DRESS AND THE WOMAN

The creed and the fallacy of fashion, it seems to me, have seldom been

better expressed than in the retort once made to a friend of mine,

in one of our more conservative New England towns. Sojourning there

for a time, she had reason to order a hat from a local milliner. When

she tried it on, it did not resemble in the least the headgear of the

metropolis. “They are wearing hats very low, this year, you know,” she

protested. “Ah,” was the unperturbed reply, “they are wearing them

high in Newburyport.” I do not remember the fate of the hat--which is

unimportant; but the statement has remained with me for years as one

of the most significant imaginable. It was at once the glorification

and the _reductio ad absurdum_ of modishness. My friend and the

milliner spoke in the same spirit. For provincialism in dress consists

merely in adhering rigidly to the _avant-dernier cri_. The object

of allegiance may be, in the provinces, a little tardily come up with;

but the rigidity is precisely the rigidity of the rue de la Paix.

Fashion is not simply a question of longitude.

The sense of mode might be considered, as so many other things have

been, the possession that distinguishes man from the beasts. The

peacock is no proof to the contrary; for if, as scientists suggest to

us, all radiant plumage has been developed as a means of attraction,

at least the ideal of adornment has been, in the case of the birds,

consistently æsthetic. The feathery fashions have always been

intrinsically good. Whereas (to be flippant) the attraction exercised

by the latest mode would seem usually to point to some principle of

unnatural selection. The bird of Paradise, who is probably irresistible

in his native forest, can be positively repellent on a hat. Yes; the

sense of mode is curiously different from the sense of beauty. Let us,

however, be serious.

Preachers of all time--and satirists, who are lay-preachers--have

declaimed against female extravagance in dress. It must be confessed

that the sex of the more peaceful pursuits has been the more

exuberantly adorned. The male costume worn, say, at the court of

Henri III, was every bit as bad as anything that contemporary ladies

could have boasted; but even in the time of Henri III, a man had to

hold himself ready for the saddle and the tented field. Some part of

his life was bound to be spent in garments as rational as he could

conceive them. It was the female sex that could expand, unchecked and

unpruned, into such wild tendrils, such orchid-like incontinent bloom,

of “changeable apparel.”

From the earliest times, it is the woman who has been designated as the

sinner in this respect. On this point, the Old and New Testaments are,

for once, agreed; Isaiah and St. Paul are at one. “The chains, and the

bracelets, and the mufflers, the bonnets ... and the earrings ... the

mantles, and the wimples, and the crisping-pins ... the fine linen, and

the hoods and the veils,” the one accuses; “broidered hair, or gold, or

pearls, or costly array,” complains the other. Ezekiel thunders against

“the women that sew pillows to the armholes” (the _gigot_ sleeve

in the reign of Zedekiah!) “and make kerchiefs for the head of persons

of every stature, to hunt souls.” And the tradition has remained. It

is perhaps the only subject on which St. Ignatius Loyola and John Knox

would have been thoroughly sympathetic. One is certainly at liberty to

infer from the chorus that it is easier for a camel to pass through the

needle’s eye than for anything really _chic_ to enter the Kingdom

of Heaven.

All these gentlemen, to be sure, seem to have objected to the fact

and purpose of feminine adornment, rather than to rapid changes in

the methods adopted. But I cannot believe that St. Paul, who scored

the Attic curiosity born of the Attic _ennui_, would not have

preached even more violently, had he foreseen the need, against fashion

than against beauty. And is it not fashion rather than beauty that is

subtly discriminated against by all religious orders? The nun, like

the Quakeress, must adopt a single color and a single mode; though nun

and Quakeress, both, often find their chosen garb the most becoming

they could possibly wear. No dress could be more beautiful than that

which I remember from my childhood’s convent. It fell in rich and

simple folds of _violet_--_violet_ being neither purple nor

crimson, but something indefinably magnificent midway between--enhanced

by white linen _guimpe_ and cream-colored veiling. It gave the

daughter of a French duke, I remember, the aspect of a queen regnant.

Yet it represented poverty, chastity, and obedience. No one is

especially concerned with the nun’s being unbecomingly clad. A subtler

mortification is supposed to lie in her engaging to dress in exactly

the same way all her life. The mortification is of course heightened

by the fact that she shares her style of dress with the rest of the

community, regardless of type. But in any case the first thing that the

postulant renounces is fashionable clothing. They leave her curls to be

cut off later.

It is not, however, with the moral aspect of fashion that I am

concerned. The moral question, indeed, has ceased to be very poignant;

even our Calvinist great-grandmothers permitted a shy predominance of

trimming on the “congregation side” of their bonnets. The moral aspect

of fashion disguises itself nowadays as an economic consideration. With

economic considerations, again, I have no special concern. They are

writ large over half the printed pages of our time. Some statistician

every month proves to us something appalling: either that,

... since our women must walk gay, and money buys their gear,

materials are adulterated, or sewing-women are starved, or shop-girls

seek the primrose path, or husbands die of the strain in their early

forties. To much the same music, the New York Customs officials stage,

each day, an elaborate melodrama on the steamship piers. We know that,

from “Nearseal” to “Near-silk,” the poor will sacrifice comfort to cut,

and that a really “good” milliner makes a profit of a hundred per cent

on each hat. These things are all true; and Heaven forbid that one

should shirk the economic question! But I very much doubt if either

moralist or statistician will turn the trick. Yet they have only, it

would seem, to enlist a few other facts as good as their own, to be

quite sure of success.

For not even the cynic will pretend that the real object of fashions

is to disfigure. It is quite without intention that M. Worth and

Mme. Paquin and all their prototypes, congeners, and successors,

have become the foes of beauty. They have simply never stopped to

consider that the very notion of the changing mode is the negation of

all aesthetic law. The most damning thing about fashions is that they

make inevitably, nine years out of ten, for the greatest ugliness of

the greatest number. And this is the real Achilles tendon of _la

mode_. Can anything be more absurd than to impose a single style on

the fat and the thin, on the minimum wage and the maximum income?

I admit that no fashion has ever been created expressly for the lean

purse or for the fat woman: the dressmaker’s ideal is undoubtedly the

thin millionairess. But the fat woman and the lean purse must make the

best of each style in turn, as it comes along. And if one has ever

seen a fat woman in (for example) a hobble skirt--even in an academic

edition of a hobble skirt--one knows that this is not a light thing to

say. As for the lean purse, it is not only in alarmist articles that

the working-girl goes without half her luncheons to buy a rhinestone

sunburst. One has known the cases. Nor is the coercion purely

psychological. The cheapest Eighth Avenue suit, which, ready-made,

costs something-and-ninety-eight cents, is sure to be a hasty and

sleazy imitation (at many removes, and losing something with each) of

a Fifth Avenue model. It is one of the few true paradoxes that people

who must dress cheaply must dress “in style.” And that is a hard fate

for the hypothetical poor woman with intelligence, who secretly desires

a garment that will be no more conspicuous next year than this, and

longs to put some of her money into good materials. It is only a very

good (and expensive) dressmaker whose handiwork can both elude the

exaggerations of the present fashion and foreshadow the essentials of

the next. That is another thing that every woman knows.

The hypothetical poor woman with intelligence must content herself with

looking a travesty on the successful chorus-girl. This, unfortunately,

she comes only too easily to do. “But,” some one might object, “the

poor woman is precisely an economic, not an æsthetic consideration.”

Granted: yet since we must all dress, why not invent dresses that are

widely adaptable--to different materials, to different occasions, to

different human types? It would purge our streets of many a sorry

and sordid spectacle, and in that sense would be an æsthetic service

both particular and public. But, as it is, we must all dress alike:

_blonde_ and _brune_, fat and thin, tall and short, rich and

poor. The socialists have threatened us with no more rigid sisterhood

than this.

The principle of fashion is, as I have intimated, the principle of the

kaleidoscope. A new year can only bring us a new combination of the

same elements; and about once in so often we go back and begin over.

Recently we have had rather a Napoleonic tendency. Occasionally we are

Colonial. We have been known to be Japanese. Now and then we have a

severe classic moment--usually very unbecoming to all of us. We used to

hear from our grandmothers of silk dresses that could “stand alone.”

What we need now is a silk dress that could somehow manage to run.

There is no reward, in the world of woman’s dress, for a successful

experiment. The most charming design in the world has no future. One

is seldom tempted to apostrophize a fashion with, “Verweile doch! du

bist so schön!”; but if one were, the adjuration would be as vain as

ever. And that is another sin against beauty, for it deprives a woman

of the privilege of dressing as best becomes her. There is something

peculiarly bitter in watching the superseding of a mode that wholly

suits one. Now and then a woman confides to me her intention of keeping

to some style that is especially adapted to her. “It suits me, and I

am going to stick to it,” she declares. She has found that it makes

the most of all her “points”; it has given her, perhaps, renewed

respect for her appearance and fresh zest for life. Such a woman is

always, I believe, sincerely congratulated by her friends. They do not

imitate her, but they really and unmaliciously envy her her point of

view. She is proud of herself, and keeps to her decision for--say--a

year. I never knew a woman to try such an experiment longer. She

finds herself invariably conspicuous--and no well-bred woman likes to

be unnecessarily conspicuous. For modesty’s sake she must adopt the

extravagance of the moment. Otherwise, she discovers herself to be not

rational but “queer,” and her attempt at wisdom to be the worst of

affectations. It may be ironic that a woman who looks best in the mode

of the Empress Josephine should be forced to dress _en chinoise_;

but it is more than ironic when she has to dress _en chinoise_ one

year and _en grecque_ the next. I have once or twice known elderly

women who achieved something like a fixed costume for themselves; but

they were semi-invalids. The consistent costume is, like the nun’s

habit, the best possible proof of having renounced the world.

And into what pits do the great _couturières_ not fall in the

search for something “new” enough to destroy the eligibility of all

last year’s frocks! I never knew what ladies patronized, a few years

since, the London woman who invented “emotional dressmaking”; but I

can testify to having seen, in a show-window of one of the largest

department stores in America, a model from her--is not the word

“atelier”? A large group of plain women were gathered, staring at

it. I joined the group and read the legend. The name of the dress

was “Passion’s Thrall.” At least, as the White Knight said, “that

was what the name was _called_.” Within the shop, in the spirit

of curiosity, I followed a similar group to the “department” where

such things live. Again, the emotional dressmaker. Isolated in a

glass drawing-room, stood two draped figures: “Her Dear Desire,”

and “Afterwards.” I could have imagined some one’s buying “Her Dear

Desire”--it was of sad-colored chiffon. But I could not imagine any

one’s buying “Afterwards”; and it was inconceivable that the name

should help to sell it. I am bound to say that eventually I found

myself alone in the contemplation of this sartorial drama. The crowd

had followed a living model who was illustrating the possibility and

method of walking in the new “Paquin skirt.” The gravity of every

one concerned was unbelievable. Mr. Granville Barker has done some

admirable satire on dressmaking in _The Madras House_; but his

third act is positively less poignant than a reality like that.

Yet this is not the worst. Even if we said to ourselves, “Let us be

always--but varyingly--ugly,” we should not have phrased our greatest

danger. Our greatest danger is simply the loss of all standards of

beauty in dress. “Why do all the women walk like ducks this year?”

was the question put to a friend of mine, years since, by a younger

brother. He did not know that a quite new kind of corset had suddenly,

during the summer months, “come in.” To wear it meant change of gait

and posture, eventually actual change of shape. Yet we all wore it--and

doubtless went on praising the Venus of Melos as we did so. The notion

that, after we have learned from the scientists to deal in evolutionary

periods of millions of years, we ought not naïvely to expect to alter

the human form in a season or two, never occurred, I fancy, to any of

us. “Business is business,” men are credited with saying, when invited

to apply abstract laws of honor. “Fashion is fashion,” women would

surely say if invited to apply abstract laws of beauty.

The worst thing is that the drapery or the trimming that is lovely and

desirable in our eyes one year, is unspeakably offensive to our gaze

the next. (Consider, for example, the chequered history of fringe!--its

career like that of a French Pretender.) Fashion has vitiated our

taste to that point. Our welcoming raptures are as sincere as our

shuddering rejections. There was a time when sleeves could not--I say

it advisedly--be too large. I remember seeing a girl turn to edge

sideways through a large door, for fear of crushing the sleeves of

a new bodice. Her brothers laughed; but I--I was very young--felt a

pang of clear, unmitigated envy. I remember at that time prophecies

that tight sleeves would never come in again--they were so ugly. Yet

how many times, since then, have tight sleeves come in--and gone out?

While, if one dared to make any prophecy about the clothes of the

future, it would be that those _very_ large sleeves would never

again be worn: they are so hideous.

There is no point in pretending that one is superior to this

fluctuating standard. One is not. Ideally speaking, every woman should

keep the language of fashion and the language of taste rigidly apart.

“Fashionable” and “beautiful” should not be used interchangeably.

Theoretically, we all acknowledge the difference; but it is another

matter when we are faced by the actual product. There may be, here

and there, a woman who can say with sincerity, “She wore a hideous

thing she has just got from Worth”; but where is the woman who could

ingenuously report: “She had on a lovely frock made in the style of

year before last”? I could not do it myself; nor, I fancy, could you.

We may not like the new mode the very first time that we see it; we may

pity before we endure; but we end by embracing. The bravest of us can

do no more than criticize for its ugliness something fashionable. When

it comes to praising for its beauty something unfashionable, the words

stick in our throats. Clothes that are unfashionable simply do not look

beautiful to us. Presently they may, when the kaleidoscope has been

turned again; but not now. And that means that we have given up a good

deal of intellectual freedom.

I have called the loss of æsthetic standards our greatest danger.

One would prefer to think that it is. One likes to believe that the

“prestige value” of the current mode is due to an honest if mistaken

conviction of its beauty, not to the implications of income that

both fashionable and unfashionable clothes make so definitely. It

is pleasanter to say to one’s self that the woman who refuses an

invitation to dinner because her best frock is two years old fears

criticism of her taste, than that she fears an estimate of her

dressmaker’s bill. The code is more alluring. But even assuming

this to be the cause, the result is no less unfortunate: namely, an

almost universal social timidity on the part of unfashionably dressed

women--by which I mean, for the moment, nothing worse than women in

frocks that were fashionable a season since. And that is a pity.

One does not, on the whole, regret history; and our institutions are

by this time historic. I offer the suggestion as one who is glad,

rather than sorry, that John Adams was not (according to his reputed

desire) created Duke of Braintree. But an hereditary aristocracy serves

some charming minor purposes, one of them being, perhaps, the social

countenancing of dowdiness. A duchess may be as dowdy as she likes;

and other women may with impunity be the less smart in a land where

there are always duchesses being dowdy. I am sufficiently American,

myself, not really to admire the typical Englishwoman’s clothes. Half

a dozen queer necklaces and a perfectly irrelevant bit of lace pinned

on somewhere, do not atone to me for a faded straw hat at Christmas

and a skirt that is six inches shorter in front than in back. Not many

years ago, I went, with the briefest possible interval, from a British

suffrage meeting to a dress-rehearsal at the Comédie Française. The

resulting sensation amounted to a shock. “Frenchwomen could not dress

like Englishwomen without conviction of sin,” I said to my companion.

“And ought not to,” was his firm rejoinder. At the moment, I agreed

with him. But there is something fine, after all, in the attitude of

the woman who, having occasion to go to some “function” of a kind

that she usually avoided, brought out a frock from her ten-year-old

trousseau, and had it furbished up by a sempstress. The frock, I should

say, had passed from her mother’s trousseau into her own, having served

for the former’s presentation at court on the occasion of her marriage.

It may be that an untitled woman could not have done it so debonairly.

It would certainly be hard for a good American to follow her example.

But the very idea brings one such a hint of freedom as it takes--they

say--a limited monarchy to give.

Sensible people realize that children should not be overdressed, and

a few schools in this country have adopted the conventual method of

putting their pupils into uniforms. But the uniforms are, I fear, only

another turn of the kaleidoscope. I know that in one such school,

at least, the girls wear the school costume all day, but dress in

the evening as variously and as elaborately as they choose. A rule

like that is _magnifique et pas cher_. For grown-ups, there is

no uniform at all. The fact is that we are uncomfortable if we are

not fashionably dressed. No man understands the subtle and complex

significance of the phrase “nothing to wear”--witness the distressed

but utterly puzzled expression that overspreads a man’s face at the

words. He knows that his wife or his sister looks charming in “the blue

one,” or “the lace one,” or “the one with the jet.” She has looked

charming in it often enough for him at last to identify it--and that,

unless he is an exception to his sex, is very often. He is cheerfully

getting into his evening coat for the fiftieth time. No wonder he does

not realize that some frock which, the first time it was worn, made for

triumph, should, the tenth time, make for humiliation. But the most

strong-minded woman--the woman who will, if necessary, go to the opera

on a gala night in a coat and skirt--at heart exonerates the woman who

so foolishly, for the reason mentioned, stops at home.

There is much to be said, whether in the fifteenth century or the

twentieth, for the aristocracy of wealth and all that it can do for

the community in which it prevails. Neither Florence nor New York,

probably, if consulted, would wish, or would have wished, to give up

its Magnificent. But there are minor ways in which an aristocracy of

wealth makes us all more sordid. Obviously, in these conditions, one’s

income must constitute one’s claim to distinction, and, obviously, one

can give mannerly evidence of one’s income only by the amount visibly,

not audibly, spent. How more silently and more visibly than by personal

adornment? Is all this too trite to say? It behooves the man, for

many reasons, not to adorn himself--perhaps, even, not in any merely

personal way to outshine other men--while his wife may not only please

herself but render his reputation a positive service by out-shining

other women. She makes no indiscreet disclosures of fact, but she

rustles with pecuniary implications. In an aristocracy of wealth, Paris

may go far to make a peeress of her.

I do not wish to imply that this is the sole American standard: there

are communities in which “family” counts; and there are the academic

backwaters where strange-scaled fish constitute among themselves

aristocracies of intellect. It need hardly be said that in the latter

places dress counts least of all. One may go to hear even the most

distinguished lecturer in any rag one has; and we are judged rather

by the obvious intention of a frock than by its actual achievement.

There is so much of Oxford in any of our college towns. But no one can

deny that the aristocracy most widely developed in America is that of

wealth. It is developed in places that are really too small to afford

an aristocracy at all. I myself have known women whose fathers carried

dinner-pails and whose husbands have never even stopped to regret that

their own education ended with the grammar-school course, who simply

did not feel that the shabbily or simply dressed woman could be in

their class. She may be descended from a half a dozen Signers, and be

at home in every picture-gallery in Europe, but she is some one to

whom, socially, they cannot but condescend.

I am told that precisely the same standards prevail in the newer

urban civilizations of England: it would seem to be an inevitable

immediate result of the supremacy of riches. There is perhaps no

limit to the sophistication that vast wealth can eventually give to

its own possessors; but this law of fashion is what, consciously or

unconsciously, they impose on the seething estates beneath them. I

have known tragedies in smallish American cities that began and ended

in dress: women deprived of their all too infrequent intellectual and

social delights, simply because they could not bring themselves to face

an assembly in which other women whose authority their own taste could

not acknowledge, knew their “best” dresses by heart.

I have said that the economic considerations are no concern of mine;

nor are they, Yet it may not be amiss to suggest in this context

that the women who are responsible for the almost unpaid toil of the

slum-children over “willow” plumes are not the rich women who will

give for their willow plumes any price that is asked of them. It is

the harpy of the suburbs, the frequenter of bargain-counters and

Monday morning “sales,” the woman whose most instructive reading is

done among the designs and patterns of the “women’s” magazines, who

is responsible. From what one reads, one is certainly compelled to

infer that if these little children are to be saved, willow plumes

should be put at prohibitive prices. “But since our women _must_

walk gay,” the aristocracy that is rooted in democracy can hardly do

without its willow plumes. Fashion has got itself into a position of

such importance as that. It is so terrible a thing to be unfashionable

that the vast majority of women--and the vast majority of women are

not rich or anything like it--stretch every nerve to be in fashion.

They miss, if they are not, too much that is legitimately theirs.

The requirement is irrelevant, is absurd; but it is made. They will,

therefore, pay what they can; but they cannot pay much. The logic is

clear. They go to the great shops to demand their willow plumes, and

their Irish-lace collars, in the very spirit which took the Dames de la

Halle to Versailles. Hence many of the conditions of labor about which

we read so many lurid articles. For demand creates supply.

The American woman of moderate income is alternately congratulated on

her “smartness” and scolded for her extravagance. She cannot very well,

as things stand, be smart without being extravagant. But the fact that

chiefly gives one pause is this: that a woman cannot mingle comfortably

with her equals unless she can clothe herself each season in a way that

both to her and to them would have looked preposterous a twelvemonth

before. It has luckily become, in the strictest sense, vulgar, to be

_endimanchée_; but most people are--by definition--vulgar; and

I have known women, again, who stayed at home from church because

they could not so clothe themselves. Not unadvisedly, I am tempted

to say; for in one of the most famous churches of America, I have

seen the shabbily dressed woman seated, by the usher, with reference

solely to her costume; and I have heard, too, the testimony of other

women of her kind, turned into “stay-at-homes” because precisely that

thing they could not endure. An odd battle of pride with pride; and

there are better uses to put pride to than that. More blatant and

less grim is the authentic anecdote recently told me concerning a

Newport “colonist.” She and her daughter entered the church one Sunday

morning, marvellously dressed in contrasting shades of red. “There

will be no one else in our pew this morning,” she murmured graciously

to the usher; “put some one in with us, if you like--any one in white

or black.” What could not Dean Swift have done with that! One does

not wish to make tragedy out of what is essentially comic. Yet it may

fairly be said that comedy has its rough side, and that a comedy retold

from the point of view of the comic character himself, would often make

melancholy stuff. It would be possible, over this matter of fashion, to

shed the bitter tears of the satirist.

It is odd that “dress reform” should always have meant something ugly.

There would be so tremendous a chance for any one who wished to reform

dress in the interest of beauty! But the most amused and disgusted of

us will, very likely, forever shrink from the task. “The pilgrims were

clothed with such kind of raiment as was diverse from the raiment of

any that traded in that fair. The people, therefore, of the fair made

a great gazing upon them: some said they were fools, some they were

bedlams, and some they were outlandish men.” There are two reasons why

we shall shrink from it: we should have to begin with ourselves; and we

should certainly be called bedlams. But oh, the pity of it!

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