LETTER CLV

LONDON, January 2, O. S. 1752.

MY DEAR FRIEND: Laziness of mind, or inattention, are as great enemies to

knowledge as incapacity; for, in truth, what difference is there between

a man who will not, and a man who cannot be informed? This difference

only, that the former is justly to be blamed, the latter to be pitied.

And yet how many there are, very capable of receiving knowledge, who from

laziness, inattention, and incuriousness, will not so much as ask for it,

much less take the least pains to acquire it!

Our young English travelers generally distinguish themselves by a

voluntary privation of all that useful knowledge for which they are sent

abroad; and yet, at that age, the most useful knowledge is the most easy

to be acquired; conversation being the book, and the best book in which

it is contained. The drudgery of dry grammatical learning is over, and

the fruits of it are mixed with, and adorned by, the flowers of

conversation. How many of our young men have been a year at Rome, and as

long at Paris, without knowing the meaning and institution of the

Conclave in the former, and of the parliament in the latter? and this

merely for want of asking the first people they met with in those several

places, who could at least have given them some general notions of those

matters.

You will, I hope, be wiser, and omit no opportunity (for opportunities

present themselves every hour of the day) of acquainting yourself with

all those political and constitutional particulars of the kingdom and

government of France. For instance, when you hear people mention le

Chancelier, or ‘le Garde de Sceaux’, is it any great trouble for you to

ask, or for others to tell you, what is the nature, the powers, the

objects, and the profits of those two employments, either when joined

together, as they often are, or when separate, as they are at present?

When you hear of a gouverneur, a lieutenant du Roi, a commandant, and an

intendant of the same province, is, it not natural, is it not becoming,

is it not necessary, for a stranger to inquire into their respective

rights and privileges? And yet, I dare say, there are very few Englishmen

who know the difference between the civil department of the Intendant,

and the military powers of the others. When you hear (as I am persuaded

you must) every day of the ‘Vingtieme’, which is one in twenty, and

consequently five per cent., inquire upon what that tax is laid, whether

upon lands, money, merchandise, or upon all three; how levied, and what

it is supposed to produce. When you find in books: (as you will

sometimes) allusion to particular laws and customs, do not rest till you

have traced them up to their source. To give you two examples: you will

meet in some French comedies, ‘Cri’, or ‘Clameur de Haro’; ask what it

means, and you will be told that it is a term of the law in Normandy, and

means citing, arresting, or obliging any person to appear in the courts

of justice, either upon a civil or a criminal account; and that it is

derived from ‘a Raoul’, which Raoul was anciently Duke of Normandy, and a

prince eminent for his justice; insomuch, that when any injustice was

committed, the cry immediately was, ‘Venez, a Raoul, a Raoul’, which

words are now corrupted and jumbled into ‘haro’. Another, ‘Le vol du

Chapon, that is, a certain district of ground immediately contiguous to

the mansion-seat of a family, and answers to what we call in English

DEMESNES. It is in France computed at about 1,600 feet round the house,

that being supposed to be the extent of the capon’s flight from ‘la basse

cour’. This little district must go along with the mansion-seat, however

the rest of the estate may be divided.

I do not mean that you should be a French lawyer; but I would not have

you unacquainted with the general principles of their law, in matters

that occur every day: Such is the nature of their descents, that is, the

inheritance of lands: Do they all go to the eldest son, or are they

equally divided among the children of the deceased? In England, all lands

unsettled descend to the eldest son, as heir-at-law, unless otherwise

disposed of by the father’s will, except in the county of Kent, where a

particular custom prevails, called Gavelkind; by which, if the father

dies intestate, all his children divide his lands equally among them. In

Germany, as you know, all lands that, are not fiefs are equally divided

among all the children, which ruins those families; but all male fiefs of

the empire descend unalienably to the next male heir, which preserves

those families. In France, I believe, descents vary in different

provinces.

The nature of marriage contracts deserves inquiry. In England, the

general practice is, the husband takes all the wife’s fortune; and in

consideration of it settles upon her a proper pin-money, as it is called;

that is, an annuity during his life, and a jointure after his death. In

France it is not so, particularly at Paris; where ‘la communaute des

biens’ is established. Any married woman at Paris (IF YOU ARE ACQUAINTED

WITH ONE) can inform you of all these particulars.

These and other things of the same nature, are the useful and rational

objects of the curiosity of a man of sense and business. Could they only

be attained by laborious researches in folio-books, and wormeaten

manuscripts, I should not wonder at a young fellow’s being ignorant of

them; but as they are the frequent topics of conversation, and to be

known by a very little degree of curiosity, inquiry and attention, it is

unpardonable not to know them.

Thus I have given you some hints only for your inquiries; ‘l’Etat de la

France, l’Almanach Royal’, and twenty other such superficial books, will

furnish you with a thousand more. ‘Approfondissez.’

How often, and how justly, have I since regretted negligences of this

kind in my youth! And how often have I since been at great trouble to

learn many things which I could then have learned without any! Save

yourself now, then, I beg of you, that regret and trouble hereafter. Ask

questions, and many questions; and leave nothing till you are thoroughly

informed of it. Such pertinent questions are far from being illbred or

troublesome to those of whom you ask them; on the contrary, they are a

tacit compliment to their knowledge; and people have a better opinion of

a young man, when they see him desirous to be informed.

I have by last post received your two letters of the 1st and 5th of

January, N. S. I am very glad that you have been at all the shows at

Versailles: frequent the courts. I can conceive the murmurs of the French

at the poorness of the fireworks, by which they thought their king of

their country degraded; and, in truth, were things always as they should

be, when kings give shows they ought to be magnificent.

I thank you for the ‘These de la Sorbonne’, which you intend to send me,

and which I am impatient to receive. But pray read it carefully yourself

first; and inform yourself what the Sorbonne is by whom founded, and for

what puraoses.

Since you have time, you have done very well to take an Italian and a

German master; but pray take care to leave yourelf time enough for

company; for it is in company only that you can learn what will be much

more useful to you than either Italian or German; I mean ‘la politesse,

les manieres et les graces, without which, as I told you long ago, and I

told you true, ‘ogni fatica a vana’. Adieu.

Pray make my compliments to Lady Brown.

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