I love my children, but my country more,

why should it not be readier for every one of them to say, I hate this

man, and desire to do him a diskindness, but the love of my country

has greater power over me? For not to condescend to be reconciled to

an enemy for those very causes for which we ought to abandon even a

friend, is even to extremity savage and brutish. But far better did

Phocion and Cato, who grounded not any enmity at all on their political

differences, but being fierce and obstinate only in their public

contests not to recede from any thing they judged convenient for the

state, did in their private affairs use those very persons friendly and

courteously from whom they differed in the other. For one ought not to

esteem any citizen an enemy, unless it be one like Aristion, Nabis, or

Catiline, the disease and plague of the city: but as for those that

are otherwise at discord, a good magistrate should, like a skilful

musician, by gently setting them up or letting them down, bring them to

concord; not falling angrily and reproachfully upon those that err, but

mildly reprehending them in such like terms as these of Homer’s,

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