VI

Since the law of 1834 a woman has been legally liable to maintain her

natural child until it reaches the age of sixteen. She is allowed to

establish paternity, and, if she can do this, to obtain a maintenance

order against the father, the maximum amount now allowed being 10/- a

week, which sum is to be paid until the child reaches the age of

sixteen. But the mother is not compelled to take this course, indeed,

she is hindered from doing so in every possible way, both by the many

absurd difficulties of the law and the expense of the summons. And this

is the cause of clear injustice to the child, whose right to a father

and to support from him ought not to be dependent on the caprice of the

mother, whose desire is often to protect the man rather than to do

justice to the child. For this reason the establishment of paternity

should be compulsory on the mother or her relations as it now is in

Norway. Every child has a right to a father as well as to a mother.

The ante-natal conditions of these babies are obviously of the very

worst. All those months when a woman most requires special rest, special

quiet, and, in particular, special mental repose, will be spent in

anxiety and fear. In too many cases the girl has to keep herself, and it

is mighty difficult to get a job without a character. And, here, let me

point out to those who believe vaguely that a "love-child" is a finer

type than other children, that this is true only in so far as the

atmosphere in which the mother spends her pregnancy is one of love and

undisturbed calm. Do let us face the facts of the situation.

Often the baby is born wherever the driven mother can find shelter, the

baby's interests in the matter being certainly of no account then or

later. In the eyes of the law the child is without rights and belongs to

no one. In the eyes of our Christian society he is a "branded outcast,"

in the eyes of his mother too often he is but a mark of her shame:

conditions of injustice to the child that must too often result in the

growing up of a poor type of child.

It has been found that illegitimates at birth are quite as hardy as

legitimate children; they would even seem to be born stronger, since

they die, unlike the legitimate, more frequently in the _second_ month

than the _first_; and more frequently in the _third_ than in the

_second_ month. The deferred and insufficient regulation of the child's

diet, the frequent failure on the part of the father to provide the

means of support, the not uncommon indifference on the part of the

mother towards her child's welfare, and the necessity of placing the

child in cheap care, are the chief causes of the high mortality rates

among illegitimate children.

Even in the few fortunate cases where the maximum alimony is claimed and

granted to the mother, there is no certainty that the weekly payments

will be continued and regularly paid throughout the child's growing

years, and though there is improvement in this direction since the

Affiliation Orders Act, 1914, and the appointment of a Collecting

Officer, there is still far too easy opportunity for the escape of a

shirking father. The law takes no cognizance of the fact that in the

majority of cases it is an absolute impossibility for the mothers, even

with the best will in the world, unassisted, to place their children in

proper conditions for their up-bringing. At present, with no authorized

person to supervise the mother and check her absolute control, to see

how she spends the alimony, where she places the child, what education

it has, what prospects of growing into an effective adult; too often the

child never reaches maturity and its case is often worse if it does

survive; its home changed from one place to another, sometimes with the

mother, sometimes boarded out with irresponsible people, or adopted with

a premium, it is liable to gross neglect and the most far-reaching and

incurable perversions of character.

We have reached this truth then. _The urgent duty that rests with the

law and with us all is the duty of taking action to prevent as far as it

is possible, and in every way that we can, the penalty of its

illegitimate birth being paid by the child._

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