O youth, cleave unto the wife of thy bosom; since

A loving wife is worth a multitude of friends.

Sweet are friends, and fame is sweet; but sweeter far a wifely heart

whereon to lay a weary head. But

Each married pair must solve its own difficulties as best it can. If any

advice were worth the offering, it would be this:

O ye Husbands, and O ye Wives, if not for your own sakes then for your

children's, lead a straight, clean, honorable life; any other sort of

life leads to despicability, to dismalness, to disaster.--Which only

means, after all, that

In the marriage relation, as in every relation--the social, the

industrial, the commercial, the political--it is conduct, it is

character, that counts, nothing else;

Beauty--Wealth--Culture--Grace--Wit--Intellect--Sprightliness--

Vivacity--Humor--these are much but they are simply naught, and less

than naught, when just this simple, single, yet insatiable thing called

Man wants to live amicably, affectionately, martially, with that simple,

single, but incomprehensible thing called Woman.

Character--Conduct--rule the world, the Matrimonial equally with the

Municipal.

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