CUSTOM

"Whatever is off the hinges of custom is believed to be also off the

hinges of reason; though how unreasonably, for the most part, God

knows."--MONTAIGNE.

Every human being grows up inside a sheath of custom, which enfolds it

as the swathing clothes enfold the infant. The sacred customs of its

early home, how fixed and immutable they appear to the child! It surely

thinks that all the world in all times has proceeded on the same lines

which bound its tiny life. It regards a breach of these rules (some of

them at least) as a wild step in the dark, leading to unknown dangers.

Nevertheless its mental eyes have hardly opened ere it perceives, not

without a shock, that whereas in the family dining-room the meat always

precedes the pudding, below-stairs and in the cottage the pudding has a

way of coming before the meat; that, whereas its father puts the manure

on the top of his seed-potatoes in spring, his neighbor invariably

places his potatoes on top of the manure. All its confidence in the

sanctity of its home life and the truth of things is upset. Surely

there must be a right and a wrong way of eating one's dinner or of

setting potatoes, and surely, if any one, "father" or "mother" must know

what is right. The elders have always said (and indeed it seems only

reasonable) that by this time of day everything has been so thoroughly

worked over that the best methods of ordering our life--food, dress,

domestic practices, social habits, etc., have long ago been determined.

If so, why these divergencies in the simplest and most obvious matters?

And then other things give way. The sacred seeming-universal customs in

which we were bred turn out to be only the practices of a small and

narrow class or caste; or they prove to be confined to a very limited

locality, and must be left behind when we set out on our travels; or

they belong to the tenets of a feeble religious sect; or they are just

the products of one age in history and no other. And the question forces

itself upon us, Are there really no natural boundaries? has not our life

anywhere been founded on reason and necessity, but only on arbitrary

habit? What is more important than food, yet in what human matter is

there more unaccountable divergence of practice? The Highlander

flourishes on oatmeal, which the Sheffield ironworker would rather

starve than eat; the fat snail which the Roman country gentleman once so

prized now crawls unmolested in the Gloucestershire peasant's garden;

rabbits are taboo in Germany; frogs are unspeakable in England;

sauer-kraut is detested in France; many races and gangs of people are

quite certain they would die if deprived of meat, others think spirits

of some kind a necessity, while to others again both these things are an

abomination. Every country district has its local practices in food, and

the peasants look with the greatest suspicion on any new dish, and can

rarely be induced to adopt it. Though it has been abundantly proved that

many of the British fungi are excellent eating, such is the force of

custom that the mushroom alone is ever publicly recognised, while

curiously enough it is said that in some other countries where the

claims of other agarics are allowed the mushroom itself is not used!

Finally, I feel myself (and the gentle reader probably feels the same)

that I would rather die than subsist on _insects_, such is the

deep-seated disgust we experience towards this class of food. Yet it is

notorious that many races of respectable people adopt a diet of this

sort, and only lately a book has been published giving details of the

excellent provender of the kind that we habitually overlook--tasty

morsels of caterpillars and beetles, and so forth! And indeed, when one

comes to think of it, what can it be but prejudice which causes one to

eat the periwinkle and reject the land-snail, or to prize the lively

prawn and proscribe the cheerful grasshopper?

It is useless to say that these local and other divergencies are rooted

in the necessities of the localities and times in which they occur.

They are nothing of the kind. For the most part they are mere customs,

perhaps grown originally out of some necessity, but now perpetuated from

simple habit and inherent human laziness. This can perhaps best be

illustrated by going below the human to the kingdom of the animals. If

customs are strong among men they are far stronger among animals. The

sheep lives on grass, the cat lives on mice and other animal food. And

it is generally assumed that the respective diets are the most "natural"

in each case, and those on which the animals in question will readiest

thrive, and indeed that they could not well live on any other. But

nothing of the kind. For cats can be bred up to live on oatmeal and milk

with next to no meat; and a sheep has been known to get on very

comfortably on a diet of port wine and mutton chops! Dogs, whose

"natural" food in the wild state is of the animal kind, are undoubtedly

much healthier (at any rate in the domestic state) when kept on

farinaceous substances with little or no meat, and indeed they take so

kindly to a vegetable diet that they sometimes become perfect nuisances

in a garden--eating strawberries, gooseberries, peas, etc., freely off

the beds when they have once learned the habit. Any one, in fact, who

has kept many pets knows what an astonishing variety of food they may be

made to adopt, though each animal in the wild state has the most

intensely narrow prejudices on the subject, and will perish rather than

overstep the customs of its tribe. Thus pheasants will eat fern-roots

in winter when snow covers the ground, but the grouse "don't eat

fern-roots," and die in consequence. A wolf of an inquiring turn of mind

would probably find strawberries and peas as good food as a dog does,

but it is practically certain that any ordinary member of the genus

would perish in a garden full of the same if deprived of his customary

bones.

All this seems to indicate what an immensely important part mere custom

plays in the life of men and animals. The main part of the power which

man acquires over the animals depends upon his establishing habits in

them which, once established, they never think of violating: and the

almost insuperable nature of this force in animals throws back light on

the part it plays in human life.

Of course, I am not contending in the above remarks upon food that there

is no physiological difference between a dog and a sheep in the matter

of their digestive organs, and that the one is not by the nature of its

body more fitted for one kind of food than the other; but rather that we

should not neglect the importance of mere habit in such matters. Custom

changed first; the change of physiological structure followed slowly

after. What happened was probably something like this. Some time in the

far back past a group of animals, driven perhaps by necessity, took to

hunting in packs in the woods; it developed a modified physical

structure in consequence, and special habits which in the course of time

became deeply fixed in the race. Another group saved its life by taking

to grazing. Grass is poor food; but it was the only chance this group

had, and in time it got so accustomed to eating grass that it could not

imagine any other form of diet, and at first would refuse even oysters

when placed in its way! Another group saw an opening in trees; it

developed a long neck and became the giraffe. But the fact that the

giraffe lives on leaves, and the sheep on grass, and the wolf on animal

matter, and that custom is in each so strong that at first the creature

will refuse any other kind of diet, does not of itself prove that that

diet is the best or most physiologically suitable for it. In other

words, it is an assumption to suppose that "adaptation to environment"

is the sole or even the main factor in the constitution of well-marked

varieties or genera; for this is to neglect (among other things) the

force of mere use or wont, which has about the same import in

race-growth that momentum has in dynamics; and causes the race, once

started in any direction, to maintain its line of movement--and often in

despite of its environment--even for thousands of years.

Returning to man we see him enveloped in a myriad customs--local

customs, class customs, race customs, family customs, religious customs;

customs in food, customs in clothing, customs in furniture, form of

habitation, industrial production, art, social and municipal and

national life, etc.; and the question arises, Where is the grain of

necessity which underlies it all? How much in each case is due to a

real fitness in nature, and how much to mere otiose habit! The first

thing that meets my eye in glancing out of the window is a tile on a

neighboring roof. Why are tiles made S-shaped in some localities and

flat in others? Surely the conditions of wind and rain are much the same

in all places. Perhaps far back there was a reason, but now nothing

remains but--custom. Why do we sit on chairs instead of on the floor, as

the Japanese do, or on cushions like the Turk? It is a custom, and

perhaps it suits with our other customs. The more we look into our life

and consider the immense variety of habit in every department of

it--even under conditions to all appearances exactly similar--the more

are we impressed by the absence of any very serious necessity in the

forms we ourselves are accustomed to. Each race, each class, each

section of the population, each unit even, vaunts its own habits of life

as superior to the rest, as the only true and legitimate forms; and

peoples and classes will go to war with each other in assertion of their

own special beliefs and practices; but the question that rather presses

upon the ingenuous and inquiring mind is, whether any of us have got

hold of much true life at all?--whether we are not rather mere

multitudinous varieties of caddis-worms shuffled up in the cast-off

skins and clothes and débris of those who have gone before us, and with

very little vitality of our own perceptible within? How many times a day

do we perform an action that is authentic and not a mere mechanical

piece of repetition? Indeed, if our various actions and practices were

authentic and flowing from the true necessity, perhaps we shouldn't

quarrel with each other over them so often as we do.

And then to come to the subject of morals. These also are

customs--divergent to the last degree among different races, at

different times, or in different localities; customs for which it is

often difficult to find any ground in reason or the "fitness of things."

Thieving is supposed to be discountenanced among us, yet our present-day

trade-morality sanctions it in a thousand different forms; and the

respectable usurer (who can hardly be said to be other than a thief)

takes a high place at the table of life. To hunt the earth for game has

from time immemorial been considered the natural birthright and

privilege of man, until the landlord class (whom wicked Socialists now

denounce!) invented the crime of poaching and hanged men for it. As to

marriage customs, in different times and among different peoples, they

have been simply innumerable. And here the sense of inviolability in

each case is most powerful. The severest penalties, the most stringent

public opinion, biting deep down into the individual conscience, enforce

the various codes of various times and places; yet they all contradict

each other. Polygamy in one country, polyandry in the next; brother and

sister marriage allowed at one time, marriage with your mother's cousin

forbidden at another; prostitution sacred in the temples of antiquity,

trampled under foot in the gutters of our great cities of to-day;

monogamy respectable in one land, a mark of class-inferiority in

another; celibacy scorned by some sections of people, accepted as the

highest state by others; and so on.

What are we to conclude from all this? Is it possible, once we have

fairly faced the immense variety of human life in _every_ department of

arts, manners, and morals--a variety, too, existing in a vast number of

cases under conditions to all intents and purposes quite similar--is it

possible ever again to suppose that the particular practices which _we_

are accustomed to are very much better (or, indeed, very much worse)

than the particular practices which others are accustomed to? We have

been born, as I said at first, into a sheath of custom which enfolds us

with our swaddling-clothes. When we begin to grow to manhood we see what

sort of a thing it is which surrounds us. It is an old husk now. It does

not bear looking into; it is rotten, it is inconsistent, it is

thoroughly indefensible; yet very likely we have to accept it. The

caddis-worm has grown to its tube and cannot leave it. A little spark of

vitality amid a heap of dead matter, all it can do is to make its

dwelling a little more convenient in shape for itself, or (like the

coral insect) to prolong its growth in the most favourable direction for

those that come after. The class, the caste, the locality, the age in

which we were born has determined our form of life, and in that form

very likely we must remain. But a change has come over our minds. The

vauntings of earlier days we abandon. _We_, at any rate, are no better

than anybody else, and at best, alas! are only half alive.

If these, then, are our conclusions, is it not with justice that

children and early races keep so rigidly to the narrow path that custom

has made for them? Have they not an instinctive feeling that to forsake

custom would be to launch out on a trackless sea where life would cease

to have any special purpose or direction, and morality would be utterly

gulfed? Custom for them is the line of their growth; it is the

coral-branch from the end of which the next insect builds; it is the

hardening bark of the tree-twig which determines the direction of the

growing shoot. It may be merely arbitrary, this custom, but that they do

not know; its appearance of finality and necessity may be quite

illusive; but the illusion is necessary for life, and the arbitrariness

is just what makes one life different from another. _Till he grows to

manhood_, the human being, _he cannot do without it_.

And when he grows to manhood, what then? Why he dies, and so becomes

alive. The caddis-fly leaves his tube behind and soars into the upper

air; the creature abandons its barnacle existence on the rock and swims

at large in the sea. For it is just when we die to custom that, for the

first time, we rise into the true life of humanity; it is just when we

abandon all prejudice of our own superiority over others, and become

convinced of our entire indefensibleness, that the world opens out with

comrade faces in all directions; and when we perceive how entirely

arbitrary is the setting of our own life, that the whole structure

collapses on which our apartness from others rests, and we pass easily

and at once into the great ocean of freedom and equality.

This is, as it were, a new departure for man, for which even to-day the

old world, overlaid with myriad customs now brought into obvious and

open conflict with each other, is evidently preparing. The period of

human infancy is coming to an end. Now comes the time of manhood and

true vitality.

Possibly this is a law of history, that when man has run through every

variety of custom a time comes for him to be freed from it--that is, he

uses it indifferently according to his requirements, and is no longer a

slave to it; all human practices find their use, and none are forbidden.

At this point, whenever reached, "morals" come to an end and humanity

takes its place--that is to say, there is no longer any code of action,

but the one object of all action is the deliverance of the human being

and the establishment of equality between oneself and another, the entry

into a new life, which new life when entered into is glad and perfect,

because there is no more any effort or strain in it; but it is the

recognition of oneself in others, eternally.

Far as custom has carried man from man, yet when at last in the

ever-branching series the complete human being is produced, it knows at

once its kinship with all the other forms. "I have passed my spirit in

determination and compassion round the whole earth, and found only

equals and lovers." More, it knows its kinship with the animals. It sees

that it is only habit, an illusion of difference, that divides; and it

perceives after all that it is the same human creature that flies in the

air, and swims in the sea, or walks biped upon the land.

_The two following chapters--though not part of the original work--are

included in the present edition because they form continuations or

expansions of the chapters which criticise modern Science and modern

Morality respectively. The chapter entitled "A Rational and Humane

Science" is in fact a reprint of an address given before the

Humanitarian League in London in 1896. It was first included in the

present volume in 1906. The chapter entitled "The New Morality" is, with

slight alterations, a reprint of an article which appeared in the_

Albany Review _in September, 1907, under the title "Morality under

Socialism"; and it now appears in the present book for the first time_.

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