Under this head of hospitality, let us suppose a case. A traveller comes

from England; he comes in good faith and good feeling to see how

Americans live. He merely wants to penetrate into the interior of

domestic life, to see what there is genuinely and peculiarly American

about it. Now here is Smilax, who is living, in a small, neat way, on

his salary from the daily press. He remembers hospitalities received

from our traveller in England, and wants to return them. He remembers,

too, with dismay, a well-kept establishment, the well-served table, the

punctilious, orderly servants. Smilax keeps two, a cook and chambermaid,

who divide the functions of his establishment between them. What shall

he do? Let him say, in a fair, manly way, “My dear fellow, I’m delighted

to see you. I live in a small way, but I’ll do my best for you, and Mrs.

Smilax will be delighted. Come and dine with us, so and so, and we’ll

bring in one or two friends.” So the man comes, and Mrs. Smilax serves

up such a dinner as lies within the limits of her knowledge and the

capacities of her servants. All plain, good of its kind, unpretending,

without an attempt to do anything English or French,—to do anything more

than if she were furnishing a gala-dinner for her father or returned

brother. Show him your house freely, just as it is, talk to him freely

of it, just as he in England showed you his larger house and talked to

you of his finer things. If the man is a true man, he will thank you for

such unpretending, sincere welcome; if he is a man of straw, then he is

not worth wasting Mrs. Smilax’s health and spirits for, in unavailing

efforts to get up a foreign dinner-party.

A man who has any heart in him values a genuine, little bit of home more

than anything else you can give him. He can get French cooking at a

restaurant; he can buy expensive wines at first-class hotels, if he

wants them; but the traveller, though ever so rich and ever so

well-served at home, is, after all, nothing but a man as you are, and he

is craving something that doesn’t seem like an hotel,—some bit of real,

genuine heart-life. Perhaps he would like better than anything to show

you the last photograph of his wife, or to read to you the great,

round-hand letter of his ten-year-old which he has got to-day. He is

ready to cry when he thinks of it. In this mood he goes to see you,

hoping for something like home, and you first receive him in a parlor

opened only on state-occasions, and that has been circumstantially and

exactly furnished, as the upholsterer assures you, as every other parlor

of the kind in the city is furnished. You treat him to a dinner got up

for the occasion, with hired waiters,—a dinner which it has taken Mrs.

Smilax a week to prepare for, and will take her a week to recover

from,—for which the baby has been snubbed and turned off, to his loud

indignation, and your young four-year-old sent to his aunts. Your

traveller eats your dinner, and finds it inferior, as a work of art, to

other dinners,—a poor imitation. He goes away and criticises; you hear

of it, and resolve never to invite a foreigner again. But if you had

given him a little of your heart, a little home-warmth and feeling,—if

you had shown him your baby, and let him romp with your four-year-old,

and eat a genuine dinner with you,—would he have been false to that? Not

so likely. He wanted something real and human,—you gave him a bad

dress-rehearsal, and dress-rehearsals always provoke criticism.

Besides hospitality, there is, in a true home, a mission of charity. It

is a just law which regulates the possession of great or beautiful works

of art in the Old World, that they shall in some sense be considered the

property of all who can appreciate. Fine grounds have hours when the

public may be admitted,—pictures and statues may be shown to visitors;

and this is a noble charity. In the same manner the fortunate

individuals who have achieved the greatest of all human works of art

should employ it as a sacred charity. How many, morally wearied,

wandering, disabled, are healed and comforted by the warmth of a true

home! When a mother has sent her son to the temptations of a distant

city, what news is so glad to her heart as that he has found some quiet

family where he visits often and is made to feel AT HOME? How many young

men have good women saved from temptation and shipwreck by drawing them

often to the sheltered corner by the fireside! The poor artist,—the

wandering genius who has lost his way in this world, and stumbles like a

child among hard realities,—the many men and women who, while they have

houses, have no homes,—see from afar, in their distant, bleak

life-journey, the light of a true home-fire, and, if made welcome there,

warm their stiffened limbs, and go forth stronger to their pilgrimage.

Let those who have accomplished this beautiful and perfect work of

divine art be liberal of its influence. Let them not seek to bolt the

doors and draw the curtains; for they know not, and will never know till

the future life, of the good they may do by the ministration of this

great charity of home.

We have heard much lately of the restricted sphere of woman. We have

been told how many spirits among women are of a wider, stronger, more

heroic mould than befits the mere routine of housekeeping. It may be

true that there are many women far too great, too wise, too high, for

mere housekeeping. But where is the woman in any way too great or too

high, or too wise, to spend herself in creating a home? What can any

woman make diviner, higher, better? From such homes go forth all

heroisms, all inspirations, all great deeds. Such mothers and such homes

have made the heroes and martyrs, faithful unto death, who have given

their precious lives to us during these three years of our agony!

Homes are the work of art peculiar to the genius of woman. Man _helps_

in this work, but woman leads; the hive is always in confusion without

the _queen_-bee. But what a woman must she be who does this work

perfectly! She comprehends all, she balances and arranges all; all

different tastes and temperaments find in her their rest, and she can

unite at one hearthstone the most discordant elements. In her is order,

yet an order ever veiled and concealed by indulgence. None are checked,

reproved, abridged of privileges by her love of system; for she knows

that order was made for the family, and not the family for order.

Quietly she takes on herself what all others refuse or overlook. What

the unwary disarrange she silently rectifies. Everybody in her sphere

breathes easy, feels free; and the driest twig begins in her sunshine to

put out buds and blossoms. So quiet are her operations and movements,

that none sees that it is she who holds all things in harmony; only,

alas, when she is gone, how many things suddenly appear disordered,

inharmonious, neglected! All these threads have been smilingly held in

her weak hand. Alas, if that is no longer there!

Can any woman be such a housekeeper without inspiration? No. In the

words of the old church-service, “Her soul must ever have affiance in

God.” The New Jerusalem of a perfect home cometh down from God out of

heaven. But to make such a home is ambition high and worthy enough for

_any_ woman, be she what she may.

One thing more. Right on the threshold of all perfection lies _the

cross_ to be taken up. No one can go over or around that cross in

science or in art. Without labor and self-denial neither Raphael nor

Michel Angelo nor Newton was made perfect. Nor can man or woman create a

true home who is not willing in the outset to embrace life heroically,

to encounter labor and sacrifice. Only to such shall this divinest power

be given to create on earth that which is the nearest image of heaven.

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IV.

THE ECONOMY OF THE BEAUTIFUL.

TALKING to you in this way once a month, O my confidential reader, there

seems to be danger, as in all intervals of friendship, that we shall not

readily be able to take up our strain of conversation just where we left

off. Suffer me, therefore, to remind you that the month past left us

seated at the fireside, just as we had finished reading of what a home

was, and how to make one.

The fire had burned low, and great, solid hickory coals were winking

dreamily at us from out their fluffy coats of white ashes,—just as if

some household sprite there were opening now one eye and then the other,

and looking in a sleepy, comfortable way at us.

The close of my piece, about the good house mother, had seemed to tell

on my little audience. Marianne had nestled close to her mother, and

laid her head on her knee; and though Jenny sat up straight as a pin,

yet her ever-busy knitting was dropped in her lap, and I saw the glint

of a tear in her quick, sparkling eye,—yes, actually a little bright

bead fell upon her work; whereupon she started up actively, and declared

that the fire wanted just one more stick to make a blaze before bedtime;

and then there was such a raking among the coals, such an adjusting of

the andirons, such vigorous arrangement of the wood, and such a brisk

whisking of the hearth-brush, that it was evident Jenny had something on

her mind.

When all was done, she sat down again and looked straight into the

blaze, which went dancing and crackling up, casting glances and flecks

of light on our pictures and books, and making all the old, familiar

furniture seem full of life and motion.

“I think that’s a good piece,” she said, decisively. “I think those are

things that should be thought about.”

Now Jenny was the youngest of our flock, and therefore, in a certain

way, regarded by my wife and me as perennially “the baby”; and these

little, old-fashioned, decisive ways of announcing her opinions seemed

so much a part of her nature, so peculiarly “Jennyish,” as I used to

say, that my wife and I only exchanged amused glances over her head,

when they occurred.

In a general way, Jenny, standing in the full orb of her feminine

instincts like Diana in the moon, rather looked down on all masculine

views of women’s matters as “_tolerabiles ineptiæ_”; but towards her

papa she had gracious turns of being patronizing to the last degree; and

one of these turns was evidently at its flood-tide, as she proceeded to

say,—

“_I_ think papa is right,—that keeping house and having a home, and all

that, is a very serious thing, and that people go into it with very

little thought about it. I really think those things papa has been

saying there ought to be thought about.”

“Papa,” said Marianne, “I wish you would tell me exactly how _you_ would

spend that money you gave me for house-furnishing. I should like just

your views.”

“Precisely,” said Jenny, with eagerness; “because it is just as papa

says,—a sensible man, who has thought, and had experience, can’t help

having some ideas, even about women’s affairs, that are worth attending

to. I think so, decidedly.”

I acknowledged the compliment for my sex and myself with my best bow.

“But then, papa,” said Marianne, “I can’t help feeling sorry that one

can’t live in such a way as to have beautiful things around one. I’m

sorry they must cost so much, and take so much care, for I am made so

that I really want them. I do so like to see pretty things! I do like

rich carpets and elegant carved furniture, and fine china and cut-glass

and silver. I can’t bear mean, common-looking rooms. I should so like to

have my house look beautiful!”

“Your house ought not to look mean and common,—your house ought to look

beautiful,” I replied. “It would be a sin and a shame to have it

otherwise. No house ought to be fitted up for a future home without a

strong and a leading reference to beauty in all its arrangements. If I

were a Greek, I should say that the first household libation should be

made to beauty; but, being an old-fashioned Christian, I would say that

he who prepares a home with no eye to beauty neglects the example of the

great Father who has filled our earth-home with such elaborate

ornament.”

“But then, papa, there’s the money!” said Jenny, shaking her little head

wisely. “You men don’t think of that. You want us girls, for instance,

to be patterns of economy, but we must always be wearing fresh, nice

things; you abhor soiled gloves and worn shoes: and yet how is all this

to be done without money? And it’s just so in housekeeping. You sit in

your arm-chairs and conjure up visions of all sorts of impossible things

to be done; but when mamma there takes out that little account-book, and

figures away on the cost of things, where do the visions go?”

“You are mistaken, my little dear, and you talk just like a

woman,”—(this was _my_ only way of revenging myself,)—“that is to say,

you jump to conclusions, without sufficient knowledge. I maintain that

in house-furnishing, as well as woman-furnishing, there’s nothing so

economical as beauty.”

“There’s one of papa’s paradoxes!” said Jenny.

“Yes,” said I, “that is my thesis, which I shall nail up over the

mantel-piece there, as Luther nailed his to the church-door. It is time

to rake up the fire now; but to-morrow night I will give you a paper on

the Economy of the Beautiful.”

* * * * *

“Come, now we are to have papa’s paradox,” said Jenny, as soon as the

tea-things had been carried out.

_Entre nous_, I must tell you that insensibly we had fallen into the

habit of taking our tea by my study-fire. Tea, you know, is a mere

nothing in itself, its only merit being its social and poetic

associations, its warmth and fragrance,—and the more socially and

informally it can be dispensed, the more in keeping with its airy and

cheerful nature.

Our circle was enlightened this evening by the cheery visage of Bob

Stephens, seated, as of right, close to Marianne’s work-basket.

“You see, Bob,” said Jenny, “papa has undertaken to prove that the most

beautiful things are always the cheapest.”

“I’m glad to hear that,” said Bob,—“for there’s a carved antique

bookcase and study-table that I have my eye on, and if this can in any

way be made to appear—”

“O, it won’t be made to appear,” said Jenny, settling herself at her

knitting, “only in some transcendental, poetic sense, such as papa can

always make out. Papa is more than half a poet, and his truths turn out

to be figures of rhetoric, when one comes to apply them to matters of

fact.”

“Now, Miss Jenny, please remember my subject and thesis,” I

replied,—“that in house-furnishing there is nothing so economical as

beauty; and I will make it good against all comers, not by figures of

rhetoric, but by figures of arithmetic. I am going to be very

matter-of-fact and commonplace in my details, and keep ever in view the

addition-table. I will instance a case which has occurred under my own

observation.”

THE ECONOMY OF THE BEAUTIFUL.

Two of the houses lately built on the new land in Boston were bought by

two friends, Philip and John. Philip had plenty of money, and paid the

cash down for his house, without feeling the slightest vacancy in his

pocket. John, who was an active, rising young man, just entering on a

flourishing business, had expended all his moderate savings for years in

the purchase of his dwelling, and still had a mortgage remaining, which

he hoped to clear off by his future successes. Philip begins the work of

furnishing as people do with whom money is abundant, and who have simply

to go from shop to shop and order all that suits their fancy and is

considered ‘the thing’ in good society. John begins to furnish with very

little money. He has a wife and two little ones, and he wisely deems

that to insure to them a well-built house, in an open, airy situation,

with conveniences for warming, bathing, and healthy living, is a wise

beginning in life; but it leaves him little or nothing beyond.

Behold, then, Philip and his wife, well pleased, going the rounds of

shops and stores in fitting up their new dwelling, and let us follow

step by step. To begin with the wall-paper. Imagine a front and back

parlor, with folding-doors, with two south windows on the front, and two

looking on a back court, after the general manner of city houses. We

will suppose they require about thirty rolls of wall-paper. Philip buys

the heaviest French velvet, with gildings and traceries, at four dollars

a roll. This, by the time it has been put on, with gold mouldings,

according to the most established taste of the best paper-hangers, will

bring the wall-paper of the two rooms to a figure something like two

hundred dollars. Now they proceed to the carpet-stores, and there are

thrown at their feet by obsequious clerks velvets and Axminsters, with

flowery convolutions and medallion-centres, as if the flower-gardens of

the tropics were whirling in waltzes, with graceful lines of

arabesque,—roses, callas, lilies, knotted, wreathed, twined, with blue

and crimson and golden ribbons, dazzling marvels of color and tracery.

There is no restraint in price,—four or six dollars a yard, it is all

the same to them,—and soon a magic flower-garden blooms on the floors,

at a cost of five hundred dollars. A pair of elegant rugs, at fifty

dollars apiece, complete the inventory, and bring our rooms to the mark

of eight hundred dollars for papering and carpeting alone. Now come the

great mantel-mirrors for four hundred more, and our rooms progress. Then

comes the upholsterer, and measures our four windows, that he may

skilfully barricade them from air and sunshine. The fortifications

against heaven, thus prepared, cost, in the shape of damask, cord,

tassels, shades, laces, and cornices, about two hundred dollars per

window. To be sure, they make the rooms close and sombre as the grave;

but they are of the most splendid stuffs; and if the sun would only

reflect, he would see, himself, how foolish it was for him to try to

force himself into a window guarded by his betters. If there is anything

cheap and plebeian, it is sunshine and fresh air! Behold us, then, with

our two rooms papered, carpeted, and curtained for two thousand dollars;

and now are to be put in them sofas, lounges, étagères, centre-tables,

screens, chairs of every pattern and device, for which it is but

moderate to allow a thousand more. We have now two parlors furnished at

an outlay of three thousand dollars, without a single picture, a single

article of statuary, a single object of Art of any kind, and without any

light to see them by, if they were there. We must say for our Boston

upholsterers and furniture-makers that such good taste generally reigns

in their establishments that rooms furnished at hap-hazard from them

cannot fail of a certain air of good taste, so far as the individual

things are concerned. But the different articles we have supposed,

having been ordered without reference to one another or the rooms, have,

when brought together, no unity of effect, and the general result is

scattering and confused. If asked how Philip’s parlors look, your reply

is, “O, the usual way of such parlors,—everything that such people

usually get,—medallion-carpets, carved furniture, great mirrors, bronze

mantel-ornaments, and so on.” The only impression a stranger receives,

while waiting in the dim twilight of these rooms, is that their owner is

rich, and able to get good, handsome things, such as all other rich

people get.

Now our friend John, as often happens in America, is moving in the same

social circle with Philip, visiting the same people,—his house is the

twin of the one Philip has been furnishing, and how shall he, with a few

hundred dollars, make his rooms even presentable beside those which

Philip has fitted up elegantly at three thousand?

Now for the economy of beauty. Our friend must make his prayer to the

Graces,—for, if they cannot save him, nobody can. One thing John has to

begin with, that rare gift to man, a wife with the magic cestus of

Venus,—not around her waist, but, if such a thing could be, in her

finger-ends. All that she touches falls at once into harmony and

proportion. Her eye for color and form is intuitive: let her arrange a

garret, with nothing but boxes, barrels, and cast-off furniture in it,

and ten to one she makes it seem the most attractive place in the house.

It is a veritable “gift of good faërie,” this tact of beautifying and

arranging, that some women have,—and, on the present occasion, it has a

real, material value, that can be estimated in dollars and cents. Come

with us and you can see the pair taking their survey of the yet

unfurnished parlors, as busy and happy as a couple of bluebirds picking

up the first sticks and straws for their nest.

“There are two sunny windows to begin with,” says the good fairy, with

an appreciative glance. “That insures flowers all winter.”

“Yes,” says John; “I never would look at a house without a good sunny

exposure. Sunshine is the best ornament of a house, and worth an extra

thousand a year.”

“Now for our wall-paper,” says she. “Have you looked at wall-papers,

John?”

“Yes; we shall get very pretty ones for thirty-seven cents a roll; all

you want of a paper, you know, is to make a ground-tint to throw out

your pictures and other matters, and to reflect a pleasant tone of

light.”

“Well, John, you know Uncle James says that a stone-color is the

best,—but I can’t bear those cold blue grays.”

“Nor I,” says John. “If we must have gray, let it at least be a gray

suffused with gold or rose-color, such as you see at evening in the

clouds.”

“So I think,” responds she; “but, better, I should like a paper with a

tone of buff,—something that produces warm yellowish reflections, and

will almost make you think the sun is shining in cold gray weather; and

then there is nothing that lights up so cheerfully in the evening. In

short, John, I think the color of a _zafferano_ rose will be just about

the shade we want.”

“Well, I can find that, in good American paper, as I said before, at

from thirty-seven to forty cents a roll. Then, our bordering: there’s an

important question, for that must determine the carpet, the chairs, and

everything else. Now what shall be the ground-tint of our rooms?”

“There are only two to choose between,” says the lady,—“green and

marroon: which is the best for the picture?”

“I think,” says John, looking above the mantel-piece, as if he saw a

picture there,—“I think a border of marroon velvet, with marroon

furniture, is the best for the picture.”

“I think so too,” said she; “and then we will have that lovely marroon

and crimson carpet that I saw at Lowe’s;—it is an ingrain, to be sure,

but has a Brussels pattern, a mossy, mixed figure, of different shades

of crimson; it has a good warm, strong color, and when I come to cover

the lounges and our two old arm-chairs with marroon _rep_, it will make

such a pretty effect.”

“Yes,” said John; “and then, you know, our picture is so bright, it will

light up the whole. Everything depends on the picture.”

Now as to “the picture,” it has a story must be told. John, having been

all his life a worshipper and adorer of beauty and beautiful things, had

never passed to or from his business without stopping at the print-shop

windows, and seeing a little of what was there.

On one of these occasions he was smitten to the heart with the beauty of

an autumn landscape, where the red maples and sumachs, the purple and

crimson oaks, all stood swathed and harmonized together in the hazy

Indian-summer atmosphere. There was a great yellow chestnut-tree, on a

distant hill, which stood out so naturally that John instinctively felt

his fingers tingling for a basket, and his heels alive with a desire to

bound over on to the rustling hillside and pick up the glossy brown

nuts. Everything was there of autumn, even to the golden-rod and purple

asters and scarlet creepers in the foreground.

John went in and inquired. It was by an unknown French artist, without

name or patrons, who had just come to our shores to study our scenery,

and this was the first picture he had exposed for sale. John had just

been paid a quarter’s salary; he bethought him of board-bill and

washerwoman, sighed, and faintly offered fifty dollars.

To his surprise he was taken up at once, and the picture became his.

John thought himself dreaming. He examined his treasure over and over,

and felt sure that it was the work of no amateur beginner, but of a

trained hand and a true artist-soul. So he found his way to the studio

of the stranger, and apologized for having got such a gem for so much

less than its worth. “It was all I _could_ give, though,” he said; “and

one who paid four times as much could not value it more.” And so John

took one and another of his friends, with longer purses than his own, to

the studio of the modest stranger; and now his pieces command their full

worth in the market, and he works with orders far ahead of his ability

to execute, giving to the canvas the traits of American scenery as

appreciated and felt by the subtile delicacy of the French mind,—our

rural summer views, our autumn glories, and the dreamy, misty delicacy

of our snowy winter landscapes. Whoso would know the truth of the same,

let him inquire for the modest studio of Morvillier, at Maiden, scarce a

bow-shot from our Boston.

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