CHAPTER V.

SELF-KNOWLEDGE.

Vast extent of the science of self-knowledge. Spurious self knowledge.

Knowledge of our physical frame--its laws and relations. Examples of

the need of this knowledge. Instruments of obtaining it. The use of

lectures. Study of our peculiarities. Study of mental philosophy. The

Bible. How the Bible should be studied.

Self-knowledge is of the utmost importance to every human being. To no

person, however, is it more important than to the young woman.

It is the more necessary to urge the importance of self-knowledge, from

the fact that it is a species of knowledge which every one claims, and

which she would deem it almost a reflection upon her character to be

supposed not to possess; while it is that very knowledge of which

almost every one, of both sexes, is exceedingly ignorant.

Such an one "understands himself," is deemed quite a compliment among

our sex nor is it wholly disregarded by the other. But by this

expression is too often meant no more than a knowledge of the petty

acts and shifts, and I might say tricks, by means of which men and

women contrive to pass current in the fashionable world. How much this

kind of self-acquaintance is worth, is too obvious to need illustration.

I have represented a just self-knowledge as of very great importance;

but it is a science of vast extent, as well as of vast importance. A

thorough knowledge of one's self includes, first, a knowledge of man in

general, in his whole character--compounded as it is--and in all his

relations to surrounding beings and things; and, secondly, a knowledge

of the peculiarities produced by particular circumstances, condition,

mode of life, education and habits.

She who merely understands all the little arts to which I have alluded,

which enable us to pass current with a fashionable and grossly wicked

world, will find her self-knowledge exceedingly small, when she comes

to compare it with the standard of self-acquaintance set up by such

writers as Mason, Burgh, Watts, &c.; and, above all, when she comes to

compare it with the standard of the Bible. How little, nay, how

contemptible will all mere worldly arts and shifts appear--things which

at most belong to the department of manners--when she comes to

understand her three-fold nature, as exhibited by the natural and

revealed laws of Jehovah!

The Subjects of Anatomy, Physiology and Hygiene alone--and they teach

us little more than the laws and relations of the mere body or shell of

the human being--are almost sufficient for the study of a long life;

and yet no individual can ever thoroughly understand herself without

them: it is impossible. Anatomy shows us the _structure_ of this body,

which the Psalmist, long ago, taught us was fearfully and wonderfully

made. Physiology teaches us the _laws_ by which the living machine

operates--is kept in play for seventy, eighty, or a hundred years; and

Hygiene teaches us the _relations_ of the living, moving human body to

surrounding beings and objects. This, indeed, is a knowledge which few

young women possess; and yet it is a knowledge which no young woman,

who would do her utmost in the work of self-education, can dispense

with.

She wishes, perhaps, to improve her voice by conversation, reading and

singing. But is she qualified to do this in the best possible manner,

while she is wholly ignorant of the structure of the lungs, the

wind-pipe, and the fauces, as they are called--parts so intimately

concerned in the production of voice and speech?

She wishes, perhaps, to develope and invigorate her muscular system in

the highest possible degree; but how can she do this, while she knows

almost nothing of the nature or power of the muscular fibre?

She wishes to develope and cultivate her intellectual powers; to

acquire "firmness of nerve and energy of thought." But how can she do

it, if she is ignorant of the situation and functions of the cerebral

and nervous system--that wonderful organ of the intellect?

She would train her eye in the best possible manner; but how can she do

so, if she is ignorant of the nature and powers of that wonderful

little organ? She would educate, properly, all her senses; but how can

she do it, without a knowledge of their structure, functions and

relations?

Perhaps she would study the philosophy of dress, and of eating and

drinking. How can she do so, till she understands, intimately, the

relation of the human system to air, heat, the various kinds of food,

drink, &c.?

She would know, still further, the relation of body to mind, and of

mind to body--of body and mind to spirit, and of spirit to body and

mind. She would study the particular effect of one passion, or faculty,

or affection, upon the body, or upon particular functions of the bodily

system--and the more remote or more immediate effects of diseases of a

bodily organ on mind and spirit. She must know all this, and a thousand

times, yea, ten thousand times as much, before she is qualified to go

far in the work of self-knowledge.

But she must go beyond even all this, and study her own peculiarities.

It is not sufficient to understand the general laws and relations of

the human economy; she must understand herself in her own individual

character--physically, intellectually and morally. She must understand

the peculiarities of her physical frame, of her mental structure, and

of her spiritual condition--her relation to other spirits, particularly

to the Father of spirits.

How amazing and how extensive--I repeat it--the science of

self-knowledge! To be perfect in it we need the life of a Methuselah!

But something may be done, even in the short period of seventy years.

And if it be but little that we can do in a life time, this

consideration only enhances the value of that little.

Something, I have said, may be done in the short period of seventy

years. But I might say more. Something may be done in a single day. And

years are made up of days. A little done, every day, amounts to much in

a whole year.

Let not the individual despair who can get but one new idea respecting

herself, in a day. If she can sit down at quiet evening and say, I know

something respecting myself which I did not know last night at this

time, let her be assured the day is not lost. One idea a day is three

hundred and sixty-five a year; and three hundred and sixty-five a year,

amount, in seventy years, to twenty-five thousand five hundred and

fifty. There _are_ those who can hardly be said, at seventy years of

age, to have twenty-five thousand five hundred and fifty ideas in their

heads.

It is a matter of joy to every friend of self-knowledge, that so many

means have been, of late years, devised to facilitate the study of this

science. The lectures which have been given to both sexes on the

structure, laws and relations of their bodily constitution, and the

books which have been written, have made a considerable change in the

state of the public sentiment respecting this species of knowledge. For

it is not they alone who have heard or read, that have reaped the

benefit of hearing and reading on this subject. Many a parent or

teacher, aware that such instructions and books were abroad, has been

encouraged to the performance of that which she might not have dared to

do, had nothing been said or done to encourage her.

Every young woman should, therefore, study these subjects for herself.

Such books as those of Miss Sedgwick--her "Poor Rich Man, and Rich Poor

Man," and her "Means and Ends"--will prepare the way, or will at least

enkindle the desire, for the kind of knowledge of which I am speaking.

She will then desire to read the works of the Combes, and perhaps, ere

long, some of the other popular books of our day, which treat of

Physiology and Hygiene. May I not venture to hope, that at an early

stage of her progress, some of the chapters of _this_ book will be

found serviceable, as well as several other works I have prepared,

especially the little volume called the "House I Live In?"

She who, having a hearty desire for improvement in self-knowledge, on

an extended scale, lets her years pass without looking into any of the

volumes or treatises to which I have referred, can hardly be said to

act up to the dignity of a Christian of the nineteenth century.

But it is not the physical department of her nature alone, that she who

has the desire for self-knowledge and self-progress, should study. Such

works as those of Mason on Self-Knowledge, Burgh on the Dignity of

Human Nature, Watts on the Mind, Opie on Detraction and Scandal,

Wayland on Moral Science, Skinner on the Religion of the Bible, &c.

&c., should not only be perused, but carefully studied. It is to little

purpose, that is, comparatively, that our physical nature is

attentively and assiduously studied and cultivated, if it lead not to

the more intimate and more earnest study of the immortal spirit.

In this better department--the spiritual--permit me, _once_ more, to

direct your attention to the Bible. It should be studied chiefly

without note or comment. Your own good sense, brought to bear upon its

simple, unstudied, unscholastic pages, accompanied by that light from

on high which is ever vouchsafed to the simple, humble inquirer and

learner, will be of more value to you than all the notes, and

commentaries, and dictionaries in the world, without it. It is a book

which is most admirably adapted to the progress of all grades of

mind--those which are but little developed, no less than those which

are more highly cultivated. Other books speak to the intellect--to the

head; this speaks to the heart. Other books often plead for human

nature; this presents it just as it is--its perversity and deformity on

the one side; its susceptibilities to improvement, its capability of

excellency, on the other. Though it reveals to us our humble

origin--the brotherhood of worms--on the one side, it unveils to us our

relation to angels and archangels, on the other. Nay, more; it not only

shows us our relation to the celestial hosts, and to Him who presides

in their midst, but it points out to the penitent and the humble, the

road which, through divine grace, will conduct them thither.

I have spoken of the study of the Bible without note or comment. Notes

and comments, indeed, after you have made diligent use of all your own

faculties and powers, and sought thereon the blessing of God's Spirit,

have their use. I am exceedingly fond of them: and I would not wholly

deny to you what I am so fond of myself. The danger is, of leaning upon

them too much. Scott, and Clarke, and Henry, and Jenks, and Calmet, and

Barnes, and Bush, may help to show me the true way of finding out and

interpreting the Scripture for myself; but if I go farther, and either

indolently or superstitiously suffer them to interpret it for me, it

were almost better that I had not sought their aid. But the Bible, with

or without notes, is--I repeat it--the great volume of self-knowledge

which I urge you to study, and which, in comparison with all the books

written by man, and even the great volume of nature herself, is alone

able to make you wise to salvation.

It seems to me to have been too seldom observed, and still more seldom

insisted on, how apt the love and study of the Bible are to awaken the

dormant intellectual faculties, and to enkindle, even in the aged, a

desire for general improvement. On this point, Mr. Foster, in his essay

on Popular Ignorance, has some very striking remarks. In alluding to

that great moral change which it is one object of the Bible to produce,

and to the consequences which often immediately follow, he thus remarks:

"It is exceedingly striking to observe how the contracted, rigid soul

seems to soften, and grow warm, and expand, and quiver with life. With

the new energy infused, it painfully struggles to work itself into

freedom from the wretched contortion in which it has been so long

fixed, as by the impressed spell of infernal magic."

This change in the moral and religious man, has been often observed;

and Mr. Foster, therefore, tells us nothing very new, however striking

it may be. But now for the secondary effect which is produced on the

intellect, and, indeed, on the whole character:

"It (the soul) has been seen filled with a painful and indignant

emotion at its own ignorance; actuated with a restless desire to be

informed; acquiring an unwonted applicableness of its faculties to

thought; attaining a perception combined of intelligence and moral

sensibility, to which numerous things are becoming discernible and

affecting, that were as non-existent before. We have known instances in

which the change--the intellectual change--has been so conspicuous,

within a brief space of time, that even an infidel observer must have

forfeited all claim to a man of sense, if he would not make the

acknowledgment--This that you call divine grace, whatever it may really

be, is the strangest awakener of faculties, after all."

I have made this quotation, chiefly to confirm the sentiment I have

advanced, that the love of the Bible and the religion of the Bible,

actuates the soul with "a restless desire to be informed," and

stimulates its faculties to thought, and fills it with pain and

indignation at its own ignorance. This is the state of mind and heart

which I would gladly encourage in the reader. It is the truest and best

foundation of all progress, not only in self-knowledge, but in every

other sort of knowledge which is valuable. Give me but this trait of

character in a young woman, and I will not despair of her, however low

may be her present condition, or how degraded soever may have been her

former life. Give me but a hearty desire, a hungering and thirsting for

improvement--physical, moral, intellectual, social and religious--and I

will dare to believe that the most debased and depressed soul _may_ be

restored, at least in some good measure, to that likeness to Jehovah in

which it was originally created.

One thing more, however, should be remembered. Not a few who really

have within them the desire of improvement, and who mean to make the

Bible and its doctrines their standard, fail of accomplishing much

after all. The reason is, they measure themselves, continually, by

their neighbors. If they are no more ignorant or no more vicious than

their neighbors--Misses S. and L., perhaps--or on the other hand, if

they are as wise and as virtuous as Miss R.--they seem to rest

satisfied. Or at any rate, if, they make as much progress in the great

path of self-knowledge, or do as much good in the world as the latter,

they are anxious for no more, and settle down in inaction.

Now every such individual ought to know that the habit of measuring

herself by others, in this way, will hang like a millstone about her

neck; and if it do not drown her in the depths of ignorance and

imbecility, will at least make her forever a child, in comparison with

what she should be. It will keep her grovelling on the earth's surface,

when she ought to be exploring the highest heavens. It will keep her a

near neighbor to the sisterhood of worms on which she treads, when she

ought to be soaring towards those lofty heights which Gabriel once

traversed--nay, which he even now traverses--fast by the throne of the

Eternal.

Let her not stop, then, to demean, and embarrass, and fetter herself by

comparisons of herself with any thing finite. She has no right to do

this. The perfection which the word of God requires, is the standard or

measure by which she should compare herself. She may, indeed, sometimes

compare herself with herself--her present self with her past

self--provided it be done with due humility; but let her beware of

measuring herself by others. Such a course is as perilous as it is

ignoble and unprofitable.

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