MARY WOLLSTONECRAFT.
The new Settler in George Street, Blackfriars--Mary’s earlier
Story--Woman of Letters--Her Five Years’ Work--Her Attachment to Mr.
Johnson--Coteries of Philosophical Radicalism--_Anti-Jacobin_ on the
Free Contract--Godwin’s Apostasy--From Blackfriars to Store
Street--The Slut becomes a modish Woman--Her Passion for Fuseli--Her
Appeal to Mrs. Fuseli--Mr. Kegan Paul’s strange Treatment of Mr.
Knowles--_Rights of Woman_--Plain Speech and Coarseness--Mary goes to
Paris--She makes Imlay’s Acquaintance--Her Assignations with him at
the Barrier--Their Association in Free Love--Mr. Kegan Paul speaks
deliberately--His Apology for Mary’s Action--He falls between Two
Stools--Wife in the eyes of God and Man--Letters to Imlay--Badness of
Mary’s Temper--Her consequent Quarrels with Imlay--Her Sense of Shame
at her Position--Birth of her illegitimate Child--Her Withdrawal from
France--Her Norwegian Trip--Her Wretchedness and Rage--Dissolution of
the Free Love Partnership--Mary’s Attempt to commit Suicide--Was she
out of her Mind?--Her Union with Godwin in Free Love--Their subsequent
Marriage--Their Squabbles and Differences--Their Daughter’s
Birth--Mary Wollstonecraft’s Death--Mrs. Shelley’s biographical
Inaccuracies.
On or about St. Michael’s Day of 1787, a woman, whose dress betrayed an
unfeminine indifference to the refinements of costume, and whose
intelligent countenance possessed no beauty superior to ordinary
comeliness, took possession of her new quarters in a small house in George
Street, Blackfriars, which had been hired for her occupation, and provided
with a few needful articles of furniture, by Mr. Joseph Johnson, the
bookseller and publisher of St. Paul’s Churchyard. No longer young, though
courtesy would still style her so, this woman,--whose abundant
brown-auburn tresses showed no threads of grey, whose clear and clever
brown eyes would have been more effective had not one of them suffered
from a slight paralytic drooping of the lid, whose complexion preserved a
girlish freshness, and whose countenance would have been more agreeable
had it not been for certain indications of sadness and asperity,--was in
the middle of her twenty-ninth year, when she crossed the threshold of
her new home for the first time. At that season of her history, no casual
observer of her face was likely to regard it with admiration; but few
attentive scrutinizers of its lineaments failed to discover in them the
signs of intellectual force. To take a fair view of this woman’s future
behaviour, and see how far she has been misrepresented by censors and
flatterers, it is needful to glance at her earlier story.
The granddaughter, on her father’s side, of a Spitalfields manufacturer,
the daughter of a man rich enough to live in idleness, Mary Wollstonecraft
began her life’s battle with a miserably slender education and an
embittering sense of having been defrauded of her birthright to gentility
by her father’s vicious weakness. Regarding herself as a gentlewoman by
reason of her grandfather’s opulence and the respectability of her
mother’s ancestors, this daughter of a drunken father (with several
children,--three sons and three daughters) found herself in a position
that, denying her the enjoyments to which she had once thought herself
entitled, required her to shift and provide for herself in default of a
father capable of providing for her. It is not surprising that the girl,
with a fervid and far from amiable temper, thought contemptuously of a
sire, so careless for his wife’s happiness and the interests of his
offspring. Other matters quickened her sense of life’s hardship. At the
threshold of her twenty-second year she lost her mother (whom her
self-indulgent father speedily replaced with a second wife), and became
the indignant witness of the domestic troubles of her favourite sister,
Eliza, who was married to a dissolute and brutal man, named Bishop. Under
these circumstances, she could think her father and brother-in-law
exceptionally bad men; or, rating them as average examples of masculine
nature, she could form an equally unfavourable and unjust estimate of the
sex they discredited. For a while Mary Wollstonecraft took the latter
course. Had she possessed an admirer in the ranks of the hateful sex, she
would no doubt have taken the other view of her sire and her sister’s
husband. But in those days the woman, who became almost handsome in middle
age, missed little of downright ugliness, and from personal experience
knew nothing of masculine homage. The woman of quick temper and vehement
emotionality may be presumed to have felt acutely the neglect coming to
her from her want of girlish attractiveness.
Going out into the world, when fortunate girls are choosing their
bridesmaids, Mary fought poverty in various ways,--now in the company of
her friend Fanny Blood and Fanny’s mother (who took in needlework), now in
the company of her sisters, and now in the dwellings of strangers. For a
while she earned her livelihood with the needle. Then the sisters kept a
school at Stoke Newington, one of London’s northern suburbs,--a school
that declined to return the compliment and keep the enterprising sisters.
Newington Green is memorable in Mary’s annals for other matters, besides
this ungrateful seminary for young ladies. It was there that she wrote her
first book, _Thoughts on the Education of Daughters_, for which she
received ten guineas; and it was from the same Green that she started for
her run to Lisbon, at the entreaty of her vehemently beloved Fanny Skey
(_née_ Blood), who lived just long enough to die in her friend’s arms. On
Mary’s return from Portugal to the north London suburb, the unremunerative
school was given up; and parting from her sisters, Mary went off to
Ireland to serve a dame of fashion and high quality (Lady Kingsborough) in
the capacity of governess to her ladyship’s daughters, with a yearly
salary of 40_l._,--a situation procured for her by the Rev. Mr. Prior (an
Assistant-Master at Eton, and one of the several clergymen who befriended
her at the outset of her career); the situation in which she found time to
go forward with her French studies, and write some stories for her
publisher; the situation in which, though treated with abundant kindness,
Mary was more than slightly miserable (as a young woman of her quick and
querulous temper was bound to be anywhere). Thus she had spent her time
from the middle of her twenty-second to the middle of her twenty-ninth
year. She had worked by turns with her needle and her pen; she had failed
at school-keeping, and been miserable as a governess, in a great family;
and now she has just settled herself in the little house in George Street,
Blackfriars, with the intention of earning her livelihood as a
bookseller’s hack and author by profession.
Johnson, the bookseller and publisher, showed himself a shrewd man of
business in engaging the young woman, who had been introduced to him by
the scholarly and benevolent Rev. John Hewlett. Seeing from the little
books he had already taken of her that she possessed the ‘literary knack,’
seeing also, from personal intercourse with her, that she was industrious
and resolutely set on winning a position amongst women of letters, the
publisher came to the conclusion that she would prove a more serviceable
instrument in his hands than any of the tippling scholars he was in the
habit of employing to write essays, translate French pamphlets, and dress
manuscripts for the press. The woman, who, in her delight at finding
herself in regular literary employment, regarded her publisher as her
benefactor,--the woman, who seldom ate meat and rarely drank anything but
water or tea, was a more intelligent, punctual, and manageable scribe,
than any hack Mr. Johnson could have picked from the taverns, frequented
by indigent men of letters. Temperate, sedulous, quick with her pen, and
especially desirous to please her employer, the clever woman was glad to
work twelve hours a-day in her tiny tenement, and deemed herself well
rewarded by fair payment and the almost parental interest the publisher
took in her proceedings. Working strenuously six days of the week, she
usually dined on Sunday at Mr. Johnson’s table, where she met some of the
most notable scholars, artists, and writers of the period.
For five years she led this laborious and upon the whole not unhappy life,
re-writing the English translation (from the Dutch) of _Young Grandison_;
translating _Necker on Religious Opinions_ and _Lavater’s Physiognomy_
from the French; compiling the _French Reader_; producing _Elements of
Morality from the German_; working at a novel, entitled _The Cave of
Fancy_; throwing off countless articles and critical notices for _The
Analytical Review_; putting into English numerous French political
pamphlets, that, keeping her _au courant_ in the public affairs of France,
quickened her sympathy with the revolutionary movement, and her admiration
of the revolutionary leaders of that country; and together, with other
original essays, sending through the press the _Answer to Burke_, and the
_Vindication of the Rights of Woman_, written during the first outcry
against the first part of _The Rights of Man_, by Thomas Paine, whose
acquaintance she had made before she was so imprudent as to christen her
comparatively inoffensive essay after his notorious book, and thereby to
associate herself in the popular imagination with the man of evil fame,
and with the work that only a few months later was declared by the King’s
Bench jury ‘a false, scandalous, malicious, and seditious libel.’ In the
five years, during which she was thus busily employed, Mary
Wollstonecraft helped her brother and sisters largely with her earnings,
whilst in order to do so she denied herself comforts to which she cannot
have been wholly indifferent, and pleasures which so lively and emotional
a woman must have desired. Mr. Johnson, in his later time, was of opinion
that she could not have spent in this period less than 200_l._ on her
needy relatives; and there is no reason to think the publisher’s rough
estimate excessive. The woman, who, whilst subsisting chiefly on
vegetables and exercising a severe economy in every department of her
strictly personal expenditure, used in this manner so large a proportion
of her slender and toilsome earnings was, at least, a woman to be honoured
on certain grounds and from certain points of view.
During the first four of these five years, Mary Wollstonecraft remained in
the modest quarters, in George Street, taken and furnished for her in 1787
by Mr. Johnson, of whose tender and humane treatment of her she wrote with
gratitude and affection. Writing and speaking in this strain of his
goodness and tenderness, she was at no pains to conceal from the
bookseller the feelings with which she regarded him. But though she
sometimes styled it ‘love,’ there is no reason to think her liking for the
staid and rather formal publisher resembled in any way or degree the
idolatrous admiration she soon displayed for Fuseli the painter, or the
passionate tenderness she somewhat later lavished on Imlay, the American
man of letters. It was the affection a woman, of Mary’s essentially
generous nature and peculiar circumstances, would necessarily feel for the
man, greatly her senior, who had befriended her with equal delicacy and
kindliness; had instructed her without assuming any air of authority over
her; and had helped her out of difficulties, and introduced her to
remunerative employment and congenial friends, without letting her feel
herself patronized. At the end of her fourth year in the little house in
George Street (Michaelmas, 1791), Mary Wollstonecraft moved to Store
Street, where she resided till her departure for France in December, 1792,
seeing probably something less of the Radical bookseller, but feeling no
less affectionately towards him, working no less sedulously for him.
During these five years Lady Kingsborough’s whilom governess changed
considerably in her views of life and society, her mental characteristics,
and her appearance. Partly due to time and natural development, these
changes were in a greater degree due to the influence of her professional
pursuits, of the books she read, of the circles in which she found
recreation, and of the friendships she formed in those circles. Strongly
disposed to liberalism before she settled in George Street, she would
probably, under any circumstances, have developed into an ultra-liberal.
It was therefore a matter of course, that the publisher’s hack, who in the
way of her profession became a translator of revolutionary pamphlets,
quickly adopted the views and conclusions of the revolutionists and
republicans. It was also a matter of course that the emotional and
sympathetic woman, who affected powerfully the sensibilities of those she
encountered, was in like manner affected by them. Nor is it surprising
that the woman who, after entering her thirtieth year, became better
looking every year she lived, was in the earlier term of middle life more
thoughtful of her appearance, and more anxious to exhibit it to the best
advantage, than she had been when she was a plain and unattractive young
person. In this last respect the change in Mary Wollstonecraft was almost
comically striking to those who, on greeting her as a former acquaintance
in Store Street, had not seen her since the opening of her second year in
George Street. During her residence in Blackfriars, dressing with severe
economy (partly in order that she might have more money to give to her
brothers and sisters, and partly because personal vanity was still foreign
to her nature), she was the veriest caricature of a philosophical sloven.
Her costume in the streets consisted of an ill-fitting habit of such
coarse cloth, as was generally worn by London milk-women of the succeeding
generation, a badly kept beaver hat, black stockings and clumsy shoes.
Indoors she wore the same coarse habit when the weather was cold. In
summer she sate at her desk in a cotton dressing-gown, or with no garment
over her stays. On changing the place of her abode she changed her
dressmaker and consulted a milliner. A slut in Blackfriars, she dressed
like a woman of fashion in Store Street. Though he was not the sole cause
of it, Fuseli was largely accountable for this in Miss Wollstonecraft’s
outward style.
Of all the numerous acquaintances she made in the coteries of Philosophic
Radicalism, the three persons to influence Mary Wollstonecraft most
powerfully and enduringly were Thomas Paine, Henry Fuseli, and William
Godwin. Long before William Godwin loved her, so far as it was possible
for a man of his cold nature to love any woman; long before it ever
occurred to her that she would live to be his wife, or even to have a
liking for him, William Godwin’s declarations against marriage converted
her to an open approval of the doctrines of Free Love, making her a Free
Lover in principle, some while sooner than the time when she became a Free
Lover in practice.
Of all this philosopher’s doctrines on social questions, none were more
acceptable to his admirers than those that aimed at discrediting lawful
wedlock, as an arrangement fruitful of misery and moral disease; fruitful
of no kind of felicity, that would not flow in clearer and more liberal
streams from a system of virtuous concubinage, under which spouses would
be drawn together by love and a sense of mutual affinity, and remain at
liberty to part from one another, as soon as they should cease to love,
and should discover their unfitness for, one another. Whilst vicious
libertines applauded the doctrines that seemed to justify, or at least to
palliate, their immorality, and extolled the arrangement with which it was
proposed to replace the old-fashioned wedlock, because it seemed to them
an arrangement under which a profligate might have half-a-hundred
mistresses in succession, without incurring the annoyances of social
obloquy, virtuous libertines--enthusiasts of both sexes, wholly pure of
wicked passion, with no fire of lust in their veins, no taint of
lasciviousness in their blood--saw in Free Love the one wholesome remedy
for certain of the worst ills of civilization. An entire bookcase might be
filled with the literature that streamed from the press in commendation of
Free Love (as a righteous substitute for debasing matrimony), during the
last twenty years of the last century. The _Anti-Jacobin_ made good fun of
this literature on 18th December, 1797, in the letter written to the
_Anti-Jacobin’s_ editor, by Miss Lætitia Sourby, about certain deplorable
changes for the worse in her papa’s temper, principles, and demeanour.
‘But’ (says Miss Lætitia) ‘to return to my father--who is now always
reading Books and Pamphlets that seem quite wicked and immoral to my
mind and my poor Mother’s, whom it vexes sadly to, hear my Father talk
before company, that Marriage is good for nothing, and ought to be
free to be broken by either party at will. It was but the other day
that he told her, that if he were to choose again, by the New Law in
the only Free Country in the world, he would prefer Concubinage--so he
said in my hearing.’
Thus it was that the _Anti-Jacobin_ ridiculed the Free Lovers and their
literature at the close of the very year in which they were thrown into
lively commotion by William Godwin’s shameful act of apostasy from his own
lovely doctrines, in making Mary Wollstonecraft his lawful wife at St.
Pancras Church:--a commotion curiously comparable with the stir of
surprise and indignation, that greatly agitated the favourers of the Free
Contract only a few years since, when Marian Evans (after living in free
promise with George Henry Lewes till his death) gave herself to an
excellent gentleman, and took him for better and worse _not_ in Free
Contract, but in holy matrimony, duly solemnized in a place of public
worship, in accordance with the ordinances and requirements of the Church
of England. The favourers of the Free Contract (who had for many years
talked of Marian Evans and her genius as though they had a peculiar
property in them, and of her _nom-de-plume_ as though it were sheer
profanity to hint that George Eliot could be wrong about anything) were
comically moved and troubled by the incident, which told them how little
(with all their fussy talkativeness) they had known of the great
novelist’s reverence for the sanctity of marriage, and for every usage
tending to hallow it in the minds of men and women. In like manner were
the enemies of Marriage disturbed some ninety years since on hearing that,
after all he had written and said against lawful wedlock, and after living
with her for months in Free Love, William Godwin had taken Mary
Wollstonecraft to St. Pancras Church.
Having accepted Godwin’s doctrines touching Marriage, and become a Free
Lover in principle, during her residence in George Street, Mary
Wollstonecraft conceived a strong sentiment of affectionate admiration for
Henry Fuseli; a sentiment so fervid that, instead of being able to nurse
it secretly in her breast, she was constrained to reveal it to him, and
entreat him to give her place in his heart. Born in 1741, Fuseli was
eighteen years her senior, and about fifty years of age, when he was thus
entreated for affection by a woman, who at the time of making the prayer
knew he was a happily married man. In justice to Miss Wollstonecraft it
must be clearly put on the record, that Fuseli could have complied with
the precise terms of her entreaty, without doing aught that would have
rendered him guilty of conjugal infidelity, in the legal sense of the
term. Averring to her friends (for beside worrying Fuseli with
love-letters, she spoke freely of her passion for him to divers of her
friends) that she fully recognized Mrs. Fuseli’s right to the person of
her husband, Mary Wollstonecraft only desired that she and he should live
together in sentimental union; that he should admit her to his confidence
as a spiritual partner, and she be suffered to worship him as her
spiritual mate; that they should cherish one another with mutual platonic
fondness. It is not surprising, or much to her discredit, that she admired
thus dangerously a man of Fuseli’s genius, personal attractiveness, and
conversational brilliance; though it certainly does not speak much for her
delicacy that she was so communicative to him and others respecting her
passion and his cruelty in declining to respond, to it. What might have
happened, had Fuseli been less resolute in the right way, may be left to
the reader’s imagination. Enough for the present writer to speak of what
actually took place. Touched by love, piqued by the coldness of the man
she adored, Mary strove to lure him into regarding her case more tenderly
and mercifully. Taking blame to herself for the ill-success of her suit,
it occurred to her that she would fare better if she were more careful of
her personal appearance. Hence the choice of a new dressmaker and the
conference with a fashionable milliner.
Moving to a brighter quarter of the town, Mary arrayed herself elegantly.
At the same time she rained down letters on the man who, neglecting to
answer them, sometimes kept them for days together in his pocket without
opening them. More than once Fuseli expostulated with her on her unworthy
behaviour, and begged her to act more reasonably. ‘If I thought my passion
criminal,’ she answered, ‘I would conquer it, or die in the attempt; for
immodesty, in my eyes, is ugliness, and my soul turns with disgust from
pleasure tricked out in charms which shun the light of heaven.’ Mary’s
last attempt to achieve her purpose may surely be taken as evidence that
she spoke sincerely of the purity of her passion. Going straight to Mrs.
Fuseli, she implored the lady to receive her into her family, adding, ‘As
I am above deceit, it is right to say that this proposal arises from the
sincere affection I have for your husband; for I find that I cannot live
without the satisfaction of seeing and conversing with him daily.’
Naturally Mrs. Fuseli declined to accede to the proposal, and thought it
best for her and her husband to withdraw from an engagement to accompany
Mary on a six weeks’ trip to Paris.
This is the outline of John Knowles’s account of an affair that, known to
many people through Mary’s extravagantly indiscreet communicativeness, was
of course told in various ways, more hurtful than the true way to her
character. The evidence of the story, so true to Mary Wollstonecraft’s
human nature, is unimpeachable. Who was the narrator of the story?
Fuseli’s intimate friend, executor, and biographer, John Knowles, Fellow
of the Royal Society, was also Mrs. Fuseli’s intimate friend, after her
husband’s death. A gentleman of high place in the Navy Office, of good
social position, of known integrity, Mr. Knowles gives his account of
Fuseli’s relations with Mary Wollstonecraft in the biography of the
artist, which he wrote at Mrs. Fuseli’s request and with her assistance,
from the great painter’s papers. The account, thus given to the world, and
given (be it observed) in Mary Wollstonecraft’s interest, even more than
for the sake of the painter’s reputation, is introduced to the readers of
the biography with these words: ‘Several publications having gone so far
as totally to misrepresent the nature of his intercourse with this highly
gifted lady, it becomes the duty of his biographer to give a plain
statement of facts.’ Written to clear Fuseli and his fair friend of
imputations, more discreditable to her than to him, this plain statement
is supported in several of its principal assertions by quotations from
Mary’s letters to Fuseli; for the accuracy of which passages the historian
of unimpeachable credit, and conscientious carefulness, pledges his honour
in these words, ‘This and subsequent quotations respecting Mrs.
Wollstonecraft are taken from her letters to Fuseli.’ One of these
quotations (already given in this work) is the passage from one of her
letters in which she avows her passion for the painter, whilst declaring
that, were it criminal, she would conquer it, or die in the attempt. In
another of the quotations she declares her hope of uniting herself to the
painter’s mind. In a third quotation, after the failure of her application
to Mrs. Fuseli, Mary begs the painter’s pardon ‘for having disturbed the
quiet tenour of his life.’ A fourth quotation gives the whole of the angry
letter (signed ‘Mary’) in which, after her return from France to England
(and long after the death of her passion for the painter), she scolds
Fuseli for not returning a visit she paid him;--a letter curiously in
harmony with Mr. Knowles’s narrative. Thus the character of the narrative
is supported by the high character of the narrator; by his singularly good
opportunities for ascertaining the truth; by the fact that he was Fuseli’s
most confidential friend; by his intimacy with Mrs. Fuseli; and by the
conclusive quality of his superabundant documentary evidence. The
statement is in perfect harmony with Mary Wollstonecraft’s career. It is a
statement in which Fuseli, his wife, John Knowles, and Mary Wollstonecraft
herself, may be said to stand forth as witnesses to its truth. Yet
further, the statement is supported in its most important assertion by
Godwin himself, who speaking, in his memoir of his first wife, of her
intimacy with Fuseli, expresses a strong opinion that, had he been
unmarried, she would have wished to become the painter’s wife.
How are this statement and the superabundant evidence of its accuracy
dealt with by one of the several gentlemen who, not content with
white-washing and painting Shelley into a respectable member of a
respectable county family, and white-washing Mary Godwin into a suitable
wife for so respectable a member of so respectable a county family, must
needs whitewash Shelley’s second mother-in-law into a suitable mother for
so suitable a wife for so respectable a member of so highly respectable a
county family? In his _Life of William Godwin_, Mr. Kegan Paul ventures to
say that ‘Mr. Knowles is so extremely inaccurate in regard to all else
that he says of her, that his testimony,’ respecting Mary Wollstonecraft’s
intimacy with Fuseli, ‘may be wholly set aside.’ This astounding statement
is made by a gentleman who does not give a single fact in support of the
baseless charge of inaccuracy. It is directly the reverse of fact that Mr.
Knowles is extremely inaccurate in what he says about Mary Wollstonecraft.
In the memoir of Mary, forming the preface of his edition of her _Letters
to Imlay_, Mr. Kegan Paul calls Knowles’s careful and accurate statement a
‘preposterous story,’ _i.e._ a story contrary to nature and reason; a
wrong, foolish, monstrous, absurd story. Fortunately Mr. Kegan Paul gives
his reasons for thus stigmatizing a truthful story and conscientious
writer. (1) Mr. Kegan Paul says, ‘I have failed to find any confirmation
whatever of this preposterous story.’ (2) He says, ‘I find much which
makes directly against it, the strongest fact being that Mary remained to
the end the correspondent and close friend of Mrs. Fuseli.’ What reasons
for declaring the story ‘preposterous’! It is proved completely, proved
(as the phrase goes) up to the very hilt; but it must be false because Mr.
Kegan Paul has failed to discover any additional confirmatory evidence of
its truth,--evidence needed by no discreet reader. It must be false,
because Mrs. Fuseli corresponded with Mary to the last! This is Mr. Kegan
Paul’s _strongest fact, making directly against_ the statement.
This strongest fact is quite accordant with Knowles’s statement, that Mary
wanted from Fuseli nothing but such affection as he might have given her
without breaking his marriage vow;--the statement made for the demolition
of the stories that she had been guilty of criminal intercourse with him.
Had the statement countenanced and confirmed these scandalous stories, the
fact of Mrs. Fuseli’s intimacy with Mary would no doubt have made against
Knowles. But according to the statement, there was no reason why Mrs.
Fuseli should have ceased to be friendly with Mary, though at the close of
1792 she thought Mary had better keep away from Fuseli’s house and
presence for a short time. On the other hand according to the statement,
there were several reasons why Mrs. Fuseli should think generously and
tenderly of Mary, who in the heat of her wild and fantastic passion had
not wronged her, or wished to wrong her; had dealt frankly and fairly with
her, and thrown herself upon her with entreaties for sympathy. As he
admits this fact is his _strongest fact_ against the story, Mr. Kegan Paul
admits he has no facts whatever wherewith to discredit the story which he
ventures to call ‘preposterous.’ The explanation of the matter is this.
Published in 1831, the statement was offensive to Mrs. Shelley, who was
just then writing a lot of fantastic, and inaccurate, and romantic
nonsense about her mother, declaring her ‘one of those beings who appear
once, perhaps, in a generation, to gild humanity with a ray,’ &c., &c. In
a pet Mrs. Shelley condemned the truthful story as preposterous. Hence, it
became an article of the Field Place creed and duty to think and declare
the story preposterous. It follows that, writing in the interest and for
the pleasure of Field Place, Mr. Kegan Paul took Mrs. Shelley’s view of
the story and thought it preposterous. Thinking the story preposterous, it
was natural for Mr. Kegan Paul to discover egregious inaccuracy in one of
the most conscientious and careful biographers of English literature.
Before they cross the Channel in the company of Mary Wollstonecraft, and
take a look at revolutionary Paris, readers of this work should be told
something more of her _Vindication of the Rights of Woman, with Strictures
on Political and Moral Subjects_. In christening this book after Thomas
Paine’s notorious work, and thereby rendering him the sincerest kind of
flattery, Mary Wollstonecraft did herself a serious injury; for the
inappropriate title caused her to be associated in public sentiment with
her friend’s evil repute and evil principles,--an association from which
she suffers to this hour. So named, the treatise on feminine
disqualifications and grievances was naturally assailed with excessive
virulence by all persons, who held Paine in abhorrence. Appearing under an
inoffensive title, the treatise would have displeased the majority of
educated Englishwomen, and been severely handled by reviewers; but it
would not have sent its author down to posterity hand in hand with the
scurrilous politician and flippant freethinker.
The _Rights of Woman_ is a statement of woman’s need for a higher and
healthier education; a demand that women should have equal educational
advantages with the other sex; should be raised by education as nearly as
possible to intellectual equality with men, and for this end should from
earliest childhood be taught from the same books and trained in the same
schools as persons of the male gender. The proposal that girls should be
educated in the same schools with boys; that young women should pursue
their higher studies in the same classrooms and colleges with young men;
that from infancy to adult age, the young of both sexes should be reared
and trained side by side, was a proposal certain ninety years since to
provoke angry disapproval;--certain, even in these days of liberality and
innovation, to cause fierce disputes, should it be put forward, as a
serious suggestion to be acted upon by people of all classes throughout
the country. But this bold and startling proposal was not the chief cause
of the outcry against the _Rights of Woman_. To show their urgent need of
a better education, the author gave a picture of the women of her period
and country that stung them to fury, and in so doing, caused their
fathers, and sons, and brothers, to rise in wrath against so merciless an
assailant of the gentler sex. Mary Wollstonecraft’s charge against
Englishwomen was that they were frivolous, silly, deceitful, mean-natured,
violent in their tempers, querulous, peevish, indolent, immodest,
uncleanly in their habits, wanting in delicacy; so wanting in common
decency as to be in the habit of exposing their persons shamelessly to one
another, although they affected to be unutterably shocked if by any
accident they let a man get a view of their ankles. All this Mary
Wollstonecraft said of Englishwomen of her own social degree; and she said
it coarsely. No wonder there was an outcry against the author of the
_Rights of Woman_! No wonder that simple English ladies spoke of her
bitterly, as the arch-libeller of their sex; spoke of her with mingled
terror, disgust, and indignation! No wonder that honest English gentlemen
sided cordially with these simple English ladies.
Some of the coarseness of this censor of her sex may, no doubt, be
regarded as a mere affair of superficial style, and was referable to the
tone of the coteries in which she had been living for several years:--the
coteries of Philosophic Radicalism, where speech was even more free than
thought. But some of Mary Wollstonecraft’s coarseness was due to natural
want of refinement and a vein of vulgarity that, instead of playing only
on the surface of her life, had its source in the depths of her soul. Her
view of men and their feelings was as sordid as her view of women and
their failings. Her conception of love as a force in human affairs would
have discredited a chambermaid. Having its source in sensation, the
tenderest and most delicate passion rose and fell with the variations of
bodily desire. The result of purely physical causes, it waxed and waned
with increase and decrease of nervous excitement. According to Miss
Wollstonecraft’s view of the relations of the sexes, wives were so many
toys preserved for the diversion of the men who had appropriated them for
their enjoyment, in compliance with a nervous disposition that, always
more or less transient, was certain to perish in no long time. From its
nature the sexual affection was the most inconstant and fickle of human
forces. On marrying, every woman is admonished to anticipate the
inevitable moment when her husband’s tenderness will cease, her power of
pleasing come to end,--the time when, on discovering her inability to
charm her proprietor any longer, she will, most likely, survive her desire
and desist from her efforts to please him. ‘When the husband,’ says Mary
Wollstonecraft, ‘ceases to be a lover--and the time will inevitably
come--her desire’ (_i.e._ the young wife’s desire) ‘will grow languid, or
become a spring of bitterness; and love, perhaps, the most evanescent of
all passions, will give place to jealousy or vanity,’ On a later page of
her treatise, she says in the same hopeless strain, ‘Love, from its very
nature, must be transitory.... The most holy band of society is
friendship. It has been well said, by a shrewd satirist, that “rare as
love is, true friendship is still rarer.”’ Provided with the higher
knowledge, brighter cleverness, finer tact, coming to her from higher
education, a woman would be able to hold her husband’s love for the
longest possible period, and in some cases be able to retain his
friendship after he has ceased to love her. In all cases, where the former
lover declines to sink in the sober friend, the woman of higher education
would be able to make herself fairly comfortable, without either his love
or his friendship. It was mainly on these grounds, and for these
considerations, that Mary Wollstonecraft insisted on woman’s right to
better training.
What doctrine,--what a teacher for Englishwomen! It was by such doctrine
that Mary Wollstonecraft hoped to raise her sex from slavery and
debasement to freedom and dignity. Such was the teacher of whom Mrs.
Shelley wrote, ‘Mary Wollstonecraft was one of those beings who appear
once, perhaps, in a generation, to gild humanity with a ray which no
difference of opinion nor chance of circumstances can cloud.’ It must be
remembered that _The Rights of Woman_ is the only important original work
by her pen that deserves serious consideration,--the solitary work in
which she made a strenuous effort to influence the life and future of
humanity. The busy woman of letters produced translations, compilations,
slight essays, brief tales, critical notices by the score. A clever
letter-writer, she produced during her life a charming volume of letters
touching Sweden and Norway; and left behind her, for posthumous
publication, other _Letters to Imlay_,--letters curiously and dismally in
harmony with the sentiments and feeling of the essay on English womankind.
But _The Rights of Woman_ was her sole _important_ original work. The one
work, to be studied for information respecting her social theories, it is
the one work by which she must be judged as a social teacher. Whatever
their merits (and the works are by no means meritless), her other writings
afford nothing to justify her younger daughter’s estimate of her services
to humanity. From what has been said of _The Rights of Woman_, readers may
judge whether it was a work ‘to gild humanity with a ray’ of moral
sunshine, or a work to darken and depress humanity with dismal notions.
Unobservant of his heroine’s deep-seated and ingrained coarseness of
sentiment, Mr. Kegan Paul cannot shut his eyes to what I term her
superficial coarseness,--the coarseness of diction that is in some degree,
though by no means altogether, referable to the tone of the coteries in
which she had lived chiefly for some five years.
‘It may, however,’ he says of her book, ‘be admitted that her
frankness on some subjects is little less than astounding, and that
matters are discussed which are rarely named even among members of the
same sex, far less printed for both.... Yet for extreme plain
speaking, there was much reason and excuse. The times were coarser
than ours, the days were not so far distant when the scenes were
possible and the dangers real which Richardson’s novels portray.’
Readers may infer from these admissions (by a biographer who would fain
have us think Mary Wollstonecraft an angel) that the plain speaking to
which Kegan Paul refers is _extremely_ plain. Mr. Kegan Paul’s admissions
on these points are significant of much more than he says, to the
disadvantage of the angelic Mary. Significant also are the commonplaces
with which he palliates what he is constrained to acknowledge. From these
commonplaces one might imagine gentlewomen of George the Third’s time were
so tainted with prevailing coarseness, as to be incapable of thinking and
writing like gentlewomen. Sufficient evidence to the contrary may be found
in the writings of Catharine Macaulay, Hester Chapone, Sophia Lee, Harriet
Lee, Ann Radcliffe, Sarah Trimmer, Hannah More, Frances Burney, Lætitia
Barbauld. Madame D’Arblay could exhibit the want of refinement, noticeable
in the vulgar of her time, without ceasing to write like a woman of
refinement. Though Elizabeth Inchbald lived in the same cliques as Mary
Wollstonecraft, her pages are innocent of the ‘plain speaking’ that
revolts the reader of _The Rights of Woman_ and the _Letters to Imlay_.
The simple fact is that, though her worst failing was aggravated by the
society she kept, Mary Wollstonecraft sometimes wrote coarsely because she
sometimes thought coarsely.
It is not surprising that at the close of 1792, Mary Wollstonecraft went
to Paris, the capital to which all Englishmen and Englishwomen of
revolutionary sentiment had for some time been looking with keen interest
and enthusiastic hopefulness. ‘Well up’ in contemporary French politics,
the woman, who had translated the pamphlets of French politicians into
English, and was known in Paris as their translator, naturally wished to
see the people who had engaged so much of her thought, and to pass a few
weeks in the capital where, without having seen it, she was no stranger.
_The Rights of Woman_ had been translated into French and praised by
Parisian reviewers. It was sold on the boulevards and at the bookstalls on
the quays, as a companion-book to _The Rights of Man_. At Paris she would
be welcomed as a celebrity, honoured as one of the very few Englishwomen,
clever and brave enough to be revolutionary,--the only Englishwoman who
had at present rendered the Revolution good service with her pen. In the
reception accorded so recently to Thomas Paine, by the garrison and
municipality of Calais, and by the National Convention at Paris, she saw
the honour and enthusiasm with which she would be welcomed at the port and
the capital. Even though they forbore to plant the tricolour in her
bonnet, the people of the department of Calais would hail her on landing
as the friend and fellow-worker of Tom Paine, whom they had so lately
chosen to represent them in the National Convention. At Paris she would
receive the homage due to her literary success, and be welcomed as a
daughter of ‘the Revolution.’
In the spring of ’92 she and the Fuselis had planned a six weeks’ trip to
Paris. Through incidents, of which enough has been already said, this plan
for a summer’s trip came to nothing. It remained for Mary Wollstonecraft
to relinquish her scheme of going to Paris, to make it with other
companions, or to go to France by herself. To relinquish the scheme she
could not; for the course of events made her more and more desirous to go
to Paris. Possibly she tried and failed to find other companions of the
voyage. Anyhow she started for France alone on the 8th of December, 1792,
going thither alone, and arriving at the capital, in the midst of the
series of exciting incidents that closed with the King’s execution.
Going thither openly and in her own name (a name of notoriety in Paris),
she made her abode first under the roof of Madame Fillietaz, _née_
Bregantz, a lady in whose school at Putney, Eliza Wollstonecraft (Mrs.
Bishop), and Everina Wollstonecraft, had been assistant-governesses. Thus
suitably placed in the house of her sisters’ former employer, she remained
there for awhile, working hard at the language in whose accent she was
greatly deficient. On getting a sufficient command of the French tongue,
she went into Parisian society, and was so engrossed by its excitements
that, instead of staying for only a few weeks, she remained at Paris for
months, staying over February, though she had received ample warning that,
if she would return to England, she should leave France promptly, before
the declaration of war. Safe for the moment alike from danger, and the
dread of it, Mary stayed on, congratulating herself on being the
eye-witness of events of which she meant to be the historian. Entering
France for a brief stay she remained in the country for two years and four
months.
Going much into the world, she made the acquaintance (during the spring of
1793, if not earlier) of Captain Gilbert Imlay, citizen of the United
States of America,--a handsome, clever gentleman of war, letters, and
commerce; a soldier who had led his company in the struggle for American
Independence; an author who had produced in a series of excellent letters
a _Topographical Description of the Western Territory of North America_; a
smart adventurer, who had come to Europe to act for the sale of land in
America, and push his way to fortune in commercial enterprise. With a
smooth and plausible tongue, Captain Imlay made a favourable impression on
Mary, who (now grown into an almost handsome woman) found no difficulty in
making a similar impression on him. In the course of their sentimental
conversations on love and marriage, it struck both of them that it would
be well for them to enjoy the former without assuming the fetters of the
latter. It was enough for the handsome American that Mary returned his
passion. As she consented to love him, and give him all he required, it
was not for him to dictate the terms on which he would accept her
kindness. As she had conscientious and philosophic objections to marriage,
he was too gallant to draw her into an estate so repugnant to her sense of
right. They loved one another. Mutual love was a sufficient sanction for
the fulfilment of its own desire. As they loved one another, it was better
for them to do so on terms, that would leave them at liberty to retire
from one another when their mutual love, ‘the most evanescent of all human
passions’ (_vide_ _Rights of Woman_) should have perished. They agreed to
dote on one another, not in lawful wedlock, but in Free Love.
Mr. Kegan Paul takes two different and quite irreconcilable views of
Mary’s action in this business. _In the first place_, he insists that she
determined to associate herself with handsome Gilbert Imlay, because she
disapproved of lawful marriage. ‘She ran counter,’ Mr. Kegan Paul says, in
the _Memoir_, p. v., ‘to the customs of society, yet not wantonly or
lightly, but with forethought, in order to carry out a moral theory
gravely and religiously adopted.’ Further on, p. xxxviii., Mr. Kegan Paul
says, ‘Her view was that a common affection was marriage, and that the
marriage-tie should not bind after the death of love, if love should die.’
Hence Mr. Kegan Paul’s readers are in the first place required to believe
that Mary acted on and from religious principle in this business, and to
honour her for so acting on and from principle, although ‘she yet made the
grand mistake of supposing that it is possible for one woman to undo the
consecrated custom of ages; to set herself in opposition to the course of
society, and not be crushed by it.’ _In the second place_, and almost in
the same breath, Mr. Kegan Paul declares that religious principle was not
Mary’s motive in this affair; but that she went into Free Love with Imlay,
because a legal marriage could not have been readily effected between him
and her, as she was the subject of a sovereign with whom France was at
war; and that she would probably have insisted on being lawfully
married--_i.e._ would have acted against her principles--if that course
had at the same time been practicable and safe. It is obvious that if she
acted on and from principle, Mary Wollstonecraft did not go to Imlay’s
arms in Free Love, merely because the way by lawful marriage was for the
moment blocked; and that if she would have married him if she could, she
is not to be commended for sacrificing herself in this matter on the
shrine of religious principle. It is too much to require us at the same
moment to admire her for acting courageously from principle, and at the
same moment to believe she would have acted against her principle, had
there been no legal impediment to the latter course. Mr. Kegan Paul should
have seated himself on one stool or the other. He is undergoing the
proverbial punishment of the man who tries to sit between two stools.
What are Mr. Kegan Paul’s grounds for saying that a legal marriage with
Imlay was certainly difficult, apparently impossible, to Mary
Wollstonecraft in Paris, in the spring of 1793? His grounds for this quite
erroneous opinion are (1) that she was a British subject; (2) that
England and France were at war; (3) that her position as a British subject
was full of danger; (4) that even if a marriage with Imlay was possible to
her, she could not have made it without declaring her nationality to the
civil officer; (5) that in Madame de Stael’s novel of _Corinne_, Lord
Nelvil could not marry Madame d’Arbigny, because to marry her he would
have had to declare himself to the civil officer. In answer to these
considerations, it is enough to say (1) that, though she was a British
subject, Mary Wollstonecraft, as the child and favourer of revolution, and
a famous writer, enjoying the friendship of Thomas Paine, and other
powerful members of the National Convention, was in the spring of 1793
exempt from the perils and inconveniences pertaining to ordinary British
subjects living at that time in Paris; (2) that, even had her position
been perilous, it would not have been rendered more so by the declarations
requisite for a marriage, as so celebrated an Englishwoman, living openly
in Paris, was already well known to the civil functionaries; (3) that the
case of the English noble_man_ in Madame de Stael’s novel does not apply
to circumstances of the English_woman_ in Paris,--Mary being a woman
already known to the civil officer, and a woman, whose nationality would,
on the moment of marriage, merge in the nationality of her husband, and
remain therein during coverture. Mr. Kegan Paul is wrong alike in his
facts and his law. Though she was at war with England, France was in
cordial alliance with the United States of America; and the citizen of
those States could have married Mary Wollstonecraft almost as easily in
Paris as he could have married her in New York. Mr. Kegan Paul’s
hypothesis that Mary might have found it difficult and perilous to marry
Imlay is a mere fancy, arising from misconceptions.
Further, Mr. Kegan Paul would have us believe that one of Mary
Wollstonecraft’s reasons for making a contract of Free Love with Gilbert
Imlay was that she might have the security that would pertain to her from
_appearing_ to be the American gentleman’s wife. The answer to this is,
that instead of giving her the position and appearance of being his wife,
the contract of Free Love (on its becoming known to her friends in France)
only gave her the position and appearance of being his mistress; that her
friends in France never regarded her as Imlay’s wife; and that no security
(in the sense suggested by Mr. Kegan Paul) either came, or could be
expected to come, to her from her notorious position, though, to palliate
her action to her sisters, she used language in some letters that would
countenance a different opinion. Events moved rapidly in France. Before
the end of the year Thomas Paine had been turned out of the Convention and
was in prison, whence he had reason for thinking he would be sent to the
guillotine. Secure enough for the moment in the spring of 1793, Mary
Wollstonecraft’s position became perilous some months later; and there is
abundant evidence that when her position became uneasy, and even
hazardous, her relations with Imlay neither gave her security, nor
diminished her sense of insecurity.
Mr. Kegan Paul assures the gentle matrons and the young gentlewomen of
England that from the commencement of her association in Free Love with
Imlay, Mary Wollstonecraft was his _wife_! In his biography of William
Godwin, Mr. Kegan Paul says of her position towards Imlay, and her letters
to him:--
‘She believed that his love, which was to her sacred, would endure. No
one can read her letters without seeing that she was a pure,
high-minded, and refined woman, and that she considered herself, in
the eyes of God and man, his wife.... But they are the letters of a
tender and devoted _wife_, who feels no doubt of her position.’
In the _Memoir_ of the heroine, whom he thus exhibits to the admiration of
our wives, and sisters, and daughters, Mr. Kegan Paul says:--
‘The kindness he’ (_i.e._ Imlay) ‘showed Mary Wollstonecraft disposed
her to look on him favourably; _she soon gave him a very sincere
affection, and consented to become his wife_. _I use this word
deliberately, although no legal ceremony ever passed between them._’
In these passages Mr. Kegan Paul states much that is the reverse of fact;
much also that is disproved by the letters which he so strangely
misrepresents.
Containing many passages that are winningly piquant and innocently
charming; affording abundant evidence that their writer’s affections were
strongly concerned in this wretched _liaison_; betraying no few
indications of a spirit almost to be styled high-mindedness; yielding
superabundant evidence of the writer’s cleverness and brilliancy, these
letters are not the letters of a refined woman, or the letters of a woman
who considers herself the wife of the man to whom they are addressed.
Still less are they the letters of a woman who feels herself secure of her
position. Had she been a woman of nice refinement, she could not have
written so lightly and copiously as she does of matters that a gentlewoman
of refinement tells only to her physician, her nurse, her closest female
friends, and shrinks from naming to her husband. Had she been the woman of
singular refinement we are asked to believe her, she would have been less
communicative to her correspondent about her health. Regard for the
feelings of my readers forbids me to speak, even in the most guarded
terms, of the more disagreeable details of these too circumstantial
communications. In this respect, the letters are just such letters as, in
the absence of positive testimony, the author of the _Rights of Woman_
might be imagined to have written to the man, with whom she was living in
Free Love. Instead of being the letters of a woman who considers herself a
wife, she does not venture, even in her confidential communications to
Imlay, to style herself his wife, whilst hinting how strongly she wished
to be privileged to do so. Instead of being the letters of a woman
‘feeling herself secure of her position,’ nothing in them is more striking
and pathetic than the evidence how painfully aware she was, that she held
her admirer by only the slenderest thread.
Mr. Kegan Paul says that she believed Gilbert Imlay’s love would endure.
What a strange belief for a woman who thought no man’s love capable of
endurance; who wrote in the _Rights of Woman_ that ‘love, from its nature,
must be transitory,’ and was ‘perhaps the most evanescent of all
passions;’ who had taught in the same book that every woman should
anticipate the _inevitable_ death of her husband’s love for her! Anyhow,
ere the first four of the seventy-seven letters to Imlay had been written,
she knew him to have been a fickle lover:--
‘I have found out,’ she wrote from Paris to Imlay at Havre, in
September, 1793, in the fourth of the long series of letters, ‘that I
have more mind than you, in one respect: because I can, without any
violent effort of reason, find food for love in the same object, much
longer than you can. The way to my senses is through my heart; but,
forgive me! I think there is sometimes a short cut to yours.’
Surely, this is good evidence that, from an early date of their
acquaintance, she knew he was a fickle worshiper of womankind and a
libertine. Moreover, what a confession to be made by Mr. Kegan Paul’s
bright example of feminine purity and delicacy,--the woman who is said by
Mr. Kegan Paul to have come to Paris without having had any affair of the
heart! She had learnt in September, 1793, that the way to her _senses_ was
through her _heart_, and that she could ‘find food for love in the same
object’ longer than her correspondent could. A great deal for a woman to
learn between the end of December and the middle of the following
September! It must, however, be admitted that Paris, at the end of the
last century, was a school where a woman picked up such knowledge fast.
Mr. Kegan Paul is sure that, from the commencement of her association with
Imlay in Free Love, Mary Wollstonecraft considered herself as his _wife_
‘in the eyes of God and man;’ and Mr. Kegan Paul, ‘using this word
deliberately,’ styles her the _wife_ of Gilbert Imlay. Let us look into
this matter. At the commencement of this virtuous association, Gilbert and
Mary were not living under the same roof; but having separate places of
abode, they met secretly by assignation for the enjoyment of their
conjugal privileges. One of their places, perhaps their only place, of
assignation, was a certain ‘barrier’ of the French capital, near which
barrier the act occurred, that resulted in the birth of Mary
Wollstonecraft’s illegitimate daughter in April, 1794. The pleasure of
these meetings at the barrier was referred to by Mary, when, in the
twenty-third of the famous series of letters, she wrote on 22nd September,
1794, from Paris to Imlay:--‘Bring me, then, back your barrier-face, or
you shall have nothing to say to my barrier-girl.’ On the following day,
she wrote in the same vein:--
‘I desired you, in one of my other letters, to bring back to me your
barrier-face--or that you should not be loved by my barrier-girl. I
know that you will love her more and more, for she is a little
affectionate, intelligent creature, with as much vivacity, I should
think, as you could wish for.’
When writing thus to her already cold and remiss partner in Free Love,
Mary pined to see once again the radiant face of the lover, whose
‘barrier-girl’ was with her at Paris,--a five-months’ infant, delighting
in three things, ‘to ride in a coach, to look at a scarlet waistcoat, and
hear loud music.’
Mary and Gilbert were still living apart and meeting one another by
assignation, when she wrote to him on some unknown day of August, 1793:--
‘You can scarcely imagine with what pleasure I anticipate the day,
when we are to begin almost to live together; and you would smile to
hear how many plans of employment I have in my head, now that I am
confident my heart has found peace in your bosom.... I will be at the
barrier a little after ten o’clock to-morrow.’
By this time they had arranged ‘almost to live together,’ but they had not
begun to do so. Mary’s disagreeable communicativeness about her attacks of
faintness and the movements of her little ‘twitcher’ leaves no room for
question that her child, born at Havre in April, 1794, was not born
prematurely. It is therefore a matter of certainty that Mary was on the
way to become a mother, before the lovers ceased to have separate places
of abode and to meet by assignation. Even by Mr. Kegan Paul it must be
admitted that this was a curious way of living for the woman, who already
considered herself the wife of Imlay in the eyes of God and _man_. Anyhow
at first Mary did her best to escape the eyes of man.
After living under the same roof with her for some six weeks, Captain
Imlay (for the prosecution of affairs of business, and possibly also in
pursuit of pleasure) went off to Havre, where he had commercial concerns,
and to other places requiring his presence; Mary being left to her own
devices for several months in Paris, whence she wrote to her partner in
Free Love some of the most interesting of the letters, of which Mr. Kegan
Paul speaks so highly. Misrepresenting matters so as to adapt them to his
fanciful conception of Mary’s life and character, Mr. Kegan Paul also
commits errors without any apparent object for doing so. For instance, he
says, ‘Towards the close of 1793 Mary joined Imlay at Havre, and there in
the spring of 1794 gave birth to a girl, who received the name of Fanny,
in memory of the dear friend of her youth;’ saying this in spite of the
evidence afforded by the letters he is editing, that Mary remained at
Paris well into February, 1794. From Paris she wrote Imlay _one_ published
letter in September, 1793; one published letter in November, 1793; _four_
published letters in December, 1793; _four_ published letters in January,
1794; _four_ published letters in February, 1794. All these fourteen
letters were written by her at Paris; the last of them (penned at the
moment of her departure from the capital for Havre) ending with these
words:--
‘I am well, and have no apprehension that I shall find the journey too
fatiguing, when I follow the lead of my heart. With my face turned to
Havre my spirits will not sink; and my mind has always hitherto
enabled my body to do whatever I wished--Yours affectionately, MARY.’
In an editorial note Mr. Kegan Paul admits that all these letters were
written during Mary’s ‘separation of several months from Imlay;’ and yet
in the _Memoir_ he represents that the separation ended in December, and
that she joined Imlay at Havre ‘towards the close of 1793.’ This is the
way in which the writers, whose _care_ has been commended so
enthusiastically by Mr. Froude, deal with their evidences. Doubtless they
are accurate enough for Mr. Froude, and quite as accurate as he is
himself.
The letter she wrote to Imlay from Paris on 30th December, 1793 (Monday
night) contains this remarkable passage, to which the reader should give
his best attention:--
‘A melancholy letter from my sister Eliza has also harassed my
mind--that from my brother would have given me sincere pleasure; but
for.... There is a spirit of independence in his letter, that will
please you; and you shall see it, when we are once more over the fire
together. I think that you would hail him as a brother, with one of
your tender looks, when your heart not only gives a lustre to your
eye, but a dance of playfulness, that he would meet with a glow half
made up of bashfulness, and a desire to please the ----; where shall I
find a word to express the relationship which subsists between us?
Shall I ask the little twitcher? But I have dropt half the sentence
that was to tell you how much he would be inclined to love the man
loved by his sister. I have been fancying myself sitting between you,
ever since I began to write, and my heart has leapt at the thought!
You see how I chat to you.’
Written in her brightest, tenderest, most womanly vein, this exquisite
piece of writing shows not only the affectionateness of Mary’s nature, but
also how far she was from considering herself a wife in the eyes of God
and man, and how acutely she felt the shame and inconveniences of her
position towards Imlay. One would like to see the words omitted from the
passage,--probably the words of a declaration that she could not enjoy her
younger brother’s letter from the sense of humiliation coming to her from
thinking, how she could nerve herself to tell him of the relation, in
which she and Imlay stood to one another. ‘Where,’ she writes with pathos
and tact, ‘shall I find a word to express the relationship which subsists
between us?’ She wants a word she could give her brother, without fearing
it would drive all care for her from his heart. Had she considered herself
a wife in the eyes of man, she would not have wanted the word. ‘Shall I
ask the little twitcher?’ asks the woman, within four months of her
accouchement. Could a woman ask more touchingly and winningly for the
lawful marriage, that would make her what she wanted to be in the eyes of
the world; would save her child from the ignominy of shameful birth; would
give her the name she could utter to her brother, without burning blush
and scalding tears? ‘Considered herself a wife in the eyes of God and
man!’ Did she so consider herself? Then why this touching prayer to the
man whom she dared not call her husband, even in the privacy of a letter,
beginning with ‘My Best Love?’
There is another passage in the letters, to be remembered in connexion
with the foregoing evidence that, instead of considering herself a wife in
the world’s eyes, she could not even consider herself a wife in Imlay’s
eyes. ‘Finding,’ she wrote to him from Paris on 1st January, 1794, ‘that I
was observed, I told the good women, the two Mrs. ----s, simply that I was
with child: and let them stare! and ----, and ----, nay, all the world may
know it for aught I care! Yet I wish to avoid ----’s coarse jokes.’ Had
she been a wife in the eyes of society (as Mr. Kegan Paul insists she
was), the ladies would not have stared, would have seen no cause to stare,
on the announcement of the matter, with which Mary caused them to open
their eyes with astonishment. Had she been regarded as a wife by her
Parisian friends, she would have had no cause to fear coarse jests about
her health. It is clear the woman, who could not venture to style herself
‘his wife’ even to Imlay, had not ventured to style herself his wife to
her Parisian friends.
Now-a-days the less scrupulous of our Free Lovers make so free with the
queen’s English as to style themselves husband or wife, and declare
themselves married people, without having gone through any form of
marriage. Speaking deliberately, Mr. Kegan Paul says they have a right to
do so, the word wife being in his opinion strictly applicable to a female
Free Lover. Speaking deliberately, I say they have no right to apply to a
woman, who is not lawfully married, a familiar title assigned by social
rule and law of language, as a description of their legal estate, to women
who are lawfully married; or, on the other hand, to apply the correlative
title to men who are not lawfully married. I say they have no right to
change at their will the signification of familiar English words, so as to
bring them into accordance with their notions touching the relations of
the sexes.
In the dictionaries of the English language ‘husband’ is defined as ‘a man
contracted or joined to a woman by marriage;’ ‘wife’ is defined as ‘a
woman who is united to a man in the lawful bonds of wedlock;’ and
‘marriage’ is defined as ‘the legal union of a man and woman for life.’
The world accepts these definitions, acts upon them, and will, I trust,
continue to act upon them. Speaking deliberately, I say (Mr. Kegan Paul
notwithstanding) that persons who use these words for the misdescription
of Free Lovers, with an intention to deceive their hearers, are guilty of
falsehood. I say this deliberately, though Marian Evans (noble creature
though she was, and exemplary in all matters, apart from her miserable
association with George Henry Lewes) used to speak and write of him as her
‘husband.’ Possibly Marian Evans did not so misdescribe her relation to
George Lewes _with an intention to deceive_. I have no evidence that she
ever so misdescribed herself and Lewes to any person, without having
reason to think the person cognizant of the facts of the case. And _I do
know_ that to certain gentlewomen, she was honourably communicative on the
matter, so that they might not associate with her, under a misapprehension
respecting her domestic position. But her conduct cannot affect the
obligation of Free Lovers to be truthful. Having the courage of their
opinions, they should tell the world openly what they are. They might
style themselves ‘bosom-friends,’ or call themselves ‘free husbands and
free wives.’ But they have no right to call themselves ‘husbands’ and
‘wives.’ Out of respect for themselves and their principles they should
refrain from the ordinary untruthful practice of ‘kept mistresses’ and
their keepers.
Ninety years since the woman (who according to Mr. Kegan Paul considered
herself a wife in the eyes of God and _man_) did not presume to style
herself Imlay’s wife even to her own sisters. All she could do was to
speak of herself truthfully as living in France under his ‘protection,’
when on 10th March, 1794, she wrote from Havre to her sister Everina, ‘If
any of the many letters I have written have come to your hands or Eliza’s,
you know I am safe, through the protection of an American, a most worthy
man, &c.;’--words committed to paper, when she was within a few weeks of
giving birth to her illegitimate child. To her own sister Mary
Wollstonecraft described herself as a woman living under ‘protection.’ Mr.
Kegan Paul published the letter in which she thus describes herself; and
yet he says she considered herself as wife in the eyes of her
fellow-creatures.
It has been already remarked that Mary Wollstonecraft had an unhappy
temper. Even by Mr. Kegan Paul it is admitted that his angelical Mary was
‘excitable and hasty-tempered, apt to exaggerate trifles, sensitive to
magnify inattention into slights, and slights into studied insults.’ Put
into plain terms this is an admission that she was a violent-tempered and
bad-tempered woman. She was no woman to live happily with a man, either as
wife or Free Lover. Even before their first brief term of cohabitation,
she had tried Imlay by her caprice and pettishness. In the letter (of
August, 1793), in which she anticipates the delight of ‘beginning almost
to live together’ with him, she says:--
‘Cherish me with that dignified tenderness, which I have only found in
you; and your own dear girl will try to keep under a quickness of
feeling, that has sometimes given you pain. Yes, I will be _good_,
that I may deserve to be happy; and whilst you love me, I cannot again
fall into the miserable state which rendered life a burden almost too
heavy to be borne.’
Let the reader consider these words. In Letter vi. (a genuine
love-letter), dated from Paris to Imlay at Havre, she writes: ‘No; I have
thy honest countenance before me--Pop--relaxed by tenderness; a
little--little wounded by my whims.’ In Letter xi., of January, 1794, she
entreats, ‘with eyes overflowing with tears and in the humblest attitude,’
to be pardoned for worrying her admirer with unreasonable epistles to
which he has replied in a ‘kind and rational letter;’--adding, ‘It is time
for me to grow more reasonable, a few more of these caprices of
sensibility would destroy me.’ In the same month she writes to him:--
‘Yesterday, my love, I could not open your letter for some time; and,
though it was not half as severe as I merited, it threw me into such
a fit of trembling, as seriously alarmed me.... One thing you mistake
in my character, and imagine that to be coldness which is just the
contrary. For, when I am hurt by the person most dear to me, I must
let out a whole torrent of emotions, in which tenderness would be
uppermost, or stifle them altogether; and it appears to me almost a
duty to stifle them when I imagine _that I am treated with coldness_.’
The letters abound with similar evidence that, quarrelling from an early
date of their association, they went on quarrelling and making it up, till
they grew heartily sick of one another, and saw little of one another. At
the most, be it observed, the whole period of their association (from
their first introduction to one another till their final parting) did not
exceed two years and ten months, and at the fullest computation they did
not spend more than twelve months of this time in one another’s society.
Whilst Mary was at Paris, Imlay was for months together at Havre, or other
places, away from her. For the greater part of her stay at Havre, he was
at Paris. Soon after her return to Paris, he went off to London. Running
from England to France to see her for a short time, he returned by himself
to England. Soon after her return to England, she went off with her child
and nurse in the summer of 1795, for her trip to Sweden, Norway, and
Denmark.
I am no apologist for Imlay. In a memoir I wrote of Mary Wollstonecraft
twenty-eight years since, I called him ‘a pitiful scamp;’ and though I may
doubt whether I should have spoken of him quite so disdainfully, I am
still disposed to think him a mean-spirited, though clever, creature. The
evidence respecting his character and ways of life is far from complete.
Hitherto only one side has been told of the story of his relations with
Mary Wollstonecraft; _her_ side of the story, dressed and redressed by her
friends and admirers. From the insufficient evidence, he appears to have
differed morally in no important respect or degree from the ordinary run
of the men, who used to be styled men of the world, men of pleasure, and
men of gallantry. Whilst it is certain that Mary Wollstonecraft entered
the association with no confidence that it would last ‘for ever,’ there is
no reason to suppose that he entered it with any desire for its
permanence. Whilst it is certain that the faults of her temper were
largely accountable for the unhappiness of the association, it is fair to
assume there were corresponding faults of temper on his side. If he was
not qualified to make any woman happy for long, Mary Wollstonecraft was
not a woman to live happily with any man for any long time. There can be
no question they were an ill-assorted couple; but with any man Mary would
have been unhappily matched. It is not wonderful that Imlay had not been
associated for many months with the woman, who worried him incessantly
with her temper, before he began to think of withdrawing from the
association.
In leaving Mary Wollstonecraft, Imlay took a step that, from the
commencement of their association, must have been foreseen as a probable
contingency by the woman, who regarded love as the most evanescent of the
human passions. In leaving her he merely exercised the right of
retirement, which had been reserved alike to him and her by the conditions
of their lawless contract. Yet his disposition to leave her was no sooner
known to the Free Lovers of her English acquaintance, than they began to
think very ill of him. On being assured of his purpose to quit her,
because he could not live harmoniously with her, they were quick in
declaring him a prodigy of conjugal faithlessness. It is not manifest at
the first glance why these enthusiastic advocates of the Free Contract
were so indignant with him for retiring from the partnership in accordance
with the terms on which he had entered it,--_i.e._ on the understanding
that he should be at liberty to get out of it when he pleased, and that
Mary should be at liberty to retire from it when she pleased. The
advantage claimed by the Free Lovers for their conjugal arrangement over
marriage is, that spouses have this liberty of withdrawing from one
another on the death of their mutual affection. Why, then, was Imlay so
severely blamed for using the liberty especially reserved to him by the
contract he formed with Mary,--by the terms that may be fairly called her
own terms? The Free Lovers spoke of him as though, instead of entering
into a contract of Free Love with a middle-aged (thirty-four years old)
woman, who was a Free Lover in principle before she knew him, he had
engaged the affections of a young girl, and lured her into lawful wedlock.
They stigmatized him as the heartless betrayer of virginal simplicity and
innocence. They charged him with monstrous wickedness in retiring from the
contract, which by their own rule he was free to withdraw from as soon as
he liked.
The fact is the Free Lovers of ninety years since were angry with Imlay
for leaving Mary, _not_ because he acted in violation of their principles
or broke the terms of his contract with Mary, but because his rupture with
the woman of letters afforded a strong example of the badness of their
conjugal method, and tended to discredit their substitute for lawful
marriage. The opponents of Free Love were and are in the habit of
insisting that libertines would use its freedom, to desert their conjugal
mates for slight causes. Imlay’s secession from Mary countenanced this
view of Free Love. The opponents of Free Love opposed it on the ground
that, if conjugal partnerships could be withdrawn from at pleasure, they
would be entered into lightly and without due preliminary inquiry and
forethought. The levity with which Mary entered into a contract of Free
Love with Imlay, soon after making his acquaintance, and before she learnt
his real character (as her friends insist), countenanced this view. Hence
the rage of the Free Lovers against Imlay, who retired from the
partnership, whilst Mary wished to retain him in it.
Though it seems to have revived some months later, and after its temporary
extinction to have regained all its original passionateness, it is not to
be imagined that Mary Wollstonecraft’s love of Gilbert Imlay continued to
burn steadily after the death of his affection for her. All the more
instructive and pathetic are the efforts she made, for her child’s sake,
and her own honour’s sake, to hold him to herself, for months after his
first manifestation of a desire to be quit of her. Striving to make
herself useful to him, in the hope that a care for his selfish interests
would retain him in the partnership from which he wished to retreat, she
took an interest in his commercial concerns, and went on the voyage to
Denmark and Norway, not more for the sake of her own health, than for the
advantage of his affairs in those countries. This she did (as Mr. Kegan
Paul says) after ‘Imlay’s affection had ceased, and his desertion’
(retirement would be a better word) ‘had practically begun.’ Striving to
be useful to him, she tried to please him, even feigned still to love him,
though strong affection for him had perished from her heart. To qualify
her to do business for him in the foreign lands for which she was bound,
Imlay gave her a power-of-attorney, in which he styled her ‘Mary Imlay, my
best friend and wife,’--‘a document,’ says Mr. Kegan Paul, ‘which in many
cases and countries would be considered as constituting marriage:’ as
though it gave the poor woman a colour of matronly honour in history, and
were somehow or other a proof that she had, from the commencement of the
Free Love contract, ‘considered herself his wife in the eyes of God and
man.’ No doubt the document would have been proof of marriage in Scotland
to this century, and in other countries previous to the Council of Trent.
But Imlay and Mary were not living in Scotland. Nor were they living in
times prior to the Council of Trent. The power-of-attorney was signed by
Imlay when he had made up his mind never to make her his wife; and she
took it abroad with her, when she knew he had ceased to love her and had
_not_ made her his wife. For those who peruse them, by the light of the
hints given in these and previous pages, there is pathetic instruction in
the letters Mary sent her no-longer-loving ‘protector’ from abroad. They
are the letters of a woman alternately hoping against hope to revive in
Imlay’s breast his old love of her, and despairing to hold him much longer
as a friend or even as an acquaintance. From pity, kindness or
self-interest (possibly from all three) he wrote to her sometimes in the
language of a lover,--letters animating her with hopes, to be dashed by
the next post. Returning to England (not in late autumn, as Mr. Kegan Paul
asserts, but) on 4th October, 1795, she soon found the vanity of all her
hopes and efforts to retain him. By this time Imlay had formed another
attachment, had entered into another contract of Free Love,--a fact all
the more galling to Mary, because he called his new passion a sacred
passion, and justified it with the familiar arguments of the Free Lovers.
Resolute to exercise his Free-Love right to retire from the association
that had become distasteful to him, he was set on fulfilling the moral
engagements of the new partnership in mutual tenderness. His language and
tone on these matters were the more exasperating to Mary, because of their
conformity to the doctrines of her own philosophic school. In justice to
him it must be admitted, even by Mary’s partisans, that he showed no wish
to shirk the pecuniary sacrifices, expected from a man of honour, when he
transfers his affections from an old to a new mistress. Offering her,
pressing upon her, money for her necessities, he undertook to make proper
settlements on Mary and her child. With proper spirit she rejected
indignantly these offers for herself, though she consented to his proposal
to make a settlement on their child. But the bond he gave for this
purpose was of no advantage to the child, as neither the principal nor
interest of the promised sum was paid; probably because the man of divers
financial speculations fell into poverty.
There are passages in the concluding Letters to Imlay fit to be given in
evidence that, as the hour of their final separation drew nearer, Mary’s
love for him revived and regained all its former force; and it is
conceivable that, under the influence of jealousy of the object of Imlay’s
new attachment, Mary loved him again in a wild, tempestuous way, as all
hope of recovering him to herself and her child died in her breast.
Certainly she acted like a woman driven to distraction by the anguish of
despised and disappointed love. On the other hand, she did nothing more
than many a violent woman has done under the goadings and torture of
wounded vanity and injured pride. In her rage and misery, Gilbert Imlay’s
whilom mate in Free-Love went one cold and dismal winter’s day to the
river’s side near Putney Bridge. On coming to the scene, where she
intended to escape from life, she either walked into the river and stood
in it, or walked on the Bridge in the pouring rain, until the skirts of
her clothing were saturated and heavily charged with water. This having
been done, so that a few minutes later her garments should operate as a
dead weight in drawing her beneath the tide’s surface, and, at the same
time, deprive her limbs of the power to struggle against the cold current,
she climbed the parapet of the Bridge,[1] and threw herself into the deep
stream. This deliberate attempt at self-murder was, however, unsuccessful,
Mary being picked up and saved by the watermen of a passing boat.
Self-murder being a form of wickedness denied by the moral and social
proprieties to all persons in their minds, not belonging to the lower
orders, and being, therefore, a departure from righteousness that would
disqualify Mary for her place of honour in the annals of a respectable
county family, it has been decreed by Mary Wollstonecraft’s admirers that
she was out of her right mind, to the extent of not knowing what she was
doing when she thus attempted to kill herself. Is it not written in Mr.
Kegan Paul’s book that Mary’s attempt to drown herself was made when she
was ‘driven to despair and was for a time quite out of her mind?’ In
connexion with this verdict, it is well to remember that, some time before
going down to Putney, Mary wrote a very powerfully worded letter to Imlay,
saying therein, ‘I go to find comfort, and my only fear is, that my poor
body will be insulted by an endeavour to recall my hated existence. But I
shall plunge into the Thames, where there is the least chance of my being
snatched from the death I seek.’ After writing this quite lucid and
well-worded letter, Mary went down to Putney; and, after providing in the
most deliberate manner for the achievement of her purpose, she climbed
over the side of the Bridge and threw herself into the deep water. When
she did all this she was so completely out of her mind, that she should
not be deemed accountable for her actions, and cognizant of what she was
doing. This is Mr. Kegan Paul’s view of the matter.
It is impossible to trace precisely the course of Mary Wollstonecraft’s
life in the last three months of 1795 and the first month of 1796 (from
the stormy, hysterical, changeful epistles, that conclude the series of
published _Letters_ to Imlay, and other letters of the same period, which
I have examined for the illustration of her story); but in December she
was still writing to him with a faint, flickering hope of recalling him to
her side. On some day of December, subsequent to the 8th of that month,
she wrote to him in these words:--
‘Imlay, believe me, it is not romance, you have acknowledged to me
feelings of this kind. You could restore me to life and hope, and the
satisfaction you would feel would amply repay you. In tearing myself
from you, it is my own heart I pierce; and the time will come, when
you will lament that you have thrown away a heart that, even in the
moment of passion, you cannot despise. I would owe everything to your
generosity, but, for God’s sake, keep me no longer in suspense! Let me
see you once more.’
This letter is followed by another, written in the same month, ending
with ‘I part with you in peace.’ But the final parting was still later.
Even so late as 26th January, 1796, she is writing to Mr. A. Hamilton
Rowan in terms which indicate a faint, lingering hope that even yet Imlay
would at some time of the future, change and return to her. ‘Mr. Imlay,’
she says, ‘would be glad to supply all my pecuniary wants; but unless he
returns to himself, I would perish first;’--words showing that, even so
late as the last week of January, 1796, she could think of what she would
do if Imlay should return to himself, _i.e._ to her.
Mary Wollstonecraft’s daughter by William Godwin, the daughter who lived
to be Mrs. Shelley and mother of the present Sir Percy Florence Shelley,
was born on 30th August, 1797, just five calendar months after the
marriage (celebrated at old St. Pancras Church, on 29th March, 1797), that
united the author of _The Rights of Woman_ and the author of _Political
Justice_ in lawful wedlock, when they had already been living several
months together in Free Love. The date of the commencement of their
association in Free Love is unknown; but whilst it must have been as far
back as December, 1796, there is reason for thinking the free-contract was
entered into some weeks earlier. It follows, therefore, that the woman who
leapt from Putney Bridge in the winter of 1795-6, and had not absolutely
despaired, on 26th January, 1796, of seeing her Free Lover Imlay return to
himself and her, in something much less than a year, probably in so short
a time as nine months, possibly in a much shorter time than nine months,
was living in Free Love with her old friend William Godwin,--who was in
his forty-first year when he thus took Mary Wollstonecraft Imlay, _ætat._
thirty-seven, under his protection.
An extant note shows that Godwin met Mary Wollstonecraft, or, at least,
accepted an invitation to meet her, at the residence of their common
friend, Miss Hayes, in January, 1796; and there is reason to believe that
the appointment agreed to by this note of acceptance was the first
occasion on which Godwin met Mary Wollstonecraft since her return from
Norway. That their acquaintance was of much older standing, and had been
much more fruitful of intercourse, than Mr. Kegan Paul represents, and
Mrs. Shelley imagined, is certain. That Godwin now renewed his
acquaintance with her under circumstances, disposing him to think far more
favourably of her than he had heretofore done, is also certain. On
meeting her again in 1796, the philosopher, who had made her a Free Lover,
recognized a martyr to his anti-matrimonial doctrines in the woman, whom
he had some four years earlier regarded as too talkative and eager for
admiration. Bound, by his principles, to approve the terms of her
association with Imlay, he could not withhold his sympathy from a woman
who had suffered so severely from her devotion to Free Love doctrine.
Approaching her as a fair disciple, who had suffered for the truth’s sake,
and for the cause of which he was the chief living representative and
vindicator, he desired to show his respect for her, and to comfort her. ‘I
found a wounded heart; as that heart cast itself upon me, it was my
ambition to heal it,’ he wrote to her soon after their lawful marriage, in
reference to the renewal of their acquaintance. They are notable words:
indicating, as they do, who made the first advances to the state of mutual
regard, that resulted in their marriage. He found in her what he was
prepared to find--a wounded heart. The owner of the wounded heart cast
herself on the philosopher, who desired to soothe its sorrow.
Recalling their course from friendship to love, Godwin wrote after her
death:--
‘The partiality we conceived for each other was in that mode which I
have always considered as the purest and most refined style of love.
It grew with equal advances in the mind of each. It would have been
impossible for the most minute observer to have said who was before
and who was after. One sex did not take the priority which
long-established custom has awarded it, nor the other overstep that
delicacy which is so severely imposed. I am not conscious that either
party can assume to have been the agent or the patient, the toil
spreader or the prey, in this affair. When, in the course of things,
the disclosure came, there was nothing, in a manner, for either party
to disclose to the other.... There was no period of throes and
resolute explanation attendant on the tale. It was friendship melting
into love.’
Though in the privacy of the domestic circle a husband may sometimes
jocularly charge his wife with having made the first advances to the
offer, or even the offer itself, that resulted in their marriage, no man
of common self-respect, or with the slightest care for his wife’s
reputation, could seriously assure the public, she so far ‘overstept the
delicacy which is so severely imposed’ on her sex, as to have pursued him
and dragged him into marriage, or even to have given him any kind of
intimation that she required an offer of marriage from him. The more
remarkable, therefore, is it, that in words, written with a view to
publication, whilst expressly guarding his former wife from the imputation
of any such indelicacy, Godwin states so positively that the first
advances from their friendship to love were not made by him alone; that
his suit for affection in no degree preceded hers; that in the progress to
warmer feeling they moved together step by step. This historic statement,
made for the world’s consideration, must be read in conjunction with the
serious statement put on paper for her eye alone:--‘I found a wounded
heart. As that heart cast itself upon me, it was my ambition to heal it.’
Here is the statement of the whole case. Godwin’s expressions of sympathy
caused the ever-impetuous, and often too demonstrative woman to throw
herself on his sympathy; his ambition to heal her wounded heart was
preceded by her display of feeling. Few readers of the two statements will
question that, notwithstanding what Godwin says to the contrary, the first
advances were made with unmistakable significance by the lady.
Passing in this manner from Imlay to Godwin, in less than a year from her
final separation from the former, Mary Wollstonecraft was living with the
latter in Free Love at his house in The Polygon, Somers Town, in the last
month of 1796. So living with him, was she (to use Mr. Kegan Paul’s words)
a wife in the eyes of God and man? She certainly was not so in the eyes of
man. She and Godwin had lived in this manner for weeks, for months, before
any clear announcement of the nature of their intimacy was made to their
most intimate friends. People who had the _entrée_ of the little house in
Somers Town, gossiped together,--asking one another what it meant. Had
Godwin, in his compassion for Mary’s forlorn condition, merely brought her
to his house as a guest for a long visit, or as a housekeeper, or in a
closer and more affectionate relation? What the various gossips said, and
how they said it, may be left to the reader’s imagination. In February,
1797, Mary Wollstonecraft, living as the somehow or other mistress of
Godwin’s house in The Polygon, entertained her sister Everina for some
time; but so far was she from considering herself a wife in the eyes of
man, she did not venture to reveal the nature of her position in the house
even to her own sister. Throughout her visit in ‘The Polygon,’ Everina
was kept in the dark, and she went off to her place of governess in the
Wedgwood family, at Etruria, without having learnt that her sister and
Godwin were living in Free Love. In the following month (March, 1797),
Southey, whilst in London, saw Mary Wollstonecraft, and on the 13th of
that month wrote of her to Cottle:--
‘Of all the lions or _literati_ I have seen here, Mary Imlay’s
countenance is the best, infinitely the best; the only fault in it is
an expression somewhat similar to what the prints of Horne Tooke
display,--an expression indicating superiority; not haughtiness, not
sarcasm, in Mary Imlay, but still it is unpleasant. Her eyes are light
brown, and although the lid of one of them is affected by a little
paralysis, _they_ are the most meaning I ever saw.’
Speaking of the Free Love association as marriage, Mr. Kegan Paul says
that its existence was ‘understood’ in Godwin’s circle at the date of
Southey’s letter to Cottle. Doubtless Godwin’s circle ‘understood’ what
was going on in his house; but the understanding was in no way due to
Godwin’s communicativeness. The understanding was the result of vigilant
observation, surmise, inference, conjecture, gossip, tattle. The
association was a sly, furtive, secret, deceptive business till the legal
but secret marriage in old St. Pancras Church on 29th March, 1797, and for
some days afterwards. How uncertain the ‘understanding’ was, how far some
of Godwin’s closest friends felt that after all they might be mistaken in
the ‘understanding,’ appears from the fact, that, in his reply to the
letter in which Godwin briefly announced his recent marriage in St.
Pancras Church without mentioning the lady’s name, so intimate a friend as
Holcroft wrote, ‘I cannot be mistaken concerning the woman you have
married. It is Mrs. W. Your secrecy a little pains me.’
How did the marriage, into which Godwin sneaked in this fashion, turn out?
Was it, during its short course, a happy marriage? Was its tenour such as
to justify an opinion that it would, on the whole, have been a happy
union, had Mary’s life been prolonged for another ten or twenty years? Mr.
Kegan Paul answers these questions confidently in the affirmative. Gushing
over Mary’s untimeous end, he speaks of Godwin’s life as blighted by her
death. It is therefore needful to state clearly, that brief though it was,
the marriage was by no means a happy union, and that it was fruitful of
incidents which at least make it certain that Godwin would have found
Mary Wollstonecraft a very difficult woman to live with, had her days been
so prolonged. This stands out clearly on the record.
No sooner had Mary Wollstonecraft carried the point, for which she may be
assumed to have played steadily from the moment of her discovery that she
was likely to have another child; no sooner had she induced Godwin, at a
great sacrifice of his doctrine against matrimony, to take her to old St.
Pancras Church, than she gave the reins to her unhappy temper, and began
to worry him precisely as she had in former time worried Imlay. No more
than three weeks had passed since that marriage, when she spoke to Godwin
(certainly no inconsiderate and unkindly man; certainly a husband who had
given proof of his wish to render her a happy woman) in such a strain,
that he retired in acute distress from his house in The Polygon to his
quite needful retreat in Evesham Buildings (or Place; it is described in
both ways). From the study, with which he had fortunately provided
himself, he wrote his wife a brief and pathetic note,--averring that he
had studied her happiness in everything; imploring her to act so that he
should not be wholly disappointed in her; and reminding her that he had
not undertaken to heal her wounded heart until she had cast herself upon
him.
Admitting that during their brief married life Godwin and Mary
Wollstonecraft had several lively quarrels; and admitting that they arose
from her ‘extreme sensitiveness and eager quickness of temper,’ Mr. Kegan
Paul requires us to consider the outbreaks of her passionate querulousness
as nothing more serious than ‘slight clouds,’ How differently the
biographer speaks of the second Mrs. Godwin’s similar exhibitions of
ill-temper! Slight clouds! What a pretty phrase for an ugly fact. Anyhow
they were clouds no less significant than slight. It must have been a
dismally significant cloud that caused Godwin to write her such a letter!
Let the reader consider the particulars of one of this angelical Mary’s
exhibitions of ill-temper; an affair mentioned lightly by Mr. Kegan Paul
as a ‘little outburst.’ In the June of 1797, Godwin (a man with a right to
a short summer’s holiday, if ever a hard-working man had a right to one)
went for a driving tour of just two weeks and three days in the company of
his particular friend Mr. Basil Montagu. Hiring a horse and gig, they
drove through parts of Buckinghamshire, Oxfordshire, and Warwickshire,
into Staffordshire, visiting Beaconsfield, Oxford, Birmingham, and
Stafford, in the earlier days of the excursion; and in the closing days of
the brief vacation taking peeps at Derby, Coventry, and Cambridge. Let it
be borne in mind that the tour was made in times long before the country
was covered with telegraph wires, and when country towns had not three or
four postal departures and deliveries a-day. Also, be it remembered, that
Godwin and Mary Wollstonecraft had mated on the understanding, that they
should not have too much of one another’s company, or pester one another
with incessant attentiveness. It had been arranged that Godwin, an early
riser, should go from his bed in The Polygon to his study in Evesham
Buildings at an early hour, and in the ordinary way of his life should not
after leaving bed see Mary before their four-o’clock dinner. It had been
arranged between them that each should be free to go into society without
the other, going by themselves to different parties, going apart on the
same evenings to different theatres, or to different parts of the same
theatre. Settled even to minute particulars had it been that they should
show their superiority to ordinary husbands and wives, by doing what they
liked, and exacting no petty services from one another. Free in their love
they would be free in their lives.
Driving out of London for this tour on Saturday, 3rd June, Godwin returned
to London on Tuesday, 20th June, having in the interval written his wife
six long letters. He wrote to his wife on the 5th, 7th, 10th, 12th, 15th,
and 17th of June. The letters were no brief and hasty notes; they were
long letters of bright, cheery chat, and affectionate gossip; letters
showing he thought much of her during his absence from her, and wished to
make her by means of his pen the sharer of his enjoyments. All these long
letters came to Mary’s hands; and she knew he was not a rapid writer,
capable of dashing off a long epistle in twenty minutes. There had been no
hour or day fixed upon precisely for his return, though the tour had been
spoken of beforehand as a fortnight’s ‘outing.’ Time having been lost by
unforeseen accidents and _contretemps_, as time is apt to be lost in such
trips, Godwin (the husband who, by special agreement, was to retain as
much as possible of his bachelor freedom after marriage) stayed out three
days longer than his wife expected. He did not return to The Polygon on
Saturday night; Mary fretted all Sunday. He did not return on Sunday
night; Mary went to bed to fret and fume over his cruel neglect of her.
Rising on Monday with a clouded brow, she spent the day musing over her
wrongs, and resolving on measures to preserve herself from such inhuman
treatment in the future. On Monday night (whilst the cup of Godwin’s
iniquity was only two-thirds full) she wrote her husband a piece of her
mind in a letter to catch his eye and conscience either on his arrival at
his own door, or at his last resting-place on his homeward way. To see the
angelic Mary in one of her tantrums, readers should refer to Mr. Kegan
Paul’s book, and peruse this letter, dated ‘June 19th, Monday, almost 12
o’clock.’ Though absence had, for a while, quickened her affection for
him, coldness and neglect had diminished it. The letters he had sent her
might serve to remind him where he had been, but they were no mementos of
love for her to value. If tenderness for her had animated him on his
departure from town, it had evaporated during his trip. Though she had
requested him to let her know beforehand the time of his return, he had
tormented her by keeping her in suspense. Godwin having written to her
copiously about the people he had seen in his brief tour, it seemed well
to the amiable Mary to charge him with being influenced by ‘the homage of
vulgar minds.’ In waiting to see a show at Coventry, instead of hastening
back to Somers Town, he had offered her an affront. What had happened on
the way that it took him from Saturday to Sunday night to make the journey
from Coventry to Cambridge? And now he was still away, though it was near
midnight. What want of consideration for her feelings! ‘Unless,’ wrote the
angry woman, ‘you suppose me to be a stick or stone, you must have forgot
to think as well as to feel, since you have been on the wing.’
This ‘little outburst’ did not, we are assured by Mr. Kegan Paul, affect
the cordial affection of the husband and wife. One would like to hear
Godwin on that point. What a letter for him to receive from the woman he
had so recently married! What a selfish, exacting, unendurable virago! Yet
the Shelleyan zealots commend her for her womanly goodness and sweetness;
insisting that she appeared on earth to ‘gild humanity with a ray,’ &c.,
and that Godwin’s life was darkened and lowered to its last hour by her
death.
Before we pass on to pay our respects to the second Mrs. Godwin, it is
well to notice what is said of the marriage of the first Mrs. Godwin by
her daughter (Mrs. Shelley), whose statements respecting her mother and
husband are too generally accepted as authoritative in the Shelleyan
coteries. In Mrs. Shelley’s fanciful account of her mother’s virtues,
which are declared ‘to gild humanity with a ray, &c.,’ it is thus
written:--
‘Godwin met her at a moment when she was deeply depressed by the
ingratitude of one utterly incapable of appreciating her excellence;
who had stolen her heart, and availed himself of her excessive and
thoughtless generosity, and lofty independence of character, to plunge
her in difficulties and then desert her. Difficulties, worldly
difficulties, indeed, she set at nought.... It was at this time that
Godwin again met her at the house of her friend Miss Hayes, having
done so occasionally before she went to Norway.’
Further, in a note on the marriage of her parents, Mrs. Shelley says--
‘At the beginning of this year (1797) Mr. Godwin married Mary
Wollstonecraft. The precise date is not known; he does not mention it
in his journal, and the ceremony had taken place some time before the
marriage was declared. This secrecy partly arose from a slight
shrinking on Mr. Godwin’s part from avowing that he had acted in
contradiction to his theories.... They both however looked on this
sort of struggle, in which they had been born, and had always lived,
as a very secondary matter, and after a short period of deliberation
they, in the month of April, declared the marriage which had before
been solemnized.’
(1.) By difficulties, worldly difficulties, Mrs. Shelley obviously means
‘pecuniary difficulties.’ However ill people may think of Imlay’s
treatment of Mary Wollstonecraft, it must be admitted that Imlay did not
leave her without wishing and seeking to free her from immediate pecuniary
difficulties and to put her in easy circumstances for the moment. She
showed proper spirit in refusing to take money of him under the
circumstances; but as he offered it, he cannot be fairly charged with
selfish indifference to the difficulties.
(2.) Mrs. Shelley does not say how long it was before her mother’s
departure for Norway, when Godwin and Mary Wollstonecraft had occasional
meetings at Miss Hayes’s house. Nor does she actually say that Godwin saw
Mary Wollstonecraft for the first time at one of those meetings. But her
words are calculated to give, and have given, the impression that Godwin
met Mary Wollstonecraft for the first time shortly before her departure
from London for Norway, in the summer of 1795. But this impression is
erroneous. Thomas Paine escaped from England to France in September, 1792,
and never revisited his native country. He was present on the occasion
when Godwin, in London, met Mary Wollstonecraft for the first time, and
was displeased with her loquaciousness and apparent desire to engross
Paine’s attention. This meeting, therefore, must have taken place before
September, 1792. There is also other evidence that Mary Wollstonecraft
knew William Godwin before she went to France.
(3.) As he was not ‘acting in contradiction to his theories,’ whilst
living in Free Love with Mary Wollstonecraft, it is obvious that Mrs.
Shelley’s words, touching the marriage of her parents, refer to their
lawful marriage. Mrs. Shelley says this marriage was solemnized at the
beginning of 1797. She is wrong; for the marriage was solemnized at Old
St. Pancras Church on 29th March, 1797.
(4.) Mrs. Shelley says of this marriage, ‘the precise date is not known.’
She is wrong. The precise date may not have been known to Mrs. Shelley,
but it was known to other people,--to all people who had taken sufficient
trouble to inquire about the matter. There never could have been any
uncertainty respecting the place of the wedding; for both Godwin and Mary
were well known to be inhabitants of St. Pancras parish at the time of the
event. To ascertain the precise date it was, therefore, only needful to
search the parish register.
(5.) Mrs. Shelley says of this marriage, ‘the ceremony had taken place
some time before the marriage was declared’ in April; leaving the reader
to infer that three months elapsed between the performance and the
publication of the ceremony. She is wrong. The marriage was announced to
Godwin’s most intimate friends within a few days of the performance of the
ceremony. Holcroft acknowledged on 6th April, 1797, the announcement made
to him by Godwin of what had taken place at Old St. Pancras Church on 29th
March, 1797.
(6.) Speaking of the secrecy of the marriage, Mrs. Shelley says, ‘This
secrecy partly arose from a slight shrinking on Mr. Godwin’s part from
avowing that he had acted in contradiction to his theories;’ readers being
thereby led to infer that Godwin kept the marriage a secret from the
beginning of the year till April, from reluctance to avow an act so
inconsistent with his theories. Mrs. Shelley is wrong. Instead of
postponing the announcement for three months from such a cause, her father
announced the marriage within a few days of its solemnization.
(7.) Still writing as though what occurred on 29th March had taken place
at the beginning of the year, Mrs. Shelley says,--
‘Another cause for the secrecy at first maintained was the stern law
of poverty and necessity. My father narrowly circumscribed both his
receipts and disbursements. The maintenance of a family had never been
contemplated, and could not at once be provided for. My mother,
accustomed to a life of struggle and poverty, was so beloved by her
friends, that several, and Mr. Johnson in particular, had stood
between her and any of the annoyances and mortifications of debt. But
this must cease when she married.’
In other words, according to Mrs. Shelley, her father kept his marriage a
secret from the beginning of the year till April, in order that he might
derive advantage from money, given to Mary Wollstonecraft by Mr. Johnson
and other friends, under the impression that she was a single woman with
no husband to maintain her; which money they would not have given her, had
they known of her marriage. This is what Mrs. Shelley says of William
Godwin. What baseness for a daughter to attribute to her own father, and
put on record against him! I wish I could say that nothing in Godwin’s
life, till his powers languished under increasing embarrassments,
countenances the opinion that he was capable of such baseness.
Unfortunately, however, there is evidence that, whilst Mary Wollstonecraft
was living in secret Free Love with him in The Polygon, he prevailed on
Mr. T. Wedgewood to lend him a considerable sum of money, saying, when he
asked for the loan, that he did not want it for himself, but for the use
of another person. As this other person was Mary Wollstonecraft, and as a
contract of Free Love was marriage in Godwin’s opinion, the money he
wanted for her use was money borrowed for his own use. Why did he not tell
Mr. Wedgewood outright that he wanted it for Mary Wollstonecraft? Because
he thought it possible that some rumour of his arrangement with Mary had
come to Mr. Wedgewood, in which case the benevolent manufacturer, instead
of lending the money, would say, ‘No, you must support your own
“bosom-friend.”’ Why did he not tell Mr. Wedgewood that he was living in
Free Love with Mary? For much the same reason; from a fear that, instead
of lending the money, Mr. Wedgewood would say, ‘No; for I see why you want
the money, and I think you ought to keep your own wife.’ Wedgewood lent
the money in ignorance of the purpose for which it was needed.
After the declaration of his marriage Godwin confessed that he had wanted
the money for Mary Wollstonecraft, and at the same time begged for a
further loan of 50_l._; saying, as he made this confession and prayer for
further help, ‘I trust you will not accuse me of duplicity in having told
you that it was not for myself that I wanted your assistance.’ Though he
complied with the petition for another 50_l._, Mr. Wedgewood cannot have
acquitted his friend of duplicity in the former application. Hence it is
certain that Godwin kept the Free Love contract a secret to one particular
friend, lest by revealing it he should lessen his power to draw money from
his own friend. It is, therefore, only too probable that he was guilty of
the meanness attributed to him by his daughter, and also refrained from
publishing the Free Love contract, lest the publication should lessen the
readiness of Mary’s friends to give her money. But though he was
influenced by pecuniary considerations in keeping his relations with Mary
Wollstonecraft a secret, it none the less remains that Mrs. Shelley was
wrong in representing that he was moved by such considerations to keep his
lawful marriage secret from the beginning of the year till April. As we
have said more than once the marriage of 29th March, 1797, was declared in
the first week of April.
How are these inaccuracies to be regarded?--as mistakes arising wholly or
chiefly from misconception? or as deliberate untruths? Let us fix our
attention on the two first misstatements; the assertion that the marriage
was solemnized at the beginning of the year and the assertion that the
date of the marriage was unknown. Did Mrs. Shelley make these
misstatements innocently? in ignorance of the truth, or with a knowledge
of the truth? It is not easy to believe that Mrs. Shelley, a woman of
letters, curious about her mother’s history, and in her later time engaged
in biographical inquiries for the illustration of her husband’s life, her
own career, her father’s life, and her mother’s story, omitted to
ascertain a fact so easily discovered, as the date of her father’s
marriage. If she knew the date, she had obvious motives for putting the
ugly fact out of sight, under specious and delusive verbiage. In her later
time the woman, who in girlhood had been strangely lawless and defiant of
the world’s opinion, was chiefly desirous of clothing herself with
respectability, of toning and colouring her story into accordance with the
social condition of the family into which she had married. The woman who
would fain have justified her husband’s life to the world, was only a few
degrees less desirous of rendering her own story the same service. What
more natural than for such a woman to wish to cover up the ugly fact, that
she was born only five calendar months after her mother’s marriage? She
could not tamper with the evidences of the date of her own birth. They
were too numerous and too well known. But by pushing the date of her
mother’s marriage some two or three months back, she would cause the world
to think her the child of a premature birth, who had entered the world
none too soon for her mother’s credit. By doing so, she may well have
conceived herself discharging a filial duty, as well as a duty to herself
and her husband’s respectable family. She must have wished to think of
herself as differing, in this respect, altogether from her base-born
sister Fanny, who committed suicide whilst still young. She must have
shrunk from the thought that, had it not been for so late a marriage as
the one which preceded her own birth by only five months, she would have
resembled her sister Fanny in being a bastard. Hence, whilst it is not
easy to think her ignorant of the real date of her mother’s marriage, her
motive for wilfully misstating the case is obvious. Thus much on the
assumption that the main inaccuracy was a deliberate untruth.
It is, however, just conceivable that she did not know the date of her
mother’s marriage, and had a sincere belief that it occurred somewhere
about the beginning of 1797. This belief may have been due to words spoken
to her by Mrs. Gisborne, who, her friend in Italy, had been her mother’s
friend in the previous century. She may even have gone to the St. Pancras
registry, and paid fees to the registrar for searching for evidence of the
marriage amongst the records of marriages, solemnized in the parish in the
later months of 1796 and the first month of 1797. She may have taken some,
though insufficient, pains to arrive at the evidence of the marriage, and
imagined herself to have taken all possible pains, and come to the
conclusion that she might honestly write of her mother’s marriage, ‘the
precise date is unknown.’
Even so, though she would be innocent of wilful falsehood, she would
remain guilty of writing positively on a mere assumption (a serious fault
in an historian), and offering her readers as sure facts a series of
inferences from a mere assumption, or a belief unsustained by positive
testimony. Her narrative of her parents’ marriage, if not a tissue of
untruths, would remain a thing made up of inaccuracies. It is important
for readers to bear this in mind, whilst and _after_ reading this book.
Mrs. Shelley did not die without leaving much biographical material behind
her in the shape of printed notes to her husband’s works, and also in the
shape of MS. notes and memoranda for the use of future historians;--stuff
that would have appeared in her justificatory _Memoir_ of her husband, had
not Sir Timothy checked her biographical zeal by the stern order,
‘Silence, or no allowance!’ But on being brought under critical scrutiny,
all the passages, and bits, and scraps of her biographical sketches, at
present before the world, are found so curiously inaccurate, that every
one of her biographical statements should be read with nervous caution,
lively suspicion, and watchful distrust, by those who would avoid error on
matters of Shelleyan story.
I do not say she was an untruthful woman, though on some occasions she
unquestionably rouses serious suspicion of her veracity. Like Lady Byron
she enjoyed in her girlhood a reputation for sincerity of speech. But
people often say things that are untrue without intending to be
untruthful. It was often so with Mrs. Shelley, in some degree before her
husband’s death, and in a greater degree after that event. An imaginative
and highly emotional woman, she sometimes saw things in a wrong light. Not
seldom, her mental vision was affected by the delusive media of
sentimentality or anger, through which it regarded matters that stirred
her feelings. In speaking of herself she was sometimes strongly influenced
by romantic egotism. Affection and combativeness combined to render her an
unreliable witness about matters touching her husband’s honour. Resembling
Lady Byron in being a vehement and steady hater, she from her girlhood
cordially disliked her step-mother and after loving her sister Claire with
the romantic fervour described in the _Real Lord Byron_, came to detest
her almost as cordially as Lady Byron, long after Byron’s death, detested
her sister-in-law. All that she said or wrote to the discredit of her
step-mother and sister-by-affinity should be received with extreme
caution, and large allowance for her animosity against them.