With whatsoever or whomsoever she is in sympathy this woman is apt

to be a partisan. To husband, parents, and children there could be

no more devoted adherent. Her conscience, developed by introspective

and subjective pondering, has for her own actions abnormal size and

activity. It is always alert, always busy, always prodding, and not

infrequently sickened by its congested activity. Duty to those about

her, and industry for the same beneficiaries, are watchwords of its

strength; and to fail in a mote’s weight is to gain condemnation of

two severest sorts--her own and the community’s. The opinion of the

community in which she lives is her second almighty power.

In marriage she often exemplifies that saying of Euripides which

Stobæus has preserved among the lavender-scented leaves of his

Florilegium--“A sympathetic wife is a man’s best possession.” She

has mental sympathy--a result of her tense nervous organization, her

altruism in domestic life, her strong love, and her sense of duty,

justice, and right.

In body she belongs to a people which has spent its physical force and

depleted its vitality. She is slight. There is lack of adipose tissue,

reserve force, throughout her frame. Her lungs are apt to be weak,

waist normal, and hips undersized.

She is awkward in movement. Her climate has not allowed her relaxation,

and the ease and curve of motion that more enervating air imparts.

This is seen even in public. In walking she holds her elbows set in an

angle, and sometimes she steps out in the tilt of the Cantabrigian man.

In this is perhaps an unconscious imitation, a sympathetic copying, of

an admirable norm; but it is graceless in petticoats. As she steps she

knocks her skirt with her knees, and gives you the impression that her

leg is crooked, that she does not lock her knee-joint. More often she

toes in than out.

She has a marvellously delicate, brilliant, fine-grained skin. It is

innocent of powder and purely natural. No beer in past generations has

entered its making, and no port; also, little flesh. In New England it

could not be said, as a London writer has coarsely put it, that a woman

may be looked upon as an aggregate of so many beefsteaks.

Her eyes have a liquid purity and preternatural brightness; she is the

child of γλαυχῶπις Athena, rather than of βοῶπις Hera, Pronuba, and

ministress to women of more luxuriant flesh. The brown of her hair

inclines to the ash shades.

Her features would in passport wording be called “regular.” The

expression of her face when she lives in more prosperous communities,

where salaries are and an assured future, is a stereotyped smile. In

more uncertain life and less fortunate surroundings, her countenance

shows a weariness of spirit and a homesickness for heaven that make

your soul ache.

Her mind is too self-conscious on the one hand, and too set on lofty

duties on the other, to allow much of coquetterie, or flirting, or a

femininely accented camaraderie with men--such as the more elemental

women of Chicago, Cincinnati, San Francisco, and New York enjoy.

She is farthest possible from the luxuriant beauty of St. Louis who

declared, “You bet! black-jack-diamond kind of a time!” when asked if

she had enjoyed her social dash in Newport. This New England woman

would, forsooth, take no dash in Aurovulgus. But falling by chance

among vulgarities and iniquities, she guards against the defilement of

her lips, for she loves a pure and clean usage of our facile English

speech.

The old phase of the New England woman is passing. It is the hour for

some poet to voice her threnody. Social conditions under which she

developed are almost obliterated. She is already outnumbered in her own

home by women of foreign blood, an ampler physique, a totally different

religious conception, a far different conduct; and a less exalted

ideal of life. Intermixtures will follow and racial lines gradually

fade. In the end she will not be. Her passing is due to the unnumbered

husbandless and the physical attenuation of the married--attenuation

resulting from their spare and meagre diet, and, it is also claimed,

from the excessive household labor of their mothers. More profoundly

causative--in fact, inciting the above conditions--was the distorted

morality and debilitating religion impressed upon her sensitive spirit.

Mayhap in this present decay some Mœra is punishing that awful crime

of self-sufficing ecclesiasticism. Her unproductivity--no matter from

what reason, whether from physical necessity or a spirit-searching

flight from the wrath of God--has been her death.

A NEW ENGLAND ABODE OF THE BLESSED

... ἐπὶ χθονὶ πουλυβοτείρη

Ζεὺς Κρονίδης ποίησε δικαιότερον καὶ ἄρειον,

ἀνδρῶν ἡρώων θεῖον γένος, ...

τοῖς δὲ δίχ’ ἀνθρώπων βίοτον καὶ ἤθε’ ὀπάσσας

Ζεὺς Κρονίδης κατένασσε πατὴρ ἐς πείρατα γαίης·

--χαὶ τοὶ μὲν ναίουσιν ἀκηδέα θυμὸν ἔχοντες

--ἐν μαχάρων νήσοισι παῤ Ὠχεανὸν βαθυδίνην,

--ὄλβιοι ἡρωες· τοῖσιν μελιηδέα καρπὸν

--τρςὶ ἔτεος θάλλοντα φέρει ζείδωρος ἄρουρα.

HESIOD

Under bloudie Diocletian ... a great number of Christians which were

assembled togither to heare the word of life ... were slaine by the

wicked pagans at Lichfield, whereof ... as you would say, The field of

dead corpses.

HOLINSHED

A NEW ENGLAND ABODE OF THE BLESSED

Upon the broad level of one of our Litchfield hills is--if we accept

ancient legend--a veritable Island of the Blessed. There heroes fallen

after strong fight enjoy rest forever.

The domination of unyielding law in the puny affairs of men--the

unfathomableness of Mœra, the lot no man can escape--comes upon one

afresh upon this hill-top. What clay we are in the hands of fate!

“ἅπαντα τíχτει χθὼν πάλιν τε λαμβáνει,” cried Euripides--“all things

the earth puts forth and takes again.”

But why should the efforts of men to build a human hive have here been

wiped away--here where all nature is wholesome and in seeming unison

with regulated human life? The air sparkles buoyantly up to your very

eyes--and almost intoxicates you with its life and joy. Through its

day-translucence crows cut their measured flight and brisker birds

flitter, and when the young moon shines out of a warm west elegiac

whippoorwills cry to the patient night.

Neither volcanic ashes nor flood, whirlwind nor earthquake--mere decay

has here nullified men’s efforts for congregated life and work. The

soil of the hill, porous and sandy, is of moderate fertility. Native

oaks and chestnuts, slender birches and fragrant hemlocks, with

undergrowths of coral-flowering laurel, clothe its slopes. Over its

sandstone ledges brooks of soft water treble minor airs--before they

go loitering among succulent grasses and spearmint and other thirsty

brothers of the distant meadows.

Nearly two hundred years ago pioneers of a Roundhead, independent

type--the type which led William of Orange across the Channel for

preservation of that liberty which Englishmen for hundreds of years

had spoken of as “antient”--such men broke this sod, till then

untouched by axe or plough. They made clearings, and grouped their

hand-hewn houses just where in cool mornings of summer they could see

the mists roll up from their hill-locked pond to meet the rosy day;

just where, when the sun sank behind the distant New York mountains,

they could catch within their windows his last shaft of gold.

Here they laid their hearths and dwelt in primitive comfort. Their

summers were unspeakably beautiful--and hard-working. Their autumns

indescribably brilliant, hill-side and valley uniting to form a

radiance God’s hand alone could hold. Their winters were of deep snows

and cold winds and much cutting and burning of wood. The first voice

of their virid spring came in the bird-calls of early March, when snow

melted and sap mounted, and sugar maples ran syrup; when ploughs were

sharpened, and steaming and patient oxen rested their sinews through

the long, pious Sabbath.

Wandering over this village site, now of fenced-in fields, you

find here and there a hearth and a few cobbles piled above it. The

chimney-shaft has long since disappeared. You happen upon stone curbs,

and look down to the dark waters of wells. You come upon bushes of

old-fashioned, curled-petal, pink-sweet roses and snowy phlox, and upon

tiger lilies flaunting odalisque faces before simple sweetbrier, and

upon many another garden plant which “a handsome woman that had a fine

hand”--as Izaak Walton said of her who made the trout fly--once set as

border to her path. Possibly the very hand that planted these pinks

held a bunch of their sweetness after it had grown waxen and cold. The

pinks themselves are now choked by the pushing grass.

And along this line of gooseberry-bushes we trace a path from house to

barn. Here was the fireplace. The square of small boulders yonder marks

the barn foundation. Along this path the house-father bore at sunrise

and sunset his pails of foaming milk. Under that elm spreading between

living-room and barn little children of the family built pebble huts,

in these rude confines cradling dolls which the mother had made from

linen of her own weave, or the father whittled when snow had crusted

the earth and made vain all his hauling and digging.

Those winters held genial hours. Nuts from the woods and cider from

the orchard stood on the board near by. Home-grown wood blazed in the

chimney; home-grown chestnuts, hidden in the ashes by busy children,

popped to expectant hands; house-mothers sat with knitting and

spinning, and the father and farm-men mended fittings and burnished

tools for the spring work. Outside the stars glittered through a clear

sky and the soundless earth below lay muffled in sleep.

Over yonder across the road was the village post-office, and not far

away were stores of merchant supplies. But of these houses no vestige

now remains. Where the post-house stood the earth is matted with

ground-pine and gleaming with scarlet berries of the wintergreen. The

wiping-out is as complete as that of the thousand trading-booths,

long since turned to clay, of old Greek Mycenæ, or of the stalls of

the ancient trading-folk dwelling between Jaffa and Jerusalem where

Tell-ej-Jezari now lies.

The church of white clap-boards which these villagers used for praise

and prayer--not a small temple--still abides. Many of the snowy houses

of old New England worship pierce their luminous ether with graceful

spires. But this meeting-house lifts a square, central bell-tower

which now leans on one side as if weary with long standing. The old

bell which summoned its people to their pews still hangs behind green

blinds--a not unmusical town-crier. But use, life, good works have

departed with those whom it exhorted to church duty, and in sympathy

with all the human endeavor it once knew, but now fordone, in these

days it never rings blithely, it can only be made to toll. Possibly

it can only be made to toll because of the settling of its supporting

tower. But the fact remains; and who knows if some wounded spirit

may not be dwelling within its brazen curves, sick at heart with its

passing and ineffective years?

Not far from the church, up a swell of the land, lies the

burying-ground--a sunny spot. Pines here and there, also hemlocks and

trees which stand bare after the fall of leaves. But all is bright and

open, not a hideous stone-quarry such as in our day vanity or untaught

taste makes of resting-places of our dead. Gay-colored mushrooms waste

their luxurious gaudiness between the trees, and steadfast myrtle, with

an added depth to its green from the air’s clarity, binds the narrow

mounds with ever-lengthening cords.

But whether they are purple with the violets of May or with Michaelmas

daisies, there is rest over all these mounds--“über allen Gipfeln ist

Ruh’.” Daily gossip and sympathy these neighbors had. The man of this

grave was he who passed many times a day up and down the path by the

gooseberry-bushes and bore the foaming milk. He is as voiceless now as

the flies that buzzed about his shining pail. And the widow who dwelt

across the road--she of the sad eyes who sat always at her loom, for

her youthful husband was of those who never came back from the massacre

of Fort William Henry--she to whom this man hauled a sled of wood

for every two he brought to his own door, to whom his family carried

elderberry wine, cider, and home mince-meat on Thanksgiving--she,

too, is voiceless even of thanks, her body lying over yonder, now

in complete rest--no loom, no treadle, no thumping, no whirring of

spinning-wheel, no narrow pinching and poverty, her soul of heroic

endurance joined with her long separate soldier soul of action.

The pathos of their lives and the warmth of their humanity!--however

coated with New England austerity. Many touching stories these little

headstones tell--as this:

“To the memory of Mrs. Abigail, Consort of Mr. Joseph Merrill,

who died May 3rd, 1767, in the 52 year of her age.”

A consort in royal dignity and poetry is a sharer of one’s lot. Mr.

Joseph Merrill had no acquaintance with the swagger and pretension

of courts, and he knew no poetry save his hill-side, his villagers,

and the mighty songs of the Bible. He was a plain, simple, Yankee

husbandman, round-shouldered from carrying heavy burdens, coarse-handed

from much tilling of the earth and use of horse and cattle. While he

listened to sermons in the white church down the slope, his eyes were

often heavy for need of morning sleep; and many a Sunday his back and

knees ached from lack of rest as he stood beside the sharer of his

fortunes in prayer. Yet his simple memorial warms the human heart one

hundred and thirty-eight years after his “consort” had for the last

time folded her housewifely hands.

“Of sa great faith and charitie,

With mutuall love and amitie:

That I wat an mair heavenly life,

Was never betweene man and wife.”

It was doubtless with Master Merrill as with the subject of an encomium

of Charles Lamb’s. “Though bred a Presbyterian,” says Lamb of Joseph

Paice, “and brought up a merchant, he was the finest gentleman of his

time.”

In May, 1767, when this sharer of humble fortune lay down to rest, the

Stamp Act had been repealed but fourteen months. The eyes of the world

were upon Pitt and Burke and Townshend--and Franklin whose memorable

examination before the House of Commons was then circulating as a news

pamphlet. The social gossip of the day--as Lady Sarah Lennox’s wit

recounts--had no more recognition of the villagers than George the

Fourth.

But American sinews and muscles such as these hidden on the Litchfield

Hills were growing in daily strength by helpful, human exercise, and

their “well-lined braine” was reasoning upon the Declaratory Act that

“Parliament had power to bind the colonies in all cases whatsoever.”

Another stone a few paces away has quite another story:

“Here lies the body of Mr. Stephen Kelsey, who

died April 2, 1745, in y^e 71 year of his age

as you are so was we

as we are you must be”

The peculiarities of this inscription were doubtless the

stone-cutter’s; and peradventure it was in the following way that the

rhymes--already centuries old in 1745 when Stephen Kelsey died--came to

be upon his headstone.

The carver of the memorial was undeniably a neighbor and

fellow-husbandman to the children of Mr. Stephen Kelsey. Money-earning

opportunities were narrow and silver hard to come by in the pioneering

of the Litchfield Hills, and only after scrupulous saving had the

Kelsey family the cost of the headstone at last in hand. It was then

that they met to consider an epitaph.

Their neighbor bespoken to work the stone was at the meeting, and to

open the way and clear his memory he scratched the date of death upon

a tablet or shingle his own hand had riven.

“Friend Stephen’s death,” he began, “calleth to mind a verse often

sculptured in the old church-yard in Leicestershire, a verse satisfying

the soul with the vanity of this life, and turning our eyes to the

call from God which is to come. It toucheth not the vexations of the

world which it were vain to deny are ever present. You carry it in your

memory mayhap, Mistress Remembrance?” the stone-master interrupting

himself asked, suddenly appealing to a sister of Master Kelsey.

Mistress Remembrance, an elderly spinster whose lover having in their

youth taken the great journey to New York, and crossed the Devil’s

Stepping-Stones--which before the memory of man some netherworld force

laid an entry of Manhattan Island--had never again returned to the

Litchfield Hills--Mistress Remembrance recalled the verses, and also

her brother, Master Stephen’s, sonorous repetition of them.

In this way it came about that the mourning family determined they

should be engraven. And there the lines stand to-day in the hills’

beautiful air--far more than a century since the hour when Mistress

Remembrance and the stone-cutter joined the celestial choir in which

Master Stephen was that very evening singing.

But another headstone--

“With uncouth rhymes and shapeless sculpture decked”--

quite outdoes Master Kelsey’s in strange English phrase. It reads:

“Michel son of John Spencer

died Jan ye 24^{th} 1756 in y^e 10^{th} year of his age.

Death Conquers All

Both young and Old

Tho’ ne’er so wise

Discreet and Bold

In helth and Strength

this youth did Die

in a moment without one Cry.”

And still another perpetuates the record of the same family:

In Memory of

Mr John Spencer Who

Died June y^{e} 24^{th}

1780 in the 70^{th}

Year of his Age

In Memory of Submit

Spencer Daughter of Mr

John and Mrs Mary

Spencer Who Died

Nov^{br} y^{e} 21^{th} 1755 in y^{e}

1^{st} Year of her Age

Oh Cruel Death to fill this

Narrow space In yonder

House Made a vast emty place

Was the child called “Submit” because born a woman! Or did the parents

embody in the name their own spiritual history of resignation to the

eternal powers?--“to fill this narrow space, in yonder house made a

vast empty place.”

Farther up the slope of this God’s Acre a shaft standing high in the

soft light mourns the hazards of our passage through the world.

In Memory of Mr.

Jeduthun Goodwin who

Died Feb 13^{th} 1809 Aged

40 Years

Also Mrs. Eunice his

Wife who died August 6^{th}

1802 Aged 33 Years

Dangers stand thick

through all the Ground

To Push us to the Tomb

And fierce diseases

Wait around

To hurry Mortals home

Every village has its tragedy, alas! and that recounted in this

following inscription is at least one faithful record of terrifying

disaster. Again it seems at variance with the moral order of the world

that these quiet fields should witness the terror this tiny memorial

hints at. The stone is quite out of plumb and moss-covered, but

underneath the lichen it reads:

“Phebe, wife of Ezekiel Markham Died Jyly 14,

1806 Ae 49

Also their 3 Sons Bela, Ciba, and Brainad was

burnt to Death in Oct 1793”

“In the midst of life we are dead”

The mother lived nearly thirteen years after. There is no neighboring

record of the father. Perhaps the two migrated after the fearful

holocaust, and he only returned to place his wife’s body beside the

disfigured remains of her little ungrown men. Bela, Ciba, and Brainard

rested lonesomely doubtless those thirteen waiting years, and many

a night must their little ghosts have sat among the windflowers and

hepaticas of spring, or wandered midst the drifted needles of the pines

in the clear moonlight of summer, athirst for the mother’s soul of

comfort and courage.

Again in this intaglio “spelt by th’ unlettered Muse” rises the

question of the stone-cutter’s knowledge of his mother tongue. The

church of the dead villagers still abides. But nowhere are seen the

remains of a school-house. Descendants of the cutter of Master Kelsey’s

headstone haply had many orders.

The sun of Indian summer upon the fallen leaves brings out their

pungent sweetness. Except the blossoms of the subtle witch-hazel all

the flowers are gone. The last fringed gentian fed by the oozing

spring down the hill-side closed its blue cup a score of days ago.

Every living thing rests. The scene is filled with a strange sense of

waiting. And above is the silence of the sky.

With such influences supervening upon their lives, these people of

the early village--undisturbed as they were by any world call, and

gifted with a fervid and patient faith--must daily have grown in

consciousness of a homely Presence ever reaching under their mortality

the Everlasting Arm.

This potency abides, its very feeling is in the air above these

graves--that some good, some divine is impendent--that the soul of the

world is outstretching a kindred hand.

In the calm and other-worldliness of their hill-top the eternal

moralities of the Deuteronomy and of Sophocles stand clearer to human

vision--the good that is mighty and never grows gray,--μέγας ἐν τούτοις

θεὸς, οὐδὲ γηράσχει.

The comings and goings, the daily labors, the hopes and interests of

these early dwellers make an unspeakable appeal--their graves in the

church-yard, the ruined foundations of their domestic life beyond--that

their output of lives and years of struggle bore no more lasting local

fruit, however their seed may now be scattered to the upbuilding of

our South and West, the conversion of China, and our ordering of the

Philippines.

And yet, although their habitations are fallen, they--such men and

women as they--still live. Their hearts, hands, and heads are in all

institutions of ours that are free. A great immortality, surely! If

such men and women had been less severe, less honest, less gifted for

conditions barren of luxuries, less elevated with an enthusiasm for

justice, less clear in their vision of the eternal moralities, less

simple and direct, less worthy inheritors of the great idea of liberty

which inflamed generations of their ancestors, it is not possible that

we should be here to-day doing our work to keep what they won and

carry their winnings further. Their unswerving independence in thought

and action and their conviction that the finger of God pointed their

way--their theocratic faith, their lifted sense of God-leading--made

possible the abiding of their spirit long after their material body lay

spent.

So it is that upon the level top of the Litchfield Hills--what with the

decay of the material things of life and the divine permanence of the

spiritual--there is a resting-place of the Blessed--an Island of the

Blessed as the old Greeks used to say--an abode of heroes fallen after

strong fighting and enjoying rest forever.

UP-TO-DATE MISOGYNY

He is the half part of a blessed man

Left to be finished by such a she;

And she a fair divided excellence,

Whose fulness of perfection lies in him.

SHAKESPEARE

If a man recognise in woman any quality which transcends the qualities

demanded in a plaything or handmaid--if he recognise in her the

existence of an intellectual life not essentially dissimilar to his

own, he must, by plainest logic, admit that life to express itself in

all its spontaneous forms of activity.

GEORGE ELIOT

Hard the task: your prison-chamber

Widens not for lifted latch

Till the giant thews and sinews

Meet their Godlike overmatch.

GEORGE MEREDITH

UP-TO-DATE MISOGYNY

“I hate every woman!” cries Euripides, in keen iambics in a citation

of the Florilegium of Stobæus. The sentiment was not new with

Euripides--unfortunately. Before him there was bucolic Hesiod with

his precepts on wife-choosing. There was Simonides of Amorgos, who in

outcrying the degradation of the Ionian women told the degradation of

the Ionian men. There was Hipponax, who fiercely sang “two days on

which a woman gives a man most pleasure--the day he marries her and the

day he buries her.”

And along with Euripides was Aristophanes, the radiant laughter-lover,

the titanic juggler with the heavens above and earth and men

below--Aristophanes who flouted the women of Athens in his

“Ecclesiazusæ,” and in the “Clouds” and his “Thesmophoriazusæ.”

Thucydides before them had named but one woman in his whole great

narrative, and had avoided the mention of women and their part in the

history he relates.

“Woman is a curse!” cried Susarion. The Jews had said it before, when

they told the story of Eve--

“Of man’s first disobedience, and the fruit

Of that forbidden tree whose mortal taste

Brought death into the world, and all our woe.”

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