A child that excels most of his colleagues in one or a few points is

said to have marked ability in that direction--as the exceptional

athlete, or the child with exceptional literary or moral feeling. On

the other hand, a child that seems to measure well up to the average

in most points, and even to excel in a few, may fall far short in

some matters,--that is, may be deficient. Thus a perfectly good

child in every other way may be unable to master the ordinary

requirements in arithmetic, or a child may have an entirely

satisfactory development in every way and be deficient in musical

discrimination.

Another kind of difference is to be found in what may be called

general capacity. Some children show higher capacity than the

average along nearly every line that can be measured or tested,

without showing a preponderance in any one direction. Such children

are said to be of high grade, or of high "vitality." In the same way

many children are below the average in nearly every line, without

being particularly defective along any one line. They can do one

thing about as well as another, just as the high-grade boys and

girls can do one thing about as well as another; but in the former

there is a limit to the possible development which is exceeded in

the latter. Among both classes of children the full development

depends upon suitable environment, but what is suitable for one may

not be suitable for the other.

From a consideration of these differences in degree and difference

in kind we may see that there is no course of training or treatment,

no method of instruction, no trick for the mother or for the teacher

that will be usable for all children under all circumstances, to

make them all come up to some preconceived uniform standard. On the

other hand, if we consider the differences as worth developing, and

even emphasizing, it must be obvious that the training and the

treatment should be adapted to the individual child so far as

possible. Starting out with essentially different human beings,

uniform treatment will not make them all alike, nor will _any_

treatment make them all alike. But starting out with a particular

human being, we can learn to treat him in such a way as to make him

develop into a more desirable person than he would become if he were

neglected or if he were treated differently. And that is the main

problem, after all.

The relation between heredity and environment may perhaps be made

clear by an extreme illustration from the physical side. Here are

two full-grown men, both five feet and four inches tall. We observe

that they are both short. Now, the shortness of one of them turns

out to be the result of heredity,--that is, he belongs to a strain

of short people. No amount of feeding or of exercise or of special

régime could have made him more than a quarter or half an inch

taller. The other man, however, belongs to a race of rather taller

men and women: his shortness of stature may be traced to

undernutrition, or to overwork, or to sickness during his childhood.

It is quite certain that a different kind of environment would have

resulted in his being as tall as his brothers and sisters.

Now, the problem of training concerns itself practically not so much

with the person who is particularly "long" by nature, nor so much

with the person who is unusually "short" by nature--and we may apply

"long" and "short" to every other trait as well as to stature. The

problem with these extremes is simply to keep the child in good

health. The special efforts of the teacher and of the parent are

devoted to giving the child who appears somewhat below the average

in some particular those special stimulations and exercises and

feedings that will bring him up to the average. We find the

extremely short too discouraging, and the extremely long do not

clamor for our attention; but it is those near the middle-point that

we want to help over to the other side of the dividing line. And

this is just as true of an undesirable character as it is of a

desirable one. We take no trouble to teach honesty to the child that

seems instinctively honest; and we give up in despair with the child

that convinces us of his utter lack of a moral sense: we concentrate

our efforts upon the delinquents whom we catch early, or upon those

who are in danger of sliding down if they are not helped along.

Perhaps one reason for the great confusion on this subject arises out

of the fact that we have become accustomed to making a sharp

distinction between physical characters on the one hand and so-called

mental and moral qualities on the other. Every one recognizes family

resemblances in physical features. A particular shape of nose or a

peculiarity of the hand appears in every member of the family,

sometimes for several successive generations. Facts like these we

accept as evidence of "heredity" without any question. We also

recognize that the Joneses of Centerville always take the measles

"hard," whereas with the Andersons vaccination never "takes." But when

it comes to mental qualities, which we are not accustomed to measure

or to recognize with the same degree of discrimination, most of us

fail to see that heredity is just as common for these as for physical

traits. Moreover, mental qualities take on such a great variety of

forms that their recognition is made doubly difficult. Thus it may be

the same mental traits that make of a certain man a successful lawyer,

of his brother an able scientist, and of their cousin a clever

criminal. No doubt each of these three men has qualities in a degree

lacking in the others; but the point is that they have many qualities

in common which are obscured by the different lines of development

they have followed.

The old parable of the wheat cast upon the ground may help us. That

which falls upon stony ground fails of germination; that which falls

upon poor soil will germinate, but will die of drought or be

scorched by the sun; that which falls upon good soil will develop

into a good plant. The _kind_ of plant that may develop is

determined by the seed, by heredity; _how_ the plant will

develop is determined by the surrounding conditions, by the

environment. On the physical side these facts are so familiar to us

that we never question the connection between development and food,

or between development and exercise, or between development and

other physical conditions. Of course, we say, an undernourished

child will never be strong; of course, an overworked child will

never be strong, of course, drinking and smoking and other

dissipation will prevent healthy development. And yet, do we not

know that of two underfed children, one will show the ill effects

more than the other; that of two overworked children, one will

survive abuse with less permanent injury than the other.

We must, then, have clear in our minds the idea that everything that

happens to a child and that may produce a reaction or an effect is

worth considering from the point of view of its influence upon his

development. Indeed, instead of discussing heredity _versus_

environment, we should try to conceive of the personality of the

child as made up of the effect of a certain heredity responding to a

certain environment. For example, the child inherits the instinct to

handle things. At a certain age this instinct will take the form of

handling objects within reach, and of breaking them. We cannot say

that the child has an instinct for breaking vases or tearing books;

he has simply the instinct to _do_ something with material that

he can handle. Now, it is possible for the child to exercise this

instinct only on material that can be broken or torn; it is also

possible for the child to exercise it on material that can be

manipulated constructively--as blocks for building, clay for

shaping, or, later, tools of various kinds. In one case the child

establishes habits of tearing or breaking; in the other the same

instincts--the same "heredity," that is--issues in habits of

_making_. Or we may take the instinct of curiosity, which every

normal child will manifest at an early stage. This instinct may find

exercise in wondering what is in parcels or closed cupboards; or it

may exercise itself in wondering about the thunder and the flowers

and the things under the earth; or it may be quite suppressed by

discouragement or by unsatisfying indulgence. Thus the same instinct

may lead under different treatments to different results. This does

not mean that every child has the making of an investigator; it

means that a perfectly healthy instinct capable of being turned to

good use is often perverted or crushed out because we have not

learned to cultivate it profitably through control of the growing

child's development.

There is abundant evidence that the mental and moral capacities are

inherited in the same way as the purely physical or physiological

ones. We have, however, much more to learn about how to control the

development of the former than about the control of the latter. Yet

this point should be clear to every parent and teacher; whatever the

child's inheritance may be, the full development of his capacities

is possible only under suitable external conditions. What these

conditions are depends upon the combination of capacities that the

particular child possesses. But to find out what these capacities

are we must give the child an opportunity to show "what's in him."

This we can do by placing him in an environment simple enough for

him to adjust himself to readily, and at the same time complex

enough to give every side of his nature a chance to respond. This is

the significance of modern educational movements that seek to leave

the child untrammelled in his responses to what goes on around him.

We have learned that some children will become tall and that others

will never reach beyond a certain height; we seek merely to keep

them healthy by suitable feeding, exercise, rest, bathing, etc. But

in the matter of mental development we have not yet learned that it

is impossible for all children to reach the same degree of

linguistic or mathematical or artistic development, and we try to

bring all of them up to our preconceived standard of what a child

_should_ do in each line. The thing that we need to find out is

what a particular child _can_ do; and then we must give him the

opportunity and the encouragement to do his best. The things we

encourage him to do will be the basis for the habits which he will

form, for the skill which he will acquire--and so for the activities

that will yield him satisfaction and determine his behavior in

relation to others. That is, the things the child learns to do well

will determine what kind of a person he will be when he grows up.

But it would be a mistake to suppose that every child is born with a

set of special aptitudes that fit him for some particular occupation.

Many children do indeed have rather special types of native ability,

as the child of artistic proclivities, or the "natural born" preacher.

And, on the other hand, many children are born with marked

shortcomings in their makeup, although these "deficiencies" need not

always interfere with their developing into excellent men and women.

For example, a child may be color-blind, or incapable of mastering a

foreign language in school, or awkward in doing work requiring great

skill--and yet capable of doing high-grade work in other lines. Those

children that have strongly-marked proclivities--which usually show

themselves early in life and which are commonly associated with strong

likes and dislikes--will no doubt do the most effective work along the

lines of their native talents. And those with marked deficiencies

should certainly not be directed into occupations wherein the lacking

talents are essential for success. But the great mass of children vary

from each other not so much in the directions along which their

special abilities lie as in the degree to which they are capable of

developing the ordinary abilities which they do have. For such

children the choice of an occupation cannot wisely be made very early

in life, nor should a very special choice be made until there has been

an opportunity to try out a large variety of activities and processes.

Indeed, even for the child of decided genius it is desirable that

there be a chance to try out many kinds of activities, both physical

and mental. This is desirable not so much in the hope of counteracting

his special bent on the theory of supplying exercise for the functions

that are not to his liking as for the purpose of giving him an

opportunity to find out _all_ he can do, and to give us a chance to

find out all he can do well.

Even children who pass as "average" children, however, may be

divided into classes according to the variations in their native

capacities. That is to say, some children, although not exhibiting

any special talents or special deficiencies, are nevertheless more

easily adjusted to doing muscular work than others; some are more

happy in the manipulation of numbers; some show greater patience;

some are more easily fatigued by the repetition of a process; some

cannot stand on their feet for long periods without suffering, and

so on. These differences should certainly be taken into

consideration, first of all, in the treatment accorded them in the

school and at home, in what is required of them, in the selection of

studies, etc. And, in the second place, these facts should be

considered in the choice of general fields of occupation. It would

be the height of cruelty and of injustice to insist upon Walter's

preparing for and entering his father's business--just to keep up

the family tradition--when a little attention to the boy's work in

school and to his play and to his personal preferences and tastes

would show that he was eminently unsuited for the business, and at

the same time well suited for some technical pursuit such as

engineering. Untold misery and failure spring from our negligence in

these matters, no less than from our direction of the child's

development in accordance with the parents' ambitions rather than in

accordance with the child's discoverable abilities and disabilities.

How far short our ordinary training falls of giving our various

capacities their full development is shown by the exquisite

acuteness of touch and of hearing acquired by children who become

blind in infancy. The senses of touch and hearing are here developed

so far beyond what ordinary persons ever attain that the belief is

quite common that one who is defective in one sense has been

compensated by "nature" with special capacity in the other senses.

As a matter of fact, however, the extreme development is not the

result of special endowment or "heredity," but altogether the result

of special training or "environment."

There is a certain sense in which the idea of heredity impresses one

with a paralyzing feeling of inevitableness. When a child is born

his sex is irrevocably fixed; the character of his eyes and of his

hair, the form of his features and the ridges on his finger-tips are

unalterable except through mutilation or disease. But up to a

certain limit the child will grow just in proportion to the nurture

that he receives. And what that limit is we may not know until we

find out through years of patient effort, through endless trying out

in every direction. He will grow farther in some directions than in

others, and the _limit_ in each direction is the element of

destiny supplied by heredity. Very few, however, reach their limit

in many directions, and no person has ever reached his limit in

every direction. The distance we do actually go depends, in

practice, altogether upon the kind of environment that is supplied.

This environment, so far as the growing child is concerned, is

entirely within our control, and we have no right to give up our

efforts and to shift the responsibility to unsatisfactory heredity

until we are quite sure that all has been done that suitable

surroundings and treatment--suitable "environment"--can do. We must

watch and wait, and work hard while we wait and watch.

XV.

FREEDOM AND DISCIPLINE

Is it not strange that "school," which we provide for our beloved

children for their own good, at so great a cost of thought and

money, should be so little appreciated by them? Is it not strange

that "school," which is intended to give power and freedom, should

be looked upon by the children as no better than a prison--a good

place from which to escape?

We grown folks know how valuable school and training and discipline

are. Do we not sometimes sigh that we had not more of these

blessings in our own childhood? Or that we did not take advantage of

the little we had? If the children only knew--perhaps they would not

so eagerly seek to escape into what they vainly imagine to be

"freedom." Perhaps.

Grown folks who have thought about the matter know, of course, that

"freedom" is something different from merely being left alone. They

know that freedom is a state to be attained only through effort.

They know that freedom results from a discipline which makes a

person the master of his impulses, instead of leaving him their

slave. They know that the freedom worth striving for is freedom from

our own caprices and moods, from our blindness and ignorance and

passions. It is for this reason that we value discipline, quite

apart from anything that it may contribute to our ability to live

harmoniously with others, quite apart from anything it may do to

increase our power in an economic sense.

But if discipline is the means for attaining freedom, how does it

come about that in the past (and for most people to-day) discipline

has appeared as a method of _compelling_ children to do the

right thing--"until they have the habit"? How does it come about

that discipline, in the minds of most people, consists so largely of

_restraining_ children from doing undesirable acts--until they

are well started into the safe age of discretion? The reason seems

to be that the need for discipline or training makes itself most

quickly felt where children--or older people--infringe upon the

rights of others, or upon the proprieties. We miss discipline where

a child fails of self-restraint, acts impulsively, or loses his

temper. In short, failure of early training is indicated wherever

there is lack of self-control, or a lack of proper application to

the business in hand. It is therefore natural that discipline should

early take the form of commanding and prohibiting.

It is but a short step from this view of discipline to the

philosophy that what children do spontaneously, what they like to

do, must be wrong. And the complement to this is the feeling that

virtue and character can arise only from doing what is disagreeable

or difficult.

But the newer studies in the psychology of childhood lead to a

totally different theory of character formation. And many

experiments made in schools and institutions confirm these new

theories at every point. Moreover, if we look about, perhaps even in

our own homes, I am sure we can all find abundant support for the

modern view.

The new studies have to do with the relation that our emotions bear

to our activities and especially to the formation of habits. To

learn to do a thing, we have known for ages, we must practise

continuously and uniformly. But we did not know that the state of

feelings connected with the performance of the act had anything to

do with the result. Richard must master the scales in his music

study. These scales can be mastered in only one way--he must play

them over and over and over again, until he just has them. But

suppose Richard does not care to practise the scales over and over

and over again? Suppose that he does not care whether he ever

masters the scales or not. Well, he can be _made_ to practise,

at any rate; and perhaps some day he will thank his elders for

having thus forced upon him the extremely valuable but unappreciated

command of the scales.

But what happens in the course of this forced practise? There is

resentment, and antagonism and a growing hatred of scales, of the

man who first vented scales, of sloping rows of notes on the page of

music. And this resentment is more likely to prevent a real mastery

of the task than the enforced practise is to ensure it. The

antagonism will, at any rate, counteract the value of the practise

to a large degree. The third element in the fixation of habits that

we have heretofore too generally disregarded is that of

_satisfaction_; this is no less important than regularity and

frequency of action.

The absence of satisfaction, to say nothing of the presence of

opposite feelings, is of itself sufficient to prevent effective

learning, whether of knowledge or of skill. And when the opposite

feelings are present, the acquired act or idea tends to be pushed

out of the system at the earliest opportunity. It is in some such

way as this that many specialists in the workings of the human mind

would explain so much of our "forgetting." They say that we forget

either because we really wish to forget--the facts are unpleasant--

or because we do not sufficiently care to remember--the facts are

not sufficiently interesting, they do not sufficiently concern us.

Out of the psychological facts pertaining to the relation of the

feeling state to the learning process and to the habit-forming

process, is developed the doctrine of "interest" in education. The

very name "interest" suggests to many that this must be some plan

for sugar-coating education, or perhaps for giving children only

what they like. And this is quite the opposite of the traditional

view which is expressed by the humorist who said, "It does not

matter much what you teach a boy, so long as he doesn't like it."

But the idea of interest in modern psychology does not mean letting

the child have his own way, any more than discipline means doing

only what is unpleasant or difficult.

We can see the basic truth at the foundation of this view in the

age-long usage of the race, which awards prizes and penalties for

"good" actions and "evil" actions, respectively. If you should be

asked "_Why_ did you reward Maryann," "_Why_ did you punish Henry;"

you would no doubt say something like this: If we reward a child for

doing what we approve, he is more likely to do that sort of thing

again; if we punish, or impose unpleasant consequences, upon acts that

we disapprove, such acts are less likely to be repeated. In other

words, we have known right along that _satisfaction_ somehow leads the

child to repeat the conditions that brought about the satisfaction;

and that suffering somehow leads the child to avoid the conditions

that brought about the suffering.

What the new psychology does here is to unify what we have known. We

say not the performance of an act alone will establish a habit; not

the repetition alone will establish it; not the subsequent

satisfaction alone. All of these factors must take part, and they

must take part in association. The feeling must accompany the act.

It is not sufficient that Richard be assured that some time in the

vague future he will derive deep satisfaction from being master of

the scales; he must somehow be made to feel a present concern either

in what he is doing, or a real interest in the outcome. The time

that is to elapse between the beginning of his "practice" and the

satisfaction he is to receive must not be beyond the child's power

to appreciate.

In our actual dealing with children our experience leads us to make

use of these principles, often without realizing all that is

implied. For example, when the young child by your side shows signs

of weariness, and you still have some distance to go, you try to

stimulate his interest by telling him of the good things to come at

journey's end. If this does not serve your purpose, you draw his

attention to the bird on the tree only a hundred feet away, or you

challenge him to race with you to the next telegraph post. And if

you challenge him to such a race, you are sensible enough to let him

win it, for you know very well that nothing will discourage him so

much as defeat--that is, the unpleasant feeling of failure; and you

know that nothing will stimulate him quite as much as the

satisfaction of defeating you. In other words, you set before him

one goal after another, each but a small fraction of the main

journey, and each within the appreciation of the child, and each

offering a satisfactory conclusion that is readily and eagerly

seized as _worth striving for_, here and now.

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