The family is the unit of the state, therefore

The state makes laws, not for love, but for the family.

Happy that family the parents of which are bound by cosmic not by

municipal affection. Nevertheless,

Say what one will, Love scoffs at laws; howsoever marriage and divorce

may be regulated by parliamentary statute.

Man, as a member of a political community, may make marriage laws to suit

that community--laws to suit that community--laws "de vinculo

matrimonii" and laws "de mensa et thoro", decrees "nisi prius" and

decrees absolute; but

Law can no more bind the affections than it can bind the sweet influences

of the Pleiades. And yet, at bottom,

Beneath all municipal and parochial regulations, a great and cosmic law

does govern the relations of the sexes; and

The lightest whim of the lightest lady has a definite, perhaps a cosmic,

fount and origin.

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