by

those of another generation. The heart swells at the recollection

how much each of these mortals must have endured, in this stern and

inevitable encounter, as measured by our own suffering in the same

case. It is only necessary for the patient to extend his vision

a few years in advance of his own decease; and his friends, his

children, his visitants, all that surround him, will in their turn

recline on the same bed. Who cannot feel the palpable folly of

repining at an evil shared with all, that have been, are, or will

be!

‘Not to thy eternal resting place,

Shalt thou retire alone: * *

* * Thou shalt lie down

With patriarchs of the infant world, with kings,

The powerful of the earth, the wise, the good,

Fair forms and hoary seers of ages past,

All in one mighty sepulchre. The hills,

Rock-ribbed and ancient as the sun; the vales

Stretching in pensive quietness between;

The venerable woods, rivers, that move

In majesty, and the complaining brooks,

That make the meadows green, and, poured round all,

Old ocean’s gray and melancholy waste,

Are but the solemn decorations all

Of the great tomb of man.’

6. Philosophers and moralists will readily admit, that the only

easy and adequate remedy for the fear of death is the hope of

immortality. On the other hand, they, whose vocation it is to

question and decry the aids, which reason and philosophy offer

in the case, as sullen, cold, stoical, will not deny, that

‘innumerable’ examples have been offered in all countries, and

in all time, of men, who, in virtue of no higher discipline

than that of reason and philosophy, have met death with such

unshrinking and invincible firmness, as could hardly have been

rendered more illustrious by any additional motives. They have

shown, beyond all question, that nature has furnished us with a

power of resistance, which, when rightly called forth, enables

us to triumph over fear and death. The pagans of ancient story,

the unbelieving of christian lands, the red men of our forests,

offer us demonstrations to any extent. I am aware, in what places

this simplest of all truths is weakly denied. Those, for whom I

write, are of the number who exact the truth; and I have no fear to

declare it; nor would I contend for a moment with such as deny this

fact.

But I am not the less sensible, that the triumph, in these cases,

is bitter and painful. It can only be obtained by a violence done

to instinctive nature, connected with innumerable revulsions

and horrors, and to all those ineffable clingings to earth, and

shrinkings from the first step into the unknown land, that are

partly the heritage of nature, and partly the result of the

concurrent influence of all our institutions. It is a violence

to all the passions, affections, hopes and fears fostered by the

earth. But the victory has been wrought, and can be wrought, even

though the bosom, in which it is wrought become as of iron.

But the same triumph is won by the hope of immortality, by a

process, simple, easy, natural, in entire consonance with the most

tender affections and lively sympathies of flesh and blood. We lie

down in pain and agony, with a spirit of easy endurance, if we have

a confident persuasion that, during the night, we shall have shaken

off the cause of our sufferings, and shall rise to renewed health

and freshness in the morning. Death can bring little terror to him,

who believes that its darkness will instantly be replaced by the

light of another scene: and that the separation from friends in the

visible land, is only rejoining the more numerous group, who have

already become citizens of the invisible country.

To what extent am I the subject of this hope myself; and whence

do I derive my belief? These are questions which affection will

ask; and the answers, if devoid of interest _now_, will not be so

when the _memory of things that were shall come over the mind of

the reader like a cloud_, and when read as the thoughts of one,

who, during his whole sojourn, felt and reflected intensely upon

those subjects; and who will then himself have passed away to the

experience of all that which is here matter of discussion. Those

most dear to me will know what relations I sustained to these

subjects, during the best part of my life; and will not be without

solicitude to know my final thoughts upon them; thoughts, purified

at least from all stain of party interest and _esprit du corps_,

and put forth in the simple consciousness of my own convictions,

however they may be powerless to produce belief in the mind of

any other. With the fierce war cry of sects in religion, in their

acrimonious and never ending contests about abstract terms without

a meaning, their combats about the vague and technical phrases of

formulas of faith, I have long since had nothing to do. For many

years they have rung on my ear like the distant thunder of clouds

that have passed by. To the denunciations of those, who assume

to hold all truth imprisoned in their articles of confession, if

I might hope the distinction of receiving them, I am perfectly

callous. Neither would I desire to add another book to the millions

of volumes of polemic theology which already exist, and which have

as little bearing upon the knowledge, virtue and happiness of the

age, as the last year’s snow.

We are, after all, unconsciously influenced, and that in no slight

degree, by authority, however humble may be its claims, as a test

of truth. How did such a person believe on such a point? Many a

young aspirant suspends his opinion, until he hears; and settles

into fixed persuasion afterwards. How many are there, in christian

lands especially, who have never had a wandering or unbelieving

doubt of the soul’s immortality float over their minds? How many,

who have had no terrene and gross ideas, influenced by seeing the

tenement of flesh, by which all that was called the mind and the

soul stood visible to the eye, and tangible to the thought, yielded

up to consumption and decay? This is a question which no one can

answer for another. For myself, I believe unhesitatingly, and with

no stain of doubt, that I shall, in some way, exactly provided for

by Him who made me, exist after death, as simply conscious, that

I am the same person, as I am now in the morning, that I slept

at night. Do I derive this conviction from books and reasonings?

I am by no means sure that I do; though the gospel assuredly

speaks directly to my heart. I do ready homage to the talents and

learning of Clarke, Locke, Paley, Channing and a cloud of reasoning

witnesses, of whom every Christian may well be proud; and, most of

all, to the profound and admirable Butler.

I hear the author of our faith directly declaring a resurrection

and immortality. A single assertation from such a source were

enough. But I find him reasoning, and insisting less upon the

fact, than I should have expected, had he intended to implant it

in the mind, as it were a truth, chiefly to be apprehended by the

understanding. It seems to me that he so discusses it, as one who

was aware that it was already inwoven in the sentiments and hearts

of his hearers, vague, dark, without moral consequence, it may be;

but an existing sentiment, taken for granted, upon which he might

predicate his doctrines, as upon a thousand other facts, which we

can clearly perceive, he considers already admitted by his hearers.

Let a man walk in the fields on a June morning after night showers.

Let him seat himself for meditation on the hill-side, under the

grateful canopy of foliage. Let him ask himself to embody his

conceptions of the divinity, and to give form and place to the

Author of the glorious scene outstretched before him. He may have

just risen from reading the admirable demonstrations of Clarke,

and the astronomical sermons of Chalmers. He may concentrate his

conceptions by a fixedness of study, that may amount to pain. He

may bewilder his faculties, in attempting to embody something,

that his thoughts and reasonings can grasp. I know not what the

powers of others can achieve in this case. But I know, by painful

experiment, what mine cannot. I ask my understanding and reasoning

powers about this glorious Being. They inform me that it is a

subject that comes not within their purview. They can follow

the chain of reasoning, see that every link is complete, and the

demonstration irresistible. But when they wish to avail themselves

of their new truth, they have no distinct idea either of premises

or conclusion. It has evaporated in the analysis.

I ask my heart, or the source of my moral sentiment, be it what it

may, the same question. The grateful verdure, the matin freshness,

the glad voices, the aroma of flowers, the earth, the rolling

clouds, the sun, all the lamps, that will burn in the firmament by

night, my own happy consciousness in witnessing this impressive

scene, cry out _a God_. To my heart, it is the first, the simplest,

most obvious thought, presenting itself, it seems to me, as soon

as the consciousness of my own existence; certainly susceptible of

as little doubt. I have no need to define, analyze, embody. The

moment I attempt to do it, my thoughts are vague and unsettled. I

yield myself to the conviction. My heart swells with gratitude,

confidence, love. So good, so beneficent a Being can do nothing but

good, in this or any other world, to him who loves and trusts him,

and strives to obey his laws.

My most treasured hopes of immortality are from the same source.

Will this conscious being, capable of such remote excursions into

the two eternities between which its existence is suspended, live

beyond the present life? Not a particle of matter, for ought

that appears, can be annihilated. Will the nobler thoughts, the

warmer affections perish, as though they had not been? We ask

our senses, and they can give us no hope. The body lives, and we

speak of it as including the conscious being. We see it die, pass

under the empire of corruption, molder, and incorporate with its

kindred elements. The sensible evidence, that the person exists,

is entirely destroyed. The most insatiate appetite of our natures,

however, craves continued existence, and ceases not to seek for

it. The inquirer after immortality cannot but be in earnest in

this pursuit. The arguments of the venerable sages of old are

spread before him. From the soul’s nature, from the unity of

consciousness, the incorruptibility of thought, the everlasting

progress, of which our faculties are capable, the strong and

unquenchable desire of posthumous fame, the sacredness of earthly

friendships, and similar arguments, they strove to establish, on

the basis of reasoning, the conviction of immortality.

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