HOW TO PROFIT BY BEARING WITH INSULTS.

He used to say that a harvest of virtues could be gathered in from a crop

of affronts and injuries, because they offer us in abundance opportunities

of making such acts as the following:

1. Of _justice_; for who is there that has not sinned and consequently has

not deserved punishment? Has anyone offended you? Well, think how often

you have offended God! Surely, therefore, it is meet that creatures, the

instruments of His justice, should punish you.

2. But perhaps you were justly accused? Well, if so, simply acknowledge

your fault, asking pardon of God as well as of men, and be grateful to

those who have accused you, even though they have done it in such a manner

as to add unnecessary bitterness to your suffering. Remember that medicines

are none the less salutary for being nauseous.

3. But may-be you were accused falsely? If so, calmly and quietly,

but without hesitation, bear witness to the truth. We owe this to our

neighbours, who might, if we were silent, believe the charge brought

against us, and thus be greatly disedified.

4. Yet, if, after this, people persist in blaming you, abandon any further

defence of yourself, and conquer by silence, modesty, and patience.

5. _Prudence_ has its own part to play in the conflict; for there is no

better way of dealing with insults than by treating them with contempt.

He who gives way to anger looks as if he acknowledged the truth of the

accusation.

6. _Discretion_, too, comes to the aid of prudence by counselling

toleration.

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