Sec. 35. _Dancing as a Sex Problem for Young Men_

[Sidenote: Dancing not to be eliminated.]

It is more than useless to discuss the question whether dancing ought

to be eliminated from the social life of young people, for it has

physical, social, and aesthetic or dramatic values which will make

dancing in some form or other coextensive with human life.

[Sidenote: Young people and dancing.]

Those who deal with adolescent boys and girls ought to have some

understanding of the facts for and against dancing as it may influence

the sexual control of young people, men especially. It is no longer

sufficient to say, even to the young members of certain religious

denominations, that "good people must not dance because it is wicked,"

for in this doubting age young people will ask first what we mean by

the word "wicked" and then for proof that dancing is wicked. The time

has come when young people must be shown the scientific reasons if we

want them to avoid dancing or to dance with certain approved movements.

[Sidenote: Dancing a sexual stimulant.]

It seems to be an accepted opinion among physiologists that dancing of

any of the types that involve more or less closeness of contact between

men and women in pairs is likely to lead to sexual stimulation that at

times may be consciously recognized by normal men, but probably is not

identified other than as general excitement by most women.

[Sidenote: Danger no reason for condemning dancing.]

The frank admission that dancing may sometimes stimulate sexual

emotions is no condemnation of dancing, as many writers seem to think.

We must know first whether such emotions lead to good or harm. Sexual

emotions are not in themselves wrong from any except a strictly aescetic

point of view. The fact that most intelligent men who in general are

frankly truthful confess that dancing may sometimes arouse sexual

emotion simply raises the question whether such emotions lead directly

to immoral relations with women or whether they lead, as does the best

social life of men and women together, to a higher aesthetic

appreciation of life as it involves the relations of the two sexes.

After discussing this with many--yes, with more than a hundred--men and

women, I am now convinced that dancing may have both results, depending

upon the individuals. Dancing, then, has its dangers, but so have many

other things that go to make up the most complete life. Eating may lead

to gluttony, mountain-climbing may lead to a broken neck, swimming to

drowning, music and art to sensuality, and even love is not without

danger of bestial degradation. Life is full of dangers and we are

constantly striving to reduce them to a minimum. So we must refuse to

condemn dancing because of its admitted sexual dangers for young

people, unless it can be shown that the danger is so great and so

unconquerable as to outweigh all the physical, social, and aesthetic

considerations in favor of the pastime.

[Sidenote: Dancing and immorality.]

That dancing is a strong incentive to immorality is contended by many

writers. A prominent physiologist has said that "the dance is the

devil's procession so far as the young man is concerned." Others have

pointed to the immorality that is connected with the dance halls, and

to the fact that waves of immorality of young men have often followed

the annual balls given in some high schools and colleges. Contrary to

the view which I formerly held, I am now inclined to think that it is

not fair to charge such immoral tendencies entirely to dancing, and

therefore condemn all dancing as immoral. It is no secret of sociology

that similar epidemics of immorality have been known to occur in

connection with Sunday-school picnics, camp meetings, expositions,

political and other conventions, and religious revivals. Shall we

condemn all these along with dancing on the ground that they lead to

immorality? We say "no" because immorality is only an incident, not a

result in these cases. Likewise, I believe that dancing is but one of

several factors that have led to immorality at the time of annual balls

in high school and college. These are times of general tendency towards

dissipation. Regular duties are cast aside, all the hygienic rules for

eating and sleeping are broken, there is unusual freedom of speech and

manners, available alcohol is freely used, emotions and not reason

rules--these are characteristic of the college festivals that center

around grand balls. In short, at such times there is a general let-down

of usual standards and a swing back towards the barbaric festival of

the ancients. It is not surprising, then, that pent-up sexual instincts

assert their force at such times, and dancing, if it occurs under such

conditions is, of course, likely to increase the danger of moral

collapse because it incites sexual emotions.

[Sidenote: Regulation of dancing needed.]

Our conclusion, then, is that it is unscientific to charge dancing with

being the direct cause of immorality, when it has been only one in a

series of events. The facts warrant not condemnation of dancing as

something utterly bad, but rather of allowing dancing to be associated

with conditions that are likely to lead to dissipation and immorality.

Unless some argument other than that arising from the coincidence of

dancing with dissipation and immorality is brought forward, we must

conclude that dancing should be regulated and associated so that the

admitted dangers will be reduced to a minimum. Recognition of the

dangers will lead mature people to see the importance of supervising

and regulating dancing as a phase of the social life of young people.

It will lead to dancing that is improved along social and aesthetic

lines.

[Sidenote: Self-control necessary.]

While improvement of dancing will reduce its dangers, it will not

eliminate the problem of self-control for normal young men. They must

learn to understand their own emotions. They should be forewarned that

others have found danger in dancing. They should know that some

strong-willed men have given up dancing when they found that it made

more intense the problem of sexual self-control, both mentally and

physically. They should know the increased danger if dancing is

associated with alcohol, vicious women, immodest dress, extreme freedom

of conduct, and other morally depressing influences. Such knowledge

along with general sex-education will do much to make dancing not only

safe for average young men, but also helpful along social and aesthetic

lines.

[Sidenote: Extreme dances.]

With regard to the extreme dances of the past five years, those who are

well informed concerning sexual problems know that many of these dances

which polite society has copied from the dens of the underworld are

vastly more dangerous than the standard dances.

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