Don't Just Ride Off into the Sunset

Recalling that far more assertive and influential time in their lives, the

elderly insist on their right to age gracefully, usefully, and so far as they

possibly can, their way. Rather than merely riding off into the sunset,

older adults choose to brighten the horizons of their minds and lives

through continued involvement in family, schools, work place, and

community. Most elderly reject the diminution of their abilities and

interests, although as they age into the seventh and eighth decades they

may be compelled to restrict their direct involvement somewhat. Their

capabilities, reduced by time and the tides, are nevertheless firmly based

on direct on-the-job experience in managing households, family affairs,

and professional and technical careers. With such knowledge and

experience the elderly will remain a vital resource.

(From Surviving The Future, by Arnold Toynbee, Oxford University

Press, 1971)

Man is a social being, and therefore, among all the objects for his love

that there are in the universe and beyond it, he ought, I suppose, love his

fellow human beings first and foremost. But he should also love all

non-human living creatures, animals, and plants as well because they are

all akin to man; they too are branches of the great tree of life. This tree

has a common root; we do not know where the root comes from, but we

do know that we all spring from it. Man should also love inanimate

nature, because this, too, is part of the universe which is man's habitat.

(Our grandchildren) are not responsible for the existing state of the

world. The reality is that the middle-aged generation (the parents of the

rising generation) brought them into the world and is educating or

miseducating them, or just ignoring their educational needs. If the

middle-years or older generations are indignant at the rising generation,

who is really at fault? Who shirked their responsibilities to their

children and grandchildren? And with whom lies the initiative to resolve

these inadequacies? In effect, it is up to the older generation to take the

initiative to bring about reconciliation between itself and the generations

that are to follow them.

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