NOT THE CHRISTIAN IDEAL OF LOVE

Not only feminine charms, but the highest feminine virtues are

sometimes strangely, nay, shockingly disregarded, as in the story of

Lot (Gen. 19:1-12), who, when besieged by the mob clamoring for the

two men who had taken refuge in his house, went out and said:

"I pray you, my brethren, do not so wickedly. Behold

now, I have two daughters which have not known man; let

me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to

them as is good in your eyes; only unto these men do

nothing, forasmuch as they are come under the shadow of

my roof."

And this man was saved, though his action was surely more villainous

than the wickedness of the Sodomites who were destroyed with brimstone

and fire. In Judges (19: 22-30) we read of a man offering his maiden

daughter and his concubine to a mob to prevent an unnatural crime

being committed against his guest: "Seeing that this man is come into

my house, do not this folly." This case is of extreme sociological

importance as showing that notwithstanding the strict laws of Moses

(Levit. 20: 10; Deut. 22: 13-30) on sexual crimes, the law of

hospitality seems to have been held more sacred than a father's regard

for his daughter's honor. The story of Abraham shows, too, that he did

not hold his wife's honor in the same esteem as a modern Christian

does:

"And it came to pass, when he was come near to enter

into Egypt, that he said unto Sarai his wife, 'Behold

now, I know that thou art a fair woman to look upon;

and it shall come to pass, when the Egyptians shall see

thee, that they shall say, This is his wife; and they

will kill me, but they will save thee alive. Say, I

pray thee, Thou art my sister; that it may be well with

me for thy sake, and that my soul may live because of

thee."

And it happened as he had arranged. She was taken into Pharaoh's house

and he was treated well for her sake; and he had sheep, and oxen, and

other presents. When he went to sojourn in Gerar (Gen. 20:1-15)

Abraham tried to repeat the same stratagem, taking refuge, when found

out, in the double excuse that he was afraid he would be slain for his

wife's sake, and that she really was his sister, the daughter of his

father, but not the daughter of his mother. Isaac followed his

father's example in Gerar:

"The man of the place asked him of his wife; and he

said, She is my sister: for he feared to say, My wife;

lest (said he) the men of the place should kill me for

Rebekah; because she was fair to look upon."

Yet we were told that Isaac loved Rebekah. Such is not Christian love.

The actions of Abraham and Isaac remind one of the Blackfoot Indian

tale told on page 631 of this volume. An American army officer would

not only lay down his own life, but shoot his wife with his own pistol

before he would allow her to fall into the enemy's hands, because to

him her honor is, of all things human, the most sacred.

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