which were placed two ladies, Mary L. Booth and Julia A. Wilbur, both
strong supporters of Miss Anthony. The committee brought in a majority
report in favor of the resolutions but this make-shift minority report
was adopted: "In our opinion the colored children of the State should
enjoy equal advantages of education with the white." Miss Anthony then
proceeded to throw another bomb by presenting this resolution:
Since the true and harmonious development of the race demands that
the sexes be associated together in every department of life;
therefore
_Resolved_, That it is the duty of all our schools, colleges and
universities to open their doors to woman and to give her equal and
identical educational advantages side by side with her brother man.
This opened the flood gates. Motions to lay on the table, to refer to a
committee, etc., were voted down. A few strong speeches were made in
favor, but most of them were in opposition and very bitter, insisting
that "it was sought to uproot the theory and practice of the whole
world." The antique Professor Davies was in his element. He declared:
"Here is an attempt to introduce a vast social evil. I have been trying
for four years,[_i.e._ ever since Miss Anthony's first appearance at a
teachers' convention] to escape this question, but if it has to come,
let it be boldly met and disposed of. I am opposed to anything that has
a tendency to impair the sensitive delicacy and purity of the female
character or to remove the restraints of life. These resolutions are
the first step in the school which seeks to abolish marriage, and
behind this picture I see a monster of social deformity."
Another speaker, whose name is lost in oblivion, said in tones which
would melt a heart of stone: "Shall an oak and a rose tree receive the
same culture? Better to us is the clear, steady, softened, silvery
moonlight of woman's quiet, unobtrusive influence, than the flashes of
electricity showing that the true balance of nature is destroyed. Aye,
better a thousand times is it than the glimmering ignus fatuus rising
from decayed hopes and leading the deluded follower to those horrible
quagmires of social existence--amalgamation and Mormonism."
Prof. John W. Buckley, of Brooklyn, opposed the resolution in coarse
and abusive language. State Superintendent of Public Instruction Henry
H. Van Dyck demolished its last hope when he demanded with outstretched
arm and pointed finger: "Do you mean to say you want the boys and girls
to room side by side in dormitories? To educate them together can have
but one result!"
The Binghamton Daily Republican said: "Miss Anthony vindicated her
resolutions with eloquence, force, spirit and dignity, and showed
herself a match, at least, in debate for any member of the convention.
She was equal if not identical. Whatever may be thought of her notions
or sense of propriety in her bold and conspicuous position, personally,
intellectually and socially speaking, there can be but one opinion as
to her superior energy, ability and moral courage; and she may well be
regarded as an evangel and heroine by her own sex."
The woman who advocated co-education in those days was indeed in a
"bold and conspicuous position." The resolutions were lost by a large
majority. Even if every man present had voted against them, there were
enough women to have carried them had they voted in the affirmative.
The Republican said: "If the lady members had voted so as to be heard
we know not what would have been the result; but their voices, to say
the least, have not been ordained by the Creator to be equal or
identical with man's, and are drowned by his louder sounds." Mrs.
Stanton's opinion can best be learned by an extract from a letter:
I see by the papers that you have once more stirred that pool of
intellectual stagnation, the educational convention. What an
infernal set of fools those schoolmarms must be! Well, if in order
to please men they wish to live on air, let them. The sooner the
present generation of women dies out, the better. We have idiots
enough in the world now without such women propagating any more....
The New York Times was really quite complimentary. Mr. Stanton
brought every item he could find about you. "Well, my dear," he
would say, "another notice of Susan. You stir up Susan, and she
stirs the world." I was glad you went to torment those devils. I
guess they will begin to think their time has come. I glory in your
perseverance. O, Susan, I will do anything to help you on. You and
I have a prospect of a good long life. We shall not be in our prime
before fifty, and after that we shall be good for twenty years at
least. If we do not make old Davies shake in his boots or turn in
his grave, I am mistaken.
The proceedings of the convention were published in full in the New
York Tribune, and Miss Anthony received letters of commendation from
Judge William Hay, Charles L. Reason, superintendent of the New York
city colored schools, and many others. William Marvin, of Binghamton,
wrote: "The sympathy of the people here, during the teachers'
association, was decidedly with you. A vote from the audience would
have carried any one of your resolutions."
In the autumn the anti-slavery meetings were resumed, and Miss Anthony
was unsparing of herself and everybody else. Parker Pillsbury
complained: "What a task-mistress our general agent is proving herself.
I expect as soon as women get command, an end will have come to all our
peace. We shall yet have societies for the protection of men's rights,
in the cause of which many of us will have to be martyrs." Her brother,
Daniel R., was sending frequent letters from Kansas containing graphic
descriptions of the terrible condition of affairs in that unhappy
territory, and scathing denunciations of the treachery of northern
"dough faces," thus fanning the fires of patriotism that glowed in her
breast and filling her with renewed zeal for the cause to which she was
giving her time and strength. During these days she wrote a cherished
sister:
Though words of love are seldom written or spoken by one of us to
the other, there must ever remain the abiding faith that the heart
still beats true and fond. Our family is now so widely separated
that our enjoyment must consist in soul communing. Indeed, I almost
believe in the power of affection to draw unto itself the yearning
heart of the absent one. What the modern Spiritualist tells of
feeling the presence of departed friends and enjoying their loving
ministrations, I sometimes imagine to be true, not of the spirits
of those gone hence, but of those still in the body who are
separated from us. I often pass blessed moments in these sweet,
silent communings.... Every day brings to me new conceptions of
life and its duties, and it is my constant desire that I may be
strong and fearless, baring my arm to the encounter and pressing
cheerfully forward, though the way is rough and thorny.
I have just returned from the hardest three weeks' tour of
anti-slavery meetings I have had yet, so cold and disheartening.
The masses seem devoid of conscience and looking only for some new
expedient to accomplish the desired good; but in every town there
are some true spirits who walk in God's sunlight and do what is
right, trusting results to the great Immutable Law.... I wish all
the dear ones would write me more often. Though I am sure of their
affection, yet when the soul is burdened and one is surrounded by
strangers, a letter from a loved one brings healing to the spirit,
and I need it more than I can tell.
There is scarcely a letter to her own family, in the large number
preserved, which does not express a longing for love and sympathy, a
craving that no public career, no devotion to any cause, however
absorbing, ever eradicates from the human soul.
Although so fully occupied, Miss Anthony did not neglect the beloved
cause of woman. This year, however, when she attempted to arrange for
the annual convention, she found to her dismay that every one of the
speakers whom she always depended upon was unable to be present because
of maternal duties. Some were anticipating an event, others had very
young infants, and the older women were kept at home by expected or
recently arrived grandchildren. She was used to overcoming obstacles,
but the conditions on this occasion were too much for her and, with
feelings which can not well be put into language, she was obliged to
give up the national convention, the only one omitted from 1850 to
1861.
Amidst the hard work and many disappointments of the year, there is one
gleam of humor in what was known to the family as "Susan's raspberry
experiment." During her wanderings she visited her friend Sarah Hallock
who had made a great success of raspberry culture, selling 40,000
baskets during the season, and she did not see why she could not do
quite as well. She unfolded her plan to her father, who supported her
in that as in everything and gave her as much ground as she desired.
While at home for a short time she had this underdrained and prepared,
$100 worth of raspberry plants set out and staked; then went away and
left the family to look after them. The father was in the city all day
attending to business, the sister Mary teaching school, the mother was
not well and there was no one else but the hired man, who knew nothing
about the culture of raspberries and was otherwise occupied; so the
bushes took their chances.
The fame of the experiment, however, spread far and wide, the
newspapers announced that Miss Anthony had bought a large farm and
stocked it with raspberries; that she had abandoned the platform and
taken up fruit culture. She received scores of letters asking
information as to the best plants and most successful methods, others
begging her not to give up public work, and many from friends who had
no end of fun at her expense. The bushes grew and bore fruit enough to
give the family a number of delicious meals. Then a very cold winter
followed and there was no one to care for the tender plants. In
December came a letter from the irrepressible brother-in-law, Aaron
McLean: "As to your raspberry 'spec,' I regret to tell you it has 'gone
up.' The poor, little, helpless things expired of a bad cold about two
weeks since. Do you remember that text of Scripture, which says, 'She
who by the plow would thrive, herself must either hold or drive'? It
has cost you $200 to learn the truth of it." Her sister Mary wrote: "I
hope, Susan, when you get a husband and children, you will treat them
better than you did your raspberry plants, and not leave them to their
fate at the beginning of winter."
It was a deep regret to Miss Anthony that she could not give the
necessary time and care to make this experiment a success, as she was
anxious to encourage women to go into the pursuit of agriculture,
horticulture, floriculture, anything which would take them out of
doors. In a letter to Mr. Higginson she says: "The salvation of the
race depends, in a great measure, upon rescuing women from their
hothouse existence. Whether in kitchen, nursery or parlor, all alike
are shut away from God's sunshine. Why did not your Caroline Plummer,
of Salem, why do not all of our wealthy women leave money for
industrial and agricultural schools for girls, instead of ever and
always providing for boys alone?" This is one of the many instances
where Miss Anthony foreshadowed reforms and improvements which have
been fulfilled in the present generation.
In 1858 is presented same routine of unremitting work which
characterized so many previous years. The winter was given up to
anti-slavery meetings with their attendant hardships. Miss Anthony has
great scorn for those who talk regretfully of the "good old days." She
thinks one lecture season under the conditions which then existed would
be an effectual cure to any longing for them one might have. The
conveniences of modern life, bathrooms with plenty of hot water,
toiletrooms, steam-heated houses, gas and hundreds of comforts so
common at the present time that one scarcely can realize they have not
always existed, were comparatively unknown. One of the greatest trials
these travellers had to endure was the wretched cooking which was the
rule and not exception among our much-praised foremothers. In one of
the old diaries is this single ejaculation, "O, the crimes that are
committed in the kitchens of this land!" In those days the housewife
could not step around the corner and buy for two cents a cake of yeast
which insured good bread, but the process of yeast-making was long and
difficult and not well understood by the average housekeeper, so a
substitute was found in "salt risings," and a heavy indigestible mass
generally resulted. White flour was little used and was of a poor
quality. Baking powder was unknown and all forms of cakes and warm
bread were made with sour milk and soda, easily ruined by too much or
too little of the latter. In no particular did the table compare
favorably with that of modern families.
[Illustration: THE FARM-HOME NEAR ROCHESTER, N.Y., 1845-65.]
The anti-slavery and woman's rights lecturers always accepted private
hospitality when offered, for reasons of economy and, as many of the
people who favored these reforms were seeking light in other directions
also, they were very apt to find themselves the guests of "cranks" upon
the food question and were thus made the subject of most of the
experiments in vogue at that period. On one occasion Miss Anthony,
Aaron Powell and Oliver Johnson were entertained by prominent and
well-to-do people in a town near New York, who had not a mouthful for
any of the three meals except nuts, apples and coarse bran stirred in
water and baked. At the end of one day the men ignominiously fled and
left her to stay over Sunday and hold the Monday meeting. She lived
through it but on Tuesday started for New York and never stopped till
she reached Delmonico's, where she revelled in a porterhouse steak and
a pot of coffee.
During these winter meetings all of the men broke down physically and
their letters were filled with complaints of their heads, their backs,
their lungs, their throats and their eyes. Garrison wrote at one time:
"I hope to be present at the meeting but I can not foresee what will be
my spinal condition at that time, and I could not think of appearing as
a 'Garrisonian Abolitionist' without a backbone." Miss Anthony never
lost a day or missed an engagement, although it may be imagined that
she had many hours of weariness when she would have been glad to drop
the burden for a while. On March 17 she writes: "How happy I am to lay
my head on my own home pillow once more after a long four months,
scarcely stopping a second night under one roof." Mr. May wrote in
behalf of the committee: "We rejoice with you in the success of your
meetings and in all your hopes for the upspringing of the good seed
sown by the faithful joint labors of you and your gallant little band.
We have made the following a committee of arrangements for the annual
meeting: Garrison, Phillips, Quincy, Johnson and Susan B. Anthony."
So she at once girded on her armor and began to prepare for the May
anniversary and, being determined the National Woman's Rights
Convention should not be omitted this year, she conducted also an
extensive correspondence in regard to that. Referring to all this
drudgery Lucy Stone urged: "Don't do it; quit common work such as a
common worker could do; and don't mourn over us and our babies. We are
growing workers. I know you are tired with your four months' work, but
it is not half so hard as taking care of a child night and day. I shall
not assume any responsibility for another convention till I have had my
ten daughters." But Miss Anthony knew that this "common work," this
hiring halls, raising money and advertising meetings was just what
nobody else could or would do. She understood also that while the other
women were at home "growing workers," somebody must be in the field
looking after the harvest.
Abby Hutchinson, the only sister in the famous family of singers, wrote
from their Jersey home, Dawnwood: "I want so much to help you; I have
longed to do some good with my voice but public life wears me out very
fast." Nevertheless she came and sang for them. Mrs. Stanton and Mrs.
Brown Blackwell brought new babies into the world a few weeks before
the convention, to Miss Anthony's usual discomfiture. She wrote to the
latter: "Mrs. Stanton sends her love to you and says if you are going
to have a large family, go right on and finish up as she has done. She
has only devoted eighteen years out of the very heart of her existence
to this great work. But I say, stop now."
The convention in Mozart Hall followed close upon the Anti-Slavery
Anniversary, Miss Anthony presided and there were the usual
distinguished speakers, Phillips, Pillsbury, Garrison, Douglass,
Higginson, Lucretia Mott, Mrs. Gage, Mrs. Rose, and, for the first
time, George William Curtis spoke on the woman's rights platform.
Notwithstanding this array of talent, the convention through all its
six sessions was threatened with a mob, encouraged by the Herald and
other New York papers. The disturbance at times was so great the
speakers could not be heard, even Curtis was greeted with hisses and
groans, but Miss Anthony stood at the helm unterrified through all and
did not leave her post until the last feature of the program was
completed and the convention adjourned. She was growing accustomed to
mobs.
In August, 1858, she attended the teachers' convention at Lockport. The
sensational feature of this meeting was the reading by Professor Davies
of the first cablegram from England, a message from the Queen to the
President. The press reports show that she took a prominent part in the
proceedings and possibly merited the name which some one gave her of
"the thorn in the side of the convention." These annual gatherings were
very largely in the nature of mutual admiration societies among the
men, who consumed much of the time in complimenting each other and the
rest of it in long-winded orations. During this one Miss Anthony arose
and said that, as all members had the same right to speak, she would
suggest that speeches should be limited so as to give each a chance.
She made some of the men furious by stating that they spoke so low they
could not be heard.
At another time she suggested that, as there were only a few hours left
for the business of the convention, they should not be frittered away
in trifling discussions, saying, "if she were a man she would be
ashamed to consume the time in telling how much she loved women and in
fulsome flattery of other men." She moved also that they set aside the
proposed discussion on "The Effects of High Intellectual Culture on the
Efficiency and Respectability of Manual Labor," and take up pressing
questions. When one man was indulging in a lot of the senseless twaddle
about his wife which many of them are fond of introducing in their
speeches, she called him to order saying that the kind of a wife he
had, had nothing to do with the subject. She introduced again the
resolution demanding equal pay for equal work without regard to sex. A
friend wrote of this occasion: "She arraigned those assembled teachers
for their misdemeanors as she would a class of schoolboys, in perfect
unconsciousness that she was doing anything unusual. We women never can
be sufficiently thankful to her for taking the hard blows and still
harder criticisms, while we reaped the benefits."
The press reports said: "Miss Anthony has gained in the estimation of
the teachers' convention, and is now listened to with great attention."
She gave her lecture on "Co-Education" to a crowded house of Lockport's
prominent citizens, introduced by President George L. Farnham, of
Syracuse, always her friend in those troublous days. By this time more
than a score of the eminent educators of the day had become her
steadfast friends, and they welcomed her to these conventions, aiding
her efforts in every possible manner. Rev. Samuel J. May, who had
delivered an address, upon his return home wrote: "You are a great
girl, and I wish there were thousands more in the world like you. Some
foolish old conventionalisms would be utterly routed, and the legal and
social disabilities of women would not long be what they are." Miss
Anthony herself, writing to Antoinette Blackwell, said: "I wish I had
time to tell you of my Lockport experience; it was rich. I never felt
so cool and self-possessed among the plannings and plottings of the few
old fogies, and they never appeared so frantic with rage. They
evidently felt that their reign of terror is about ended."
October, 1858, brought another crucial occasion. In Rochester, a young
man, Ira Stout, had been condemned to be hung for murder. A number of
persons strongly opposed to capital punishment believed this a suitable
time to make a demonstration. It was not that they doubted the guilt of
Stout, but they were opposed to the principle of what they termed
judicial murder. As the Anthonys and many of the leading Quaker
families, Frederick Douglass and a number of Abolitionists shared in
this opinion, it was not surprising that Miss Anthony undertook to get
up the meeting. In a cold rain she made the round of the orthodox
ministers but none would sign the call. The Universalist minister, Rev.
J.H. Tuttle, agreed to be present and speak. She secured thirty or
forty signatures, engaged the city hall and advertised extensively. The
feeling against Stout was very strong and there was a determination
among certain members of the community that this meeting should not be
held. Huge placards were posted throughout the city, urging all opposed
to the sentiments of the call to be out in force, a virtual invitation
to the mob.
When the evening arrived, October 7, the hall was filled with a crowd
of nearly 2,000, a large portion of whom only needed the word to break
into a riot. Miss Anthony called the assemblage to order and Frederick
Douglass was made chairman, but when he attempted to speak, his voice
was drowned with groans and yells. Aaron M. Powell, William C. Bloss
and others tried to make themselves heard but the mob had full sway.
Miss Anthony was greeted with a perfect storm of hisses. Finally the
demonstrations became so threatening that she and the other speakers
were hurried out of the hall by a rear door, the meeting was broken up
and the janitor turned out the lights. No attempt was made by the mayor
or police to quell the disturbance and mob law reigned supreme.
The brightest ray of sunshine in the closing days of 1858 was the
following letter from Mr. Phillips: "I have had given me $5,000 for the
woman's rights cause; to procure tracts on that subject, publish and
circulate them, pay for lectures and secure such other agitation of the
question as we deem fit and best to obtain equal civil and political
position for women. The name of the giver of this generous fund I am
not allowed to tell you. The only condition of the gift is that it is
to remain in my keeping. You, Lucy Stone and myself are a committee of
trustees to spend it wisely and efficiently." The donor proved to be
Francis Jackson, the staunch friend of the emancipation of woman as
well as the negro.
[Autograph:
With much respect and esteem,
Francis Jackson"]
[Footnote 24: Now Elizabeth Powell Bond, dean of Swarthmore College for
many years.]
[Footnote 25: The Bangor Jeffersonian said: "Miss Anthony is far from
being an impracticable enthusiast. Dignity, conscientiousness and
regard for the highest welfare of her sex, are the impressions which
one receives of her. Doubtless all (if any there were) who went to
scoff, remained to pray for the success of the doctrine she advocated.
Personally she is good-looking, of symmetrical figure and modest and
ladylike demeanor."
The Bangor Whig was equally favorable. The Ellsworth American said:
"Her enunciation is very clear and remarkably distinct, yet there is
nothing in it of the unfeminine character and tone which people had
been led to expect from the usual criticisms of the press. The lecture
itself, as an intellectual effort, was satisfactory as well to those
who dissented as to those who sympathized with its positions and
arguments. It was fruitful in ideas and suggestions and we doubt not
many a woman, and man too, went home that night, with the germ of more
active ideas in their heads than had gathered there for a twelvemonth
before."]
CHAPTER XI.
CONDITIONS PRIOR TO THE WAR.
1859.
Among Miss Anthony's many schemes for regenerating the world was one to
have a Free church in Rochester, after the manner of Theodore Parker's
in Boston, similar to an ethical society, where no doctrines should be
preached and all should be welcome, contributing what they chose. This
was in her mind for years, and at the beginning of 1859 she engaged
Corinthian Hall for Sunday evenings, her good friend, William A.
Reynolds, as usual making her a reduced rate; and here Antoinette Brown
Blackwell and Parker Pillsbury each preached for a month. She tried to
engage Mrs. Stanton for a year and also Aaron M. Powell, but the
financial support was too uncertain and the project had to be
abandoned. All her life, however, Miss Anthony cherished the hope of
seeing this Free church established and sustained. She arranged a
series of lectures for this winter. George William Curtis accepted her
invitation in this characteristic letter:
I think of no title for your course, but why have any? Why not say
simply, "A Course of Independent Lectures?" To call them woman's
rights would damn them in advance, so strong is prejudice. The only
one I have at all suited to your purpose is "Fair Play for
Women."[26] I hate the words "woman's rights," nor do they properly
describe my treatment of the question which, in my mind, is not one
of sex but of humanity. My lecture is a plea for the recognition of
the equal humanity of women and an assertion that they have rights
not as women but as human beings. In respect to terms, I leave it
with you. I usually receive $50, but you will understand that I
should prefer to pay the expenses myself rather than that you or
any one interested should expend a penny; so if you can not justly
give me anything, I shall be content.
[Autograph:
Yours very faithfully
George William Curtis]
Miss Anthony always came out of these lecture courses in debt, but she
would call upon her friends or borrow from sister or father enough to
make up the deficit, and replace the loan out of her scanty earnings.
She persisted in having them to educate the public on the progressive
questions of the day. At this time the long, severe mental and physical
strain of years began to be felt in her one weak spot, and the old
trouble with her back asserted itself. From every quarter came urgent
appeals for her assistance. At first she answered: "If New York calls a
constitutional convention for next spring, this will be a capital
winter to strike heavy blows for freedom and equality such as we shall
not have for a long time to come. I am ready just as soon as the armies
can be marshaled and equipped." But later she wrote:
It is being forced upon me that nature orders me to stay quietly at
home this winter and it may be that it is to enable me to get a
greater literary culture than I possibly could, amidst the hurry
and bustle of continual meetings. Somehow I can not philosophize
away a shrinking from going into active work. I can not get up a
particle of enthusiasm or faith in the success, either financial or
spiritual, of another series of conventions. For the past five
years I have gone through this routine and something within me
keeps praying to be spared from more of it. There has been such a
surfeit of lecturing, the people are tired of it. Then I never was
so poor in purse and I fear to end another campaign with a heavy
debt to still further encroach upon my small savings. I can not
bear to make myself dependent upon relatives for the food I eat and
the clothes I wear; I never have done it and hope I may never have
to. Perhaps I may feel a renewed faith in myself and my work but
the past years have brought me so much isolation and spiritual
loneliness, although in the midst of crowds, that I confess to a
longing to stay for awhile among my own people.
The commands of the physician were imperative that she should avoid all
fatigue and nervous excitement, but her pen was not idle, and the time
which she hoped to devote to the reading of many books was occupied in
sending out letters, petitions, appeals and the various documents
necessary to keep the work going. In answer to an invitation from the
Friends of Human Progress she wrote:
To be esteemed worthy to speak for woman, for the slave, for
humanity, is ever grateful to me, and I regret that I can not be
with you at your annual gathering to get for myself a fresh
baptism, a new and deeper faith. I would exhort all women to be
discontented with their present condition and to assert their
individuality of thought, word and action by the energetic doing of
noble deeds. Idle wishes, vain repinings, loud-sounding
declamations never can bring freedom to any human soul. What woman
most needs is a true appreciation of her womanhood, a self-respect
which shall scorn to eat the bread of dependence. Whoever consents
to live by "the sweat of the brow" of another human being
inevitably humiliates and degrades herself.... No genuine equality,
no real freedom, no true manhood or womanhood can exist on any
foundation save that of pecuniary independence. As a right over a
man's subsistence is a power over his moral being, so a right over
a woman's subsistence enslaves her will, degrades her pride and
vitiates her whole moral nature.
To her brother Daniel R., in Kansas, who was somewhat skeptical on the
woman question, she sent this strong letter:
Even the smallest human right denied, is large. The fact that the
ruling class withhold this right is prima facie evidence that they
deem it of importance for good or for evil. In either case,
therefore, the human being is outraged. It, perchance, may matter
but little whether Kansas be governed by a constitution made by her
bona fide settlers or by people of another State or by Congress;
but for Kansas to be denied the right to make her own constitution
and laws is an outrage not to be tolerated. So the constitution and
laws of a State and nation may be just as considerate of woman's
needs and wants as if framed by herself, yet for man to deny her
the right to a voice in making and administering them, is
paralleled only by the Lecompton usurpation. For any human being or
class of human beings, whether black, white, male or female, tamely
to submit to the denial of their right to self-government shows
that the instinct of liberty has been blotted out.
You blunder on this question of woman's rights just where thousands
of others do. You believe woman unlike man in her nature; that
conditions of life which any man of spirit would sooner die than
accept are not only endurable to woman but are needful to her
fullest enjoyment. Make her position in church, State, marriage,
your own; everywhere your equality ignored, everywhere made to feel
another empowered by law and time-honored custom to prescribe the
privileges to be enjoyed and the duties to be discharged by you;
and then if you can imagine yourself to be content and happy, judge
your mother and sisters and all women to be.
It was not because the three-penny tax on tea was so exorbitant
that our Revolutionary fathers fought and died, but to establish
the principle that such taxation was unjust. It is the same with
this woman's revolution; though every law were as just to woman as
to man, the principle that one class may usurp the power to
legislate for another is unjust, and all who are now in the
struggle from love of principle would still work on until the
establishment of the grand and immutable truth, "All governments
derive their just powers from the consent of the governed."
She wrote Lydia Mott: "The new encyclopedia is just out and I notice in
regard to Antoinette Brown Blackwell that it gives a full description
of her work up to the time of her marriage, then says: 'She married
Samuel Blackwell and lives near New York.' Not a word of the splendid
work she has done on the platform and in the pulpit since. Thus does
every married woman sink her individuality." This brought from Lydia a
spirited answer:
For my part, when you speak of the individuality of one who is
truly married being inevitably lost, I think you mistake. If there
ever was any individuality it will remain. I don't believe it is
necessary for development that the individual must always force
itself upon us. We naturally fall into the habits and frequently
the train of thought of those we love and I like the expression
"we" rather than "I." I never feel that my interests and actions
can be independent of the dear ones with whom I am surrounded. Even
the one who seems to be most absorbed may, in reality, possess the
strongest soul. This standing alone is not natural and therefore
can not be right. I am sure one of these days you will view this
matter from a different standpoint.
Miss Anthony so far yielded as to reply: "Institutions, among them
marriage, are justly chargeable with many social and individual ills
but, after all, the whole man or woman will rise above them. I am sure
my 'true woman' never will be crushed or dwarfed by them. Woman must
take to her soul a purpose and then make circumstances conform to this
purpose, instead of forever singing the refrain, 'if and if and if!'"
But later when one woman failed to keep a lecture engagement because
her husband wanted her to go somewhere with him, and another because
her husband was not willing she should leave home, she again poured out
her sorrows to her friend:
There is not one woman left who may be relied on, all have "first
to please their husband," after which there is but little time or
energy left to spend in any other direction. I am not complaining
or despairing, but facts are stern realities. The twain become one
flesh, the woman, "we"; henceforth she has no separate work, and
how soon the last standing monuments (yourself and myself, Lydia),
will lay down the individual "shovel and de hoe" and with proper
zeal and spirit grasp those of some masculine hand, the mercies and
the spirits only know. I declare to you that I distrust the power
of any woman, even of myself, to withstand the mighty matrimonial
maelstrom!
But how did I get into this dissertation? If to you it seems
morbid, pardon the pen-wandering. In the depths of my soul there is
a continual denial of the self-annihilating spiritual or legal
union of two human beings. Such union, in the very nature of
things, must bring an end to the free action of one or the other,
and it matters not to the individual whose freedom has thus
departed whether it be the gentle rule of love or the iron hand of
law which blotted out from the immortal being the individual
soul-stamp of the Good Father. How I do wish those who know
something of the real social needs of our age would rescue this
greatest, deepest, highest question from the present
unphilosophical, unspiritual discussers.
As might be expected, the legacy of $5,000 brought not only a flood of
requests from all parts of the country, but some division of opinion
among those who had it in control. Miss Anthony would use all of it in
the work of propaganda, lectures, conventions, tracts and newspaper
articles. Lucy Stone wished to use part in suits to prove the
unconstitutionality of the law which taxes women and refuses them
representation. Antoinette Blackwell wanted a portion to establish a
church where she could spread the doctrine of woman's rights along with
the gospel. Most of the women lecturers and some of the men wished to
be engaged immediately at a fixed salary. Miss Anthony writes for
advice to Phillips, who replies: "Go ahead with your New York plan as
sketched to me. I am willing to risk spending $1,000 on it. Never
apologize as if you troubled me; it is my business as much as yours,
and I am only sorry to be of so little help." Brief records in the
little diary say:
Sister Mary and I passed New Year's Day, 1859, most quietly and
happily in the dear farm-home. Mother is in the East with sister
Hannah, and father dined in the city with sister Guelma, who sent
us a plate of her excellent turkey.... In the afternoon Mary and I
drove to Frederick Douglass' and had a nice visit; stayed to tea
and listened to a part of his new lecture on "Self-Made Men."...
Father and Mary gone to their work in the city, and I am writing on
my lecture "The True Woman." Ground out four commercial-note pages
in five mortal hours, but they are strong.... Ten degrees below
zero. Mother home; no writing today; all talk about the eastern
folks.... Antoinette Blackwell preached here yesterday, and we have
had a good visit together today. Just helped two fugitive slaves,
perhaps genuine and perhaps not.... Went to the city to hear A.A.
Willit's lecture on "A Plea for Home." Gives woman a place only in
domestic life--sad failure.... Twenty letters written and mailed
today. Took tea with the Hallowells. Am glad to learn that the
money forwarded to the Anti-Slavery Bazar and lost was sent by a
man instead of a woman.... Heard Bayard Taylor on "Life in
Lapland." Hundreds could not gain admittance. Curtis lectured on
"Fair Play for Women"; great success, but I feel that he has not
yet been tried by fire. Afterwards visited with Curtis and Taylor,
and Mr. Curtis said: "Rather than have a radical thinker like Mrs.
Rose at your suffrage conventions, you would better give them up.
With such speakers as Beecher, Phillips, Theodore Parker, Chapin,
Tilton and myself advocating woman's cause, it can not fail."
[Autograph:
Respectfully yours,
E.H. Chapin"]
Miss Anthony did not hesitate to criticise even Mr. Curtis, writing him
in reference to his great lecture, "Democracy and Education": "When all
the different classes of industrial claimants for a voice in the
government were enumerated, there was not one which could be
interpreted to represent womanhood. Hence only the few who know that
with George William Curtis, the words 'man,' 'people,' 'citizens,' are
not, as with the vast majority of lecturers, mere glittering
generalities, can understand that his grand principles of democracy are
intended to be applied to woman equally with man. I listen for the
unthinking masses and pray that every earnest, manly spirit shall help
make women free." In reply Mr. Curtis closed a long and cordial letter
by saying: "Believe me that I have thought of the point you make but
the greater statement must inevitably include the less." She scribbled
a comment on the back of this for her own satisfaction: "Men still the
greater, women the less."
The last of January Miss Anthony went to Albany to attend the
anti-slavery convention and remained six weeks during the legislative
session to work in the interest of the women's petitions and the
Personal Liberty Bill. This was a season of great enjoyment for her,
notwithstanding much tramping about in the rain and snow and many
discouraging experiences with the Legislature. She writes a friend:
"Well, I am a member of the lobby but lacking the two most essential
requisites, for I neither accept money nor have I any to pay out. Dr.
Cheever speaks tonight in the Assembly chamber on 'The Guilt of the
Slave Traffic and of the Legislation by which it is Supported.' I have
been going about all day to collect enough to defray his expenses."
Phillips, Garrison, Pillsbury and all the host were at the convention.
They dined in Lydia Mott's simple little home and had a merry time.
Between the meetings the party visited the Legislature, Geological
Hall, Palmer's studio and other places of interest and managed to get a
bit of holiday recreation. Miss Anthony stayed with her friend Miss
Mott, visited Rev. Mayo, called often on Thurlow Weed, went to Troy to
hear Beecher lecture on "The Burdens of Society," to Hudson to hear
Phillips on "Toussaint L'Ouverture" and, whenever she could spare a day
from her work with the Legislature, held woman's rights meetings in
neighboring towns; thus every hour was filled to overflowing.
In March she finished her lecture, "The True Woman," and plunged into
the preparations for the approaching woman's rights convention. She
also indulged the love for gardening which her busy life so seldom
permitted and, judging from her diary, must have given the hired men
more attention than they ever received before or afterwards:
Uncovered the strawberry and raspberry beds.... Worked with Simon
building frames for the grape vines in the peach orchards.... Set
out eighteen English black currants, twenty-two English
gooseberries and Muscadine grape vines, also Lawton
blackberries.... Worked in the garden all day, then went to the
city to hear Dr. Cheever; few there, but grand lecture. How he
unmasked the church hypocrites!... Wrote reports of the lecture
for Standard and Liberator, and helped father plan the new
kitchen.... Finished setting out the apple trees and the 600
blackberry bushes, then took the 6 o'clock train for Seneca Falls.
Hot and dusty, and I am very, very tired.
[Autograph: Wendell Phillips]
She spoke in various towns all the way to New York where she arrived in
time to attend the Anti-Slavery Anniversary and make final arrangements
for the convention in Mozart Hall, May 12. She had written asking
Lucretia Mott to preside, who answered, "I am sure there needs not a
better presiding officer than thyself," but agreed to come. When the
hour arrived the hall was so packed that it was impossible for Mrs.
Mott to reach the platform and Miss Anthony was obliged to open the
meeting. This convention, like several which preceded it, was greatly
disturbed by noise and interruptions from the audience, until finally
it was turned over to Wendell Phillips who "knew better than any one
else how to play with and lash a mob and thrust what he wished to say
into their long ears." At the end of his speech Miss Anthony
immediately adjourned the convention, to prevent violent
demonstrations. The Tribune said:
The woman's rights meeting last night was well calculated to
advance the cause that the reformers met to plead. The speakers
were comparatively so temperate, while sundry voters were so
intemperate in demonstrating their folly, rudeness, ignorance and
indecency, that almost any cause which the one pleaded and the
other objected to would be likely to find favor with order-loving
people. The presence of a single policeman might have preserved
perfect order, saved the reputation of our city before crowds of
strangers and given hundreds an opportunity to hear. Of course it
being a meeting that women were to address, as "women have no
rights in public which men are bound to maintain," there was no
policeman present.
The disturbances at these conventions were not so much because the mob
objected to the doctrine of woman's rights as that they were addressed
by the leading anti-slavery speakers and therefore had to bear the
odium attached to that hated cause.
A strong memorial, asking for equal social, civil and political rights
for women and based on the guarantees of the Declaration of
Independence, was prepared by a committee consisting of Miss Anthony,
Mr. Phillips and seven others, to be presented to every legislature in
the Union. By the time the legislatures met in 1860, political affairs
had reached a crisis and the country was in a state of unrest and
excitement which made it impossible to secure consideration for this or
any other question outside the vital issues that were pressing,
although it was presented in several States.
Miss Anthony and Mrs. Stanton wrote an eloquent appeal to be circulated
with the petitions to rouse public sentiment. Armed with this the
former began correspondence with speakers in reference to a summer and
fall campaign of the state. The diary shows that she actually found
time to attend a picnic, but as she was called upon for a speech while
there the day was not wholly wasted. There are also references to
"moonlight rides," and one entry records: "Mr. ---- walked home with
me; marvelously attentive. What a pity such powers of intellect should
lack the moral spine!"
Out of the Francis Jackson fund Mr. Phillips sent Miss Anthony $1,500
for her extensive campaign. She engaged speakers to come into New York
in different months, and July 13 opened the series with Antoinette
Blackwell at Niagara Falls. From here they made the round of the
watering places, Avon, Clifton, Trenton Falls, Sharon, Saratoga,
Ballston Spa and Lake George, where persons of wealth and prominence
were gathered from all parts of the Union. In some places they spoke in
a grove to thousands of people; at others in hotel parlors, and
everywhere met a friendly spirit and respectful treatment.
Miss Anthony did not forget to go to Poughkeepsie this summer, and stir
up the teachers at their annual meeting. Antoinette Blackwell says of
this trip: "I shall always recollect our journey on the boat with two
or three dozen teachers, and your walking the deck with one and
another, talking about women and their rights, in school and out of
school, in the most matter-of-fact way, although it was plainly evident
that most of them would sooner have listened to a discussion on the
rights of the Hottentots." The teacher who was her chief support at
these conventions was Helen Philleo.[27] There were very few of them in
those days who had the courage to help fight this battle for their own
interests. At the last session she announced a woman's rights meeting
and many remained to attend it.
After the summer resorts were closed the meetings were continued in the
principal towns. Mrs. Blackwell thus describes an incident in the Fort
William Henry hotel: "I remember a rich scene at the breakfast table.
Aaron Powell was with us and the colored waiter pointedly offered him
the bill of fare. Miss Anthony glanced at it and began to give her
order, not to Powell in ladylike modesty, but promptly and
energetically to the waiter. He turned a grandiloquent, deaf ear;
Powell fidgeted and studied his newspaper; she persisted, determined
that no man should come between her and her own order for coffee,
cornbread and beefsteak. 'What do I understand is the full order, sir,
for your party?' demanded the waiter, doggedly and suggestively. Powell
tried to repeat her wishes, but stumbled and stammered and grew red in
the face. I put in a working oar to cover the undercurrent of laughter,
while she, coolly unconscious of everything except that there was no
occasion for a 'middleman,' since she was entirely competent to look
after her own breakfast, repeated her order, and the waiter, looking
intensely disgusted, concluded to bring something, right or wrong."
While at Easton among her old friends Miss Anthony attended Quaker
meeting and the spirit moved her to speak very forcibly, as she relates
in a letter: "A young Quaker preacher from Virginia, who happened to be
there, said: 'Christ was no agitator, but a peacemaker; George Fox was
no agitator; the Friends at the South follow these examples and are
never disturbed by fanaticism.' This was more than I could bear; I
sprung to my feet and quoted: 'I came into the world not to bring peace
but a sword.... Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites that
devour widow's houses!' Read the New Testament, and say if Christ was
not an agitator. Who is this among us crying 'peace, peace, when there
is no peace?'--and sat down." It is a matter of regret that she did not
tell what became of the gentleman from Virginia.
Miss Anthony writes to Mary Hallowell, during these days: "I am more
tired than ever before and know that I am draining the millpond too low
each day to be filled quite up during the night, but I am having fine
audiences of thinking men and women. Oh, if we could but make our
meetings ring like those of the anti-slavery people, wouldn't the world
hear us? But to do that we must have souls baptized into the work and
consecrated to it."
Mrs. Blackwell's domestic affairs will not permit any further lecturing
and Miss Anthony says in a letter to her: "O, dear, dear, how I do wish
you could have kept on with me. I can't tell you how utterly awful is
the suspense these other women keep me in: first, they can't, then they
can, then they won't unless things are so and so; and when I think
everything is settled, it all has to be gone over again. The fact is I
am not fit to deal with anybody who is not terribly in earnest." To
this she replies: "Dear child, I'm sorry I can not help you, but pity a
poor married woman and forgive. The ordeal that I have been going
through, four sewingwomen each giving about two days, no end of little
garments to alter and to make, with a husband whose clothes as well as
himself have been neglected for three months, the garden to be covered
up from the frost, shrubs to transplant, winter provisions to lay in
and only one good-natured, stupid servant to help with all. This,
Susan, is 'woman's sphere.'"
As Miss Anthony never approved of a woman's neglecting her household
for any purpose, she urged no more but sought elsewhere for assistance.
There was not one unmarried woman except herself in all the corps of
available speakers and, while some of them could make a trip of a few
weeks, not one could be depended on for steady work. In October she
secured Mrs. Tracy Cutler for awhile, and later Frances D. Gage, J.
Elizabeth Jones and Lucy N. Coleman, but was obliged to hold many
meetings alone. These were continued at intervals through the fall of
1859 and the winter and spring of 1860, and numerous pages of foolscap
are still in existence containing a carefully kept account of the
expenses. Each meeting was made partly to pay for itself, the lecturers
received $12 a week, Miss Anthony herself taking only this sum, and it
may be believed that no more extended and effective propaganda work
ever was accomplished with the same amount of money. While this was
being done, she also assisted Clarina Howard Nichols and Susan E.
Wattles to plan an important campaign in Kansas with money furnished
from the Jackson fund.
She received the following characteristic letter from Rev. Thomas K.
Beecher when she asked for the use of his church in Elmira: "I will
answer for myself and afterwards append the decision of the trustees.
Anybody with good moral character and clean feet is welcome to use our
meeting house, if they like, but were I you I should prefer Holden's
Hall. But, lastly, I should shrink from holding such a meeting. I fear
that you will come to pain of disappointment when your enthusiasm is
chilled and bruised against the stone walls of Elmira apathy. More
people will attend at Holden's Hall than at church. So speaks in brief,
yours with hearty respect."
Mrs. Blackwell writes her teasingly about what she calls her
obtuseness, going straight ahead with her work, never knowing when she
was snubbed or defeated, giving the undiluted doctrine to people
without ever perceiving their frantic efforts to escape, and ignoring
all the humorous features of the campaigns. Miss Anthony retorts: "You
might give some of the funny things at your own expense, but tell just
as many as you please at mine. You see I have always gone with such a
blind rush that I never had time to see the ridiculous, and blessed for
me and my work and my happiness that I did not." Another invariable
habit was never to notice complaints written to her. She always
answered the business points but entirely ignored complainings, charges
against other people and all extraneous matters.
She relates a significant incident which occurred during this summer
campaign when she and Antoinette Blackwell spent a Sunday at Gerrit
Smith's. He had established at Peterboro and was maintaining at his own
expense a Free church. Mrs. Blackwell, under the influence of Theodore
Parker, Chapin and other liberal thinkers, had become very broad in her
doctrines, and was greatly pleased at an opportunity to preach for Mr.
Smith, thinking to find perfect appreciation and sympathy. After church
Miss Anthony went to her room and found her weeping bitterly, but she
begged to be left to herself. When more composed she sent for her and
told how in the midst of her sermon, when she felt herself surpassing
anything she ever had done, she heard a gentle snore, and looking down
beheld Mr. Smith sound asleep! She was terribly disappointed and now
had made up her mind there was but one thing for the human soul, and
that was to live absolutely within itself. There is no friend, no
relative, who can enter into the depths of another individuality. A
husband and wife may be very happy together; in all the little
occurrences which really make up the sum of everyday life, they may be
perfectly congenial; but there will be times when each will feel the
other separated by an immeasurable distance. Henceforth she would enjoy
what solace there was in her religious faith for herself but would
expect no other soul to share it with her. "This was to me a wonderful
revelation," said Miss Anthony, "and I realized, as never before, that
in our most sacred hours we dwell indeed in a world of solitude."
[Autograph: Antoinette Brown Blackwell]
On December 2, 1859, occurred that terrible tragedy in the country's
history, the execution of John Brown for the raid on the United States
arsenal at Harper's Ferry. The nation was shaken as by a great
earthquake. Its dreadful import was realized perhaps by none so
strikingly as by that little band of Abolitionists who never had
wavered in their belief that slavery must ultimately disrupt the Union.
When the country was paralyzed with horror and uncertainty, they alone
dared call public meetings of mourning and indignation. It was natural
that in Rochester they should turn to Susan B. Anthony for leadership.
Without a moment's hesitation for fear of consequences she engaged
Corinthian Hall and set about arranging a meeting for the evening of
that day. Parker Pillsbury wrote:
Can you not make this gathering one of a popular character? What I
mean is will not some sturdy Republican or Gerrit Smith man
preside, another act as secretary and several make addresses? Only
we must not lose the control. I do not believe that any observance
of the day will be instituted outside our ranks. I am without
tidings from the "seat of war" since Tuesday evening; and do not
know what we shall hear next. My voice is against any attempt at
rescue. It would inevitably, I fear, lead to bloodshed which could
not compensate nor be compensated. If the people dare murder their
victim, as they are determined to do, and in the name of law, he
dares and is prepared to die and the moral effect of the execution
will be without a parallel since the scenes on Calvary eighteen
hundred years ago, and the halter that day sanctified shall be the
cord to draw millions to salvation.
[Autograph: Parker Pillsbury]
Miss Anthony found that beyond the little band of Abolitionists not a
person dared give her any assistance. Her diary says: "Not one man of
prominence in religion or politics will publicly identify himself with
the John Brown meeting." She went from door to door selling tickets and
collecting money. Samuel D. Porter, a prominent member of the Liberty
party, assisted her, as did that circle of staunch Quaker friends who
never failed her in any undertaking; Frederick Douglass had been
obliged to flee to England. An admission fee of fifty cents kept out
the rabble, and not more than 300 were present. The masses of the
people, even those in full sympathy, were afraid to attend. Rev. Abram
Pryn, a Free church minister, made a fine address, and Parker Pillsbury
spoke as never before. Mr. Porter said: "This was the only occasion
that ever matched Pillsbury's adjectives." Miss Anthony presided and
there was no disturbance. The surplus receipts were sent to John
Brown's family.
Mrs. Stanton wrote shortly afterwards, urging her to come to Seneca
Falls: "Indeed it would do me great good to see some reformers just
now. The death of my father, the worse than death of my dear cousin
Gerrit,[28] the martyrdom of that great and glorious John Brown, all
conspire to make me regret more than ever my dwarfed and perverted
womanhood. In times like these every soul should do the work of a
fullgrown man. When I pass the gate of the celestials and good Peter
asks me where I wish to sit, I will say: 'Anywhere so that I am neither
a negro nor a woman. Confer on me, great angel, the glory of white
manhood, so that henceforth I may feel unlimited freedom.'"
In this year of 1859, Charles F. Hovey, a wealthy merchant of Boston, a
radical in religion and a noted reformer and philanthropist, left
$50,000 to be expended in securing equal rights for women, the
abolition of slavery, and other reforms, at the discretion of Wendell
Phillips, Wm. Lloyd Garrison and the other executors. As slavery was
abolished four years later, a considerable portion of this was used for
the cause of woman.
Early in December the anti-slavery committee insisted that Miss Anthony
should resume the management of their conventions, as they wished to
hold a series throughout the large cities of the State and had been
unable to find any one who could so successfully conduct them. Abby
Kelly Foster, though often critical and censorious, wrote her regarding
one of her speeches: "It is a timely, noble, clear-sighted and fearless
vindication of our platform. I want to say how delighted both Stephen
and myself are to see that you, though much younger than some others in
the anti-slavery school, have been able to appreciate so entirely the
genius of our enterprise." The distinguished George B. Cheever, of the
Church of the Puritans in New York, one of the few orthodox clergymen
who stood with the Abolitionists in those early days, wrote Miss
Anthony: "May God be with you and guide and bless you in your efforts.
That is the strength we all need and must have if we accomplish
anything good and permanent in this terrible conflict."
[Autograph: George B. Cheever]
A single instance will show how closely the question of woman's rights
was connected with that of anti-slavery in the popular mind. When Miss
Anthony and Mrs. Blackwell were at Fort William Henry, at the head of
Lake George, they spoke one evening in the hotel parlors. There were a
number of southerners present and many of them were delighted with the
meeting, whose doctrines were entirely new to them, and made liberal
contributions. The next day the speakers left in the stage with one of
these, Judge John J. Ormond and his two daughters, of Tuscaloosa, Ala.
He told Miss Anthony he had been instrumental in securing many laws
favorable to women in that state and it would be a pleasure to him to
see that their memorial was presented to the Alabama Legislature. When
she reached home she sent it to him with the following letter:
Enclosed is a copy of our woman's rights memorial. Will you give me
a full report of the action taken upon it?... I hope you and your
daughters arrived home safe. Say to the elder I shall be most happy
to hear from her when she shall have fairly inaugurated some noble
life work. I trust each will take to her soul a strong purpose and
that on her tombstone shall be engraved her own name and her own
noble deeds instead of merely the daughter of Judge Ormond, or the
relict of some Honorable or D. D. When true womanhood shall be
attained it will be spoken of and remembered for itself alone. My
kindest regards to them, accompanied with the most earnest desire
that they shall make truth and freedom the polar star of their
lives.
To this Judge Ormond made cordial reply, October 17, 1859:
DEAR MADAM: I have the honor to acknowledge the receipt of your
letter of the 2d inst., with the papers enclosed. The petition to
the Legislature will be presented by the senator from this county
and I will apprise you of the action had upon it. My daughters are
obliged to you for the interest you take in them. To a certain
extent I agree with you as to the duties of woman. I am greatly in
favor of her elevation to her proper sphere as the equal of man as
to her civil rights, the security of her person, the right to her
property and, where there is a separation after marriage, her equal
right with the father to the custody and education of the children.
All this as a legislator I have endeavored to accomplish, making
large innovations upon the ancient common law. If I differ from you
as to her political rights, it is because I think that, from
political as well as moral considerations, she is unfit for, indeed
incapacitated from, the performance of most of the duties which are
now performed by men as members of the body politic; but there are
many avocations and professions now exclusively occupied by men
which women are as well, perhaps better fitted to fill. I hope
these will soon be thrown open to an active competition of both
sexes.
Then came the raid on Harper's Ferry and all its terrible consequences,
and in December Judge Ormond wrote again:
MADAM: In redemption of my promise to tell you the fate of the
woman's rights petition to our Legislature, I have the honor to
inform you that it was virtually rejected, being laid on the table.
I interested a distinguished member of our Senate in its
presentation and, in addition, wrote a letter which under ordinary
circumstances would have insured its respectful consideration. But
after your petition was forwarded came the treasonable and
murderous invasion of John Brown. The atrocity of this act,
countenanced as it manifestly was by a great party at the North,
has extinguished our last spark of fraternal feeling. Whilst we are
all living under a Constitution which secures to us our right to
our slaves, the results of which are in truth more beneficial to
the whole North, and especially to the New England States, than to
us, you are secretly plotting murderous inroads into our peaceful
country and endeavoring to incite our slaves to cut the throats of
our wives and children. Can you believe that this state of things
can last? We now look upon you as our worst enemies and are ready
to separate from you. Measures are in progress as far as
practicable to establish non-intercourse with you and to proscribe
all articles of northern manufacture or origin, including New
England teachers. We can live without you; it remains to be seen
how you will get along without us. You will probably find that
fanaticism is not an element of national wealth or conducive to the
happiness or comfort of the people.
In conclusion, let me assure you this is written more in sorrow
than in anger. I am not a politician and have always been a
strenuous friend of the Union. I am now in favor of a separation,
unless you immediately retrace your steps and give the necessary
guarantees by the passage of appropriate laws that you will
faithfully abide by the compromises of the Constitution, by which
alone the slaveholding States can with honor or safety remain in
the Union. But that this will be done, I have very little hope, as
"madness seems to rule the hour;" and as you have thus constituted
yourselves our enemies, you must not be surprised at finding that
we are yours.
[Footnote 26: A critic said of this: "It is the most faultless
presentation of the question to which I have listened. Mr. Curtis takes
the broadest view of the subject, his logic in its sweep is convincing
as demonstration itself. His satire is cutting, but not bitter; his wit
keen as a Damascus blade. He came out bravely for the suffrage." For
forty years the advocates of equal rights have been using this lecture
as one of their strongest documents.]
[Footnote 27: By an odd coincidence, while this chapter was being
written a letter came to Miss Anthony from Dean M. Jenkins, of Detroit,
which said: "Enclosed please find my check to help on the good work to
which you have devoted your life. You see I have almost pardoned you
for saying, 'I have never quite forgiven you for marrying Helen Philleo
and taking her away from the suffrage work.' In place of one worker you
now have four. Mrs. Jenkins made a convert of me. Our daughter, Mrs.
Spalding, is as earnest a worker for the suffrage cause as her mother,
and our son is a defender of his mother's principles...."]
[Footnote 28: He had become temporarily insane on account of the
persecution he suffered in connection with the John Brown raid.]
CHAPTER XII.
RIFT IN COMMON LAW--DIVORCE QUESTION.
1860.
During the first decade of its history the movement toward securing a
larger liberty for women was known by the comprehensive term "woman's
rights." At its inception, under the English common law which
everywhere prevailed, woman was legally a part of man's belongings, one
of his chattels. Restrained by custom from speaking in public or
expressing herself through the newspapers, she had been silent under
the oppression of ages. When at length she found her voice there were
so many wrongs to be righted that she scarcely knew which first should
receive attention. Those early meetings could not be called woman
suffrage conventions, for many who advocated all the other reforms
which they considered either disbelieved in or were indifferent to the
franchise. It was only the Anthonys, Stantons, Stones, Roses,
Garrisons, Phillips of this great movement for woman's liberty who were
philosophical enough to see that the right of suffrage was the
underlying principle of the whole question; so it was not for many
years, not until practically all other demands had been granted, that
they were finally resolved into a suffrage organization, pure and
simple. At the beginning of 1860 the laws relating to women, as briefly
stated by the great jurist, David Dudley Field, were as follows:
The elective franchise is confined entirely to men. A married woman
can not sue for her services, as all she earns legally belongs to
the husband, whereas his earnings belong to himself, and the wife
legally has no interest in them. Where children have property and
both parents are living, the father is the guardian. In case of the
wife's death without a will, the husband is entitled to all her
personal property and to a life interest in the whole of her real
estate to the entire exclusion of the children, even though this
property may have come to her through a former husband and the
children of that marriage still be living. If the husband die
without a will, the widow is entitled to one-third of the personal
property and to a life interest in one-third only of the real
estate. In case a wife be personally injured, either in reputation
by slander, or in body by accident, compensation must be recovered
in the joint name of herself and her husband, and when recovered it
belongs to him. On the other hand, the wife has no legal claim in a
similar case in regard to the husband. The father may by deed or
will appoint a guardian for the minor children, who may thus be
taken entirely away from the jurisdiction of the mother at his
death. Where both parents are dead, the children shall be given to
the nearest of kin and, as between relatives of the same degree of
consanguinity, males shall be preferred. No married woman can act
as administrator in any case.
One can not but ask why, under such laws, women ever would marry, but
in those days virtually all occupations were closed to them and the
vast majority were compelled to marry for support. In the few cases
where women had their own means, they married because of the public
sentiment which considered it a serious reproach to remain a spinster
and rigorously forbade to her all the pleasures and independence that
are freely accorded to the unmarried woman of today. And they married
because it is natural for women to marry, and all laws and all customs,
all restrictions and all freedom, never will circumvent nature.
On February 3 and 4, 1860, the State Woman's Rights Convention was held
at Albany in Association Hall, an interesting and successful meeting.
At its close, in a letter to Mrs. Wright, Miss Anthony said: "Mr. Anson
Bingham, chairman of the judiciary committee, will bring in a radical
report in favor of all our claims, but previous to doing so he wishes
our strongest arguments made before the committee and says Mrs. Stanton
must come. I wish you would slip over there and make her feel that the
salvation of the Empire State, at least of the women in it, depends
upon her bending all her powers to move the hearts of our law-givers at
this time. I should go there myself this very night but I must watch
and encourage friends here." Mrs. Stanton replied to her urgent appeal:
"I am willing to do the appointed work at Albany. If Napoleon says
cross the Alps, they are crossed. You must come here and start me on
the right train of thought, as your practical knowledge of just what is
wanted is everything in getting up the right document."
The readers of history never will be able to separate Miss Anthony's
addresses from Mrs. Stanton's; they themselves scarcely could do it.
Some of the strongest ever written by either were prepared without the
assistance of the other, but most of their resolutions, memorials and
speeches were the joint work of both. Miss Anthony always said, "Mrs.
Stanton is my sentence maker, my pen artist." No one can excel Miss
Anthony in logic of thought or vigor of expression; no one is so
thoroughly supplied with facts, statistics and arguments, but she finds
it difficult and distasteful to put them into written form. When,
however, some one else has taken her wonderful stock of material and
reduced it to shape, she is a perfect critic. Her ear is as carefully
attuned to the correct balance of words as that of a skilled musician
to harmony in music. She will detect instantly a weak spot in a
sentence or a paragraph and never fail to suggest the exact word or
phrase needed to give it poise and strength.
Mrs. Stanton had a large house and a constantly increasing family,
making it exceedingly difficult to find time for literary work; so when
a state paper was to be written, Miss Anthony would go to Seneca Falls.
After the children were in bed, the two women would sit up far into the
night arranging material and planning their work. The next day Mrs.
Stanton would seek the quietest spot in the house and begin writing,
while Miss Anthony would give the children their breakfast, start the
older ones to school, make the dessert for dinner and trundle the
babies up and down the walk, rushing in occasionally to help the writer
out of a vortex. Many an article which will be read with delight by
future generations was thus prepared. Mrs. Stanton describes these
occasions in her charming Reminiscences:
It was mid such exhilarating scenes that Miss Anthony and I wrote
addresses for temperance, anti-slavery, educational and woman's
rights conventions. Here we forged resolutions, protests, appeals,
petitions, agricultural reports and constitutional arguments, for
we made it a matter of conscience to accept every invitation to
speak on every question, in order to maintain woman's right to do
so. It is often said by those who know Miss Anthony best, that she
has been my good angel, always pushing and guiding me to work. With
the cares of a large family, perhaps I might in time, like too many
women, have become wholly absorbed in a narrow selfishness, had not
my friend been continually exploring new fields for missionary
labors. Her description of a body of men on any platform,
complacently deciding questions in which women had an equal
interest without an equal voice, readily roused me to a
determination to throw a fire-brand in the midst of their assembly.
Thus, whenever I saw that stately Quaker girl coming across my lawn
I knew that some happy convocation of the sons of Adam were to be
set by the ears with our appeals or resolutions. The little
portmanteau stuffed with facts was opened and there we had what
Rev. John Smith and Hon. Richard Roe had said, false interpretation
of Bible texts, statistics of women robbed of their property, shut
out of some college, half-paid for their work, reports of some
disgraceful trial--injustice enough to turn any woman's thoughts
from stockings and puddings. Then we would get out our pens and
write articles for papers, a petition to the Legislature, letters
to the faithful here and there, stir up the women in Ohio,
Pennsylvania or Massachusetts, call on the Lily, the Una, the
Liberator, the Standard, to remember our wrongs. We never met
without issuing a pronunciamento on some question.
In thought and sympathy we were one, and in the division of labor
we exactly complemented each other. In writing we did better work
together than either could do alone. While she is slow and
analytical in composition, I am rapid and synthetic. I am the
better writer, she the better critic. She supplied the facts and
statistics, I the philosophy and rhetoric, and together we made
arguments which have stood unshaken by the storms of nearly fifty
long years.[29]
In 1878 Theodore Tilton gave this graphic description: "These two
women, sitting together in their parlors, have for the last thirty
years been diligent forgers of all manner of projectiles, from
fireworks to thunderbolts, and have hurled them with unexpected
explosion into the midst of all manner of educational, reformatory,
religious and political assemblies, sometimes to the pleasant surprise
and half welcome of the members; more often to the bewilderment and
prostration of numerous victims; and in a few signal instances, to the
gnashing of angry men's teeth. I know of no two more pertinacious
incendiaries in the whole country; nor will they themselves deny the
charge. In fact, this noise-making twain are the two sticks of a drum
for keeping up what Daniel Webster called 'the rub-a-dub of
agitation.'"
On March 19, 1860, Mrs. Stanton presented her address to a joint
session of the Legislature at Albany, occupying the speaker's desk and
facing as magnificent an audience as ever assembled in the old Capitol.
It was a grand plea for a repeal of the unjust and oppressive laws
relating to women, and it was universally said that its eloquence could
not have been surpassed by any man in the United States. A bill was
then in the hands of the judiciary committee, simply an amendment of
the Property Law of 1848, to which Andrew J. Colvin objected as not
liberal enough. Miss Anthony gave him a very radical bill just
introduced into the Massachusetts Legislature, which he examined
carefully, adding several clauses to make it still broader. It was
accepted by the committee, composed of Messrs. Hammond, Ramsey and
Colvin, reported to the Senate and passed by that body in February. It
was concurred in by the Assembly the day following Mrs. Stanton's
speech, and signed by Governor Edwin D. Morgan.[30] This new law
declared in brief:
Any property, real and personal, which any married woman now owns,
or which may come to her by descent, etc., shall be her sole and
separate property, not subject to control or interference by her
husband.
Any married woman may bargain, sell, etc., carry on any trade or
perform any services on her own account, and her earnings shall be
her sole and separate property and may be used or invested by her
in her own name.
A married woman may buy, sell, make contracts, etc., and if the
husband has willfully abandoned her, or is an habitual drunkard, or
insane, or a convict, his consent shall not be necessary.
A married woman may sue and be sued, bringing action in her own
name for damages and the money recovered shall be her sole
property.
Every married woman shall be joint guardian of her children with
her husband, with equal powers, etc., regarding them.
At the decease of the husband the wife shall have the same property
rights as the husband would have at her death.
This remarkable action, which might be termed almost a legal
revolution, was the result of nearly ten years of laborious and
persistent effort on the part of a little handful of women who, by
constant agitation through conventions, meetings and petitions, had
created a public sentiment which stood back of the Legislature and gave
it sanction to do this act of justice. While all these women worked
earnestly and conscientiously to bring about this great reform, there
was but one, during the entire period, who gave practically every month
of every year to this purpose, and that one was Susan B. Anthony. In
storm and sunshine, in heat and cold, in seasons of encouragement and
in times of doubt, criticism and contumely, she never faltered, never
stopped. Going with her petition from door to door, only to have them
shut in her face by the women she was trying to help; subjecting
herself to the jeers and insults of men whom she need never have met
except for this mission; held up by the press to the censure and
ridicule of thousands who never had seen or heard her; misrepresented
and abused above all other women because she stood in the front of the
battle and offered herself a vicarious sacrifice--can the women of New
York, can the women of the nation, ever be sufficiently grateful to
this one who, willingly and unflinchingly, did the hardest pioneer work
ever performed by mortal?
Miss Anthony divided the winter of 1860 between the anti-slavery and
the woman's cause. As she had very little on hand (!) she arranged
another course of lectures for Rochester, inviting A.D. Mayo, Ralph
Waldo Emerson, Thomas Starr King and others. These speakers were in the
employ of the lyceum bureau, but were so restricted by it that they
could give their great _reform_, lectures only under private
management. At the close of Emerson's he said to Miss Anthony that he
had been instrumental in establishing the lyceum for the purpose of
securing a freedom of speech not permitted in the churches, but he
believed that now he would have to do as much to break it up, because
of its conservatism, and organize some new scheme which would permit
men and women to utter their highest thought. She was in the habit of
arranging many of her woman's rights meetings in different towns when
Phillips or others were to be there for a lyceum lecture, thus securing
them for a speech the following afternoon.
[Autograph: Cordially yours, T.S. King]
A letter received this winter from her sister Mary is interesting as
showing that the belief in equal rights for women was quite as strong
in other members of the family. She had been requested by the board of
education to fill the place of one of the principals who was ill, and
gives the following account:
I was willing to do the best I could to help out, so the next
morning, with fear and trembling, I faced the 150 young men and
women, many of whom, like their fathers and mothers before them,
felt that no woman had the ability to occupy such a place. All went
well until it was noised about that I should expect as much salary
as had been paid the principal. To establish such a precedent would
never do, so a man from a neighboring town was sent for post-haste,
but the moment he began his administration the boys rebelled. After
slates and books had been thrown from the window and I had been
obliged to guard him from their snowballs on his way home, he
decided teaching, in that place at least, was not his "sphere" and
refused to return.
Next morning the committee asked me to resume the management. I
answered: "No person can fill the place of a long-tried teacher,
but I in a measure succeeded--yet not one of you would entertain
the idea of paying me as much as the principal. You sent to another
town for a man, who has made an absolute failure, and yet you do
not hesitate to pay him the full salary for the time he was here.
If you will be as just to me, I will resume the work and do my
best--on any other conditions I must decline." They agreed to the
proposition, I finished the term and for the first time on record a
woman received a principal's salary!
A little later Miss Mary continues the story:
You know the principal of Number Ten has been ill nearly two
months. I asked him if Miss Hayden, who took his place, was to
receive his salary. He replied: "Do you think after the money has
been audited to me, I ought to turn around and give it all to her?"
Said I: "If the board are willing to pay you $72 a month while you
are sick and pay her the same, all right; but if only one is to
receive that salary, I say, and most emphatically, she is the one."
He wanted to know if I was not aware that mine was the only case
where such a thing had been done in Rochester. I told him I was
heartily glad I had been the means of having justice done for once,
and was really in hopes other women teachers would follow my
example and suffer themselves no longer to be duped.
Miss Hayden however was obliged to accept $25 a month for doing exactly
the work for which the man received $72 during all his illness. To keep
her from making trouble, the board gave her a small present with the
understanding that it was not to be considered as salary. A short time
afterwards Miss Mary wrote again: "A woman teacher on a salary of $20 a
month has just been ill for a week and another was employed to take her
place; when she recovered, she was obliged to have the supply teacher's
salary deducted from her own. So I posted down to the superintendent's
office and had another decidedly plain talk. He owned that it was
unjust but said there was no help for it."
In the winter of 1860, Henry Ward Beecher delivered his great woman's
rights speech at Cooper Institute, New York. At that time his name was
a power in the whole world and his masterly exposition of the rights of
women is still used as one of the best suffrage leaflets. Miss Anthony
tells in her diary of meeting Tilton and of his amusing account of the
struggle they had to get this speech published in the Independent. Her
little visits to New York and Boston always inspired her with fresh
courage, for here she would meet Theodore Parker, Frothingham, Cheever,
Chapin, Beecher, Greeley, Phillips, Garrison, the great spirits of that
age, and all in perfect sympathy with what she represented.
The Tenth National Woman's Rights Convention assembled in Cooper
Institute, May 10, 1860. Miss Anthony called it to order and read a
full and interesting report of the work and progress of the past year.
The usual eloquent speeches were made by Phillips, Mrs. Rose, Rev.
Beriah Green, Mary Grew, Rev. Samuel Longfellow, brother of the poet,
and others. The warmest gratitude was expressed "toward Susan B.
Anthony, through whose untiring exertions and executive ability the
recent laws for women were secured." A hearty laugh was enjoyed at the
expense of the man who shouted from the audience, "She'd a great deal
better have been at home taking care of her husband and children." The
proceedings were pleasant and harmonious, but next morning the whole
atmosphere was changed and Elizabeth Cady Stanton did it with a little
set of resolutions declaring that, under certain conditions, divorce
was justifiable. She supported them by an address which for logic of
argument, force of expression and beauty of diction never has been,
never can be surpassed. No such thoughts ever before had been put into
words. She spoke on that day for all the women of the world, for the
wives of the present and future generations. The audience sat
breathless and, at the close of the following peroration, burst into
long-continued applause:
We can not take our gauge of womanhood from the past but from the
solemn convictions of our own souls, in the higher development of
the race. No parchments, however venerable with the mold of ages,
no human institutions, can bound the immortal wants of the royal
sons and daughters of the great I Am--rightful heirs of the joys of
time and joint heirs of the glories of eternity. If in marriage
either party claim the right to stand supreme, to woman, the mother
of the race, belongs the scepter and the crown. Her life is one
long sacrifice for man. You tell us that among all womankind there
is no Moses, Christ or Paul--no Michael Angelo, Beethoven or
Shakespeare--no Columbus or Galileo--no Locke or Bacon. Behold
those mighty minds so grand, so comprehensive--they themselves are
_our_ great works! Into you, O sons of earth, goes all of us that
is immortal. In you center our very life, our hopes, our intensest
love. For you we gladly pour out our heart's blood and die, knowing
that from our suffering comes forth a new and more glorious
resurrection of thought and life.
This speech set the convention on fire. Antoinette Blackwell spoke
strongly in opposition, Mrs. Rose eloquently in favor. Mr. Phillips was
not satisfied even with the motion to lay the resolutions on the table
but moved to expunge them from the journal of the convention, which, he
said, had nothing to do with laws except those that rested unequally
upon women and the laws of divorce did not. It seems incredible that
Mr. Phillips could have taken this position, when by the law the wife
had no legal claim upon either property or children in case of divorce,
and, even though the innocent party, must go forth into the world
homeless and childless; in the majority of States she could not sue for
divorce in her own name nor could she claim enough of the community
property to pay the costs of the suit. Miss Anthony said:
I hope Mr. Phillips will withdraw his motion. It would be contrary
to all parliamentary usage that when the speeches which advocated
them are published in the proceedings, the resolutions should not
be. I wholly dissent from the point that this question does not
belong on our platform. Marriage has ever been a one-sided
contract, resting most unequally upon the sexes. Woman never has
been consulted; her wish never has been taken into consideration as
regards the terms of the marriage compact. By law, public sentiment
and religion, woman never has been thought of other than as a piece
of property to be disposed of at the will and pleasure of man. This
very hour, by our statute books, by our so-called enlightened
Christian civilization, she has no voice whatever in saying what
shall be the basis of this relation. She must accept marriage as
man proffers it, or not at all.
And then again, on Mr. Phillips' own ground, the discussion is
perfectly in order, since nearly all the wrongs of which we
complain grow out of the inequality, the injustice of the marriage
laws, that rob the wife of the right to herself and her children
and make her the slave of the man she marries. I hope, therefore,
the resolutions will be allowed to go out to the public, that there
may be a fair report of the ideas which actually have been
presented here and that they may not be left to the mercy of the
press.
Abby Hopper Gibbons supported Mr. Phillips, but Mr. Garrison favored
the publication of the resolutions. The motion to expunge them from the
minutes was lost.
[Autograph:
Yours affectionately
Ernestine L. Rose]
This discussion stirred the country from center to circumference, and
all the prominent newspapers had editorials favoring one side or the
other. It produced the first unpleasantness in the ranks of those who
had stood together for the past decade. Greeley launched thunderbolts
against the right of divorce under any circumstances, and Mrs. Stanton
replied to him in his own paper. Lucy Stone, who just before the
convention had written to Mrs. Stanton, "That is a great, grand
question, may God touch your lips," now took sides with Phillips. To
Mrs. Stanton and Miss Anthony came letters from far and wide, both
approving and condemning. Mrs. William H. Seward and her sister, Mrs.
Worden, wrote that it not only was a germane question to be discussed
at the convention but that there could be no such thing as equal rights
with the existing conditions of marriage and divorce. From Lucretia
Mott came the encouraging words: "I was rejoiced to have such a defense
of the resolutions as yours. I have the fullest confidence in the
united judgment of Elizabeth Stanton and Susan Anthony and I am glad
they are so vigorous in the work." Parker Pillsbury sent a breezy note:
"What a pretty kettle of hot water you tumbled into at New York! Your
marriage and divorce speeches and resolutions you must have learned in
the school of a Wollstonecraft or a Sophie Arnaut. You broke the very
heart of the portly Evening Post and nearly drove the Tribune to the
grave."
For the censure of the world at large they did not care, but Phillips'
defection almost broke their hearts. He was their ideal of the brave
and the true and always before they had had his approval and assistance
in every undertaking. Miss Anthony wrote Mrs. Stanton: "It is not for
you or for me, any more than for Mr. Phillips, to dictate our platform;
that must be fixed by the majority. He is evidently greatly distressed.
I find my only comfort in that glorious thought of Theodore Parker:
'All this is but the noise and dust of the wagon bringing the harvest
home.' These things must be, and happy are they who see clearly to the
end." And to her friend Amy Post: "It is wonderful what letters of
approval we are receiving, some of them from the noblest women of the
State, not connected in any way with our great movement but
sympathizing fully with our position on the question of divorce. I only
regret that history may not see Wendell Phillips first and grandest in
the recognition of this great truth; but he is a man and can not put
himself in the position of a wife, can not feel what she does under the
present marriage code. And yet in his relations to his own wife he is
the embodiment of chivalry, tenderness and love."
In a letter to Miss Anthony, Mrs. Stanton said: "We are right. My
reason, my experience, my soul proclaim it. Our religion, laws,
customs, all are founded on the idea that woman was made for man. I am
a woman, and I can feel in every nerve where my deepest wrongs are
hidden. The men know we have struck a blow at their greatest
stronghold. Come what will, my whole soul rejoices in the truth I have
uttered. One word of thanks from a suffering woman outweighs with me
the howls of Christendom."
Notwithstanding all that had passed, Miss Anthony wrote Mr. Phillips
for money from the Hovey fund to publish the report of the convention
containing these very resolutions, and he sent it accompanied with a
cordial letter. With his generous disposition he soon recognized the
fact that it was eminently proper to agitate this question of divorce,
in order to make it possible for a woman to secure release from a
habitual drunkard, or a husband who treated her with personal violence
or willfully abandoned her, and to have some claim on their property
and a right to their children, if she were the innocent party. Before
three months he wrote Miss Anthony, "Go ahead, you are doing grandly,"
and he spoke many times afterwards on their platform. During the height
of this discussion Miss Anthony was in Albany and Rev. Mayo, thinking
to annihilate her, said: "You are not married, you have no business to
be discussing marriage." "Well, Mr. Mayo," she replied, "you are not a
slave, suppose you quit lecturing on slavery."
As a result of this agitation a little clique of women in Boston, led
by Caroline H. Dall, announced that they would hold a convention which
should not be open to free discussion but should be "limited to the
subjects of Education, Vocation and Civil Position." They drew to
themselves a small body of conservatives and it was thought might start
a new movement, but the meeting had no permanent results. Parker
Pillsbury said of it: "With the exception of Phillips, no soul kindled
with volcanic fire was permitted a solitary spark. O, such a meeting!
Beautiful as parlor theatricals, but as a bold shriek for freedom or a
protest against tyrant laws, not a sparrow on the housetop could have
been more harmless." Miss Anthony wrote at this time: "Cautious,
careful people, always casting about to preserve their reputation and
social standing, never can bring about a reform. Those who are really
in earnest must be willing to be anything or nothing in the world's
estimation, and publicly and privately, in season and out, avow their
sympathy with despised and persecuted ideas and their advocates, and
bear the consequences."
In June she and Mrs. Stanton went to a large meeting of Progressive
Friends at Waterloo, where the latter read this same speech on divorce
and then, to quote Miss Anthony's own words, "As usual when she had
fired her gun she went home and left me to finish the battle." In this
case it lasted several days, but Mrs. Stanton knew she could count upon
her friend to defend her to the last ditch. Miss Anthony was always on
the skirmish line. She would interview the married women who could not
leave home and children, get their approval of her plans and then go to
the front. Once or twice a year she would gather her hosts for a big
battle, but the rest of the time she did picket duty, acted as scout
and penetrated alone the enemy's country. Between meetings she would
find her way home, make over her old dresses and on rare occasions get
a new one. This she called "looking after the externals." Then, as her
mother was an invalid, she would clean the house from top to bottom and
do a vast amount of necessary work.
In her diary are many such entries as these: "Washed all the shutters.
Took up the carpet this morning.... Whitewashed the kitchen today....
Helped the girl wash this morning; in the afternoon ironed six shirts,
and started for New York at 4 o'clock. Was a little bit tired." At one
time, with the help of a seamstress, she made fourteen shirts,
stitching by hand all the collars, bosoms and wristbands, and, as this
woman had worked in the Troy laundry, she taught Miss Anthony to
clear-starch and iron them. Each summer she managed to be home long
enough to assist with the canning, pickling and preserving. The little
journal gives the best glimpses of her daily life, usually only a hasty
scrawl of a few lines but containing many flashes of humor and wisdom.
Thus the records run:
Crowded house at Port Byron. I tried to say a few words at opening,
but soon curled up like a sensitive plant. It is a terrible
martyrdom for me to speak.... Very many Abolitionists have yet to
learn the A B C of woman's rights.... The Boston Congregationalist
has a scurrilous article. Shall write the editor.... It is
discouraging that no man does right for right's sake, but
everything to serve party.... I find such comfort in Aurora Leigh
when I am sorely pressed.... Heard Stephen A. Douglas today; a low
spectacle for both eye and ear.... Gave my lecture on "The True
Woman" at Penn Yan teachers' institute. Some strange gentleman
present supported my plea for physical culture for girls.... Had a
talk with Frederick Douglass. He seems to have no faith in simple
and abstract right.... Lost patience this morning over a lamp and
suffered vastly therefor. Why can I not learn self-control?...
Company came and found me out in the garden picking peas and
blackberries--and hoopless.... A fine-looking young colored man on
train presented me with a bouquet. Can't tell whether he knew me or
only felt my sympathy.... Am reading Buckle's History of
Civilization and Darwin's Descent of Man. Have finished his Origin
of Species. Pillsbury has just given me Emerson's poems....
Miss Anthony did not fail to put aside everything long enough to attend
the State Teachers' Convention at Syracuse. The right of women to take
part had now become so well established that it needed no further
defense, but she still fought for equal pay for equal services, and
equal advantages of education for colored children, and each year found
her views gaining a stronger support from both men and women. After
this convention she continued her meetings, anti-slavery and woman's
rights, and during the summer visited again her birthplace at Adams,
Mass., writing home:
Found grandfather working in the oat field, just think of it,
ninety-and-a-half years old! But in honor of my arrival he remained
home and visited all the afternoon. How hard the women here work,
and how destitute they are of all the conveniences. It is perfectly
barbarous when they have plenty of money. I borrowed a calico dress
and sunbonnet and with the cousins climbed to the very top of Old
Greylock. Later I visited the "Daniel House," as grandfather calls
our old home. I rambled through the orchard, but the spice-apple
tree is dead and the little tree in the corner that we children
loved so well. I visited the old spring up in the pasture, and
thought how many times the tired feet of mother and grandmother had
trod those paths--and the little brook runs over the stones as
merry and beautiful as ever.
From here she went to Boston to attend a meeting of the Hovey fund
committee and urged them to establish a "depository" at Albany with
Lydia Mott in charge, which was done. This depot of supplies of
literature, etc., for the anti-slavery cause, and central meeting place
for its friends, was continued throughout the war. The Mott sisters,
cousins of James, lovely and cultured Quaker women, had a little home
in Maiden Lane and kept a gentlemen's furnishing store, making by hand
the ruffled shirtbosoms and other fine linen. As their home had been so
long the center for the reformers of the day, the committee were glad
to put Lydia in charge of this depository, at a small salary, and she
conducted an extensive correspondence for them during several years.
Miss Anthony stayed with her till everything was arranged and in good
running order. In July she had received the following invitation:
By a unanimous vote of the Union Agricultural Society of Dundee a
resolution was passed to tender you an invitation to deliver the
annual address at our next fair. We know it is a departure from
established usage, but your experience as one of a brave band of
radical reformers will have taught you that only by gradual steps
and continued efforts can the prejudices of custom be overcome and
the rights of humanity maintained. Woman's rights are coming to be
respected more and more every year, and we hope you will aid us in
demonstrating that a woman can deliver as profitable an address at
an agricultural fair as can a lord of creation....
Yours respectfully, WILLIAM HOUSE, _Secretary, per_ D. S. BRUNER.
To refuse such an opportunity was not to be thought of, so she
accepted, and then wrote Mrs. Stanton, who answered: "Come on and we
will grind out the speech. I shall expect to get the inspiration,
thoughts and facts from you, and will agree to dress all the children
you bring."
She found a cordial welcome when she reached Dundee, October 17. It
rained so hard her address was deferred till the next day, as it had to
be delivered out of doors, so she visited the "art" and "culinary"
departments of the fair, and records in her diary: "I have just put an
extra paragraph in my speech on bedquilts and bad cooking." Her stage
was a big lumber wagon, and her desk the melodeon of James G. Clark,
the noted singer and Abolitionist, who held an umbrella over her head
to keep off the rain. The diary says: "More than 2,000 feet were
planted in the mud, but I had a grand listening to the very end." The
speech was a great success and was published in full in the Dundee
Record, occupying the entire front page. It was a fine exposition of
modern methods of farming and a strong plea for beautifying the home,
giving the children books and music and making life so pleasant they
would not want to leave the country for the city. These ideas at that
time were new and attracted much attention and favorable comment. This
was the first instance of a woman's making an address on such an
occasion.
At the close of 1860 an incident occurred which attracted wide
attention and strikingly illustrated Miss Anthony's unflinching courage
and firm persistence when she felt she was right. One evening in
December she was in Albany at the depository with Lydia Mott when a
lady, heavily veiled, entered and in a long, confidential talk told her
story, which in brief was as follows: She was the sister of a United
States senator and of a prominent lawyer, and in her younger days was
principal of the academy and had written several books. She married a
distinguished member of the Massachusetts Senate and they had three
children. Having discovered that her husband was unfaithful to her and
confronted him with the proofs, he was furious and threw her down
stairs, and thereafter was very abusive. When she threatened to expose
him, he had her shut up in an insane asylum, a very easy thing for
husbands to do in those days. She was there a year and a half, but at
length, through a writ of habeas corpus, was released and taken to the
home of her brother. Naturally she longed to see her children and the
husband permitted the son to visit her a few weeks. When she had to
give him up she begged for the thirteen-year-old daughter, who was
allowed to remain for two weeks, and then the father demanded her
return. The mother pleaded for longer time but was refused. She prayed
her brother to interfere but he answered: "It is of no use for you to
say another word. The child belongs by law to the father and it is your
place to submit. If you make any more trouble about it we'll send you
back to the asylum."
Then in her desperation she took the child and fled from the house,
finding refuge with a Quaker family, where she stayed until she learned
that her hiding-place was discovered, and now as a last resort she came
to these women. They assured the unhappy mother that they would help
her and, upon making careful inquiry among her friends, found that,
while all believed her sane, no one was willing to take her part
because of the prominence of her brothers and husband. Finally it was
decided that Miss Anthony should go with the mother and child to New
York and put them in a safe place, so they were directed to disguise
themselves and be at the train on Christmas afternoon. Miss Anthony
went on board and soon saw a woman in an old shawl, dilapidated bonnet
and green goggles, accompanied by a poorly dressed child, and she knew
that so far all was well, but she found the woman in a terrible state
of nervousness. She had met her brother coming out of another car where
he had just placed his young son to return to boarding-school, after a
happy vacation at home, while his sister with her child was fleeing
like a criminal; but fortunately he had not recognized her.
Miss Anthony and her charges reached New York at 10 o'clock at night
and went through snow and slush to a hotel but were refused admittance
because it did not take women "unaccompanied by a gentleman." They made
their weary way to another, only to be met with a similar refusal.
Finally she thought of an acquaintance who had had a wretched
experience with a bad husband and was now divorced, and she felt that
sympathy would certainly impel this woman to give them shelter. When
they reached the house they found her keeping boarders and she said all
would leave if they learned she was "harboring a runaway wife." It was
then midnight. They went in the cold arid darkness to a hotel on
Broadway, but here the excuse was made that the house was full. Miss
Anthony's patience had reached its limit and she declared: "I know that
is not so. You can give us a place to sleep or we will sit in this
office all night." The clerk threatened to call the police. "Very
well," was the reply, "we will sit here till they come and take us to
the station." At last he gave them a room without a fire, and there,
cold, wet and exhausted, they remained till morning. Then they started
out again on foot, as they had not enough money left to hire a
carriage.
They went to Mrs. Rose but she could not accommodate them; then to Abby
Hopper Gibbons, who sent them to Elizabeth F. Ellet, saying if they
could not find quarters to come back and she would care for them. Mrs.
Ellet was not at home. All day they went from place to place but no one
was willing to accept the responsibility of sheltering them, and at
night, utterly worn out, they returned to Mrs. Gibbons. She promised to
keep the mother and child until other arrangements could be effected,
and Miss Anthony left them there and took the 10 o'clock train back to
Albany. She arrived toward morning, tired out in mind and body, but
soon was made comfortable by the ministrations of her faithful friend
Lydia.
[Autograph: Abby Hopper Gibbons]
It was not long before the family became convinced that Miss Anthony
knew the whereabouts of mother and child and then began a siege of
persecution. She had at this time commenced that never-to-be-forgotten
series of anti-slavery conventions which were mobbed in every town from
Buffalo to Albany. In the midst of all this excitement and danger, she
was constantly receiving threats from the brothers that they would have
her arrested on the platform. They said she had broken the laws and
they would make her pay the penalty; that their sister was an "ugly"
woman and nobody could live with her. To this she replied: "I have
heard there was Indian blood in your family; perhaps your sister has
got a little of it as well as yourselves. I think you would not allow
your children to be taken away from you, law or no law. There is no
reason or justice in a woman's submitting to such outrages, and I
propose to defy the law and you also."
If she had been harassed only by these men, it would have caused her no
especial worry, but letters and telegrams from friends poured in urging
her to reveal the hiding-place and, most surprising of all, both
Garrison and Phillips wrote that she had abducted a man's child and
must surrender it! Mr. Phillips remonstrated: "Let us urge you,
therefore, at once to advise and insist upon this woman's returning to
her relatives. Garrison concurs with me fully and earnestly in this
opinion, thinking that our movement's repute for good sense should not
be compromised by any such mistake." In a letter from Mr. Garrison
covering six pages of foolscap, he argued: "Our identification with the
woman's rights movement and the anti-slavery cause is such that we
ought not unnecessarily involve them in any hasty and ill-judged, no
matter how well-meant, efforts of our own. We, at least, owe to them
this--that if for any act of ours we are dragged before courts we ought
to be able to show that we acted discreetly as well as with good
intentions." Both men spoke kindly and affectionately but they were
unable to view the question from a mother's or even from a woman's
standpoint. Miss Anthony replied to them:
I can not give you a satisfactory statement on paper, but I feel
the strongest assurance that all I have done is wholly right. Had I
turned my back upon her I should have scorned myself. In all those
hours of aid and sympathy for that outraged woman I remembered only
that I was a human being. That I should stop to ask if my act would
injure the reputation of any movement never crossed my mind, nor
will I now allow such a fear to stifle my sympathies or tempt me to
expose her to the cruel, inhuman treatment of her own household.
Trust me that as I ignore all law to help the slave, so will I
ignore it all to protect an enslaved woman.
At the anti-slavery convention in Albany Mr. Garrison pleaded with her
to give up the child and insisted that she was entirely in the wrong.
He said: "Don't you know the law of Massachusetts gives the father the
entire guardianship and control of the children?" "Yes, I know it," she
replied, "and does not the law of the United States give the
slaveholder the ownership of the slave? And don't you break it every
time you help a slave to Canada?" "Yes, I do." "Well, the law which
gives the father the sole ownership of the children is just as wicked
and I'll break it just as quickly. You would die before you would
deliver a slave to his master, and I will die before I will give up
that child to its father." It was impossible for even such great men as
Garrison and Phillips to feel for a wronged and outraged woman as they
could for a wronged and outraged black man. Miss Anthony wrote at this
time: "Only to think that in this great trial I should be hounded by
the two men whom I adore and reverence above all others!" Through all
this ordeal her father sustained her position, saying: "My child, I
think you have done absolutely right, but don't put a word on paper or
make a statement to any one that you are not prepared to face in court.
Legally you are wrong, but morally you are right, and I will stand by
you."
Mrs. Elizabeth F. Ellet, author of Women of the Revolution and other
works, cared for and protected the unfortunates, obtained sewing for
the mother and helped her to live in peaceful seclusion for a year. She
was placed in the family of a physician who watched her closely and
testified, as did all connected with her, that she was perfectly sane.
According to her letters still in existence, the husband took
possession of her funds in bank, drew all the money due to her from her
publishers and forbade them to pay her any more from the sale of her
books, as he had a legal right to do. In this extremity one of the
brothers sent her some money through Miss Mott, who stood as firm as
Miss Anthony in the face of threat and persecution. At length, feeling
safe, the mother let the little girl go to Sunday-school alone and at
the door of the church she was suddenly snatched up, put into a close
carriage and in a few hours placed in possession of the father. The
mother and her friends made every effort to secure the child, but the
law was on the side of the father and they never succeeded.
[Footnote 29: At Miss Anthony's request only such speeches are
published in the appendix of this biography as were prepared entirely
without the co-operation of Mrs. Stanton.]
[Footnote 30: In a letter to Miss Anthony regretting that no action was
taken on the suffrage question, Mr. Colvin wrote: "The more reflection
I give, the more my mind becomes convinced that in a republican
government we have no right to deny woman the privileges she claims.
Besides, the moral element which those privileges would bring into
action would, in my judgment, have a powerful influence in perpetuating
our form of government."]
CHAPTER XIII.
MOB EXPERIENCE----CIVIL WAR.
1861--1862.
The beginning of 1861 found the country in a state approaching
demoralization. Lincoln had received a majority of the electoral vote
but far from a majority of the popular vote. The victory was so narrow
that the Republicans did not feel themselves strong enough for
aggressive action, and the party was composed of a number of diverse
elements not yet sufficiently united to agree upon a distinctive
policy. Its one cohesive force was the principle of no further
extension of slavery, but there was no thought among its leaders of any
interference with this institution in the States where it already
existed. They accepted the interpretation of the Constitution which
declared that it sanctioned and protected slavery, but were determined
that the Territories should be admitted into the Union as free States.
While many of them were in favor of emancipation, they expected that in
some way this question would be settled without recourse to extreme
measures, and they feared the effect, not only on the South but on the
North, of the forcible language and radical demands of the
Abolitionists.
The latter were roused to desperation. Never for an instant did they
accept the doctrine that the North should be satisfied merely by the
prevention of any further spread of slavery; they believed the system
should be exterminated root and branch. They were angered at the
reserved and dispassionate language of Lincoln and alarmed at the
threats of the secession of the South, which must result either in
putting it forever beyond the power of the government to interfere with
slavery, or in terrorizing it into making such concessions as would
enable the slave power to intrench itself still more strongly under the
protection of the Constitution.
At this critical moment, therefore, the Abolitionists put forth every
effort to rouse public sentiment to the impending dangers. They
gathered their forces and sent them throughout New England, New York
and the Western States, bearing upon their banners the watchwords, "No
Compromise with Slaveholders. Immediate and Unconditional
Emancipation." One detachment, under the intrepid leadership of Susan
B. Anthony, arranged a series of meetings for New York in the winter of
1861. This party was composed of Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Rev. Samuel J.
May, Rev. Beriah Green, Aaron M. Powell and Stephen S. Foster; but one
after another gave out and went home, while Miss Anthony still remained
at the helm. The series began at Buffalo, January 3, in St. James Hall.
The mob was ready for them and, led by ex-Justice George Hinson and
Birdseye Wilcox, hissed, hooted, yelled and stamped, making it utterly
impossible for the speakers to be heard. Prominent among the disturbers
were young Horatio Seymour and a son of ex-President Fillmore. The
police refused to obey the orders of a Republican mayor and joined in
the efforts of the mob, which held carnival two entire days, finally
crowding upon the platform and taking possession; and in the midst of
the melee the gas was turned off. Miss Anthony stood her ground,
however, until lights were brought in, and then herself declared the
meeting adjourned.
In towns where there were not enough people to create a disturbance,
the meetings passed off quietly, but they were mobbed and broken up in
every city from Buffalo to Albany. Democratic officials encouraged the
mob spirit and where Republicans might have wished to oppose it, they
were too cowardly to do so. The meetings were advertised for three days
in Rochester, beginning January 12, and, as the newspapers occupied
many columns with a discussion as to whether they would be broken up
here as elsewhere, the opposition was thoroughly aroused and the
turbulent elements had time to become fully organized. The board of
aldermen were called together to consider whether means could not be
found to prevent Mr. Reynolds allowing the use of Corinthian Hall,
which had been rented for the occasion, and whether it would not be
wise to issue an order forbidding the owner of any public building to
let it to the Abolitionists; but finally adjourned without action.
The mob, under the lead of Constable Richard L. Swift, fully answered
all expectations. As Miss Anthony stepped forward to open the meeting,
she was greeted with a broadside of hisses and ironical applause. When
Mrs. Stanton began her address her voice was drowned in jeers and
groans and, although she persevered for some time, she was unable to
complete a single sentence. Rev. May attempted to speak and was met by
yells, and stamping of feet. A Southerner in the audience rose and
said: "Well, I may as well go back to Kentucky, for this is ahead of
any demonstration against free speech I ever saw in the South;" but he
was stopped by cries of, "Put him out!" The men kept on their hats,
smoked pipes and cigars, stamped, bellowed, swore, and bedlam reigned.
The acting mayor, sheriff and chief of police were present, but not an
arrest was made. Mrs. Stanton finally left the platform, but Miss
Anthony courageously maintained her position until the chief of police
mounted the rostrum and declared the meeting adjourned. Even then the
rioters refused to go out of the hall, and the speakers were obliged to
leave under protection of the police amid the hooting and howling of
the rabble. All wanted to give up the rest of the meetings, but Miss
Anthony declared they had a right to speak and it was the business of
the authorities to protect them, and persisted in finishing the series
as advertised. On Sunday the only place where they were allowed to hold
services was in Zion's colored church. The house was filled, morning
and evening, and they were left in peace.
At Port Byron the meeting was broken up by the throwing of cayenne
pepper on the stove. When the speakers reached Utica, where Mechanics'
Hall had been engaged, they learned that the board of directors had met
and decided it should not be used, in direct violation of the contract
with Miss Anthony, who had spent $60 on the meeting. They found the
doors locked and a large crowd on the outside. The mayor was among them
and begged her not to attempt to hold a meeting. In reply she demanded
that the doors be opened. He refused but offered to escort her to a
place of safety. She answered: "I am not afraid. It is you who are the
coward. If you have the power to protect me in person, you have also
the power to protect me in the right of free speech. I scorn your
assistance." She declined his proffered arm, but he persisted in
escorting her through the mob. As no hall could be had they held their
meeting at the residence of her host, James C. DeLong, and formed an
anti-slavery organization. The instigator of the opposition in Utica
was ex-Governor Horatio Seymour. Of the meeting at Rome, Miss Anthony
wrote:
Last evening there was a furious organized mob. I stood at the foot
of the stairs to take the admission fee. Some thirty or forty had
properly paid and passed up when a great uproar in the street told
of times coming. It proved to be a closely packed gang of forty or
fifty rowdies, who stamped and yelled and never halted for me. I
said, "Ten cents, sir," to the leader, but he brushed me aside, big
cloak, furs and all, as if I had been a mosquito, and cried, "Come
on, boys!" They rushed to the platform, where were Foster and
Powell who had not yet commenced speaking, seated themselves at the
table, drew out packs of cards, sang the Star-Spangled Banner and
hurrahed and hooted. After some thirty or forty minutes, Mr. Foster
and Aaron came down and I accompanied them back to Stanwix Hotel,
where the gang made desperate efforts to get through the entrance
room in pursuit of the "damned Abolitionists." The Republican paper
called us pestiferous fanatics and infidels, and advised every
decent man to stay away. Were the Republicans true at this crisis,
we not only should be heard quietly, as in past years, but should
have far larger audiences; and yet a hundred unmolested conventions
would not have made us a tithe of the sympathizers this one
diabolical mob has done.
Mr. May was in favor of giving up the conventions and was especially
anxious that one should not be attempted in Syracuse, which city, he
said, had always maintained freedom of speech and he did not want the
record broken; but still, if they insisted upon coming he would do all
in his power to help them. Miss Anthony was firm, replying: "If
Syracuse is capable of maintaining free speech the record will not be
broken; if it is not capable, it has no right to the reputation."
Convention Hall was engaged and Mr. May and Mr. C.D.B. Mills lent every
possible assistance, but the Abolitionists encountered here the worst
opposition of all. The hall was filled with a howling, drunken,
infuriated crowd, headed by Ezra Downer, a liquor dealer, and Luke
McKenna, a pro-slavery Democrat. Even Mr. May, who was venerated by all
Syracuse, was not allowed to speak. Rotten eggs were thrown, benches
broken, and knives and pistols gleamed in every direction. The few
ladies present were hurried out of the room, and Miss Anthony faced
that raging audience, the only woman there. The Republican chief of
police refused to make any effort toward keeping order. The mob crowded
upon the platform and took possession of the meeting, and Miss Anthony
and her little band were forced out of the hall. They repaired to the
residence of Dr. R.W. and Mrs. Hannah Fuller Pease, which was crowded
with friends of the cause. That evening the rioters dragged through the
streets hideous effigies of Susan B. Anthony and Rev. S.J. May, and
burned them in the public square.