The approach of death always brings associations of gloom when it

comes in advance of old age, to destroy the tender affections. In

the slow and natural course of years, it is an event as simple, as

little to be deprecated, as the other occurrences of life. Alas!

during a short sojourn, we see those who were most dear continually

falling around us. We soon retain a less number with us than exist

already in another world. The family is divided. I am not surprised

that it becomes a matter of indifference to a wise man to remain

with his present friends, or go and rejoin those that are absent.

As long as our children have need of our support, we resemble a

traveller charged with business of extreme importance. As soon

as these cares become useless, we resemble him who travels at

leisure and by chance; and who takes up his lodging for the night

wherever the setting sun surprises him. For me, I see the second

epoch drawing near. If I reach it, I shall bless heaven for having

awarded me a sufficient number of years, and for having diffused

over them so few pains.

Let us not charge that man with weakness who, when on the eve

of departure for distant and untravelled countries, is perceived

to impart the intonation and tenderness of sorrow to his adieus.

Ought we to exact more of him whom death is about to conduct to

that ‘undiscovered country from whose bourne no traveller returns?’

I would not seem to affect an austere and unnatural courage. But

whenever delivered from the only heart-rending agony, I will hope

and strive to preserve sufficient tranquillity of mind to impress

the sentiment on those I love, that we ought, with becoming

dignity, to submit ourselves to the immutable laws of nature; that

complaint is useless, and murmuring unjust; and that it becomes us,

with transient but subdued emotion, to say, as we receive the final

embrace, ‘may we meet again!’

LETTER XXV.

CONCLUSION OF ‘DROZ SUR L’ART D’ETRE HEUREUX.’

I shall have attained my purpose if these sketches should produce

any degree of conviction that man, in exercising his faculties, can

mitigate his pains and multiply his pleasures, and, consequently,

should serve as the outlines of a plan for reducing the pursuit of

happiness to an art. I am aware that no view could be offered more

contrary to the prevalent opinions in society. The morose and the

frivolous make common cause to attack it. To them the very idea

seems absurd; and the most indulgent among them question the good

faith of him who announces it.[62]

To such grave and learned authorities, and more, even to

the general suffrage against it, I might dare to oppose

counterbalancing authorities. From Socrates to Franklin, I see

philosophers who have been persuaded that man may be directed in

the art, and instructed in the science of happiness; and that his

faculties may be enlarged to pursue it. Who are the men that have

entertained this persuasion? The very _elite_ of the human race.

Was each individual of them surrounded by those happy circumstances

which would naturally inspire the same philosophy? They were

persons who had experienced all the conditions of life. As if

nature had studied to prove, by great examples, that our happiness

depends upon our reason more than upon our circumstances, Epictetus

lived in chains, and Marcus Aurelius on a throne.

We justly render homage to the Greek philosophers. Is their glory

founded on their physics, long since known to be full of errors,

or their metaphysics, often puerile? Upon neither; but they have

merited the veneration of ages by indicating principles, the

practice of which, would render us better and more happy.

Which of the sciences did the admirable Socrates chiefly esteem?

The single one which teaches us how to live as we ought. Let it

not be said that I substitute one science for another; and that

Socrates taught morals, and not my pretended science of happiness.

With the Greeks, morals had a perfectly definite end. Their

philosophers held all their teaching subservient to conducting

their disciples to happiness. Illustrious men! we disdain their

maxims, but still revere their names. What fruit have we obtained

from the boasted light and improvement of the age? We speak with

enthusiasm of those sciences which they judged frivolous; and we

treat as chimerical those studies which they judged alone worthy of

human nature.

Suppose it had been said to these philosophers, ‘you will never

reform the human race; and, instead of profitless dreams about

wisdom and happiness, you ought to desist from subjects so futile,

and consecrate your vigils to sciences more worthy to occupy your

thoughts.’ Would they not have smiled with pity upon such counsel?

Had they deigned to reply, would they not have said, ‘We are well

aware that we shall not purify the heart of the wicked of its

pride, envy, cupidity; but shall we derive no glory from having

confirmed some good men in their career? In the midst of storms

we felt our energies invigorated as we perceived that our spirits

were in accordance with theirs. However feeble may have been the

influence of our writings, affront not humanity by supposing that

ours, however partial may have been their circulation, will,

nowhere, find minds worthy to profit by them. Perhaps they will

kindle the holy love of virtue in some of those who may read them

in the youthful age of unsophisticated and generous resolutions.

Few, who read, will practise our doctrine in all its extent. Almost

every one will be indebted to it for some solitary principles. It

is possible we may never have numerous disciples. But we shall

have some in all countries and in all time. It is a truth that

ought to satisfy us, that such discussions are based neither upon

exaggeration nor revery. The science of happiness would indeed

be chimerical if we expected that it would impart the same charms

to all predicaments in which our lot might cast us. Instead of

indulging such visionary hopes, if these discussions dissipate

the errors which veil the true good from our eyes, if we learn to

bring together all the easy and innocent pleasures, and to render

the painful moments of life more rapid, we have been taught an art

which it is possible to demonstrate and improve to an indefinite

extent.’

Does this art appear difficult? Let any one be named which it

exacts no effort to acquire. Will it be thought that it cannot

become of general utility? Will professors, of the highest

reputation, cease to teach eloquence because they do not form

as many orators as they have pupils? The more maturely I have

reflected upon the art in question, the more clearly I am convinced

that it may be assimilated to the other arts. It differs from them

only in its superior importance. The interest and attention that

all the rest merit should be measured only by their relation, more

or less direct, to this first of all arts. To settle the utility of

any science, law, enterprise, or action, I know no better measure

than to note its influence on human happiness.

If moral lessons leave but a transient influence, it may be

attributed to two principal causes; the weakness of our nature, and

the contagion of example. A third belongs to those who teach us the

doctrine of morals, and is found in their exaggeration of their

doctrine. They elevate the altar of wisdom upon steep mountains;

and discourage our first steps, by proclaiming the painful efforts

necessary to scale them. From the sadness of the ministers of the

worship, it would not be inferred, that the divinity of the place

was liberal in dispensing pure pleasures, bright hopes, oblivion of

pain, and remembrances almost as pleasant as either.

It is a fatal error to imagine that it is useful to exaggerate

the doctrine of morals. To do this, fails not to excite disgust

towards the precepts inculcated. Men, that have been deceived

upon these points, as soon as they judge for themselves, in their

impatience to shake off the yoke of prejudices, are tempted to

reject principles the most wise with those errors by which they

have been misled. That we may be heard and followed, let us be

true. Let us present, with force, the evils which the abuse of our

faculties brings upon our short career.--Let us avow with equal

frankness, that we commit an egregious mistake, if we refuse, or

neglect to draw from our faculties all the advantages in our power,

to embellish life.

The doctrine of morals is a phrase that has been often employed

to designate the propagation of false and extravagant principles.

For this phrase, which is too worn out, and of equivocal import,

suppose we substitute a definition, which will clearly indicate

the end, towards which, morals ought to be directed. Morals is

that which teaches the art of happiness. If it be not so, the

foundation of ethics is a mere matter of convention, either useless

or dangerous.

Morals should be taught only as subservient to happiness. Austerity

should be banished equally from the manner of teaching and from

the matter that is taught.--They are the useful teachers, whose

tenderness of heart impels them rather to inspire virtue than to

enjoin it; and whose brilliant imagination enables them to offer

wise principles under such pleasant forms as charm the mind and

awaken curiosity. If I were to point to one of the best works on

morals, according to my judgment, I would name ‘_The Vicar of

Wakefield_.’ To present a family struggling with every form of

misfortune, and constantly opposing resignation or courage to each,

is to offer the sublimest painting that it is possible to execute.

The concurrence of genius and virtue could alone have conceived the

idea. All good men owe the tribute of gratitude and veneration to

the memory of the author.

The concurrent influence of public institutions and education would

be necessary to render the general habits conformable to happiness.

Books, the influence of which I certainly have not exaggerated, may

be useful to men, raised by the discipline of their reason above

the multitude. That man is happy, who knows how to add good books

to the number of his friends, who often retires from the world

to enjoy their peaceful and instructive conversation, and always

brings back serenity, courage and hope.

Were the doctrine true, that it is impossible to increase the

happiness or diminish the evils of life, it is not perceived that

it would not still be necessary to follow my principles. Preach

this discouraging doctrine to a good man, and you may afflict him,

but will obtain no influence over his conduct. He will always

strive to improve his condition, mitigate the sufferings that press

upon him, and render men more compassionate and happy. Such noble

efforts cannot be entirely lost. The pure intentions, the sincere

wishes, which he forms for the good of his kind, give to his mind

a pleasant serenity. It assures his own happiness to meditate the

means of increasing that of others.

LETTER XXVI.

THE CHOICE OF A PROFESSION.

The considerate Knight of La Mancha would not dismiss his follower

and friend to the government of Barataria, without a few more last

words, and without arming him for his high functions with a copious

homily of counsels and admonitions. Before I leave you to the

stern encounter of the painful emergencies of life, to unravel its

intricacies, and settle its innumerable perplexing and difficult

alternatives, I do not mean to oppress your memory with the

thousand and one particular directions, to meet every imaginable

occurrence with the right mode of conduct. Innumerable cases of

perplexity will be continually occurring, that can only be settled

by extempore judgment and prudence. I shall limit my counsels to a

single one among the many questions of universal application, each

one of which present a great variety of aspects and alternatives;

questions of difficult solution for the young; and yet on the right

disposal of which depend their character, success and happiness

in life. Among the subjects to which I refer, are, the choice of

a profession--decision in regard to our plans and projects--the

selection of our company--the dispositions with which we should

regard the place assigned us in society--the deportment appropriate

to gentlemen and ladies--the proper selection of books--the mode

and place of worship, and what are the best evidences of true

wisdom in character. The first of these is the only one upon which

I shall offer you my remarks.

In the choice of a profession, the first point to be consulted is

our physical and mental temperament and endowment, or aptitude.

That some are constituted for sedentary and inactive pursuits,

others to beat the anvil, follow the plough, or mount the reeling

mast with a firm step in the uproar of a tempest; some for the

bar, others for the pulpit, and still others to be musicians,

painters, poets or engineers, I consider a truth so universally and

obviously taught by observation and experience, that I shall not

deem it necessary to pause to prove it to such as would contest

it. I am sufficiently informed that there are those who contend

that all minds are formed equal and alike--and that all the after

differences result from education and circumstances. With them,

Virgil and Byron had no constitutional aptitudes to poetry, and

the same training that gave Handel and Gluck their preëminence in

music, would have imparted to any other mind equal skill. According

to their system, La Place and Zerah Colburn were no earlier or

more strongly inclined to mathematics, than other children. These

sapient physiologists in descending to the animal tribes, ought to

find, that web-footed animals had no natural aptitude for water,

the canine tribes for animal food, and the ruminating, to feed on

grass and vegetables. I shall leave those who hold this dogma to

retain it unquestioned so far as I am concerned; and they will

be obliged to leave me to mine, which is, that there are immense

differences in the physical and mental constitution, differences

which every enlightened parent discovers in his children from the

very dawn of their faculties--differences which every intelligent

instructer notes in his pupils, as soon as he becomes intimately

acquainted with them--differences which, to keen and close

observation, distinguish more or less each individual in the

immense mass of society. No matter how much alike these persons are

reared and trained; the most striking diversities of endowment are

often observed in members of the same family, reared and educated

with all possible uniformity. This is, no doubt, a beautiful trait

of that general impress of variety, which providence has marked

upon every portion of the animate and inanimate creation. Nature

has willed, that not only men should possess an untiring diversity

of form, countenance and mind, but that not two pebbles on the

shore, or insects in the air, should be found precisely alike. The

sign manual of the Creator on his works is a grand and infinite

variety.

The physiological inquiry whence these differences of temperament

and aptitude arise, is one, which belongs to another subject;

though I have no wish to conceal my belief, that the fundamental

positions of phrenology are as immovably founded in fact, and as

certainly follow from observation, as the leading axioms of any

physical science. It is enough for my present purpose, that the

order of every form of society calls for an infinite variety of

aptitude, talent and vocation, and that nature has furnished the

requisite variety of endowment, adequately to meet those calls.

The ancient system, still in use, goes on the supposition, that

all minds are originally alike; and that all children are equally

fit to be trained for each of the vocations. Hence we see tailors

at the anvil, and blacksmiths on the shopboard, innumerable

excellent ploughmen generating prose, and sleeping at the bar and

pulpit, and ingenious fiddlers ruined as engineers; in a word, all

that ludicrous disarrangement and seeming play at cross purposes,

in virtue of which, men, who would have been borne, by a strong

current, to the first place in the profession for which nature

designed them, become dull and useless in another. A great part

of the whole labor of instruction has thus been worse than thrown

away. It has been the hard effort of poetic fiction, laboring the

huge stone up an acclivity, to see it recoil and hear it thunder

back again; the effort to circumvent, and cross the purposes of

nature.

It seems to me to be among the most responsible inquiries of a

parent and a conscientious instructor, what pursuit or calling is

indicated for his child by his temperament and aptitude? The boy,

who, like Pope, even in childhood lisps in numbers, because the

numbers come, will probably be found to have not only an ear for

the peculiar harmony of rhythm, but an inventive mind, stored with

images, and a quick eye to catch the various phases of nature and

society. If placed under favorable circumstances, and judicious

training, this child will become a poet, while ninety-nine in a

hundred of those, who make verses, could by no forcing of nature

ever rise higher than rhymers. Thus may be detected the embryo

germs of temperament, endowment and character, which give the

undeveloped promise of the future orator, lawyer, mathematician,

naturalist, mechanician, in a word, of the mind fitted to attain

distinction in any walk in society. I am aware of the mistakes,

which fond and doting parents are likely to make, in interpreting

an equivocal, perhaps an accidental sally of the cherished child,

to be a sure proof of genius and endowment. No judicious and

intelligent parent will be in much danger of being led astray by

fondness so weak and misguided.--Wherever real endowment exists, it

never fails to put forth continual indications. It is the elastic

vigor of nature working at the root, to which no foolish partiality

will be blind.

It is true, that nature, equally beneficent in what she has

granted, and what she has withheld, forms the million for the

common duties and undistinguished employments; stamps them at once

with a characteristic uniformity and variety; and sends them forth

with specific adaptations, but not so strongly marked, as not to

be mistaken with comparative impunity. Hence the ordinary pursuits

and employments of life are conducted with general success,

notwithstanding these smaller mistakes in regard to endowment.

Not so in those rarer instances, where she has seen fit to stamp

the clear and strong impress of peculiar endowment and aptitude,

in which the embryo poet, painter, mathematician, naturalist, and

orator are indicated by such unequivocal signs, as cannot easily

be overlooked, or mistaken by any competent judge. Hence, in the

biography of most of those who have truly and greatly distinguished

themselves, we are informed that the most ordinary people about

them were perfectly aware of the harbingers of their future

greatness. I am confident, that to keen and faithful observation

these harbingers are as palpable in the germ, as in the

development. To mistake in such a case, and not only to withdraw

the youthful aspirant from the career to which nature beckons him,

but to force him into one, in which every effort must be rowing

against the stream, is to consign him to an Egyptian bondage, a

slavery of the soul, by which many a spirit of firmer mould has

been broken down, and lost to society, and others worse than lost,

rendered the scourge and curse of all with whom their lot was cast.

Such as have arrived at a maturity of reason and years, to have the

responsibility of the choice of a profession cast upon themselves,

will infer, what are my views in regard to the first element, by

which they ought to be directed. It involves a previous question,

for what pursuit or calling their temperament, faculties and

powers best fit them? By long and close observation, pursued

with a fidelity proportioned to its importance, by intent study

of themselves, as called out by the changes of their health and

prospects, the fluctuations of their spirits, their collisions

with society, in all the contingencies that befall them, they can

scarcely fail to form some conception of the peculiar cast of their

powers, and the walk in life, for which their capabilities are best

adapted. If they select wisely in this respect, habit and time will

certainly render it the profession of their inclinations.

As soon as the mind begins to survey the professions, in regard

to the honors, emolument and success, which they respectively

offer, there is great danger, lest imagination, taking the place

of reason, should look at the scene through a prism, and see

all the chances of an illusive brilliancy of promise, which

sober experience will be sure to disappoint. There are the

immense promises of the law, alluring a crowd of aspirants and

competitors, the greater portion of whom must fail to realize their

expectations. There are the honors of the physician, binding him,

by the strongest of all ties, to the confidence and affection of

the families that employ him. He exercises the only profession that

does not depend upon the caprice of fashion, or the vibrations of

transient feeling.--There is the ministry, with its time-honored

claims, its peculiar title to be admitted to the privacy of

affection, sickness and death, and its paramount capability of the

highest forms of that only eloquence that swells and softens the

heart, by coming home to men’s business and bosoms. There is the

varied range, and the rapidly acquired fortunes of merchandize and

commerce; the growing interest and importance of the new portico

to a new order of nobility, manufactures. There is agriculture,

always seen to be the most satisfactory and useful of employments,

and now rapidly coming to be viewed in the light of scientific

investigation and of a liberal pursuit. To adjust and settle the

respective views, which the judgment and imagination will take of

the chances of these various pursuits, and their contiguity to

love, marriage, wealth, and distinction, will be found to be no

easy task. Sometimes one view will predominate--sometimes another;

and the mind appears like a pendulum vibrating between them.

Reason presents one decisive view of the subject. All these

chances--all these balances of advantage and disadvantage have

long since settled to their actual and natural level. If the law

presents more tempting baits, and more rich and glittering prizes,

over-crowded competition, heart-wearing scramble, difficulty of

rising above the common level, into the sun and air of distinction,

are appended, as inevitable weights, in the opposing scale. The

advantages and disadvantages of all the professions are adjusted

by the level of society, exactly in the same way. He who is guided

in this inquiry by common sense, will comprehend at a glance, that

it is impossible, in the nature of things, to combine all the

advantages and evade all the disadvantages of any one pursuit. No

expectation more irrational and disappointing can be indulged, than

to unite incompatible circumstances of happiness. The inquirer

must reflect, that such a pursuit connects a series of fortunate

chances; but there are the counterbalancing evils. Such another

has a different series of both. It is folly to expect to form an

amalgam of these immiscible elements. Reason can expect no more

than that we unite in the calling, finally fixed upon, as many

fortunate circumstances as possible, and avoid, as far as may be,

its inconveniences and evils.

NOTES.

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Note 1, page 39.

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