LETTER CXCVII

LONDON, February 26, 1754.

MY DEAR FRIEND: I have received your letters of the 4th, from Munich, and

of the 11th from Ratisbon; but I have not received that of the 31st

January, to which you refer in the former. It is to this negligence and

uncertainty of the post, that you owe your accidents between Munich and

Ratisbon: for, had you received my letters regularly, you would have

received one from me before you left Munich, in which I advised you to

stay, since you were so well there. But, at all events, you were in the

wrong to set out from Munich in such weather and such roads; since you

could never imagine that I had set my heart so much upon your going to

Berlin, as to venture your being buried in the snow for it. Upon the

whole, considering all you are very well off. You do very well, in my

mind, to return to Munich, or at least to keep within the circle of

Munich, Ratisbon, and Manheim, till the weather and the roads are good:

stay at each or any of those places as long as ever you please; for I am

extremely indifferent about your going to Berlin.

As to our meeting, I will tell you my plan, and you may form your own

accordingly. I propose setting out from hence the last week in April,

then drinking the Aix-la-Chapelle waters for a week, and from thence

being at Spa about the 15th of May, where I shall stay two months at

most, and then return straight to England. As I both hope and believe

that there will be no mortal at Spa during my residence there, the

fashionable season not beginning till the middle of July, I would by no

means have you come there at first, to be locked up with me and some few

Capucins, for two months, in that miserable hole; but I would advise you

to stay where you like best, till about the first week in July, and then

to come and pick me up at Spa, or meet me upon the road at Liege or

Brussels. As for the intermediate time, should you be weary of Manheim

and Munich, you may, if you please, go to Dresden, to Sir Charles

Williams, who will be there before that time; or you may come for a month

or six weeks to The Hague; or, in short, go or stay wherever you like

best. So much for your motions.

As you have sent for all the letters directed to you at Berlin, you will

receive from thence volumes of mine, among which you will easily perceive

that some were calculated for a supposed perusal previous to your opening

them. I will not repeat anything contained in them, excepting that I

desire you will send me a warm and cordial letter of thanks for Mr.

Eliot; who has, in the most friendly manner imaginable, fixed you at his

own borough of Liskeard, where you will be elected jointly with him,

without the least opposition or difficulty. I will forward that letter to

him into Cornwall, where he now is.

Now that you are to be soon a man of business, I heartily wish that you

would immediately begin to be a man of method; nothing contributing more

to facilitate and dispatch business, than method and order. Have order

and method in your accounts, in your reading, in the allotment of your

time; in short, in everything. You cannot conceive how much time you will

save by it, nor how much better everything you do will be done. The Duke

of Marlborough did by no means spend, but he slatterned himself into that

immense debt, which is not yet near paid off. The hurry and confusion of

the Duke of Newcastle do not proceed from his business, but from his want

of method in it. Sir Robert Walpole, who had ten times the business to

do, was never seen in a hurry, because he always did it with method. The

head of a man who has business, and no method nor order, is properly that

‘rudis indigestaque moles quam dixere chaos’. As you must be conscious

that you are extremely negligent and slatternly, I hope you will resolve

not to be so for the future. Prevail with yourself, only to observe good

method and order for one fortnight; and I will venture to assure you that

you will never neglect them afterward, you will find such conveniency and

advantage arising from them. Method is the great advantage that lawyers

have over other people, in speaking in parliament; for, as they must

necessarily observe it in their pleadings in the courts of justice, it

becomes habitual to them everywhere else. Without making you a

compliment, I can tell you with pleasure, that order, method, and more

activity of mind, are all that you want, to make, some day or other, a

considerable figure in business. You have more useful knowledge, more

discernment of characters, and much more discretion, than is common at

your age; much more, I am sure, than I had at that age. Experience you

cannot yet have, and therefore trust in the meantime to mine. I am an old

traveler; am well acquainted with all the bye as well as the great roads;

I cannot misguide you from ignorance, and you are very sure I shall not

from design.

I can assure you, that you will have no opportunity of subscribing

yourself my Excellency’s, etc. Retirement and quiet were my choice some

years ago, while I had all my senses, and health and spirits enough to

carry on business; but now that I have lost my hearing, and that I find

my constitution declining daily, they are become my necessary and only

refuge. I know myself (no common piece of knowledge, let me tell you), I

know what I can, what I cannot, and consequently what I ought to do. I

ought not, and therefore will not, return to business when I am much less

fit for it than I was when I quitted it. Still less will I go to Ireland,

where, from my deafness and infirmities, I must necessarily make a

different figure from that which I once made there. My pride would be too

much mortified by that difference. The two important senses of seeing and

hearing should not only be good, but quick, in business; and the business

of a Lord-lieutenant of Ireland (if he will do it himself) requires both

those senses in the highest perfection. It was the Duke of Dorset’s not

doing the business himself, but giving it up to favorites, that has

occasioned all this confusion in Ireland; and it was my doing the whole

myself, without either Favorite, Minister, or Mistress, that made my

administration so smooth and quiet. I remember, when I named the late Mr.

Liddel for my Secretary, everybody was much surprised at it; and some of

my friends represented to me, that he was no man of business, but only a

very genteel, pretty young fellow; I assured them, and with truth, that

that was the very reason why I chose him; for that I was resolved to do

all the business myself, and without even the suspicion of having a

minister; which the Lord-lieutenant’s Secretary, if he is a man of

business, is always supposed, and commonly with reason, to be. Moreover,

I look upon myself now to be emeritus in business, in which I have been

near forty years together; I give it up to you: apply yourself to it, as

I have done, for forty years, and then I consent to your leaving it for a

philosophical retirement among your friends and your books. Statesmen and

beauties are very rarely sensible of the gradations of their decay; and,

too often sanguinely hoping to shine on in their meridian, often set with

contempt and ridicule. I retired in time, ‘uti conviva satur’; or, as

Pope says still better, ERE TITTERING YOUTH SHALL SHOVE YOU FROM THE

STAGE. My only remaining ambition is to be the counsellor and minister of

your rising ambition. Let me see my own youth revived in you; let me be

your Mentor, and, with your parts and knowledge, I promise you, you shall

go far. You must bring, on your part, activity and attention; and I will

point out to you the proper objects for them. I own I fear but one thing

for you, and that is what one has generally the least reason to fear from

one of your age; I mean your laziness; which, if you indulge, will make

you stagnate in a contemptible obscurity all your life. It will hinder

you from doing anything that will deserve to be written, or from writing

anything that may deserve to be read; and yet one or other of those two

objects should be at least aimed at by every rational being.

I look upon indolence as a sort of SUICIDE; for the man is effectually

destroyed, though the appetites of the brute may survive. Business by no

means forbids pleasures; on the contrary, they reciprocally season each

other; and I will venture to affirm, that no man enjoys either in

perfection, that does not join both. They whet the desire for each other.

Use yourself, therefore, in time to be alert and diligent in your little

concerns; never procrastinate, never put off till to-morrow what you can

do to-day; and never do two things at a time; pursue your object, be it

what it will, steadily and indefatigably; and let any difficulties (if

surmountable) rather animate than slacken your endeavors. Perseverance

has surprising effects.

I wish you would use yourself to translate, every day, only three or four

lines, from any book, in any language, into the correctest and most

elegant English that you can think of; you cannot imagine how it will

insensibly form your style, and give you an habitual elegance; it would

not take you up a quarter of an hour in a day. This letter is so long,

that it will hardly leave you that quarter of an hour, the day you

receive it. So good-night.

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