RECEIVING AN INVITATION TO CALL

Let us suppose, however, that she accepts the geranium in such a

manner that you are encouraged to continue the acquaintance. Your

next move should be a request for an invitation to call upon her

at her home. This should, above all things, not be done crudely.

It is better merely to suggest your wish by some indirect method

such as, “Oh—so you live on William Street. Well, well! I often

walk on William Street in the evening, but I have never called on

any girl there—_yet_.” The “yet” may be accompanied by a slight

raising of your eyebrows, a wink, or a friendly nudge with your

elbow. Unless she is unusually “dense” she will probably “take

the hint” and invite you to come and see her some evening. At

once you should say, “_What_ evening? How about _to-night_?” If

she says that she is already engaged for that evening, take a

calendar out of your pocket and remark, “Tomorrow? Wednesday?

Thursday? Friday? I really have no engagements between now and

October. Saturday? Sunday?” This will show her that you are

really desirous of calling upon her and she will probably say,

“Well, I think I am free Thursday night, but you had better

telephone me first.”

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