Now it may be asked, what discipline is there in doing always what

brings satisfaction? How can the children ever learn to do the

disagreeable but necessary tasks that make up so large a part of

every-day living? Where will they ever learn that some things must

be done, not because we like to do them, but because it is our duty

to do them? And these are indeed serious questions. There are two

sets of answers. One of them consists of the results actually

achieved in dealing with children from the new point of view. The

other is a challenge to make clear just what we mean by discipline

and task and duty.

To take the latter first, is it not true that one part of our object

is in the form of acquired knowledge and acquired skill? Practising

the scales, or studying the multiplication table is not an end in

itself. We require study and practice because we believe that the

knowledge or the skill is worth having. Now it has been shown over

and over again that what is learned with satisfaction sticks; and

what is learned with pain is thrown overboard the first minute the

watchman is off his guard. Are the names of writers with the titles

of their books less well remembered by children who learn them

through the game of "Authors" than they are by children who might be

required to memorize them from a catalog? Are the sums and products

of numbers acquired in keeping scores of games less accurate and

less permanent in the mind of the child than the same sums and

products learned as school exercises? Is the skill acquired in

handling tools--sewing costumes, or making scenery for an amateur

play--any less effective or less lasting than the skill acquired in

sewing yards of stitches or sawing yards of board just for

"exercise" in a class? On the contrary, other things being equal,

arithmetic and authors and sewing and tinkering can be made both

more effective and more lasting when associated with pleasurable

feelings than when performed under strain, compulsion and

resentment. If it is only a question of "learning" this or that,

there is no doubt that the pleasant way is in every respect the

better way.

But, of course, it is not merely a question of learning the specific

skill or knowledge. There is also the need for learning application,

persistence through difficulties, endurance, and the other hardy

virtues that distinguish a disciplined character. And here the

contrast between the old attitude and the new is most marked. We can

certainly force children to do what is disagreeable; we can hold

them to their tasks when they are tempted to abandon the monotonous

and wearisome round of uninteresting drudgery. But is this the only

way to get for the children experience with such necessary, though

unpleasant, work? We are assuming of course that such experience is

necessary, since uninteresting work cannot be separated from most

important undertakings. A typical experience in a school that has

for several years conducted a class along the lines of the newer

psychology can answer our question.

One of the difficulties that had to be overcome was the mastery of

simple addition. Another was the art of writing; and of course

reading is a necessary art of modern life. Instead of the usual

drill and practice and exercises, this class passed through the

drudgery stage without realizing that school was a prison. This was

during the autumn of the Armistice. Food conservation and thrift

were in the air. These children were presented with a quantity of

garden vegetables, but there was more than they could use

themselves, so the suggestion was made that they could have the

surplus for future use. The children, under guidance, did all the

work connected with cold-pack canning of the tomatoes. This work was

not at every point "interesting," in the superficial sense; but the

purpose of the entire project was one that appealed to the children,

so that they were quite satisfied to do the many essential details.

Did they not here learn to clean their dishes and jars as well as

they would have done had the cleaning been a "duty" imposed

arbitrarily from above? Must drudgery be dreaded to be well done?

Let the teacher who had charge of this class describe what happened,

in her own words.

"The success of the first small group in carrying through the

various steps ... led to further work of the same sort, as various

vegetables were given us. The children also dried apples and lima

beans which they gathered themselves at the school farm.

"That the interest in this rather exacting work was sustained for

two months was doubtless due to the fact that the children had a

genuine purpose in canning a large quantity of vegetables. For early

in the work, upon the suggestion of one of the class, it had been

decided to have a sale and use the proceeds to buy milk for a sick

baby. Although I had not thought of this plan myself, I was glad to

lend it my support.

"The final preparation for the sale occupied a large share of the

time for several weeks. The chief consideration from the children's

point of view seemed to be who should take charge of the business of

selling. They had conducted a play store intermittently during the

fall, but, upon testing, it was found that most of the class were

ill prepared to act as salespeople.[A] The children readily

recognized this fact and willingly went to work to drill on addition

and subtraction. The most successful drill was accomplished by means

of a dramatic rehearsal of the forthcoming sale, some children

impersonating the visitors and the others the salesmen. Real money,

correct prices, and the actual jars of vegetables and fruit were

used for this play.

[Footnote A: Remember these were second-grade children--most of them

seven or eight years old.]

"The need of invitations, of price lists, and of bookkeepers the day

of the sale, was also recognized and led to much needed practice in

written English. The prices were determined by a study of the latest

food catalog, a small group with a teacher undertaking this work. It

necessitated the use of an alphabetical index, and in some cases the

calculation of the price of pints, when only quarts were listed, as

we had used both pint and quart jars.

"Further preparation consisted of the making of labels for the jars

and of posters for the room. The art teacher, when called in to

advise, taught the children how to make accurate square letters,

which they used in various sizes for the labels and posters. The

making of fifty or more small labels with half-inch letters proved

irksome to the little people, but they showed much persistence in

completing the task, because of their interest in the sale. The

eight children who made the final large posters did a great deal of

intelligent, painstaking work. From the artistic point of view, the

posters were not noteworthy, but they represented the children's own

suggestions.

"The sale was conducted by the children, who made their own change,

kept records of sales and wrapped up purchases. The various duties

were agreed upon by the class, in accordance with each one's proved

ability to carry them out, and everyone had some share."

In this simple account of an experimental class conducted at the

Ethical Culture School, in New York, under the direction of Miss

Mabel R. Goodlander, are many references to drill and practice. But

throughout all of the work it was possible to maintain the interest

of the children because, apparently, the attention was not on the

drill as an end in itself, but upon the special skill or knowledge

as a means to a more remote end. And this remote end was not the

formal one of "passing," or being promoted, or getting a good mark,

but the vital, urgent purpose of raising money through the sale for

a sick baby's milk. Undoubtedly the "motives" of the several

children in this class were varied and mixed--like the motives of

good citizens who are united in support of a particular candidate,

or a particular platform. But there was enough common purpose to

insure cooperation and persistence and effort from every single

child in proportion to his ability. The learning of stupid sums and

the practice in penmanship are no more attractive to these children

than they are to ordinary children in ordinary schools in all parts

of the country. But they overcame all internal obstacles, went

through with all of the monotony and drudgery, and to that extent

triumphed over any disposition to shirk or to loaf or to dawdle or

to flit from work to sensation.

And how is it with the learning of responsibility, with acquiring a

sense of duty? Many of us have no doubt learned what we have learned

of duty and responsibility, through the constant repetition of "Thou

shalt" and "Thou shalt not" by our elders during our own growing

years. But results at least as valuable have been obtained in the

cases of others through the constant rubbing up against their equals

in a free give-and-take atmosphere. Children learn to live with

others by living with others. They learn to work with others--to

"cooperate"--by working with others. They learn to play the game, to

do teamwork, to play fair, to play in good form, to hit hard only by

playing according to rule, with others, with worthy opponents, under

good supervision. In short, the "discipline" that makes for power

and freedom may be quite as easily obtained through the exercise of

freedom as through external coercion--nay, more easily, and more

effectively.

It is fair to ask whether training for a game is not quite analogous

to our idea of training for life; and whether the methods which are

found to be effective in the former kind of training are not equally

valuable for the latter. Assuming the analogy, would you have a child

learn the rules of such games as baseball or tennis from a book before

allowing him to handle a ball, or before letting him see a game? Would

you expect him to cooperate in teamwork after a long period of

drill upon the _rules_ governing team cooperation? Would you expect

him to hit hard because he has learned the correct answer to the

question, How should a player hit?

This may not seem a fair comparison to some of the "training" that

has actually been tried. Perhaps a more familiar analogy would be in

teaching a child correct movements for the game to be mastered,

separated from any experience with real games. Boys are "practicing"

for a game, and each one is drilling on some special detail,

hitting, catching, running bases, long throws, or what not; each one

of them has in mind as part of his moving purpose not only his

team's success and glory, but his own individual responsibility.

Contrast this with the same boys required to drill at precisely the

same movements on the theory that the "exercise" will do them good,

or that some time in the future they might have to meet a situation

in which a long throw or a swift run would be significant. Do you

expect the same enthusiasm and energy to be developed in both cases?

And if not the same enthusiasm and energy, can we expect the same

results--whether we view the results as so much skill or technic,

whether we view the results as so much "training in drudgery," or

whether we consider the results from the viewpoint of moral values

as so much devotion, self-sacrifice, restraint? The "moral" values

that have been for years attributed to athletics appear after all to

be the effects of intense, enthusiastic, and interested

participation in teamwork--that is, in purposeful and energetic

concern with joint undertakings.

The responsibilities we wish to develop, the sense of duty, no less

than the application and persistence, no less than knowledge and

skill, are types of habits which are best formed under the glow of

satisfying experience. Far from assuming a soft life for the child,

the idea of interest assumes the most strenuous kind of life. And

the experiences of all who have tried it justifies the assumption.

The experimental class already mentioned, similar experiments by

Mrs. Marietta Johnson at Fairhope, Alabama and elsewhere,

experimental classes at the Lincoln School and at the Horace Mann

School, at various "play" schools in this country and in England,

all show more continuous application of the children to whatever

they happen to have in hand, longer periods of intense activity, and

no sign whatever of loafing or shirking. The activities selected by

the children themselves involve just as much "discipline" as

anything that can be selected for them.

In these schools the children never hear the teacher call for

"attention," for although everybody knows that attention is an

essential of effective work, the attention takes care of itself

where the children already feel a genuine concern in the outcome.

And this concern insures satisfactory application, since the

children look forward to satisfying results. This does not mean, of

course, that either the work itself or the result is necessarily

"pleasant," in the ordinary sense. Often, indeed, it is quite the

reverse, as when the racer is exerting every last reserve of his

energy in the final spurt, or when the contestants are in suspense

awaiting the decision of the judges as to which is the best cake.

And the endless grind of practice and preparation is no more

"pleasant" to the child who knows the purpose and approves the

purpose of his efforts (having taken part in selecting the

undertaking) than similar exertion is to the child whose work is all

planned and directed by outsiders; but the satisfactions connected

with the exertions are different in the two cases, and the

corresponding results are correspondingly different.

The principle of interest as a guide to the training of children can

be applied in the home as well as in the school. It means, first of

all, taking into account the interests, tastes, preferences of the

children. As has already been suggested in earlier chapters, there

are many occasions when the child may be consulted or given a choice

of action, of amusements, of purchases, and so on--situations in

which it is a matter of indifference to older people, but in which

the making of a decision or a choice is both satisfying and valuable

to the child. Even where the decision is not an indifferent one, our

own should not be imposed in an arbitrary manner; when it differs

from that of the child, we can get his assent and cooperation, where

an arbitrary choice leaves him cold or even resentful.

The games children play, whether by themselves or with other

children, are only in part manifestations of tastes: they represent

to a degree stages of development. For the reason, therefore, that

interests develop, we shall find that what is a favorable time for

one child is not necessarily a favorable time for another child to

learn a particular thing. This is very well shown by the great

differences found among children, as to learning school subjects

like reading or writing. In some the interest is aroused very early,

and for them this is the best time; with others the interest does

not appear until the third or fourth grade, or even later, and for

such children this is the best time. There is no one period that is

best for all children; by attempting to treat all alike, therefore,

we not only waste a great deal of energy and good feeling, but we

often defeat our purpose by antagonizing the children and thus

making them resist the very things we want them to hug to

themselves. And this is just as true of what we try to do in the

home as it is of school teaching.

To discover the interests of the children requires that they be

given an opportunity to express themselves. This means in most cases

much more freedom than children have heretofore enjoyed. But it

means also constant vigilance on the part of the elders, not so much

to guard against the freedom being abused, as to guard against the

opportunity being wasted. The taste in games or in reading, the

choice of companions or of leisure time occupations must not only

show themselves to be indulged; they must be seized upon by those

who guide the children, as means for giving drive and direction to

further development. A child who devotes too much time to athletics

and too little to literature, may be drawn to reading through books

about athletic contests of the classics, or through modern stories

of college life. On the other hand, the boy who is prone to get his

satisfactions vicariously and to neglect active participation in

games and other activities, must be led through his reading,

properly selected and unostentatiously placed under his nose, to

more direct concern with producing practical effects in his

environment. The interest, once discovered, must be the means for

stimulating to greater exertion and to closer unification of the

child's activities.

One of the things that presents a difficulty in every generation is

the fact that the social and moral ideals change from age to age. We

are thus constantly tempted to put into the characters of our

children those traits that were valued highly by our parents,

without always considering the importance of each item for the days

in which our children will play their parts. Thus it comes about

that many of the virtues that have a traditional value may be

questioned when offered as staples for citizens of to-morrow.

Obedience, for example, is a permanent necessity in a society that

rests upon the assumption that one or a few chosen men represent the

will of the gods on earth, but has only a transitory value in a

democracy. As someone has said, obedience in childhood must be

considered as a scaffold that is useful while the lasting parts of

the structure are being put in place; when the desired structure is

completed, obedience is naturally removed as of no further service.

Now the kind of discipline required in a democracy calls for an

attitude or disposition that makes cooperation with others come as a

matter of course; it calls for the making of decisions, or the

forming of opinions, on the basis of facts; and it calls for the

habit of taking due account of the rights of others. The training

for this class of habits is best obtained through methods that take

full account of children's interests.

Just as the older outlook turned to "discipline" as a means for

obtaining freedom, the new psychology utilizes freedom as a means

for obtaining discipline. In both cases the end is of course the

same--that is, the liberation of the human spirit and the organizing

of the individual's powers to the greatest good. But as our ideas of

human relations and of values have changed, science has given us new

methods for attaining the final goals that we set ourselves.

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