I think many of us have suffered (and do so now) through lack of care
during pregnancy, especially over a first child. If something could be
done to help the expectant mother to understand how best to care for
herself, then much suffering would be saved afterwards.
I went to live many miles away from my home and friends when I married,
amongst strangers, and was too shy to ask anyone what I should or
should not do (when I knew I should become a mother), and was so ill,
tired, and depressed that I felt I did not want to do anything. A
dear old woman, one of the neighbours, came to me one day, and asked
me if I had been to a doctor; I said “No; I was going to speak to one
nearer the time.” She said, “My dear girl, go to him now. Tell him
how you are. I am sure he will be able to give you something to ease
that excessive sickness, etc., and advise you how best to take care of
yourself.”
I did not go to him for some time, but eventually did so, and felt much
better for his advice and care during that trying time.
I had rather hard times at the birth of my little ones, and can quite
realise that it is most necessary that a woman should have the greatest
care and attention possible. Still, I feel that if more could be done
to teach them how to care for their own health before the birth of the
little ones we should have healthier and stronger children. How it
can be done without hurting the mothers’ feelings is a very difficult
problem, but I suffered so much before my first baby was born that
perhaps I feel most strongly on the need of our sisters knowing how
best to care for themselves. I am so glad the Maternity Scheme is being
taken up so much more by Health Committees now since the Guild have
worked for it.
_Wages 25s. to 30s.; three children, one still-birth, one miscarriage._