GIFTS.

AFTER HOUSE PARTY. While not necessary, a

guest after a house party may send some

trifle to the hostess as a token of pleasure

and appreciation.

BEST MAN. After the groom selects the best

man, the latter should send a gift to the

bride, and may, if he wish, send it to the

groom, a custom not yet clearly established.

CHRISTENING. A christening ceremony offers a

good opportunity for the invited guests so

wishing to send a gift to the baby. These

should be sent a day or two before the

ceremony, and, if of silver, should be suitably

marked with the child's name, initials, or

monogram.

ENGAGEMENT. If both families of the engaged

couple are old acquaintances, the parents of

the man may send a gift along with their

greetings and congratulations.

WEDDING. See WEDDINGS--GIFTS.

GIFTS BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN. Books, flowers,

and other small articles of decoration are

proper gifts to accept.

Sending valuable gifts of jewelry, or any

other article, depends largely upon the

relationships of the parties, and should not be

done unless the sender is sure of its

acceptance. Such gifts should not be accepted

from mere acquaintances or friends.

It is bad form for a man to send expensive

presents to a woman who may be compelled

to return them.

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