23. Serving for a wife.

The practice of Lamsena, or serving for a wife, is commonly adopted

by boys who cannot afford to buy one. The bridegroom serves his

prospective father-in-law for an agreed period, usually three to

five or even six years, and at its expiry he should be married

to the girl without expense. During this time he is not supposed

to have access to the girl, but frequently they become intimate,

and if this happens the boy may either stay and serve his unexpired

term or take his wife away at once; in the latter case his parents

should pay the girl's father Rs. 5 for each year of the bridegroom's

unexpired service. The Lamsena custom does not work well as a rule,

since the girl's parents can break their contract, and the Lamsena has

no means of redress. Sometimes if they are offered a good bride-price

they will marry the girl to another suitor when he has served the

greater part of his term, and all his work goes for nothing.

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