III. In personal relationships.

a. _The higher human qualities._ The last item of the three main

suggestions by the teachers was the subject of the greatest unanimity of

opinion.

The human element is one of the greatest prerequisites to successful

leadership. Time and again I have heard teachers say, "I do not want to

ask Mr. ----. May I take the matter up with Mr. ----, for he is much

more approachable?" The irate parent is usually quickly calmed when he

is met with a feeling of friendly welcome that puts him at ease. It is

hard for the majority of people to tell their troubles to anyone, much

more so to tell them to a superior in authority who has an outward coat

of formality that is difficult to penetrate.

Too much of the principal's time is often given to looking for the

difficulties that arise in the administration of a school with a view to

checking them. This naturally gives the teacher the impression that such

a principal is always looking for trouble, and he is not, as a rule, a

welcome visitor. The principal should endeavor to find something the

teacher is doing that is worth while and to give it the proper

recognition. No principal, however, can see what to commend unless he

keeps closely in touch at all times with the work the teachers are

doing. Idle flattery is far worse than no praise at all.

The kind word or a pleasant "good morning" sincerely spoken by the

teacher has always meant much to me. Why should not a similar expression

on the part of the principal be equally refreshing to her? It is one of

the biggest dividend-paying investments a principal can make. Try it!

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