3. THE ESSENTIAL NATURE OF DISOBEDIENCE

(1) _Instinctive factors._ In searching among the instinctive elements

of human nature for the chief inner stimulus to disobedience we are led

to that group which is designated by such terms as self-preservative,

individualistic or egoistic. Both obedience and disobedience seem to be

expressions of the same basal incitements. In the lower stages of

existence the free will of savage and child meets with circumstances in

which it must yield to an external plan of action if life is to be

preserved or self-gratification secured. Obedience is the price paid for

life and for the luxury of being satisfied.

In the case of disobedience the same stimuli operate; the proposed

course of action appears hostile to the interests of the self and the

person rebels. The gratification of the countless desires, tastes,

expectations, choices, hopes, rights, etc., that the human person

constantly carries with him occupy the forefront of attention always.

Disobedience is nothing more nor less than a decision that some one or

more of these egoistic demands is being carelessly or ruthlessly dealt

with and that the person is going to seek gratification in another

direction.

(2) _The element of choice._ We can analyze the disobedient state of

mind, at least to some extent. The first factor that we meet is choice.

Choice enters into disobedience in two forms: first, the choice between

courses of action, between ideals. The teacher proposes one line of

action. This suggests other alternatives; a choice is necessary. Second,

there must be choice between yielding to the teacher and resisting his

command.

The obedient child is hardly aware of this distinction as such. A

disobedient pupil may readily agree that a proposed action is wise and

opportune, but his dislike for the teacher appears in a decision not to

heed the command. Strictly speaking, this is a partial obedience, in

that the child consents to the wisdom and worth of the course of action,

although, for reasons of prejudice, he refuses to heed the command. The

decision not to heed the teacher is the crucial point in disobedience.

If unwilling to obey, the pupil weighs the gains and losses and decides

to disobey the teacher. Usually there is no very great gain to be had

when this sort of action follows. More than likely there is personal

prejudice, false pride, or some similar cause for the refusal to obey.

At times, to be sure, the disobedient pupil believes that he can not in

reality trust his teacher. Confidence in the teacher is impaired or

entirely lacking. Disobedience must follow in many cases where such is

the state of a pupil’s mind.

(3) _Confidence._ Confidence underlies all loyal obedience. Confidence

is faith in the person who proposes the action, a conviction that when

he himself acts, he will satisfy in a large degree, the expectations of

the one who obeys. A pupil always sets up certain standards by which he

measures a teacher. If a teacher gives ground for the anticipation that

his acts will conform to these standards, he has won his pupil’s

confidence.

The chief modes of winning the confidence of pupils may be briefly

stated: first, by the teacher’s loyalty to his own principles of

conduct; second, by revealing an identity between these principles and

those accepted by the school community and the pupil; third, by setting

before pupils courses of action which are seen to be primarily

developments of pupils’ own ideals.

Even kindergartners who do not secure obedience based on confidence,

fail. Some members of the circle of children may have no working ideals

of school behavior. These must be taught dogmatically to the child

before even mere outward conformity to rule can be secured. If properly

taught, if actually trained, in the essentials of good order, the child

accepts as his own these necessary ideals, and thereafter a call to

obedience is a demand for the child to do what he himself naturally

regards as the best thing to do under the given circumstances. His

reasons for deeming this the best thing to do may be few or entirely

wanting so far as fundamental grounds are concerned.

Whether it be suggestion or social impetus, the love of system, or

whatever it is that gives this ideal value in the mind of the child, we

need not try to comprehend. The only point is that the obedience that

belongs to good character is a willingness to do what the pupil regards

as right under the leadership of another person. These ideals in the

child’s mind that are reproduced in the commands of the teacher may be

simple, perhaps mere images of muscular activity; nevertheless, they are

the forecast of an activity which later develops into complex concepts

that cover worlds of thought.

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