Thence I passed to the opposite extreme, and accosted a gay and

reckless throng, whose deportment showed that they had found the

object of my pursuit. I discovered them to be fickle by character,

and vacillating from indifference. They had only escaped the errors

of the moralists, by substituting, in place of their austere

maxims, enjoyments without any regard to consequences. I asked

them to point me to happiness. Without comprehending the import

of my question, they offered me participation in their pleasures.

But I saw them prodigal of life, dissipating years in a few days,

and reserving the remnant of their existence for unavailing

repentance.[2]

In view of so many observations, I abandoned the idea of guiding

my researches by the counsels of others; and began to inquire

for the secret in my own bosom. I heard the multitude around me

complaining, in disappointment and discouragement. I resolved,

that I would not commence the pursuit of happiness by servilely

following in their beaten path. I determined to reflect, and

patiently investigate a subject of so much moment. I detected

at once the error of the common impression, that pleasure and

happiness are the same. The former, fickle and fleeting, assumes

forms as various as human caprice; and its most attractive charm

is novelty. The object which gives it birth today, ceases to

please, or inspires disgust tomorrow. The perception of happiness

is not thus changeable and transient. It creates the consciousness

of an existence so tranquil and satisfying, that the longer we

experience it, the more we desire to prolong its duration.

Another mistaken, though common impression is, that the more

profoundly we reflect, and make the pursuit of happiness a study,

the less we shall be likely to enjoy. This is an error not only

in regard to happiness, but even pleasure. If it be innocent and

exempt from danger, to analyze it, and reason upon it, so far from

diminishing, prolongs the delight, and renders it higher. Without

reflection we only skim its surface; we do not penetrate, and enjoy

it.

Let us observe the few, who have acquired the wisdom to enjoy

that existence, which the multitude waste. In their festal unions

of friendship, let us mark the development of their desire to

multiply the happy moments of life. By what ingenious and pleasant

discussions do they heighten the charms of their condition! With

what delicacy of tact do they analyze their enjoyments, to taste

them with a more prolonged and exquisite relish! With what skill do

they discipline themselves sometimes to efface the images of the

future, that nothing may embitter, or distract their relish of the

present; and sometimes to invoke remembrances and hopes, to impart

to it still brighter embellishments!

Contrary to the prevalent impression, I therefore deem that, to

reflect much upon it, is one of the wisest means in the pursuit of

happiness. The first analysis of reflection, it is true, dispels

the charm with which youth invests existence. It forces the

conviction upon us, that the pleasures of life are less durable,

and its forms more numerous and prolonged, than we had anticipated.

The first result of the process is discouragement. But, as we

continue to reflect, objects change their aspect a second time.

The evils which at the first glance seemed so formidable, lose a

portion of their terrific semblance; and the fleeting pleasures

of existence receive new attractions from their analogy to human

weakness.

They mistake, too, who suppose that the art on which I write has

never been taught. The sages of Greece investigated the science of

happiness as eloquently and profoundly, as they studied the other

sciences. They wisely held the latter in estimation only so far

as they were subservient to the former. In all succeeding ages

there have arisen a few thinking men, who have regarded all their

faculties, their advantages of nature and fortune, their studies

and acquirements, not as ends in themselves, but as means conducive

to the right pursuit of happiness.

So long a period has elapsed since this has been a subject of

investigation, that when the opinion is advanced that this pursuit

may be successfully conducted by system, its rules reduced to an

art, and thus become assimilated to those of the other arts, most

men are utterly incredulous.[3] No truth, however, is more simple.

To attain to a knowledge of the rules, it is only requisite, as in

the other arts, that there should be natural dispositions for the

study, favorable circumstances, and an assiduous investigation of

the precepts.

The influence of fortunate dispositions for this study is chiefly

discernible in men of marked and energetic character. Some are

endowed by nature with such firmness and force of character, that

misfortune cannot shake them. It slides, if I may so speak, over

the surface of their stoical hearts, and the shock of adversity

inspires them almost with a sort of pleasure, calling forth the

conscious feeling of power and independence for resistance. But

we observe the greater number shrinking from affliction, and

even images of sadness, enjoying the present without apparent

consciousness, and forgetting the past without regret. Always

fickle and frivolous, they evade suffering by recklessness and

gayety. The most perfect organization for happiness[4] imparts at

the same time great force to resist the pains of life, and keen

sensibility to enjoy its pleasures. I am aware that great energy

and quick sensibility are generally supposed to be incompatible

qualities; I have, nevertheless, often seen them united. I would

lay down precepts, by which to obtain the combination. By a more

perfect education, it is hoped that, in the ages to come, this

union may become general.

Perhaps some will ask, if he who thus assumes to teach the art

of happiness has himself learned to be constantly happy? Endowed

with a moderate share of philosophy, and aided by favorable

circumstances, I have thus far found the pleasures of life greatly

overbalancing its pains. But who can hope felicity without alloy?

I would not conceal that I have had my share of inquietudes and

regrets; and I have sometimes forgotten my principles. I resemble

the pilot, who gives lessons upon his art after more than one

shipwreck.

LETTER V.

OUR DESIRES.

Whence are our most common sufferings? From desires which surpass

our ability to satisfy them. The ancients relate, that Oromazes

appeared to Usbeck, the virtuous, and said, ‘form a wish, and I

will grant it.’ ‘Source of light,’ replied the sage, ‘I only wish

to limit my desires by those things, which nature has rendered

indispensable.’[6]

Let us not suppose, however, that a negative happiness, a condition

exempt from suffering, is the most fortunate condition to which

we may aspire. They who contend for this gloomy system, have but

poorly studied the nature of man. If he errs in desiring positive

enjoyments, if his highest aim ought to be, to live free from pain,

the caves of the forest conceal those happy beings whom we ought to

choose for our models.

Bounded by the present, animals sleep, eat, procreate, live without

inquietude, and die without regret: and this is the perfection

of negative happiness. Man, it is true, loses himself in vain

projects. His long remembrances, his keen foresight create him

suffering in the past and the future. His imagination brings forth

errors, his liberty, crimes. But the abuse of his faculties does

not disprove their excellence. Let him consecrate to directing them

aright, that time which he has hitherto lost in mourning over their

aberrations, and he will have reason to be grateful to the Creator,

for having given him the most exalted rank among sublunary beings.

If, on the other hand, he chooses to abandon that rank, of which he

ought to be proud, he will degrade his immortal nature at his own

cost; and will only add to his other evils the shame of wishing to

render himself vile.

Let us examine those animals, the instincts of which have the

nearest relation to intelligence. Not one of them takes possession

of the paternal heritage, increases it, and transmits it to

posterity. Man alone does this, improves his condition and his

kind, and in this is essentially distinct from all other beings

below. From the Eternal to him, and from him to animals the chain

is twice broken.

For man, the absence of suffering and a negative happiness are not

sufficient. His noble faculties refuse the repose of indifference.

Created to aspire to whatever may be an element of enjoyment, let

him cherish his desires, and let them indicate to him the path

of happiness; too fortunate, if they do not entice him towards

objects, which retire in proportion as he struggles to attain them,

and towards those imaginary joys, of which the deceitful possession

is more fertile in regrets than in pleasures.

Far from being the austere censor of desires, I admit, that they

often produce charming illusions. What loveliness have they not

spread over our spring of life! Our imagination at that time, as

brilliant and as vivid as our age, embellished the whole universe,

and every position in which our lot might one day place us. We were

occupied with errors; but they were happy errors; and to desire was

to enjoy.

Those enchanting dreams, which hold such a delightful place in the

life of every man, whose imagination is gay and creative, spring

from our desires. Ingenious fictions! Prolific visions! While

ye cradle us, we possess the object of our magic reveries. Real

possession may be less fugitive. But may it not also vanish like a

dream?

Doubtless there are dangers blended with these seductive

imaginings. In leaving the region of illusion, the greater part of

men look with regret upon the abodes of reality, in which they must

henceforward dwell. Let us not share their gloomy weakness. Let

us learn to enjoy the moments of error, and perpetuate and renew

them by remembrance. Children, only, are allowed to weep, when the

waking moment dispels the toys, of which a dream had given them

possession.

We give ourselves up to illusions without danger, if we have

formed our reason; if we wisely think that the situation where

our lot has placed us may have advantages which no other could

offer. Imagination embellishes some hours without troubling any.

Prompt to yield to the delightful visions, there are few of which

I have not contemplated the charm. In seeing them vanish like a

fleeting dream, I look round on my wife and children, and believe

that I am remembered by a few friends. I open my heart to the

pleasures of my retreat, which, though simple, are ever new. As the

gilded creations of imagination disappear, I smile at my creative

occupation, and console myself with the consciousness, that fancy

can paint nothing brighter or more satisfying, than these my

realities.[7]

But let me hasten to make an important distinction, to prevent

the semblance of contradiction. Let me discriminate those fleeting

desires, which amuse, or delude us for a moment, from those deep

cravings, which, directing all our faculties towards a given end,

necessarily exercise a strong influence upon life. It is time to

contemplate the latter, and to suggest more grave reflections.

While the scope of our faculties is limited to narrow bounds,

our desires run out into infinity. From this fact result two

reflections--the one afflicting, that the multitude are miserable,

because it is easier to form, than to obtain our wishes; the other

consoling, that they might be happy, since every one can regulate

his desires.

Reduced to the necessity to realize, or restrain them, which course

does wisdom indicate? Will ambition conduct us to repose?[8] He

who chases its phantoms, resembles the child who imagines that he

shall be able to grasp the rainbow, which spans the mountain in

the distance. But from mountain to mountain, a new horizon spreads

before his eyes. But the courage and perseverance requisite to

regulate our desires, may intimidate us. We vex ourselves in the

pursuit of fortune, honor and glory. Philosophy is worth more than

the whole, and do we expect to purchase it without pain? True,

she declares to us, that to realize our desires is a part of the

science of happiness; but by no means the most important one. Yet

it is the only one to which most men devote themselves. Philosophy

should teach us, what desires we ought to receive and cherish, as

inmates. When they are fleeting and spring from a gay and creative

imagination, let us yield ourselves without fear to their transient

dreams. But when they may exercise a long and decisive influence,

let a mature examination teach us, whether wisdom allows the

attempt to realize them. Oh! how much uncertainty and torment we

might spare our weakness, if from infancy we directed our pursuit

towards the essential objects of felicity, and if we stripped

those, which, in their issue, produce chimerical hopes and bitter

regrets, of their deceitful charms! What gratitude should we not

owe that provident instruction, whose cares should indicate, and

smooth our road to happiness! The great results, which might be

obtained from education, would be, to moderate the desires, and to

find some indemnities for the sorrows of life. On the present plan,

by arousing our emulation, by enkindling our instinctive ardor to

increase our fortune, and eclipse our rivals, we make it a study,

if I may so say, to render ourselves discontented with our destiny;

and, as if afraid that we should not be sufficiently perverted by

the contagion of example, we invoke ambition and cupidity to enter

the soul. We treat as chimerical those desires, which are so simple

and pure, as to be pleasures of themselves, and which look to a

happiness easy of attainment.

Let us, then, unlearn most of the ideas we have received. Let us

close our eyes on the illusions which surround us. Let us remould

our plan of life, and retain in the heart only those desires which

nature has placed there. Let reflection impart energy to our mind,

and be our guide in the new path which reason opens before us.

We shall be told, that these desires animate us unsought and

continually. I admit it. But in most men they are the simple result

of instinct, and are vague, and without decisive effect. A craving

for happiness is diffused as widely as life. The enlightened desire

of happiness is as rare as wisdom. The mass of our species do not

avail themselves of life, to enjoy it; but apparently for other

purposes. My first and fundamental maxim is, that no one should

live by chance. Enfranchised from vulgar ideas, and guided by the

principles of true wisdom, let happiness be our end; and let us

view all our employments and pursuits, as means.

I meet men of sanguine temperament, who say in the pride of

internal energy, ‘my calculations must succeed. I am certain to

acquire wealth.’ Another of the same class assures me, that he

sees no turn to his rapid career of advancement; and that he is

confident of reaching the summit of greatness. What more fortunate

result can he propose, than happiness? My pupil should make all

his plans subservient to the numbering of happy days even from the

commencement of his career.[9]

Let us beware, however, of aspiring after a perfect felicity. The

art I discuss, will not descend from heaven. Its object is, to

indicate desirable situations, to guide us towards them, when they

offer, and to remove the vexations of life. The greater part of

mankind might exist in comfort. They fail of this, in aiming at

impracticable amelioration of their condition. It is an egregious

folly only to contemplate the dark side of our case. I deem it

a mark of wisdom and strength of mind, rather to exaggerate its

advantages.

Let us carefully ascertain, what things are indispensable to our

well-being; and let us discipline all our desires towards the

acquisition of them. If I consult those who are driven onward

by the whirlwind of life, to learn what objects are absolutely

necessary to my end, what a long catalogue they will name! If I ask

moralists, how many sacrifices, incompatible with human nature,

will they impose! Agitated, and uncertain, I am conscious, that

my powers are equally insufficient to amass all which the former

prescribe, or to tear me from all which the latter disdainfully

interdict.

In examining this all important subject, without the spirit

of system, I realize, that the essentials of a happy life are

tranquillity of mind, independence, health, competence, and

the affection of some of our equals. Let us strive to acquire

them. They are numerous, I admit, and difficult to unite in

the possession of an individual. Nevertheless, if a severe

discrimination enabled us to bound our pursuit by the desire of

obtaining only these objects, what a great and happy change would

be effected upon the earth; and how many disappointments would be

henceforward unknown![10]

LETTER VI.

TRANQUILLITY OF MIND.

By the word tranquillity I designate that state of the mind in

which, estranged from the weaknesses of life, it tastes that happy

calm which it owes to its own power and elevation. Inaccessible to

storms, it still admits those emotions which give birth to pure

pleasures, and yields to the generous movements which the virtues

inspire. Tranquillity seems indifference only in the eyes of the

vulgar. A delightful consciousness of existence accompanies it. We

may meditate with a just pride upon the causes which produce it.

Without reasoning we respire and enjoy it. It is the appropriate

pleasure of the sage.

A pure conscience is the profoundest source of this delightful

calm. Without it, we shall attempt in vain to veil our faults from

ourselves, or to listen only to the voice of adulation. An interior

witness must testify that we have sometimes sought occasions to

be useful; and that we have always welcomed those who offered us

opportunities to do good.

Another condition equally necessary is to close the heart against

unregulated ambition. I am well aware, in laying down this precept,

that I shall be deemed an idle dreamer. If you are convinced

beyond argument that there is nothing worth seeking in life but

distinctions and honors, you may close my book. If you are ready

to receive these brilliant illusions when they come unsought, and

return to the repose of your heart should you obtain them not, you

may pursue the reading of my lessons.

Do not fear that I am about to announce trite truths touching the

vices which ambition brings in its train, and the shameful actions

and base measures by which it proposes to elevate its aspirant.

Why should I declaim in common-place against ambition when I have

truths to offer so pressing, simple and self-evident?

To consecrate to true enjoyment as many days as possible, to

lose in disquieting desires as few moments as we may, these are

the elements of my philosophy. The world, on the other hand,

incessantly repeats, ‘Shine--ascend high places--bind fortune

to your chariot wheels;’ the multitude listen, and consume life

in tormenting desires which end in disappointment. I say to my

disciple, make your pursuit, whatever it be, a source of present

enjoyment, and be happy without delay. But the cry of objection

reaches me, ‘would you wish him to vegetate in obscurity and never

transcend the limits of the narrow circle in which he was born?’ I

would have him enjoy the self-respect of conscious usefulness, and

taste all the innocent pleasures of the senses, the heart, mind and

understanding. Farther than these, I see nothing but the miserable

inquietudes of vanity. I admit that the pleasures of gratified

ambition are high flavored and intoxicating; but compelled to

choose among enjoyments which cannot all be tasted together, I

balance the delights which they spread over life with the pains

which it must cost to obtain them. If I incline to ambition,

I must fly privacy and my retreat; and renounce the pleasures

which my family, friends and free pursuits daily renew. I must no

longer inhabit the paradise of my pleasant dreams. Abandoning the

simple and sincere enjoyments of obscurity, I abandon repose and

independence.

Suppose I obtain those honors of which the distant brilliancy

dazzles my vision, what destiny can I propose to myself? How long

can I enjoy my honors? Besieged by incessant alarm, through fear of

losing them, how often shall I sigh over the ill-judged exchange by

which I bartered peace and privacy for them? Number all the truly

happy days of the ambitious--they are those in which, forming his

projects, and, in his imagination, removing the obstacles that

lie in his way, he embellishes his career with the illusions of

his fancy. Too often the desired objects, which in the distance

glittered in his eyes, resemble those paintings which, seen from

afar, present enchanting scenery, but offer only revolting views

when beheld close at hand.

I wish to avoid the usual exaggeration upon these subjects.

Moralists deceive us when painting the contrast between the

virtues and the vices; they assign unmingled felicity to the one,

and absolute misery to the other. I am sensible that even in his

deepest inquietudes, and notwithstanding his desires and regrets,

the votary of ambition still has his moments of intoxicating

pleasure. It is not this alone, but happiness we seek. If we wish

only to toil up the heights of ambition to enjoy the dignities of

the summit, counsels are useless. If we ask for nothing more than

pleasures, they may be varied to infinity, and be found pervading

all situations in forms appropriate to all characters. This

hypocrite, that victim of envy, yonder miser, do they experience,

the moralist will ask, nothing but torment? Mark the misanthrope

who incessantly repeats that in a world peopled with perverse

beings and malign spirits, existence is an odious burden. This

man, notwithstanding, finds his pleasures in a world which he

affects so to detest. Every invective which he throws out against

it, is a eulogy reflected back upon himself. He rises in his own

estimation in proportion as he debases others, and finds in himself

all the qualities which he makes them want. Does he meet with a

partisan of his principles? how delightful for two misanthropes to

communicate their discoveries, and to make a joint war of sarcasm

upon the human race! Does he find an antagonist? he experiences a

charm in controverting him. Besides, as in vilifying human nature,

no one can want either facts or arguments to present it in hues

sufficiently dark, in the complacency of conscious triumph, he

terminates his war of words.

The votary of ambition not only has pleasures which are often

dazzling, but perhaps enjoyments not within the ordinary ken,

which require profound observation. The ardent aspiration after

success gives a charm to efforts in the struggle which would

otherwise present only unmixed bitterness. Acts in themselves

vile, ridiculous, or revolting, contemplated as means essential

to a proposed end, lose their meanness and tendency to lessen

self-respect. It is possible, in this view, that even extraordinary

humiliations may inspire the ambitious with a sort of pride, in

the consciousness that he has strength to stoop to them for his

purposes. In fine, it is too true that pleasure may be found in the

most capricious aberrations, the most shameful vices, and the most

atrocious crimes.

It will be seen that I abandon most of the trite declamation

against ambition. I touch not on its long inquietudes, its

inevitable torments, exacerbated a hundred fold, if their victim

preserve degrees of mental elevation and remains of moral

sentiment. Life passes pleasantly among men who have just views,

upright hearts and frank manners, the true elements of greatness

and enjoyment. Surrounded by such minds, we respire, as it

were, a free and an empyrean atmosphere. Yield yourself to the

empire of ambition; and in all countries, and in all time, you

condemn yourself to live surrounded by greedy, unquiet, false and

vindictive intriguers, gnashing their teeth at all success in

which they had no agency. All that encircle you unite insolence and

baseness.

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