VIII. THE LAWS OF HABIT

It is very important that teachers should realize the importance of

habit, and psychology helps us greatly at this point. We speak, it is

true, of good habits and of bad habits; but, when people use the word

'habit,' in the majority of instances it is a bad habit which they

have in mind. They talk of the smoking-habit and the swearing-habit

and the drinking-habit, but not of the abstention-habit or the

moderation-habit or the courage-habit. But the fact is that our

virtues are habits as much as our vices. All our life, so far as it

has definite form, is but a mass of habits,--practical, emotional, and

intellectual,--systematically organized for our weal or woe, and

bearing us irresistibly toward our destiny, whatever the latter may be.

Since pupils can understand this at a comparatively early age, and since

to understand it contributes in no small measure to their feeling of

responsibility, it would be well if the teacher were able himself to

talk to them of the philosophy of habit in some such abstract terms as I

am now about to talk of it to you.

I believe that we are subject to the law of habit in consequence of the

fact that we have bodies. The plasticity of the living matter of our

nervous system, in short, is the reason why we do a thing with

difficulty the first time, but soon do it more and more easily, and

finally, with sufficient practice, do it semi-mechanically, or with

hardly any consciousness at all. Our nervous systems have (in Dr.

Carpenter's words) _grown_ to the way in which they have been exercised,

just as a sheet of paper or a coat, once creased or folded, tends to

fall forever afterward into the same identical folds.

Habit is thus a second nature, or rather, as the Duke of Wellington

said, it is 'ten times nature,'--at any rate as regards its importance

in adult life; for the acquired habits of our training have by that time

inhibited or strangled most of the natural impulsive tendencies which

were originally there. Ninety-nine hundredths or, possibly, nine hundred

and ninety-nine thousandths of our activity is purely automatic and

habitual, from our rising in the morning to our lying down each night.

Our dressing and undressing, our eating and drinking, our greetings and

partings, our hat-raisings and giving way for ladies to precede, nay,

even most of the forms of our common speech, are things of a type so

fixed by repetition as almost to be classed as reflex actions. To each

sort of impression we have an automatic, ready-made response. My very

words to you now are an example of what I mean; for having already

lectured upon habit and printed a chapter about it in a book, and read

the latter when in print, I find my tongue inevitably falling into its

old phrases and repeating almost literally what I said before.

So far as we are thus mere bundles of habit, we are stereotyped

creatures, imitators and copiers of our past selves. And since this,

under any circumstances, is what we always tend to become, it follows

first of all that the teacher's prime concern should be to ingrain into

the pupil that assortment of habits that shall be most useful to him

throughout life. Education is for behavior, and habits are the stuff of

which behavior consists.

To quote my earlier book directly, the great thing in all education is

to _make our nervous system our ally instead of our enemy_. It is to

fund and capitalize our acquisitions, and live at ease upon the

interest of the fund. _For this we must make automatic and habitual, as

early as possible, as many useful actions as we can_, and as carefully

guard against the growing into ways that are likely to be

disadvantageous. The more of the details of our daily life we can hand

over to the effortless custody of automatism, the more our higher powers

of mind will be set free for their own proper work. There is no more

miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual but

indecision, and for whom the lighting of every cigar, the drinking of

every cup, the time of rising and going to bed every day, and the

beginning of every bit of work are subjects of express volitional

deliberation. Full half the time of such a man goes to the deciding or

regretting of matters which ought to be so ingrained in him as

practically not to exist for his consciousness at all. If there be such

daily duties not yet ingrained in any one of my hearers, let him begin

this very hour to set the matter right.

In Professor Bain's chapter on 'The Moral Habits' there are some

admirable practical remarks laid down. Two great maxims emerge from the

treatment. The first is that in the acquisition of a new habit, or the

leaving off of an old one, we must take care to _launch ourselves with

as strong and decided an initiative as possible_. Accumulate all the

possible circumstances which shall reinforce the right motives; put

yourself assiduously in conditions that encourage the new way; make

engagements incompatible with the old; take a public pledge, if the case

allows; in short, envelope your resolution with every aid you know. This

will give your new beginning such a momentum that the temptation to

break down will not occur as soon as it otherwise might; and every day

during which a breakdown is postponed adds to the chances of its not

occurring at all.

I remember long ago reading in an Austrian paper the advertisement of a

certain Rudolph Somebody, who promised fifty gulden reward to any one

who after that date should find him at the wine-shop of Ambrosius

So-and-so. 'This I do,' the advertisement continued, 'in consequence of

a promise which I have made my wife.' With such a wife, and such an

understanding of the way in which to start new habits, it would be safe

to stake one's money on Rudolph's ultimate success.

The second maxim is, _Never suffer an exception to occur till the new

habit is securely rooted in your life_. Each lapse is like the letting

fall of a ball of string which one is carefully winding up: a single

slip undoes more than a great many turns will wind again. Continuity of

training is the great means of making the nervous system act infallibly

right. As Professor Bain says:--

"The peculiarity of the moral habits, contradistinguishing them from the

intellectual acquisitions, is the presence of two hostile powers, one to

be gradually raised into the ascendant over the other. It is necessary

above all things, in such a situation, never to lose a battle. Every

gain on the wrong side undoes the effect of many conquests on the right.

The essential precaution, therefore, is so to regulate the two opposing

powers that the one may have a series of uninterrupted successes, until

repetition has fortified it to such a degree as to enable it to cope

with the opposition, under any circumstances. This is the theoretically

best career of mental progress."

A third maxim may be added to the preceding pair: _Seize the very first

possible opportunity to act on every resolution you make, and on every

emotional prompting you may experience in the direction of the habits

you aspire to gain._ It is not in the moment of their forming, but in

the moment of their producing motor effects, that resolves and

aspirations communicate the new 'set' to the brain.

No matter how full a reservoir of maxims one may possess, and no matter

how good one's sentiments may be, if one have not taken advantage of

every concrete opportunity to act, one's character may remain entirely

unaffected for the better. With good intentions, hell proverbially is

paved. This is an obvious consequence of the principles I have laid

down. A 'character,' as J.S. Mill says, 'is a completely fashioned

will'; and a will, in the sense in which he means it, is an aggregate of

tendencies to act in a firm and prompt and definite way upon all the

principal emergencies of life. A tendency to act only becomes

effectively ingrained in us in proportion to the uninterrupted frequency

with which the actions actually occur, and the brain 'grows' to their

use. When a resolve or a fine glow of feeling is allowed to evaporate

without bearing practical fruit, it is worse than a chance lost: it

works so as positively to hinder future resolutions and emotions from

taking the normal path of discharge. There is no more contemptible type

of human character than that of the nerveless sentimentalist and

dreamer, who spends his life in a weltering sea of sensibility, but

never does a concrete manly deed.

This leads to a fourth maxim. _Don't preach too much to your pupils or

abound in good talk in the abstract_. Lie in wait rather for the

practical opportunities, be prompt to seize those as they pass, and thus

at one operation get your pupils both to think, to feel, and to do. The

strokes of _behavior_ are what give the new set to the character, and

work the good habits into its organic tissue. Preaching and talking too

soon become an ineffectual bore.

* * * * *

There is a passage in Darwin's short autobiography which has been often

quoted, and which, for the sake of its bearing on our subject of habit,

I must now quote again. Darwin says: "Up to the age of thirty or beyond

it, poetry of many kinds gave me great pleasure; and even as a schoolboy

I took intense delight in Shakespeare, especially in the historical

plays. I have also said that pictures formerly gave me considerable, and

music very great delight. But now for many years I cannot endure to read

a line of poetry. I have tried lately to read Shakespeare, and found it

so intolerably dull that it nauseated me. I have also almost lost my

taste for pictures or music.... My mind seems to have become a kind of

machine for grinding general laws out of large collections of facts; but

why this should have caused the atrophy of that part of the brain alone,

on which the higher tastes depend, I cannot conceive.... If I had to

live my life again, I would have made a rule to read some poetry and

listen to some music at least once every week; for perhaps the parts of

my brain now atrophied would thus have been kept alive through use. The

loss of these tastes is a loss of happiness, and may possibly be

injurious to the intellect, and more probably to the moral character, by

enfeebling the emotional part of our nature."

We all intend when young to be all that may become a man, before the

destroyer cuts us down. We wish and expect to enjoy poetry always, to

grow more and more intelligent about pictures and music, to keep in

touch with spiritual and religious ideas, and even not to let the

greater philosophic thoughts of our time develop quite beyond our view.

We mean all this in youth, I say; and yet in how many middle-aged men

and women is such an honest and sanguine expectation fulfilled? Surely,

in comparatively few; and the laws of habit show us why. Some interest

in each of these things arises in everybody at the proper age; but, if

not persistently fed with the appropriate matter, instead of growing

into a powerful and necessary habit, it atrophies and dies, choked by

the rival interests to which the daily food is given. We make ourselves

into Darwins in this negative respect by persistently ignoring the

essential practical conditions of our case. We say abstractly: "I mean

to enjoy poetry, and to absorb a lot of it, of course. I fully intend to

keep up my love of music, to read the books that shall give new turns to

the thought of my time, to keep my higher spiritual side alive, etc."

But we do not attack these things concretely, and we do not begin

_to-day. _We forget that every good that is worth possessing must be

paid for in strokes of daily effort. We postpone and postpone, until

those smiling possibilities are dead. Whereas ten minutes a day of

poetry, of spiritual reading or meditation, and an hour or two a week at

music, pictures, or philosophy, provided we began _now_ and suffered no

remission, would infallibly give us in due time the fulness of all we

desire. By neglecting the necessary concrete labor, by sparing

ourselves the little daily tax, we are positively digging the graves of

our higher possibilities. This is a point concerning which you teachers

might well give a little timely information to your older and more

aspiring pupils.

According as a function receives daily exercise or not, the man becomes

a different kind of being in later life. We have lately had a number of

accomplished Hindoo visitors at Cambridge, who talked freely of life and

philosophy. More than one of them has confided to me that the sight of

our faces, all contracted as they are with the habitual American

over-intensity and anxiety of expression, and our ungraceful and

distorted attitudes when sitting, made on him a very painful impression.

"I do not see," said one, "how it is possible for you to live as you do,

without a single minute in your day deliberately given to tranquillity

and meditation. It is an invariable part of our Hindoo life to retire

for at least half an hour daily into silence, to relax our muscles,

govern our breathing, and meditate on eternal things. Every Hindoo child

is trained to this from a very early age." The good fruits of such a

discipline were obvious in the physical repose and lack of tension, and

the wonderful smoothness and calmness of facial expression, and

imperturbability of manner of these Orientals. I felt that my countrymen

were depriving themselves of an essential grace of character. How many

American children ever hear it said by parent or teacher, that they

should moderate their piercing voices, that they should relax their

unused muscles, and as far as possible, when sitting, sit quite still?

Not one in a thousand, not one in five thousand! Yet, from its reflex

influence on the inner mental states, this ceaseless over-tension,

over-motion, and over-expression are working on us grievous national

harm.

I beg you teachers to think a little seriously of this matter. Perhaps

you can help our rising generation of Americans toward the beginning of

a better set of personal ideals.[B]

[B] See the Address on the Gospel of Relaxation, later in

this volume.

* * * * *

To go back now to our general maxims, I may at last, as a fifth and

final practical maxim about habits, offer something like this: _Keep the

faculty of effort alive in you by a little gratuitous exercise every

day._ That is, be systematically heroic in little unnecessary points, do

every day or two something for no other reason than its difficulty, so

that, when the hour of dire need draws nigh, it may find you not

unnerved and untrained to stand the test. Asceticism of this sort is

like the insurance which a man pays on his house and goods. The tax does

him no good at the time, and possibly may never bring him a return. But,

if the fire _does_ come, his having paid it will be his salvation from

ruin. So with the man who has daily inured himself to habits of

concentrated attention, energetic volition, and self-denial in

unnecessary things. He will stand like a tower when everything rocks

around him, and his softer fellow-mortals are winnowed like chaff in the

blast.

* * * * *

I have been accused, when talking of the subject of habit, of making old

habits appear so strong that the acquiring of new ones, and particularly

anything like a sudden reform or conversion, would be made impossible by

my doctrine. Of course, this would suffice to condemn the latter; for

sudden conversions, however infrequent they may be, unquestionably do

occur. But there is no incompatibility between the general laws I have

laid down and the most startling sudden alterations in the way of

character. New habits _can_ be launched, I have expressly said, on

condition of there being new stimuli and new excitements. Now life

abounds in these, and sometimes they are such critical and revolutionary

experiences that they change a man's whole scale of values and system of

ideas. In such cases, the old order of his habits will be ruptured; and,

if the new motives are lasting, new habits will be formed, and build up

in him a new or regenerate 'nature.'

All this kind of fact I fully allow. But the general laws of habit are

no wise altered thereby, and the physiological study of mental

conditions still remains on the whole the most powerful ally of

hortatory ethics. The hell to be endured hereafter, of which theology

tells, is no worse than the hell we make for ourselves in this world by

habitually fashioning our characters in the wrong way. Could the young

but realize how soon they will become mere walking bundles of habits,

they would give more heed to their conduct while in the plastic state.

We are spinning our own fates, good or evil, and never to be undone.

Every smallest stroke of virtue or of vice leaves its never-so-little

scar. The drunken Rip Van Winkle, in Jefferson's play, excuses himself

for every fresh dereliction by saying, "I won't count this time!" Well,

he may not count it, and a kind Heaven may not count it; but it is being

counted none the less. Down among his nerve-cells and fibres the

molecules are counting it, registering and storing it up to be used

against him when the next temptation comes. Nothing we ever do is, in

strict scientific literalness, wiped out.

Of course, this has its good side as well as its bad one. As we become

permanent drunkards by so many separate drinks, so we become saints in

the moral, and authorities and experts in the practical and scientific

spheres, by so many separate acts and hours of work. Let no youth have

any anxiety about the upshot of his education, whatever the line of it

may be. If he keep faithfully busy each hour of the working day, he may

safely leave the final result to itself. He can with perfect certainty

count on waking up some fine morning to find himself one of the

competent ones of his generation, in whatever pursuit he may have

singled out. Silently, between all the details of his business, the

_power of judging_ in all that class of matter will have built itself up

within him as a possession that will never pass away. Young people

should know this truth in advance. The ignorance of it has probably

engendered more discouragement and faint-heartedness in youths embarking

on arduous careers than all other causes put together.

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