THE TEACHER OUTSIDE THE SCHOOL-ROOM.
Teaching has two sides. There is the school-room side and the public
or community side. Each is important. You cannot be a successful
teacher without mastering the first. You can’t hold your job long
unless you have some skill in the second. Your success in a community
is often measured more by the second than the first. In fact, the good
you do, the influence you exert on the lives of the pupils, the net
results of your work, is often a reflex of your skill and ability to
get along with the people, to get their respect, good will and hearty
co-operation.
You must know how to meet and mingle with people. You must understand
your patrons and many of their peculiar neighborhood whims. You must
know enough of human nature to get along with people, to be diplomatic
without being weak, and to get your way without stirring up determined
opposition. Confidence in yourself, freedom from excessive or offensive
egotism, a knowledge of the home life and surroundings of your patrons,
and that rarest of accomplishments, the ability to listen and say
little, these will help you. It will often happen also that you must
teach your patrons, and this requires more skill than to teach pupils.
You must teach them as if you taught them not. You must use diplomacy
without deceit or sham or show of weakness.
There will be certain local standards that you should respect if
you can do so conscientiously. I have taught in neighborhoods where
dancing and card-playing were considered long steps toward everlasting
perdition. The teacher who had gone to a public ball or dared dance
at a private home in the community would have been met with a storm
of opposition. In fact, it would have been almost as bad as if she
had gotten drunk. In such communities a teacher would do well to
avoid such amusements, and if she is skillful she need not commit
herself upon the matter. Leave the people to guess her real sentiment
on these things. On the other hand, if the teacher has been taught
to regard dancing, card-playing and kindred amusements as wrong, and
then teaches in a community where such things are common she need not
indulge in them. With an ordinary share of discretion she need not
give offense in declining invitations to such amusements should they
come. She cannot as a stranger do much in one or two terms toward
changing the sentiment of the community either for or against such
things. After long acquaintance she can build up her circle of friends
where other amusements take the place of these that are under ban.
Even in time she might create a tolerance for such indulgences, but
it is likely to cost more than it will come to. More real good can be
done by looking pleasant, and taking no real active partisan part in
either way. For my own part I can see no sin in a quiet, civil game of
cards. But my mother’s puritanical views forbade such as if it were
satan’s certain snare. Out of respect to my mother’s memory I have
never learned the names of the different cards in a deck, and unless I
simply applied my own judgment of the meaning of words could not tell
one card from another. I lost pleasant evenings occasionally during
my university course because of this “narrowness” as many called it.
Occasionally now, I must decline an evening out or else be a drag to
the entertainment feature. I have never offended any one so far as I
know, nor lost their respect and good will by refusing to take part
in a game. The sacred memory of my angel mother who died when I was
a child has far more than compensated me for all the pleasure I have
lost. For the other person, I can see no harm in a quiet game of cards;
for me to break my boyhood promise and later resolution would not only
rob it of all pleasure but would be a positive personal loss.
There are other indulgences also that the teacher must forego for
the sake of public opinion. Many a young man has lost a splendid
opportunity to make a reputation of being a good teacher in a community
by being indiscreet in keeping company. However unobjectionable the
girl, and however much he may be interested, he must remember that much
of the world dislikes a lover if that lover be the school teacher of
the neighborhood. People that think or care very little what the young
man in the store or the postoffice do, will resent too much company
keeping for the teacher. The young woman teaching should be even more
careful about keeping company. It is not good policy to do it, and it
will be more pleasure in the long run to be with young people, but do
very little keeping of young men’s company.
With your patrons you may be more free. Strict etiquette might dictate
that you wait until they have called on you. If you wait you will
know few of them and meet these after trouble has come up and they
call on you to make complaint. The teacher, like the preacher, if
there is strong personality and good address, can ignore many little
formalities, and no one will question it. Make the acquaintance of
as many of your patrons early in the term as you can. Be cordial, be
pleasant, be brief. Do not fawn. Do not gush nor bubble over. Do not
find fault. Do not tell all your plans for the year or make glowing
promises. Be yourself, but be your best self. Do not talk shop all
the time. Do not talk Shakespeare, politics, religion or the higher
criticism. You might soon interest them in the second and third, but
a discussion would probably do you no good. The first and last they
probably know little about and care less. Your ability to make friends
and to mix with people is limited often by your ability to talk to the
other person about something in which he is interested. The hardest
clam will open if you know how and where to touch it.
Learn how to shake hands. You are often judged by the handshake. The
hand, the eye, the voice--these if used properly quickly overcome
prejudice and barriers of opposition and build up forces in your favor.
If you can shake hands with a firm, hearty grasp, meet the eye with
frankness and composure, and speak in a pleasing, even, well-modulated,
quieting voice, you have the strength of Gibraltar at your back. If
you have knowledge and skill and personality and character to back the
first impression made by such a combination, you should be invincible.
If your handshake, however, is loose and passive, Uriah Heep-like, if
your eyes wander, and your voice is screechy or faltering, you should
begin at once to overcome these obstacles. They lie in your road to
success as a teacher, and you should lose no time in trying to overcome
them.
Many teachers lack poise. If you prefer, you may think of it as
personality or force of character. Whatever term you may use to name
it, it remains true that many teachers lack the ability to command
attention and respect, and to mingle readily among the best business
and professional men of the community. It is sometimes want of
experience, it is sometimes want of knowledge, and breadth of vision.
Teachers are too often narrow. They do not have the world view of
things they should have. It is sometimes bookishness and lack of
contact with the practical business side of the world. I am sorry to
think that it is sometimes caused by the feeling that the fact you are
a teacher is something to be apologized for. Teachers are so often
inclined to whimper and whine, to seek to be pitied and petted. They
brood over their imaginary troubles. They conclude the world does
not properly appreciate their efforts. They want the public to grant
them special favors and attentions instead of commanding the respect
and attention of the community by weight of their own strength and
personality.
The teacher should strive first to be a man or a woman in the best
sense of the term, strong mentally, morally and physically, with
personality and independence, but without rudeness. He should command
respect as a thinking person, avoid eccentricities and partisan
measures, have opinions of his own, but without flaunting them in the
face of others to provoke combat or opposition. Then to the respect
due him as a man will come, if his teaching justifies, the additional
respect due him as a teacher.
The teacher should ever be the apostle of education and high thinking,
a living example of the best product of the school and its worth. To
be a consistent preacher of right living, high thinking, and the power
of education in the progress and development of the state, he himself
should be a worthy example. Of all persons the teacher should be the
champion and the defender of the school and the cause of education.
He should be a high example of the best product of the schools and
education. His power, his carriage, his character, his thrift, his
independence, his zeal in good works, should bear testimony and be
the strongest argument for the schools. A genuinely good teacher,
who has the intellectual and moral force to be a man among men, such
a teacher in a few years will create a public sentiment that will
demand good schools, buildings, equipment and teachers of the best, in
the community in which he teaches. His influence will bear fruit for
generations.
As long as the teacher is a weakling, a figure-head, a crank, an
upstart, a person whose opinion--if he has one--on business or on
the questions of the day would be hooted or laughed at by every
level-headed business man of the community, there is little sentiment
for schools or education developed. If the whole energy of the teacher
is exhausted in keeping the problems solved in advance of his class,
if his personal appearance, his carriage, his address, his thrift, and
his thoughts are below the average business man of the community, many
of whom have little or no education or school training, it places the
school on the defensive. The hard-headed, but sober-minded, man of
affairs will look upon the teacher as a fair sample and typical product
of the schools, and will not regret that he lost such opportunities
when he was young, or perhaps he will thank his stars that he did not
have such things forced upon him.
My contention is that the teacher should be a man or woman of strong
personality, a worthy product of the school, a person whose judgment
and opinion of schools, of business, of the questions and the issues of
the day would be such that it would be respected by the best people of
the community. His opinions should have weight. He should have all the
elements that go to make up a successful business career. He should be
a man of force and character, whose influence would be felt in any line
he should take up. With such teachers the schools will become what they
should be. Such teachers will get results--results of the teaching act
and results in the material equipment of the schools. Buildings will
improve, conditions will improve, furniture and proper apparatus will
be forthcoming. The community will soon begin to look upon the schools
as safe investments, every dollar of which yields golden dividends;
then the community will be generous.
When teachers possess the strength, the force, the poise, the diplomacy
they should, good things will follow. Some of the criticism and carping
about the schools will be changed. It makes my Scotch-Irish blood to
tingle when I hear a few of these questions discussed. If it is not the
teacher’s business to defend the school whose is it?
One of these things that should arouse a teacher is the insinuation
still met in a few localities and among a few people--the would-be
blue-bloods, with more inheritance of money than brains--that the
public schools are pauper schools; or at least schools for poor people
only. Such sentiment in free America seems to me born of ignorance or
treason. I first heard it advocated by a physician, a native of New
York, a graduate of a church endowed school and a product of it. His
alma mater was supported by the contribution box passed at regular
intervals in his church to which many a poor washerwoman contributed
a far greater percentage of her earnings each time than the same
physician did in a twelve months. Yet this good hypocritically pious,
but deluded man, ridiculed the thought of the state supporting a
university at public expense. He kept private tutors to teach his
children that they might not have to attend the public school to mix
with all “the rabble,” as he declared. There could not be a better
indictment of his own education. He had failed to grasp the spirit of
American liberty and American institutions. His ideas were those of
effete aristocracy and wealth. The best lesson his boy may ever learn
will be when some son of a washerwoman, or some poor paper boy or
news seller meets him in competition in after life, and he goes down
ignominiously in the contest. The chances are if the contest comes, and
it will come in the present generation or in a near generation, the
sturdy bootblack will win. This same physician did not think himself a
partaker of charity by getting his mail at a government postoffice, by
drinking from a public fountain or having his house and lot protected
from the lake by Uncle Sam’s break water.
It is the duty of the state to educate. This is not the rich nor
the poor, but all. The state’s schools are maintained as a public
necessity, and for the whole people. The patron whose child attends
the public school is no more an object of charity or a pauper for that
reason than he is for patronizing the postoffice, using the city paved
streets or using the street lamps at night. There are many things
the public can do and do much more efficiently than they can be done
otherwise. Education is one of these things. Every man, woman and child
is benefited by good public schools, the bachelor and the childless
family as well as the family of a dozen children.
Another fallacy often advocated is that the people are not able to
support good schools. Nothing can have a less foundation in fact. Let
us think about it. It is a principle that is almost axiomatic that no
people can be pauperized by local taxes applied to local purposes.
Now, very little of the school taxes ever leaves the immediate
community. The teacher is often one of the community, and many times
of the immediate neighborhood. If the teacher is from a distance he
usually boards in the neighborhood and spends much of his earnings
in the neighborhood. The percentage of his salary that leaves the
community is not large. The expense of wood, repairs, and supplies
are usually spent in the immediate community. The money that leaves
the community is, as a rule, not as much as the state pays toward the
maintenance of the school. No people can be pauperized by the money
properly spent on their schools. It is only a short time until the
increased earning capacity of the more intelligent citizenship soon
begins to pay good dividends on the investment, even though part of the
money should find its way out of the community.
When the cry came to us from Cuba in 1898, no one claimed that we
were too poor to help. When later disturbances occurred, we sent our
soldiers to maintain peace, and our secretary of war and assistant
secretary of state were sent to restore order. No one said it cost too
much. Count the cost of our war with Spain and place against it the
money spent in the same time for schools and in fighting ignorance and
then say if we are able to have good schools. Spend the money to train
our young people to future usefulness which is spent in defense against
imaginary foreign enemies and the _world_ could not stand against us in
a generation.
Few Americans but point with pride to our growing navy, now world
famous and we hope effective. The launching of each new war ship is a
thrilling event to the nation. The daily papers for weeks tell of its
progress and every trifling event is carefully chronicled. Count how
long the cost of one of these vessels would support one of our state
universities. The mission of the university is to build up, to increase
human intelligence and happiness. The mission of the war vessel is to
destroy life and property and to make desolate.
Figure on these things, and then say whether or not we are too poor to
have the best of schools.