This method is based upon the efficacy of the two principles of approval
and expectancy. Your approval is shown by the lack of faultfinding. You
put yourself in a right attitude of comradeship with Ella by speaking to
her in a kindly way about her misdemeanor. Your extended hand when
asking for the lunch shows that you expect obedience. Friendship is
further developed by your care for her property and prompt return of it
at recess. Children are quick to respond to either confidence or
suspicion.