CONSTRUCTIVE TREATMENT

Talk with two or three of the leading boys, including Darrow, and ask

them about the fishing trip. Show them that you understand “the call of

the wild” that comes with May sunshine. But “put it up to them” if

playing truant is the square thing to do, either to the school or to

their parents. Why should one attend school regularly? Is it honorable

to sneak off without permission? What is to be done about it? Assume

that of course the boys will do something about it. Who can suggest a

fair way of making this wrong right? Probably some one will suggest that

the time be made up, or that the lessons missed be written out and

handed in. Arrange with this small group what is to be suggested to the

larger group. As to Darrow, without telling him that he is the leader,

enlist him in some project that will identify him with school interests.

Perhaps he can plan an outdoor gymnasium, lay out a tennis court, or

superintend the putting up of bird-houses. By this means get him

gradually to work with you until you and he have formed a solid

friendship. Identify him with your own leadership; form a partnership

with him. Truancy will disappear under such conditions, for real

friendship will develop between teacher and pupils.

Some pupil leaders are useful allies, others are worthy enemies who may

outgeneral the ranking officer. A wise teacher sets himself first of all

to win to his loyal support the natural leaders of the pupils. This is

done by first winning their admiration and respect, then by stressing

some interest which the teacher and student leaders have in common, thus

making common cause with them until sympathetic relations are

established. Study your leading pupils; find out their hobbies, their

friends, their ambitions.

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