13. Names of children.

Children are named on the _chathi_ or sixth day after birth, and

the parents always ascertain from a wise man whether the soul of

any dead relative has been born again in the child so that they may

name it after him. It is also thought that the sex may change in

transmigration, for male children are sometimes named after women

relatives and female after men. Mr. Hira Lal notes the following

instance of the names of four children in a family. The eldest was

named after his grandfather; the second was called Bhalu or bear,

as his maternal uncle who had been eaten by a bear was reborn in him;

the third was called Ghasi, the name of a low caste of grass-cutters,

because the two children born before him had died; and the fourth

was called Kausi, because the sorcerer could not identify the spirit

of any relative as having been born again in him. The name Kausi

is given to any one who cannot remember his sept, as in the saying,

'_Bhule bisare kausi got_,' or 'A man who has got no _got_ belongs

to the Kausi _got_.' Kausi is said to mean a stranger. Bad names

are commonly given to avert ill-luck or premature death, as Boya, a

liar; Labdu, one smeared with ashes; Marha, a corpse; or after some

physical defect as Lati, one with clotted hair; Petwa, a stammerer;

Lendra, shy; Ghundu, one who cannot walk; Ghunari, stunted; or from

the place of birth, as Dongariha or Paharu, born on a hill; Banjariha,

born in brushwood, and so on. A man will not mention the names of his

wife, his son's wife or his sister's son's wife, and a woman will not

name her husband or his elder brother or parents. As already stated,

a woman saying her husband's name aloud is temporarily put out of

caste, the Hindu custom being thus carried to extremes, as is often

the case among the lower castes.

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