The intenser the love, the more flawless does its object appear. For

The surest test of the sincerity of love is that it thinketh no evil.

The surest test of a waning love is that it begins not to content itself

when it sees its object suffer.

The surest test of a dead love is that it forgets how to be jealous.

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The falling-out of lovers true is a renewing may be of love. (1) Still it

is not to be recommended. In fact, it might be said that

Every falling-out of lovers true is a nail in love's coffin. Yet,

A blessing it is that in love we remember the sweet rather than the

bitter. For

Love was ever bitter-sweet (2).

(1) "Amanitum irae amoris integratis est."

--Terrence, Andria, III, 23.

(2) But I supposed innumerable people have said this before. No matter.

* * *

The heart of a lover is like that bottom of a well: all the beauties of

the starry heavens are revealed in it; but when it sheds the light of its

countenance upon it, all else is obliterated.

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