CHAPTER XXI.

Woman's Higher Education.

It has been seen that in the rearing and training of her children, woman

has a great work to perform; that in this work she exerts an

incalculable influence upon untold numbers, and that she molds the minds

and characters of her sons and daughters. How important, then, that she

should cultivate her mental faculties to the highest extent, if for no

other reason than to fit herself the better for the performance of this

great duty of educating her children. How important it is, also, that

she should look to the higher education of her daughters, who, in turn,

will become mothers of future generations, or may, perhaps, by some

vicissitude of fortune, become dependent upon their own resources for

support. With the highest culture of the mental faculties, woman will be

best enabled to faithfully perform whatever she may undertake.

TRAIN YOUNG WOMEN TO SOME OCCUPATION.

Owing to the changes in social and industrial life which have crowded

many women from their homes into business and public life, women must

train for their branch of labor as men train for their work, if they

wish to attain any degree of success. Even where women have independent

fortunes, their lives will be all the happier if they have been trained

to some occupation, that, in case of reverses, may be made a

self-sustaining one. A young woman who is able to support herself,

increases her chances for a happy marriage, for, not being obliged to

rely upon a husband for support or for a home, she is able to judge

calmly of an offer when it comes, and is free to accept or decline,

because of her independence. Women are capable of and adapted to a large

number of employments, which have hitherto been kept from them, and some

of these they are slowly wrenching from the hands of the sterner sex. In

order that women may enter the ranks of labor which she is forcing open

to herself, she needs a special education and training to fit her for

such employment.

EDUCATION OF GIRLS TOO SUPERFICIAL.

The school instruction of our girls is too superficial. There is a

smattering of too many branches, where two or three systematically

studied and thoroughly mastered, would accomplish much more for them in

the way of a sound mental training, which is the real object of

education. The present method of educating young girls is to give them

from five to ten studies, in which they prepare lessons, and this, too,

at an age when their physical development suffers and is checked by

excess of mental labor. Such a course of instruction, bestowing only a

smattering of many branches, wastes the powers of the mind, and deters,

rather than aids, self-improvement. It is only a concentration of the

mind upon the thorough acquisition of all it undertakes that strengthens

the reflective, and forms the reasoning, faculties, and thus helps to

lay a solid foundation for future usefulness. The word education means

to educe, to draw out the powers of the mind; not the cramming into it

of facts, dates and whole pages to be repeated _verbatim_.

AN EDUCATION APPROPRIATE TO EACH SEX.

The fact is becoming more palpable every year that there is an education

appropriate to each sex; that identical education for the two sexes is

so unnatural, that physiology protests against it and experience weeps

over it. The physiological motto in education is, "Educate a man for

manhood, a woman for womanhood, and both for humanity." Herbert Spencer,

in speaking of the want of a proper course of education for girls, says:

"It is an astonishing fact that, though on the treatment of offspring

depend their lives or deaths, and their moral welfare or ruin, yet not

one word of instruction on treatment of offspring is ever given to those

who will, by and by, be parents." It will thus be seen, that as women

have the care, the training and the education of children, they need an

education in a special direction, and should have a very thorough one,

to prepare them for the task.

WOMEN SHOULD HAVE A KNOWLEDGE OF THE LAWS OF HEALTH.

Physiology is one of the branches of that higher education, which should

be thoroughly pursued by women to enable them to fulfill the various

duties of their allotted stations. Yet it is also desirable that they

should have a thorough knowledge of all branches that they undertake,

and a mastery of the studies pursued by them; for the want of

thoroughness in woman's education is an obstacle to success in all

branches of labor. But woman should especially have a thorough knowledge

of the laws of physiology and hygiene. If she becomes a mother, such

knowledge will enable her to guard better the lives and health of her

children. She will understand that when she sends out her child

insufficiently clad, and he comes home chilled through, that his

vitality, his power of resisting disease, is wasted. She will know that

by taking the necessary precautions, she may save the child's life; that

she must not take him thus chilled, to the fire or into a room highly

heated, but that by gentle exercise or friction, she must restore the

circulation of the blood, and in using such precautions, she may ward

off the attacks of disease that would surely follow if they were

neglected. This is but a single case, for there are instances of almost

daily occurrence when a proper knowledge of the laws of health will ward

off disease, in her own case, as well as in those of various members of

her household. The diseases which carry off children, are for the most

part, such as ought to be under the control of the women who love them,

pet them, educate them, and who would, in many cases, lay down their

lives for them.

RESULT OF IGNORANCE OF SANITARY LAWS.

Ignorance of the laws of ventilation in sleeping-rooms and school-rooms

is the cause of a vast amount of disease. From ignorance of the signs of

approaching disease, children are often punished for idleness,

listlessness, sulkiness and wilfulness, and this punishment is too often

by confinement in a closed room, and by an increase of tasks; when what

is really needed is more oxygen, more open-air exercise, and less study.

These forms of ignorance have too often resulted in malignant typhus and

brain fevers. Knowledge of the laws of hygiene will often spare the

waste of health and strength in the young, and will also spare anxiety

and misery to those who love and tend them. If the time devoted to the

many trashy so-called "accomplishments" in a young lady's education,

were given to a study of the laws of preserving health, how many

precious lives might be spared to loving parents, and how many frail and

delicate forms, resulting from inattention to physical training, might

have become strong and beautiful temples of exalted souls. We are all in

duty bound to know and to obey the laws of nature, on which the welfare

of our bodies depends, for the full enjoyment of our faculties can only

be attained when the body is in perfect health.

IDLENESS A SOURCE OF MISERY.

Perhaps the greatest cause of misery and wretchedness in social life is

idleness. The want of something to do is what makes people wicked and

miserable. It breeds selfishness, mischief-making, envy, jealousy and

vice, in all its most dreadful forms. It is the duty of mothers to see

that their daughters are trained to habits of industry, that their minds

are at all times occupied, that they are well informed as to household

duties, and to the duties of married life, for upon a knowledge of

household details may depend their life-long happiness or misery. It is

frequently the case, that a girl's education ends just as her mind is

beginning to mature and her faculties are beginning to develop. Her

education ends when it ought properly to begin. She enters upon marriage

entirely unprepared, and, perchance, by some misfortune, she is thrown

penniless upon the world with no means of obtaining a livelihood, for

her education has never fitted her for any vocation. Not having been

properly taught herself, she is not able to teach, and she finds no

avenue of employment open to her. An English clergyman, writing upon

this subject, says: "Let girls take a serious interest in art; let them

take up some congenial study, let it be a branch of science or history.

Let them write. They can do almost anything they try to do, but let

their mothers never rest until they have implanted in their daughters'

lives one growing interest beyond flirtation and gossip, whether it be

work at the easel, music, literature, the structure of the human body

and the laws of health, any solid interest that will occupy their

thoughts and their hearts. Idleness, frivolity and ignorance can only be

put down by education and employment. In the last resort, the spirit of

evil becomes teacher and task-master."

WOMEN SHOULD CULTIVATE A SPIRIT OF INDEPENDENCE.

In this country more than any other, women should, to some extent,

cultivate a spirit of independence. They should acquire a knowledge of

how business is transacted, of the relation between capital and labor,

and of the value of labor, skilled and unskilled. As housekeepers, they

would then be saved from many annoyances and mistakes. If they chance to

be left alone, widows, or orphans possessing means, they would be saved

from many losses and vexatious experiences by knowing how to transact

their own business. And those women who are obliged to take care of

themselves, who have no means, how necessary is it that they should have

a thorough knowledge of some occupation or business by which they can

maintain themselves and others dependent upon them. In this country, the

daughter brought up in affluence, may, by some rapid change of fortune,

be obliged, upon arriving at maturity, to be among the applicants for

whatever employment she may be fitted. If she has been trained to some

useful occupation, or if her faculties have been developed by a

thoroughness of study of any subject she has undertaken, she will be

better qualified to prepare herself to fill any position which may be

open to her. With a mind drilled by constant study she will the more

quickly acquire a knowledge and grasp the details of any subject or

business to which she may devote herself.

HEALTH AND LIFE DEPENDENT UPON A HIGHER CULTURE.

Not only wealth and comfort, but health and life are dependent upon a

higher form of culture, a more thorough course of education than is now

the standard. Not more, but fewer branches of study and a more thorough

comprehension of those pursued. Not only are the health and life of each

woman dependent upon the kind and degree of the education she receives,

but the health and lives of great numbers may depend upon it. In

proportion as she has a knowledge of the laws and nature of a subject

will she be able to work at it easily, rapidly and successfully.

Knowledge of physical laws saves health and life, knowledge of the laws

of intellect saves wear and tear of the brain, knowledge of the laws of

political economy and business affairs saves anxiety and worrying.

CULTIVATION OF THE MORAL SENSE.

A well educated moral sense prevents idleness and develops a well

regulated character, which will preserve from excess those tenderer

emotions and deeper passions of woman, which are potent in her for evil

or for good, in proportion as they are undisciplined and allowed to run

wild, or are trained and developed into a noble and harmonious

self-restraint.

The girl who has so educated and regulated her intellect, her tastes,

her emotions and her moral sense, as to be able to discern the true from

the false, will be ready for the faithful performance of whatever work

in life is allotted to her; while she who is allowed to grow up

ignorant, idle, vain, frivolous, will find herself fitted for no state

of existence, and, in after years, with feelings of remorse and despair

over a wasted life, may cast reproach upon those in whose trust was

reposed her early education.

It is not for women alone that they should seek a higher education of

their faculties and powers but for the sake of the communities in which

they live, for the sake of the homes in which they rule and govern, and

govern immortal souls, and for the sake of those other homes in the

humbler walks of life, where they owe duties as ministering spirits as

well as in their own, for in proportion as they minister to the comfort

and health of others, so do they exalt their own souls. Women should

seek a higher education in order that they may elevate themselves, and

that they may prepare themselves for whatever duty they may be called

upon to perform. In social life we find that the truest wives, the most

patient and careful mothers, the most exemplary housekeepers, the model

sisters, the wisest philanthropists and the women of the greatest social

influence are women of cultivated minds.

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