A conditional surrender is no surrender. But

A woman's surrender is in reality a desertion, a going over to the enemy.

Thenceforward she is an ally. Indeed

A woman's capitulation is her conquest.

* * *

Let no amount of simulated austerity deter you. The marble Galatea came

to life at the prayer of a man.

* * *

The number of modes in which a woman can say 'Yes' has not, up to the

present, be accurately enumerated; but perhaps the one most frequently in

use is the negative imperative. And

Many are the men who have puzzled long and painfully over the motives of

a woman's 'No.' Yet in nine cases out of ten a woman says 'No' merely

because she feels herself on the brink of saying 'Yes'. In other words,

It is often mistrust of herself that leads many a woman to refuse it will

the lips the consent that is fluttering at her heart. Perhaps that is

why

With woman 'Yea' and 'Nay' are meaningless and interchangeable terms.

* * *

'Ware a show of excessive feeling. It is proof, either that it is

shallow and evanescent, or that it is put on. At all events

Excessive feeling is rarely taken seriously. Now

Seriousness adds a spice to gallantry. But, like spice, a little is

ample.

* * *

Many men think it is the woman who has to be persuaded. It is not the

woman; it is her scruples. Besides, "Nemo repente turpissimus--vel

turpissima". Yet

By thirty, scruples are either dormant or dominant.

Both of the callow youth of fifteen and the man of the world of

forty-five swear by the woman of thirty.

* * *

It may seem a paradox, but it is a truism, that, in matters of love, it

is the weaker and the defenseless sex that takes the initiative. In

other words,

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