4. Marriage customs.

As a rule no bride-price is paid, but occasionally an old man

desiring a wife will give something substantial to her father in

secret. There are two forms of marriage, called Thinga and Dajanha;

in the former, women do not accompany the wedding procession, and they

have a separate marriage-shed at the bridegroom's house for their own

celebrations; while in the latter, they accompany it and erect such

a shed at the house in the bridegroom's village or town where they

have their lodging. Before the wedding, the bridegroom, mounted on

a horse, and the bride, carried in a litter, proceed together round

the marriage-shed. The bridegroom then stands by the sacred post in

the centre and the bride walks seven times round him. In the evening

there was a custom of dressing the principal male relatives of the

bridegroom in women's clothes and making them dance, but this is now

being discarded. On the fifth day is held a rite called Palkachar. A

new cot is provided by the bride's father, and on it is spread a red

cloth. The couple are seated on this with their hands entwined, and

their relations come and make them presents. If the bridegroom catches

hold of the dress of his mother- or father-in-law, they are expected

to make him a handsome present. In other respects the wedding follows

the ordinary Hindu ritual. Widow-marriage and divorce are forbidden

among the Parwars proper, and those who practise them go into the

lower Benaikia group.

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