Generalizing in the case of women is useless; since

Woman is a species of which every woman is a variety. And every man must

make up his mind to this, that

Every woman is a study in herself. However,

If women were comprehensible to men, men and women would be friends, not

lovers (But the race is safe). The simple fact is that

Womanliness is the supreme attraction, in however fair or however frail a

personality it is embodied. And

The sacred function of all womanhood is to kindle in man the divine spark

by means 30 of the mystic flame that burns ever in the vestal breast.

* * *

Every true woman's orbit is determined by two forces: Love and Duty.

Which is another way of saying that

Women, like the lark, are true to the kindred points of heaven and home.

But,

It is only when the two foci are coincident and identical that her orbit

becomes the perfect circle and her home becomes her heaven.

* * *

A woman's heart is an unfathomable ocean: nothing ever filled it; no one

ever plumbed it. At the surface are glancing waves, or flying spume, or,

it may be, raging billows; beneath are silent depths invisible to man. A

thousand streams flow into it in vain. Towards varying coast-lines it

bears itself variously; here, placid and content; there, dashing furious.

But none ever stamped his marked upon its brim, and always it remains the

refluent, reluctant sea. Of it man knows only the waves that break or

ripple at his feet. It betrays no 31 secrets; it asks not to be

understood. Storm and calm but stir or still its surface, and what

things it hides forever engulfed no one may learn. Subtle, yet mighty;

an eternal, and entrancing, mystery to man.

A man's heart is the enclosing shore; measurable, impressionable,

definite, and overt; thinking to house that sea, shaping it, over looking

it, and staying and governing its tides. Yet changed by it, crumbling

before it, yielding to it: at once its guardian and its slave. Yet

perhaps

The placidest of seas is that which is wholly land-locked.

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