It would be a mistake, however, to suppose that the great Athenians
were without the sympathy and influence of educated women; indeed,
it may be safely said that no great things in art or literature have
ever been done without this inspiration. The ignorance of the Attic
woman had its natural protest, though it did not come from an orthodox
source. Respectability was on the side of servitude. It had a dull
time, but it was decorous, and consoled itself, as it has often done
since, with the reflection that dullness was its natural lot. No doubt
it took pride in its nothingness, and looked with haughty disdain upon
the clever foreign women who were free to do as they chose. Fashion is
imperious, not to say cruel, and even the Chinese lady hobbles along on
her distorted feet with a happy consciousness of distinction that amply
repays her for all her suffering.
But social conventions had small weight with the foreign hetæræ or
companions, who had no legal rights, and no caste to lose. The real
power of women was in their hands. They were intelligent, often
gifted, and the better class had refined and graceful manners, which
the Athenian wives evidently had not. It was said of them that they
were delicate at table, and not like the native women, who “stuffed
their cheeks, and tore off the meat.” They were also noted for wit and
_esprit_, a quality of volatilized intellect that has always had
great social charm. These advanced women of the day, who cast into the
shade their illiterate sisters, monopolized both attention and honors.
Men praised the good women who stayed at home and looked after their
families, but sought the society of clever ones who did neither of
these fine things. With curious inconsistency, they found the culture
which was reprehensible and out of the proper order of nature in their
wives and daughters so charming in other women as to merit the highest
distinction. Poets sang of them, artists immortalized them, statesmen
and philosophers paid court to them.
’T is not for nothing that where’er we go
We find a temple of hetæræ there,
But nowhere one to any wedded wife,
says the poet.
Unfortunately, talent and the virtues did not always go together, and
it is impossible, at this distance, to determine with any certainty
who were good and who were not. In the conservative circles of Athens,
intelligence itself was a vice in women, and put them under a ban.
They might pray to Athena, and offer incense to her, and embroider her
robes, but it would not do to take this personification of wisdom and
knowledge for a model; indeed, it is not quite clear why so dangerous
a representative of the sex that was thought to have no intellect worth
considering should have been chosen to preside over all the Attic
divinities. There was a time, according to Varro, when it had been
customary for women to take part with men in public councils. In the
early ages they voted to name Athens after Athena, outvoting the men by
one. Poseidon was angry, and the sea overflowed. To appease the god,
the citizens imposed a punishment on their wives. They were to lose
their votes, the children were to receive no more their mother’s name,
and they were no longer called Athenians. Perhaps this is why they were
relegated forever after to ignorance and obscurity. Athena, however,
retained her power, and men still worshiped the gray-eyed goddess in
the abstract, as their fathers had done, doubtless quite content that
the superfluous wisdom of woman should be given a pedestal so high
and remote that it was not likely to cause serious inconvenience in
family relations. But their personal devotion was largely reserved for
Aphrodite, who was more beautiful and facile, if not so wise, and still
less fit to be held up as a worthy example for her sex. The race had
not greatly changed since its men went to their death for the “divine
Helen,” and thought the world well lost for a sight of her radiant
beauty.
The witty Phryne, whose exquisite face and form was made immortal by
Apelles and Praxiteles, was given a statue of gold between two kings
at Delphi. In the cypress-grove at Corinth there was a monument to the
beautiful Lais, who had enriched the city with fine architecture. Lamia
built a splendid portico for the people of Sicyon, and a temple at
Athens was consecrated to her under the name of Aphrodite. One of the
most striking and costly monuments in Greece was also erected there to
Pythionice. The wit and fascination of Glycera brought her the honors
due to a queen. Some of her letters to Menander were preserved, and
they were said to show not only a tender and delicate sentiment, but a
fine intellectual sympathy with her poet lover. No doubt the tributes
offered to the notoriously dissolute women were largely the expression
of a beauty-loving people who cherished “art for art’s sake.”
But there were other women with serious gifts of a high order, who
were far less likely to be honored with temples and statues. Leontium,
the disciple and favorite of Epicurus, wrote a treatise against
Theophrastus that was quoted by Cicero as a model of style. She
had a thoughtful face, and was painted in a meditative attitude by
Theodorus. It matters little whether Diotima was Arcadian priestess
or philosopher; she was the friend of Socrates, the counselor of the
wisest and subtlest of men. It was her high and spiritual conception
of love that he quoted at the famous symposium of Plato, raising the
conversation from a curious blending of unholy passion and metaphysical
subtlety to a region of light. Famous among the disciples of Pythagoras
was Perictione, who attracted the attention of Aristotle by writing
on such grave subjects as “Wisdom” and “The Harmony of Woman.” She
was duly conservative, and accepted the passive position of her
sex, dwelling on their need of a forbearing spirit. Possibly this
amiable attitude accounts in part for the kind consideration of the
philosopher. More advanced and less popular was Hipparchia, the wife
of Crates, an eminent Cynic, who called the statue of Phryne “a votive
offering of the profligacy of Greece.” She recognized virtue as the
supreme end of life, but contended that “virtue is the same in a man
as in a woman.” To Theodorus she said: “What Theodorus is not wrong
in doing, the same thing Hipparchia ought not to be wrong in doing.”
That she was severely attacked goes without saying. Such sentiments
were subversive of the inalienable rights of man, in the code of the
classic world. It was easier and more agreeable to discredit the woman
than to raise their own standards. Themista, the wife of Leon, was a
philosopher, corresponded with Epicurus, and was called by Cicero “a
sort of female Solon.” Lastheneia was a pupil of Plato, and went so far
as to disguise herself in a man’s robes in order to hear him discourse
at the Academy.
Perhaps it is unfair to group these women together. They were of
different shades, and not all contemporary. Some of them were
Athenians. Of most of them we have no knowledge except such as may
be gathered from a few passing words in connection with famous men,
and even this is involved in doubt and contradiction. What were the
attractions of Archaianassa, to whom Plato wrote sonnets, or did she
ever exist outside of the realm of dreams?
For dear to me Theoris is,
says Sophocles. Did he find in her the talent that inspired his own?
And what was the secret of Archippa’s influence, that he should have
left her his fortune? Or is she, too, a myth? Nor can we divine the
gifts that drew the eloquent Isocrates to Metaneira.
How far the honor accorded to so many of the hetæræ was due to their
talents and how far to their personal fascination, it is difficult to
say. In many cases, beauty was their chief distinction. Some are known
to have been fair and frail; others were apparently of good character
as well as brilliant intellect. A poet of the time speaks of one as
Pure and on virtue’s strictest model formed.
It would not be quite safe, however, to measure them by our standards.
We may go to the Greeks for art and literature, but not for morals.
Things that we consider criminal, they looked upon as quite natural and
innocent. No doubt, too, many things which we consider so harmless as
to pass unnoted would have been censured by them as violations of all
laws of decorum.