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THE ART OF BEING HAPPY:

From the French of DROZ,

‘SUR L’ART D’ETRE HEUREUX;’

In a Series of Letters

from

a Father to His Children:

with

Observations and Comments.

by

TIMOTHY FLINT.

‘----sua si bonna nôrint.’--VIRGIL.

Boston,

Published By Carter And Hendee.

1832.

Entered according to Act of Congress, in the year 1832,

BY CARTER AND HENDEE,

in the Clerk’s Office of the District Court of Massachusetts.

ADVERTISEMENT.

The text, upon which the following observations and comments

are based, does not assume to be a literal translation of the

celebrated work of Droz. The original is strongly idiomatic;

and the author has carried an uncommon talent of being laconic

sometimes to the point of obscurity. I have often found it

impossible to convey to the English reader a sentiment, perfectly

obvious in the original, in as few words as are there used. The

French, in its more numerous articles, more allowable and bold

personifications, and arbitrary use of gender, has, in the hand

of certain writers, this advantage over our language. When the

doctrines of the book are compared one with the other, and each

with the general bearing of the work, the inculcation, namely, of

the truth that _virtue is happiness_, there will be found nothing

immoral or reprehensible in it. The author, on the whole, leans to

the Epicurean philosophy. Unfavorable, though erroneous impressions

have been very generally entertained of that philosophy. In

deference to that opinion, I have altogether omitted the few

sentences, which seemed appropriate to some of the dogmas of the

Epicureans. Nothing can be more remote from their alleged impiety,

than the general tenor of this work. One of its most eloquent and

impressive chapters is that upon religion. There is a distinct

class in France, both numerous and important, the _literatures_.

Many of the remarks of the author, bearing chiefly upon that class,

seemed inapplicable, or unintelligible in our country, where there

is no such class to address. I have passed over many passages and

parts of chapters, which had an almost exclusive reference to

persons in that walk in life. I have added members of sentences,

and even whole sentences to the text, where such additions seemed

necessary to develope the doctrine to an English reader.

In a word, I do not offer the text, as an exact translation, but

as the only treatise within the compass of my reading, which has

discussed the pursuit of happiness, as a science or an art; and

as one which has advanced more eloquent and impressive sentiments

upon the subject, than I have elsewhere met. With the slight

alterations, which I have made, I have found this book to meet

my own thoughts; and I have laid out of the text all phrases and

passages, which spoke otherwise. I have availed myself of the words

of another, because they have expressed my own views better than

I could have hoped to express them myself. This explanation will

be my reply to all remarks, touching mistranslation, or liberties

taken with the author.

ERRATA.

Page 44, last line, dele the 5.

Page 111, 5th line from bottom, dele 29.

Page 121, end of second paragraph, dele 32.

Page 149, 2d line from top, dele 51.

Page 200, for Note 5, page 44, read 6, page 45.

CONTENTS.

Page.

LETTER I.

Introduction, 1

LETTER II.

The Physical, Organic and Moral Laws, 8

LETTER III.

The same subject continued, 25

LETTER IV.

General Views of the subject, 39

LETTER V.

Our Desires, 45

LETTER VI.

Tranquillity of Mind, 51

LETTER VII.

Of Misfortune, 58

LETTER VIII.

Of Independence, 67

LETTER IX.

Of Health, 73

LETTER X.

Of Competence, 83

LETTER XI.

Of Opinion, and the Affection of Men, 90

LETTER XII.

Of the Sentiment Men ought to Inspire, 95

LETTER XIII.

Of some of the Virtues, 100

LETTER XIV.

Of Marriage, 108

LETTER XV.

Of Children, 117

LETTER XVI.

Of Friendship, 124

LETTER XVII.

The Pleasures of the Senses, 129

LETTER XVIII.

The Pleasures of the Heart, 134

LETTER XIX.

The Pleasures of the Understanding, 139

LETTER XX.

The Pleasures of the Imagination, 144

LETTER XXI.

Melancholy, 148

LETTER XXII.

Religious Sentiments, 154

LETTER XXIII.

Of the Rapidity of Life, 163

LETTER XXIV.

On Death, 170

LETTER XXV.

Conclusion of Droz ‘_Sur l’Art d’Etre Heureux_,’ 176

LETTER XXVI.

The Choice of a Profession, 182

NOTES, 193-313

THE ART OF BEING HAPPY.

LETTER I.

The following thoughts, my dear children, are those of an

affectionate father going out of life, to those he most loves, who

are coming forward in it. I am perfectly aware, that nothing but

time can impart all the dear bought instruction of experience.

Upon innumerable questions, that relate to life, you will receive

efficient teaching only by reaping the fruit of your own errors.

But one who has preceded you on the journey, who has listened to

the impressive oracles of years, may impart some aid if you will

listen with docility, to enable you to anticipate the lessons of

experimental acquaintance with the world. In what I am about to

write, I trust I may bring you this aid. As you embark on the

uncertain voyage, I cannot but hope, that your filial piety will

incline you to a frequent recurrence to the parental chart. You

are aware, that circumstances have brought me into contact with

all conditions, and into a view of all the aspects of life. I

ought, therefore, to be qualified to impart useful lessons upon the

evils and dangers of inexperience. You, at least, will not see

assumption in such lessons, when they result from the remembrance

of my own errors. You may consider what follows, whether it be my

own remarks, or what I have adopted from others, as the gleanings

of experimental instruction, from what I have myself seen, felt,

suffered, or enjoyed; and as my comments upon the influence, which

my election of alternatives has had, upon the amount of my own

enjoyment or suffering.

You will find enough who are ready to inspire you with indifference

or disdain for such counsels. They will indolently, and yet

confidently, assure you, that the theoretical discussion of the

pursuit of happiness is, of all visionary investigations, the most

profitless and inapplicable; that lecture, write, preach as we

may, the future will be, perhaps ought to be, as the past; that

the world is always growing older, without ever growing wiser; and

that men are evidently no more successful in their search after

happiness now, than in the remotest periods of recorded history.

They will affirm that man has always been the sport of accident,

the slave of his passions, the creature of circumstances; that it

is useless to reason, vain to consult rules, imbecile to surrender

independence, to follow the guidance of those who assume to be

wise, or receive instruction from those who have been taught

by years. They will allege the utter inefficacy of the lights

of reason, philosophy, and religion, judging from the little

illumination, which they have hitherto shed upon the paths of

life. On the same ground, and from the same reasonings, they might

declaim against every attempt, in every form to render the world

wiser and happier. With equal propriety they might say, ‘close the

pulpit, silence the press, cease from parental discipline, moral

suasion, and the training of education. Do what you will, the world

will go on as before.’ Who does not see the absurdity of such

language? Because we cannot do everything, shall we do nothing?

Because the million float towards the invisible future without any

pole star, or guided only by the presumption of general opinion,

is it proof conclusive that none have been rendered happier

in consequence of having followed wiser guidance, and pursued

happiness by system?

Such is the practical creed of the great mass, with whom you will

be associated in life. I, on the contrary, think entirely with the

French philosopher, whose precepts you are about to read, that this

general persuasion is palpably false and fatal; that much suffering

may be avoided, and much enjoyment obtained by following rules,

and pursuing happiness by system; that I have had the fortune to

meet with numbers, who were visible proofs that men may learn

how to be happy. I am confident that the far greater portion of

human suffering is of our own procuring, the result of ignorance

and mistaken views, and that it is a superfluous and unnecessary

mixture of bitterness in the cup of human life. I firmly believe

that the greater number of deaths, instead of being the result of

specific diseases, to which they are attributed, are really caused

by a series of imperceptible malign influences, springing from

corroding cares, griefs, and disappointments. To say, that more

than half of the human race die of sorrow, and a broken heart, or

in some way fall victims to their passions, may seem like advancing

a revolting doctrine; but it is, nevertheless, in my mind, a simple

truth.

We do not _see_ the operations of grief upon some one or all the

countless frail and delicate constituents of human life. But if

physiology could look through the infinitely complicated web of

our structure with the power of the solar microscope, it would

behold every chagrin searing some nerve, paralyzing the action of

some organ, or closing some capillary; and that every sigh draws

its drop of life blood from the heart. Nature is slow in resenting

her injuries; but the memory of them is indelibly impressed, and

treasured up for a late, but certain revenge. Nervousness, lowness

of spirits, headache, and all the countless train of morbid and

deranged corporeal and mental action, are, at once, the cause and

the effect of sorrow and anxiety, increased by a constant series

of action and reaction. Thought and care become impressed upon

the brow. The bland essence of cheerfulness evaporates. The head

becomes shorn of its locks; and the frosts of winter gather on

the temples. These concurrent influences silently sap the stamina

of life; until, aided by some adventitious circumstance, which we

call cold, fever, epidemic, dyspepsia--death lays his hand upon the

frame that by the sorrows and cares of life was prepared for his

dread office. The bills of mortality assign a name to the mortal

disease different from the true one.

Cheerfulness and equanimity are about the only traits that have

invariably marked the life of those who have lived to extreme old

age. Nothing is more clearly settled by experience, than that

grief acts as a slow poison, not only in the immediate infliction

of pain, but in gradually impairing the powers of life, and in

subtracting from the sum of our days.

If, then, by any process of instruction, discipline and mental

force, we can influence our circumstances, banish grief and create

cheerfulness, we can, in the same degree, reduce rules, for the

pursuit of happiness, to a system; and make that system a matter

of science. Can we not do this? The very million who deride the

idea of seeking for enjoyment through the medium of instruction,

unconsciously exercise the power in question to a certain

extent--though not to the extent, of which they are capable. All

those wise individuals, who have travelled with equanimity and

cheerfulness through the diversified scenes of life, making the

most of its good, and the least of its evils, bear a general

testimony to the truth of this fact. We find in them a conviction

that they had such power, and a force of character that enabled

them to act according to their convictions.

No person deserves the name of a philosopher, who is not wise in

relation to the great purpose of life. In the same proportion,

then, as I convince you, that by our own voluntary, physical and

mental discipline, we can act upon circumstances, and influence our

temperament, and thus bear directly upon our happiness, I shall

be able to stir up your powers, and call forth your energy of

character, to apply that discipline in your own case. In the same

proportion I shall be instrumental in training you to the highest

exercise of your reason, and the attainment of true philosophy.

The elements upon which you are to operate, are your circumstances,

habits, and modes of thinking and acting. The _philosopher of

circumstances_[A] denies that you can act upon these. But, by his

unwearied efforts to propagate his system, he proves, that he does

not himself act upon his avowed convictions. The impulse of all

our actions from birth to death, the spring of all our movements

is a conviction, that we can alter and improve our condition. We

have a consciousness stronger than our reason, that we can control

our circumstances. We can change our regimen and habits; and by

patience and perseverance, even our temperament. Every one can cite

innumerable and most melancholy instances of those who have done it

for evil. The habit of indulging in opium, tobacco, ardent spirits,

or any of the pernicious narcotics, soon reduces the physical and

mental constitution to that temperament, in which these stimulants

are felt to be necessary. A corresponding change is produced in the

mind and disposition. The frequent and regular use of medicine,

though it may have been wholly necessary at first, finally becomes

an inveterate habit. No phenomenon of physiology is more striking,

than the facility with which the human constitution immediately

commences a conformity to whatsoever change of circumstances, as

of climate, habit, or aliment, we impose upon it. It is a most

impressive proof, that the Creator has formed man capable of

becoming the creature of all climates and conditions.

If we may change our temperament both of body and mind for evil,

as innumerable examples prove that we may, why not as easily for

good? Our habits certainly are under our control; and our modes

of thinking, however little the process may have been explained,

are, in some way, shaped by our voluntary discipline. We have high

powers of self-command, as every one who has made the effort to

exercise them, must be conscious. We have inexhaustible moral force

for self-direction, if we will only recognise and exert it. We owe

most of our disgusts and disappointments, our corroding passions

and unreasonable desires, our fretfulness, gloom and self-torment,

neither to nature nor fate; but to ourselves, and our reckless

indifference to those rules, that ought to guide our pursuit of

happiness. Let a higher education and a truer wisdom disenthral

us from our passions, and dispel the mists of opinion and silence

the authority of example. Let us commence the pursuit of happiness

on the right course, and seek it where alone it is to be found.

Equanimity and moderation will shed their mild radiance upon our

enjoyments; and in our reverses we shall summon resignation and

force of character; and, according to the sublime ancient maxim, we

shall become masters of events and of ourselves.

I am sensible that there will always be a sufficient number of

those, deemed philosophers, who, notwithstanding their rules, have

wandered far from their aim. Such there will always be, so long as

there are stirring passions within or hidden dangers around us; and

there will be shipwrecks, so long as human cupidity and ambition

tempt self-confident and unskilful mariners upon the fickle and

tumultuous bosom of the ocean. But is this proof that a disciplined

pilot would not be most likely to make the voyage in safety, or

that the study of navigation is useless?

My affectionate desire is, to draw your attention to those moral

resources which your Creator has placed at your command. How many

millions have floated down the current in the indolent supineness

of inactivity, who, had they been aware of their internal means

of active resistance, would have risen above the pressure of

their circumstances! Who can deny, that there is a manifest

difference, even as things now are, between the moral courage of

action and endurance, put forth by a disciplined and reflecting

mind, possessing force of character, and the stupid and passive

abandonment, with which a savage meets pain and death?

May you speed on your voyage under the influence of the _lucida

sidera_, or, in higher phrase, may Providence be your guide.

LETTER II.

THE PHYSICAL, ORGANIC AND MORAL LAWS.

In relation to this most important subject, read _Combe on the

Constitution of Man_, a book, which I consider admirable for its

broad, philosophic, and just views of the laws of the universe,

in their bearing upon the constitution of our physical and moral

nature. You are not unaware, that I had presented you similar

views, and inculcated the same master principles, long before

this excellent work was published. Thousands, in all ages, have

entertained the same extended conceptions of the divine plan,

and its bearing upon man and all beings, upon this and all other

worlds. But the honor belongs to this author, to have given form

and systematic arrangement to these views. I have given my

thoughts upon this subject at the commencement of my letters, and

have subjoined remarks upon the Christian religion at the close,

because I deem that M. Droz, in not recurring to these fundamental

principles at the beginning of his work, and in dwelling with so

little earnestness upon the hope of the gospel, as an element of

happiness, at the close, has left chasms in it which ought to be

supplied.

The sect, numerous in my day, in yours, I trust, will have

disappeared, who hold that religion and philosophy are militant and

irreconcilable principles. Such persons are accustomed to brand

these broad views of Providence and moral obligation with the odium

of impiety. You will hardly need my assurance, that, if I thought

with them, _my right hand should forget its cunning_, before I

would allow anything to escape my pen which might have the least

tendency to impair in your minds the future and eternal sanctions

of virtue. I shall hereafter enlarge upon my persuasion, that, so

far from being in opposition, religion and philosophy, when rightly

understood, will be found resting on the same immutable foundation.

It is because the misguided friends of religion have attempted to

sustain them, as separate and hostile interests, in my view, that

the former has made so little progress towards becoming universal.

It will one day be understood, that whatever wars with reason

and common sense, is equally hostile to religion. The simple and

unchangeable truths of Christianity will be found to violate none

of our most obvious convictions. Truth will reassume her legitimate

reign. Piety, religion and morals, our best interests for this

life, and our surest preparations for a future one, will be found

exactly conformable to the eternal order of things, and the system

of the gospel will become universal, according to its legitimate

claims. True piety, in my mind, is equally our duty, our wisdom and

happiness. To behold God everywhere in his works, to hold communion

with him in a contemplative and admiring spirit, to love, and trust

him, to find, in the deep and constantly present persuasion of

his being and attributes, a sentiment of exhaustless cheerfulness

and excitement to duty, I hold to be the source of the purest and

sublimest pleasure, that earth can afford.

True philosophy unfolds the design of final causes with a calm

and humble wisdom. It finds the Creator everywhere, and always

acting in wisdom and power. It traces the highest benevolence of

intention, where the first aspect showed no apparent purpose, or

one that seemed to tend to misery; offering new inducements to

learn the first and last lesson of religion, and the ultimate

attainment of human wisdom--resignation to the will of God. In

vindicating his ways to men, it declares that so long as we do

not understand the laws of our being and so long as we transgress

them, either ignorantly, or wilfully and unconsciously, misery to

ourselves must just as certainly follow as that we can neither

resist nor circumvent them; and that the Omnipotent has forged

every link of the chain, that connects our own unhappiness with

every transgression of the laws of our nature.

We find ourselves making a part of an existing universe which

neither ignorance, nor wisdom, doubting, nor confidence can alter.

If we know the order, of which we are the subjects, and conform

to it, we are happy. If we ignorantly, or wilfully transgress

it, the order is in no degree changed, or impeded. It moves

irresistibly on, and the opposition is crushed. How wisdom and

benevolence are reconcilable with the permission of this ignorance

and opposition, in other words, why partial evil exists in God’s

universe, it is not my object to inquire. The inquiry would not

only be fruitless, but would in no degree alter the fact, that what

we call evil does exist. It is enough for us to know, that, as far

as human research has reached, or can reach, the more profoundly

we investigate the subject, the more clearly are design, wisdom

and benevolence discoverable. Beyond our ken, right reason, guided

by humility, would infer, that, where we cannot trace the impress

of these attributes, it is not because they are not discoverable,

but because our powers are not equal to the discovery. If we had a

broader vision, and were more fully acquainted with the relations

of all parts of God’s universe, the one to the other, and all the

reasons of the permanent ordinances of his government, we should

be able to understand the necessity of partial evil to the general

good; we should understand, why it rains on the waste ocean, when

drought consigns whole countries to aridity and desolation; in a

word, why ignorance, transgression, misery and death have a place

in our system.

All that we now know is, that the natural laws of this system

are universal, invariable, unbending; that physical and moral

tendencies are the same all over our world; and we have every

reason to believe, over all other worlds. Wherever moral beings

keep in harmony with these laws, there is no instance, in which

happiness is not the result. Men never enjoy health, vigor, and

felicity in disobedience to them. The whole infinite contrivance

of everything above, around, and within us, appears directed to

certain benevolent issues; and all the laws of nature are in

perfect harmony with the whole constitution of man.

I shall not enter upon the subtle controversies of moral

philosophers, as to the fundamental principle of moral obligation,

whether it be expediency, the nature of things, or the will of God?

In my view these are rather questions about words, than things. The

nature of things is a part of the will of God; and expediency is

conformity to this unchanging order. An action derives its moral

complexion from being conformed to the will of God, and the nature

of things; and whatever is so conformed, is expedient; consequently

all the different foundations of morals, when examined, are found

to be precisely the same.

My notions of morality are, that it is conformity to the physical,

organic and moral laws of the universe. Some will choose to

call it expediency; others, the will of God; and others still,

the constitution of things. These views, when reduced to their

elements, are the same, call them by what names we may. We may

obviously divide these laws into three classes. The first series we

call physical laws, or those which act upon the material universe,

and upon ourselves as a part of that universe. The second we call

organic, or those which regulate the origin, growth, well-being

and dissolution of organized beings. The last, denominated moral,

act chiefly on the intellectual universe. They are founded on our

relations to the sentient universe and God.

We infer from analogy, that these laws always have been, are, and

always will be, invariably the same; and that they prevail alike

in every portion of God’s universe. We so judge, because we believe

the existing order of things to be the wisest and the best. We

know that the physical laws actually do prevail alike in every

part of our world, and as far beyond it, as the highest helps of

astronomy can aid our researches into the depths of immensity. Is

it not probable, that if we could investigate the system, as far as

the utmost stretch of thought, we should find no point, where the

laws of gravity, light, heat and motion do not prevail; where the

sentient beings are not restricted to the same moral relations, as

in our world? Wherever the empire of science has extended, we note

these laws equally prevalent, in a molecule and a world, and from

the lowest order of sentient beings up to man. The arrangement of

the great whole, it should seem, must be a single emanation from

the same wisdom and will, perfectly uniform throughout the whole

empire. What an impressive motive to study these laws, and conform

to them, is it, to know, that they are as irresistible, as the

divine power, as universal, as the divine presence, as permanent

as the divine existence;--that there is no evading them, that no

art can disconnect misery from transgressing them, that no change

of place or time, that not death, nor any transformation which

our conscious being can undergo, will, during the revolutions of

eternity, dispense any more with the necessity of observing these

laws, than during our present transitory existence in clay!

I need not dwell a moment upon the proofs of the absolute identity

of the physical laws. No one need be told, that a ship floats,

water descends, heat warms, and cold freezes, and that all physical

properties of matter are the same over the globe. We shall only

show by a few palpable examples, that our system is arranged in

conformity to the organic laws. Every discovery in the kingdom of

animated nature developes new instances.

In the tropical regions, the muscular energy is less, in proportion

as the natural fertility of the soil is greater. In colder

latitudes muscular energy is increased; and ruder elements, and a

more sterile nature, proportion their claims accordingly. In arctic

regions no farinaceous food ripens. Sojourners in that climate

find, that bread and vegetable diet do not furnish the requisite

nutriment; that pure animal food is the only sustenance that will

there maintain the tone of the system, imparting a delightful

vigor and buoyancy of mind. Strange as it may seem, to conform to

this necessity, these dreary countries abound in infinite numbers

and varieties of animals, fowls and fishes. The climate favors

the drying and preserving of animal food, which is thus prepared

to sustain the inhabitants, when nature imprisons the material

creation in chains of ice, and wraps herself up in her mantle of

snow. Thus, if we survey the whole globe, the food, climate and

other circumstances will be found accommodated to the inhabitants;

and they, as far as they conform to the organic laws, will be found

adapted to their climate and mode of subsistence.

In all positions man finds himself called upon, by the clear

indications of the organic laws, to take that free and cheerful

exercise, which is calculated to develope vigorous muscular,

nervous and mental action. The laborer digs, and the hunter

chases for subsistence; but finds at the same time health and

cheerfulness. The penalty of the violation of this organic law by

the indulgence of indolence is debility, enfeebled action, both

bodily and mental, dyspepsia with all its horrid train, and finally

death. On the other hand, the penalty of over exertion, debauchery,

intemperance, and excess of every species, comes in other forms

of disease and suffering. These laws, though not so obviously

and palpably so, are as invariable and inevitable, as those of

attraction, or magnetism; and yet the great mass of our species,

even in what we call enlightened and educated countries, do not

recognise, and obey them. It is in vain for them, that, from age

to age, the same consequences have ensued, as the eternal heralds

of the divinity, proclaiming to all people, in all languages,

that his laws carry their sanctions with them. One of our most

imperious duties, then, is to study these laws, to make ourselves

conversant with their bearing upon our pursuit of happiness, that

we may conform to them. When we have become acquainted with their

universality and resistless power, we shall indulge no puerile hope

that we may enjoy the present gratification of infringing them, and

then evade the ultimate consequences. We shall as soon calculate

to change condition with the tenants of the air and the waters, as

expect to divert any one of them from its onward course.

He then is wise, who looks round him with a searching eye to become

fully possessed, without the coloring of sophistical wishes and

self-deceiving expectation, of the actual conditions of his being;

and who, instead of imagining, that the unchangeable courses of

nature will conform to him, his ignorance, interests or passions,

shapes his course so as to conform to them. He will no more expect,

for example, that he can indulge his appetites, give scope to his

passions, and yield himself to the seductions of life, and escape

without a balance of misery in consequence, than he would calculate

to throw himself unhurt, from a mountain precipice.

So far as regards himself, he will study the organic laws, in

reference to their bearing upon his mind, his health, his morals,

his happiness. He will strive to be cheerful; for he knows that it

is a part of the constitution of things, that cheerfulness tends to

physical and mental health. He will accustom himself to exercise,

and will avoid indolence, because he understands that he was formed

to be an active being, and that he cannot yield to his slothful

propensities, without forfeiting the delightful feeling of energy,

and the power to operate upon events, instead of being passively

borne along by them. He will be active, that he may feel conscious

power. He will rise above the silent and invisible influence of

sloth, and will exult in a feeling of force and self-command, for

the same reasons that the eagle loves to soar aloft, and look upon

the sun; because a sensation of power, and a sublime liberty are

enjoyed in the flight. He will be temperate in the gratification

of his appetites and passions, because he is aware, that every

excessive indulgence strikes a balance of suffering against him,

which he must discharge soon, or late; and helps to forge a chain

of habit, that will render it more difficult for him to resist

the next temptation to indulgence. He will rise early from sleep,

because nature calls him to early rising, in all her cheerful

voices, in the matin song of birds, the balmy morning freshness

and elasticity of the air, and the renovated cry of joy from the

whole animal creation. He will do this, because he has early heard

complaints from all sides of the shortness of life, and because

he is sensible, that he who rises every day two hours before the

common period, will prolong the ordinary duration of life by adding

six years of the pleasantest part of existence. He will rise early,

because next after the intemperate, no human being offers a more

unworthy spectacle, than is presented by the man, who calls himself

rational and immortal, who sees before him a greater amount of

knowledge, duty and happiness, than he could hope to compass in

a thousand years; and who yet turns himself indolently from side

to side, during the hours of the awakening of nature, enjoying

only the luxury of a savage or a brute, in a state of dozing

existence little superior to the dreamless sleep of the grave. I

test the character of a youth of whom I wish to entertain hope,

by this criterion. If he can nobly resist his propensities, if he

can act from reason against his inclinations, if he can trample

indolence under foot, if he can always make the effort to show the

intellectual in the ascendant over the animal being, I note him as

one, who will be worthy of eminence, whether he attain it or not.

In a word, there is something of dignity and intellectual grandeur

in the aspect of the young, who live in obedience to the organic

and moral laws, which commands at once that undefined, and almost

unconscious estimation and respect, which all minds involuntarily

pay to true greatness. Such was the image of the poet, when he

delineated the angel _severe in youthful beauty_; and such that

of the Mantuan, when he compares Neptune rebuking and hushing the

winds, to a venerable man, allaying by his words of peace, the

uproar of an infuriated populace.

Were I to enter into details of your obligations to understand and

obey these laws, as they relate to the various periods, pursuits

and duties of life, I should offer you a volume, instead of an

outline, which, from the examples given, your own thoughts can

easily fill out. But that I may not leave these momentous duties

wholly untouched, I shall dwell a moment on their bearing upon a

most important epoch of life, one which, perhaps more than any

other, gives the color to future years either of happiness or

misery.

When the young reach that period, when nature invokes them to

assume the obligations of connubial life, this knowledge and

conformity will cause them to pause, and reflect on what is before

them, and will interdict them from following the inconsiderate

throng, in entering into that decisive condition, consulting no

other lights, than a morbid fancy, those impulses which are common

to all other animals, or sordid calculations of interest. They are

well apprized, that the declamations of satire, and the bitter

and common jest of all civilized people, upon wedded life, have

but too much foundation in truth. They perceive at a glance, that

those who with such views take on them the obligations of the

conjugal state have no right to hope anything better than satiety,

ill-humor, monotonous disgust, and the insupportable imprisonment

of two persons, in intimate and indissoluble partnership, who find

weariness and penance in being together, who are reminded, at once

by the void in their hearts, and their mutual inability to fill it,

that they must not only endure the pain of being chained together,

but feel, that they are thus barred from a happier union, partly

by shame, partly by public opinion, and, more than all, by the

obstacles, wisely thrown by all civilized nations in the way of

obtaining divorce. There can be no doubt, that the common views

of the universal unhappiness of the wedded state in all Christian

countries are the result of gross exaggeration. Making all

allowances for errors from this source, language is too feeble, to

delineate the countless and unutterable miseries, that, in all time

since the institution of marriage, as recognised by Christianity,

have resulted from these incompatible unions, for the simple

reason, that, in this transaction, of so much more moment than

almost any other, scarcely one of the parties in a thousand, it is

believed, takes the least note of it in relation to the organic

and moral laws. The young and the aged, the feeble and the strong,

the healthy and the diseased, the beautiful and the deformed,

the mild and the fierce, the intellectual and the purely animal,

the rich and the poor, bring their incompatibilities to a common

stock, add ruinous excesses of temperament together, unite under a

spell, reckless of the live-long consequences involved, and arouse

from a short trance to the conscious and sober sadness of waking

misery. To them the hackneyed declamations against marriage have

a terrible import. Weariness, discontent, ennui, relieved only by

the fierceness of domestic discord, and a wretchedness aggravated

by the consciousness that there is no escape from it, but by death,

is the issue of a union consummated under illusive expectations of

more than mortal happiness. How many millions have found this to be

the reality of their youthful dreams! Yet if this most important

union is contracted under animal impulses, without any regard to

moral and intellectual considerations, without any investigation of

the organic and social fitness of the case, without inquiry into

the compatibility, without a mutual understanding of temperament,

dispositions, and habits; who cannot foresee, that the propensities

will soon languish in satiety; that repentance and discord and

disgust and disaffection and loathing, in proportion to the

remembered raptures forever passed away, will rudely open the eyes

of the parties to their real and permanent condition, and that by

a law as certain and inevitable, as that which propels water down

a precipice! And this is not the darkest shade in the picture. By

the same laws children are born with the doubled excess of the

temperaments of their parents; or puny, undeveloped and feeble, or

racked by all the fiercer passions of our nature. Opening their

eyes in this scene, which the guilty thoughtlessness of successive

generations has rendered little better than a vast lazar house,

evil example, gloom, unregulated tempers, repining and misery are

their first and last spectacles. They advance into life to repeat

the errors of their parents, to make common stock of their misery

anew, to multiply the number of the unhappy, or perhaps worse, to

tenant hospitals, and the receptacles of human ignorance and misery.

Can any question be imagined in life, in regard to which you ought

so deliberately to pause, investigate and weigh all the bearings

of the case? And yet can any other important transaction be named,

upon which, in this view, so little thought is bestowed, and which

is entered into with such reckless blindness to consequences?

He, who determines to respect the laws of his being, will study

his own temperament, and that of the other party, and weigh the

excesses and defects, as one convinced by the general analogy

of animated nature, that the physical and mental character, the

constitutional and moral temperament of the offspring, in the

ordinary course of things, will be a compound of that of the

parents. If he find himself subject to any peculiar corporeal

infirmity, hereditary tendency to disease, overbearing propensities

towards indulgence, or excess, unbalanced passions, or morbid

mental obliquity, he will be studiously solicitous, that the other

party shall not be laboring under similar disqualifications. I may

not follow out the subordinate details. Your thoughts cannot but

suggest innumerable considerations, that I pass in silence. Will

any moral being, capable of conscientious views of the ultimate

bearing of his actions, dare to treat this subject, all momentous

as it is, with unphilosophic levity and ridicule? Will any one

say, that such discussions ought to be pretermitted by a parent? I

affirm, that such are not my notions of the obligations of decorum

and propriety. The world has been too long peopled with mere

animals bound by the laws, and doomed to the responsibilities of

rationality, and yet acting like the orders below them, without a

capacity for finding their happiness. If, being men, and inheriting

either the privileges, or the doom of men, we will choose to

consider ourselves merely as animals, shall we dare to arraign

Providence, or fill the world with murmurs, if we enjoy not the

peculiar pleasures of either race, and are subject to the miseries

of both? When you are aware that such considerations must affect

not only your own happiness, or misery, but that of your offspring,

a whole coming generation, and the hopes of the regeneration and

improvement of a world, you will be sensible, that silence in such

a discussion would be guilty pride. I perfectly coincide with the

conclusions of Combe upon this subject, and transcribe for your

benefit an admirable exposition of my views from the notes appended

to his book on the _Constitution of Man_.

‘It is a very common error, not only among philosophers, but among

practical men, to imagine that the _feelings_ of the mind are

communicated to it through the medium of the _intellect_; and,

in particular, that if no indelicate objects reach the eyes, or

expressions penetrate the ears, perfect purity will necessarily

reign within the soul; and, carrying this mistake into practice,

they are prone to object to all discussion of the subjects treated

of under the ‘Organic Laws,’ in works designed for general use.

But their principle of reasoning is fallacious, and the practical

result has been highly detrimental to society. The _feelings_

have existence and activity distinct from the _intellect_; they

spur it on to obtain their own gratification; and it may become

either their slave or guide, according as it is enlightened

concerning their constitution and objects, and the laws of nature

to which they are subjected. The most profound philosophers have

inculcated this doctrine; and, by phrenological observation, it is

demonstrably established. The organs of the feelings are distinct

from those of the intellectual faculties; they are larger; and, as

each faculty, _cæteris paribus_, acts with a power proportionate

to the size of its organ, the feelings are obviously the active

or impelling powers. The cerebellum, or organ of Amativeness, is

the largest of the whole mental organs; and, being endowed with

natural activity, it fills the mind spontaneously with emotions

and suggestions which may be directed, controlled and resisted, in

outward manifestation, by intellect and moral sentiment, but which

cannot be prevented from arising nor eradicated after they exist.

The whole question, therefore, resolves itself into this, Whether

it is most beneficial to enlighten and direct that feeling, or

(under the influence of an error in philosophy, and false delicacy

founded on it), to permit it to riot in all the fierceness of a

blind animal instinct, withdrawn from the eye of reason, but not

thereby deprived of its vehemence and importunity. The former

course appears to me to be the only one consistent with reason and

morality; and I have adopted it in reliance on the good sense of

my readers, that they will at once discriminate between practical

instruction concerning this feeling, addressed to the intellect,

and lascivious representations addressed to the mere propensity

itself; with the latter of which the enemies of all improvement

may attempt to confound my observations. Every function of the

mind and body is instituted by the Creator; all may be abused;

and it is impossible regularly to avoid abuse of them, except by

being instructed in their nature, objects, and relations. This

instruction ought to be addressed exclusively to the intellect; and

when it is so, it is science of the most beneficial description.

The propriety, nay, necessity, of acting on this principle, becomes

more and more apparent, when it is considered that the discussions

of the text suggest only intellectual ideas to individuals in

whom the feeling in question is naturally weak, and that such

minds perceive no indelicacy in knowledge which is calculated to

be useful; while, on the other hand, persons in whom the feeling

is naturally strong, are precisely those who stand in need of

direction, and to whom, of all others, instruction is the most

necessary.’

No art in these days is better understood, by those who have

found their interest in investigating the subject, than that of

improving the races of the lower animals. Every species, upon which

the effort has been made, has been found perfectly subservient

to the art. The desirable forms and qualities are selected, and

the proper means of improvement applied. The wished result is not

obtained to its full extent in the first generation; but a uniform

approximation commences; and every successive amelioration brings

the animal nearer to the requisite standard. The whole art is

founded on observation of the organic laws of the races, and the

general fact, that the instincts, qualities, temperament, form and

color of the animals are hereditary, and transmissible. These are

truths so well known, that the grazier, and the shepherd apply

them constantly in rearing their domestic animals. Shall they be

disregarded, when it becomes known, that they bear equally upon

the improvement of man, _next in dignity to angels_? Shall these

considerations rear a nobler race of animals, and, by overlooking

them, shall man alone be consigned to degradation?

LETTER III.

THE SAME SUBJECT CONTINUED.

I proceed to examples and developments of the doctrine, chiefly

insisted upon in the former letter. I draw them chiefly from Mr

Combe, premising, that they exactly coincide with views which

you cannot but remember to have heard me advance, before I had

read his book on _the constitution of man_. It is a law of the

animal creation, that not only the natural but even the acquired

qualities are transmitted by parents to their offspring; and man,

as an organized being, is subject to laws similar to those which

govern the organization of the lower animals. ‘Children,’ says Dr

Pritchard, ‘resemble in feature and constitution both parents; but

I think more generally the father.’ Changes produced by external

causes in the constitution and appearance of the individual are

temporary; and, in general, acquired characters are transient,

terminating with the individual, and having no influence on the

progeny. The mental development of the Circassian race is known

to be of the highest order. The nobles of Persia are children of

Circassian mothers, and they are remarkable, in that country, for

their mental and corporeal superiority over the other classes.

Every one acquainted with the condition of our southern slaves,

well understands the obvious fact, that the mulattoes are much

superior, in quickness and capability of acquiring and retaining

knowledge, to the negroes. The Indian half-breeds are remarkable

for the immediate ascendency, which they acquire in their

tribes over the full-blooded Indians. In oriental India, the

intermarriages of the Hindoos with Europeans have produced an

intermediate race much superior to the natives, and destined, it

is already predicted, to be the future sovereigns of India. In

fact, physiology has deduced no conclusion more certain, than that,

in ordinary cases, the temperament and intellect of the children

are a compound of that of their parents. Of this I might produce

innumerable instances from history of the Alexanders, Cæsars, and

Antonines, the distinguished great and wise, of ancient and modern

times; and equally, in the opposite direction, in the Neros and

Caligulas, the depraved and abandoned of all ages and countries,

where observation has been able to trace their parentage.

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