77. CARE AND ATTENTION.

I am afraid the information I can give you about myself is not much,

as I have been able to have the care and attention not attainable for

many working-women. My first baby was still-born. This was really

brought about by ignorance during pregnancy in trying to open a very

stiff window, causing a strain, and also causing the cord to become

twisted round the baby’s neck. Fortunately, I was able at once to

receive medical attention, and when the child was born I had to have

two doctors and nurse, chloroform, etc. Doctors both say I should have

lost my life also if I had not had the attention I was able to have.

The other two children were born under quite normal conditions--the

symptoms of sickness, cholic pains, etc.--but I am glad to say I have

never suffered from varicose veins, perhaps due to the fact that I have

always been able to take rest during pregnancy.

My mother had thirteen children, and, as far as I can gather, suffered

terribly at these times, because when a woman brings up ten children

to full age she has not much time to rest. I may say one of hers was

still-born, the other two dying, one at the age of nine months from

vaccination, the other at three years and a half from concussion of the

brain.

Mother died at the age of fifty-two years from Bright’s disease,

brought on, I believe, from excessive child-bearing, and the doctor

said every organ in her body was completely worn out. My mother had,

perhaps, the care most women would not get, as my father was always in

a good position earning a good salary--I may say £150 a year at that

time. But with all those advantages, she could not have the care she

ought, or the rest, and, of course, no trained nurses, as we have at

the present time.

I often wonder when I read of the deaths of women, at from forty years

of age upward, if, when they should be having the best of their lives,

that their early deaths are due to lack of care and rest during the

times they are having their babies.

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