CHAPTER XIV

_THE FARM BOY'S INTEREST IN THE BUSINESS_

The theory that the boys and girls who grow up in the country must in

time become settled in farm homes of their own has neither logic nor

psychology nor common sense to support it. It is never a question of

whether or not a boy will take up the work of his father, but whether or

not he will find at length the true and only calling for which his

nature is best fitted. If the parents of the country boy will keep the

latter question clearly in mind, many a problem in the latter's rearing

will be made much easier.

In order to break the monotony of the style of expression, much of this

chapter will be addressed somewhat directly to the father of the country

boy.

WHAT IS IN YOUR BOY?

If a man should come suddenly into possession of a piece of land having

a productive soil, one of his first questions in regard to the soil

would be, What will it best grow? Farmers blundered and starved along

for generations in an attempt to make a first-class farm produce the

wrong crops, or to produce the right crop through the wrong manner of

treatment; and this simply because they used methods of tradition and

guess rather than those of science.

Now apply the foregoing situation to the boy problem, if you will. So

long as we attempt to secure from him the wrong results and deal with

him by wrong methods, we are likely to conclude that there is "nothing

in him." Therefore, in order to act intelligently and helpfully in the

matter of giving the young son a business relation to farm life, it is

first necessary to determine, as far as may be possible, the bent of his

mind, remembering that the great artist, the great writer, or the great

captain of industry is just as likely to be born in the country home as

elsewhere. In fact, we shall learn in time, much to our advantage, that

there must be a careful sifting process which will result in sending

some of the country-bred young men directly to their important places in

the city, and some of the city-bred youths to the rural industries.

MUCH EXPERIMENTATION NECESSARY

The one who undertakes to develop a boy's interest in business affairs

has really before him a problem in experimental psychology. Many of the

youth's best aptitudes are necessarily still slumbering and unknown to

either himself or others. The fundamental steps preparatory for a

successful commercial venture on the part of a young man are

comparatively few but none of them can safely be omitted. They are as

follows:--

1. _Willingness to work._--In this connection, perhaps something will be

recalled from Chapter IX. We may at least be reminded of the difference

in the attitude of mind of the boy who regards labor as a painful

necessity and the one who enjoys a willingness to work. So long as the

youth feels as if he were driven to his tasks there is little hope of

arousing his interest in the business side of it. His mind will continue

too much on the problem of avoiding work and on ways and means by which

to get something for nothing.

There is probably a period of dishonesty in the life of every normal

youth. Following the dawn of adolescence there is a great wave of new

interest and new meaning coming to him out of the business and social

world. The world is so full of interesting enticements. Everything looks

to be good and within easy reach. He is especially prone to accept

material things at their advertised value. He spends his dimes for prize

boxes thought to contain gold rings and other such finery. His quarters

and half dollars frequently go in payment for the "valuable" things

offered "free for the price of the transportation," the purpose of this

tempting gift being "simply for the sake of introducing the goods."

But it is well to see the boy safe through this period of allurement. So

long as the world seems to hold out so many highly valued things which

may be had for a trifle the youth will see little need of his working

to obtain them. So, attend him in his efforts to get something for

nothing. Permit him to be stung a few times and thus teach him how and

where to look for the sting. Finally, impress him with the thought that

every material thing worth while represents the price of somebody's

honest labor. At length he will see the reasonableness of industry and

settle down with a purpose of making his way through life by means of

honest endeavor. You now have the youth so far on his way to successful

business undertaking.

2. _Ability to save._--All healthy boys are naturally inclined to be

spendthrifts. Saving a part of one's means is a fine art acquired only

through judicious practice. It is assumed that the young son is being

reasonably paid for certain required tasks. So the next duty is to see

that he saves a part of his earnings. For the purpose of this training

in saving, a toy bank may be procured; or he may be directed in

depositing a small weekly sum in a penny savings bank. Still another way

is to teach him to keep a book account of his earnings, giving him

due-bills for the amounts withheld from his wages.

There is one small business practice, the importance of which for the

boy is too frequently overlooked; that is, the practice of carrying a

small amount of change in his pocket. He must learn to use his money

thoughtfully and not merely on every occasion of his being allowed to

have it. He must acquire the habit of self-restraint in the use of

money. To do this is to learn to spend judiciously. To have reached this

stage of financial training is a sufficient guarantee that the youth is

proceeding well on his way toward success in business enterprise.

START ON A SMALL SCALE

Then, give your growing son as wide a variety of experience in work and

in watching business affairs as the situation will permit of. During the

process of this mental growth help him to make a small investment in

something that will grow and increase under his intelligent care. Let us

assume that your specialty is a certain strain of corn or a certain

breed of cattle. If the boy shows an interest in this matter, start him

in at an early age, say ten to fourteen, on his own account. Give him in

exchange for his work a small plot of ground on which to grow corn,

perhaps with a view to his later entering the boys' contest for a prize.

Or, help him to get a small beginning in the cattle business.

But in case the lad shows no interest in your business, do not let the

matter seriously trouble you for a moment. Simply continue to give him

his general education, including the best school course available and a

training in the performance of work as well as the judicious use of the

spending money that may come into his hands. Careful study of the boy

may indicate to you that his aptitude for business runs in the

direction of something to which you are giving little or no attention

but to which you may in time bring him.

There is the case of a successful wheat raiser who discovered his son's

fondness for thoroughbred cattle. So the boy was carefully started on a

small scale in the business of raising short-horns. To-day that son is

known far and wide as an able specialist in this line of stock breeding.

Now, if the father in this case had done as thousands of other farmers

are still doing; namely, if he had attempted to force the boy, against

the latter's natural inclination, to take up wheat raising or any other

undesirable business, then, the son would have most probably skipped off

for the city and secured a fourth-rate place for the mere wages it would

bring. Some day this tragic, oft-repeated story of mismanagement and

misdirection of the growing boy will come out in all its distressing

details.

GIVE YOUR SON A SQUARE DEAL

Deal with your young son on business principles from the beginning. Do

not hastily and unwisely give him a piece of property that will have to

be taken from him in the future because of its having grown into a

disproportionate value. This old form of mistreatment of the country boy

has been the means of thwarting the business integrity of many a

promising youth.

If the boy's small beginning develops under his care into a business of

large proportions, the only check or hindrance that the ethics of the

case will allow is that you treat with him on fair business terms, just

as you would with any good business man. You may cause him to bear all

his own personal expenses and all the expense connected with the care

and development of his live stock or crop. Then the matter of curtailing

him must stop. And if the son soon becomes able to buy you out, it is

certainly an affair to be proud of, not a thing to hinder by unfair

means.

KEEP THE BOY'S PERFECT GOOD WILL

It is a serious matter to lose the boy's confidence or in any way break

faith with him, even though there be nothing about the place in which

you can make him take a business interest. As he grows to maturity his

own inner nature must gradually guide him into the way of a calling--and

a divine calling at that it may prove to be. It may not seem out of

place to quote the words of a religious teacher who says: "Do you not

know that if one's inner nature points out clearly and inspiringly what

he should undertake for a life work, such thing may be regarded as the

Voice of the Divine One speaking faithfully through the instrumentality

of one of his own creatures?"

So it may prove at length that you will have to sell a load of corn in

order to set up in the garret of your house a miniature art studio of

some kind for your young son. Or, perhaps you may have to establish a

small machine shop as an adjunct to the barn or wood shed, wherein the

budding genius may blossom into that beauty of manly power and

efficiency which all the world is glad to admire. Out of just such a

wise indulgence as that last named a certain Kansas boy finally became

enabled to revolutionize the old farm home and the work done there

through the installation of an excellent motor power plant. Electric

light for the house and barn, power for operating feed grinder, washing

machine, grindstone, fanning mill, and many other such machines--all

this has resulted from the rightly directed work of a youth who could

have easily been driven to the city into some treadmill of mere wage

earning.

But, occasionally the boy will prove himself a versatile character,

succeeding in a measure in every line of small business to which you

introduce him, yet showing a marked success in none. In such case the

advisable thing to do is to continue his general education for a longer

period than is necessary for the boy who shows an early inclination

toward a given line of work.

SOME WILL BE RETAINED ON THE FARM

It is admittedly desirable, all things fairly considered, that many of

the very best boys remain on the farm and help develop rural life into

what it should be. Hence the necessity of finding a way to interest such

boys in some of the many business affairs connected with the farm home.

Perhaps there is no better way to develop the lad's interest in the

affairs of the place than that of allowing him to participate in the

practical business transactions as the conditions may allow. Let the

parents take him to the store, the bank, and other such places for the

benefit of his experience. Send him in with the produce with authority

to sell and to invest a part of the proceeds in whatever the family may

need. The father should have the boy with him when selecting and buying

machinery or live stock at public sales. Send him to the bank with

checks or drafts to be deposited or collected. Give him an opportunity

to keep the family accounts, or at least to keep his own recorded in a

book.

The ordinary farmer can think of more ways than the foregoing whereby to

give his growing son the needed experience in money matters. The best

result of such practice is that if there be anything in connection with

the affairs of the farm in which the boy will have a native interest

this aptitude will be discovered; and it can then be made the basis of

the young man's introduction into a successful participation in some

practical business. The boy's permanent calling is seriously involved in

this discussion. On page 279 of this book will be found a description of

three methods of vocational training.

THE AWAKENING OFTEN COMES FROM WITHOUT

Parents who find it difficult to arouse the farm boy's interest in any

part of the home business may sometimes easily secure the desired result

by sending the youth away on a trip to the county fair or other such

place. As a means of stimulating boys in respect to some kind of

productive home industry the Oklahoma Agricultural and Mechanical

College instituted a school of agriculture for country youths at the

state fair. Each organized farmers' institute and each county

superintendent was asked to send one boy. A large tent was furnished by

the college. This served for a lecture and display room during the day

and a boys' sleeping room during the night.

At the first session 122 boys attended, coming from 57 counties. The

lectures covered such subjects as farm crops, veterinary science, track

and field athletics. The displays at the fair were used for illustrative

matter. So far the results of the school have been reported most

favorable. An increasing number of boys throughout the state are making

preparation for it.

AN AWAKENING IN THE SOUTH

It is most encouraging to observe the changing ideals of business

and industry now in progress throughout the nation. The many

vocational-training schools and the increasing attendance at the

mechanical and industrial colleges bear witness of this fact. The

American Negro, ever a faithful laborer, is now being taught in such

institutions as Tuskegee and Hampton, not only to perform some honest

work well but also to plan and prepare for a business of his own.

The son of the southern planter is becoming more and more imbued with

the new spirit of efficiency through personal industry. On this matter a

member of the faculty of the Louisiana Agricultural and Mechanical

College says: "It is a mistake to think that the best of the country

youth of the south are continuing in the old-fashioned ideal of becoming

mere gentlemen of culture and leisure. In 1910 there were nearly 50,000

boys living in a dozen of the southern states, who astonished the entire

country with their achievements in corn-raising. They ranged in age from

fifteen to eighteen years. At the national exhibit held in Columbus,

Ohio, one hundred of them showed an average yield of 134 bushels of corn

to the acre. This corn-growing practice is under the direction of the

national government, and is more than a big, exciting contest, it is a

splendid course in rural home education.

[Illustration: PLATE XXV.

FIG. 32.--A group of "coming" Kansans. Every boy pictured here carried

away some sort of prize at a state corn show.]

"We have at this college hundreds of young men from the plantations and

they are intensely interested in working out the industrial problems

that pertain to their own home affairs. I have been surprised at their

eagerness to get into the soil and to do the mechanical work

connected with their studies. All over the south there seems to be an

awakening among the boys and young men, of an interest in the industrial

and commercial problems of the plantation."

The farm papers and the educational magazines in the southern states

give much evidence of this same sort of awakening. The farmers' and

planters' organizations, the local improvement and school betterment

clubs, and many other movements, are giving both incentive and direction

to the country youths who are at all inclined to find an interest in the

home affairs. The rural parents who desire outside aid in arousing their

boys' interest in the home business may well seek such assistance by

bringing the latter into closer touch with one of these progressive

organizations.

PARTNERSHIP BETWEEN FATHER AND SON

After the farmer's son has fully settled upon his father's business as

an ideal one for himself, there may be brought to the latter a gradual

relief from the worry of details, and that through a partnership

management. A. G. Hulting, Jr., of Geneseo, Illinois, thus describes

such a plan of cooperation in a letter to Arthur J. Bill, the

agricultural writer:--

"We have 160 acres of land in the farm. My father owns the land. I do

the work, provide all the labor, horses, and machinery, and we have an

equal interest in the live stock and we share equally in the net

returns."

Other terms of cooperation have proved successful. In many cases, the

son rents all or a part of the place on terms similar to those allowed

the outside renter; excepting that he is usually given the advantages of

free board and the use of the home conveniences. In all such business

transactions between father and son it is highly advisable that the

contract be carefully drawn in writing. The verbal contract is

proverbially a trouble maker, and that even among relatives.

SUMMARY AND CONCLUDING SUGGESTIONS

1. Not nearly all promising youths can be encouraged to take a vital

interest in the father's business.

2. In case the boy cannot be induced to take a permanent interest in

anything on the home farm, he may at least have much practice in the

transaction of the small business connected therewith.

3. The ability to work willingly, the ideal that an honest living is to

be earned through personal effort, and the practice of saving a part of

the weekly or monthly earnings--these will give any boy an excellent

start on the road to success and affluence.

4. Deal with the young son on business principles from the first, seeing

that he shares reasonably in the losses as well as in the gains.

Although his interest in any chosen line of work may not become vital

till he makes some money out of it, hold him persistently in line

during the "lean" years and thus allow him to learn the excellent

lessons of failure.

5. It may prove unfair to the members of the family to permit one of the

sons to secure control of the business of the home farm. Some pathetic

instances of this kind have really occurred. For the sake of the peace

and well-being of all, such an occurrence must be prevented by careful

forethought.

6. On the other hand, in case where the boy has started with a scrawny

pig or through renting a piece of the home place, and, after dealing

fair and square with all, has come into possession of considerable

property of his own, do not wrest it from him or in any way take

advantage of his minority. Such a youth will in time most probably

reflect high credit upon the family.

7. Finally, the farm parent needs to be warned against the possibility

of developing his son into a mere money-maker. Such is a poor standard

of success. The man whose only aim in life is merely to prosper

financially is a poor citizen of any community. Teach the boy to succeed

in his business ventures, but at the same time imbue him with the

thought that his money wealth must be regarded as so much opportunity to

help build up the community, the state, and the nation. Teach him that

financial success is worthy of the name only when it is linked with

social efficiency.

REFERENCES

Again we find the field of literature treating the subject

directly an exceedingly scant one. In forming a business

partnership with his son the farmer should be guided by

well-tried precedent. A letter of specific inquiry to one of

the leading agricultural papers will most usually bring a

helpful reply.

A First Lesson in Thrift. Horace Ellis. _Psychological

Clinic_, March 15, 1910.

Industrial Education for Rural Communities. Annual Volume

N.E.A., 1907, p. 412.

The Child's Sense of the Value of Money. Dr. William E.

Ashcroft. _S.S. Times_, July 24, 1909.

Psychology and Higher Life. William A. McKeever. Chapter XIV,

"The Psychology of Work." A. Flanagan Company, Chicago.

Industrial Education. Various Authors. (Pamphlet, 25 cents.)

_The Survey_, N.Y.

Industrial Education. Kimball. No. 1, Educational Monograph

Series, School of Education, Cornell University.

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