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THE POWER OF KINDNESS.
And Other Stories.
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The POWER OF
KINDNESS
& OTHER STORIES.
_T. NELSON & SONS_
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THE
POWER OF KINDNESS.
And Other Stories.
A BOOK FOR THE EXAMPLE AND ENCOURAGEMENT OF
THE YOUNG.
_By T. S. ARTHUR._
LONDON:
T. NELSON AND SONS, PATERNOSTER ROW;
EDINBURGH; AND NEW YORK.
1877.
Contents.
THE POWER OF KINDNESS, 7
ADA AND HER PET FAWN, 18
HOW TO AVOID A QUARREL, 26
THE BROKEN DOLL, 34
HARSH WORDS AND KIND WORDS, 42
A NOBLE ACT, 46
EMMA LEE AND HER SIXPENCE, 53
THE TIMELY AID, 59
THE DOUBLE FAULT, 69
A STORY ABOUT A DOG, 74
THE DISCONTENTED SHEPHERD, 81
THE SHILLING, 86
THE WOUNDED BIRD, 90
THE HOLIDAY, 99
ROVER AND HIS LITTLE MASTER, 104
JAMES AND HENRY, 108
THE USE OF FLOWERS, 116
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The Power of Kindness.
“I hate him!”
Thus, in a loud, angry voice, spoke a lad named Charles Freeman. His
face was red, and his fair white brow disfigured by passion.
“Yes, I hate him! and he had better keep his distance from me, or I--”
“What would you do, Charles?” asked the lad’s companion, seeing that he
paused.
“I don’t know what I might not be tempted to do. I would trample upon
him as I would upon a snake.”
For a boy fourteen years of age, this was a dreadful state of mind to
be in. The individual who had offended him was a fellow-student, named
William Aiken. The cause of offence we will relate.
* * * * *
Charles Freeman was a self-willed, passionate boy, who hesitated not
to break any rule of the institution at which he was receiving his
education, provided, in doing so, he felt quite sure of not being found
out and punished. On a certain occasion, he, with two or three others,
who were planning some act of insubordination, called into the room of
William Aiken and asked him to join them.
“It will be such grand sport,” said Freeman.
“But will it be right?” asked the more conscientious lad.
“Right or wrong, we are going to do it. Who cares for the president
and all the faculty put together? They are a set of hypocrites and
oppressors: make the best you can of them.”
“They don’t ask us to do anything but what is required by the rules of
the institution; and then, I think, we ought to obey.”
“You are wonderfully inclined to obedience!” said Charles Freeman, in
a sneering voice. “Come, boys! We have mistaken Master Aiken. I did not
know before that he was such a milksop. Come!”
The other lads retired with Freeman, but they did not insult Aiken, for
they knew him to be kind-hearted and honourable, and felt more disposed
to respect him for his objections than to speak harshly to him for
entertaining them. Aiken made no reply to the insulting language of
the hot-headed, thoughtless Charles Freeman, although his words roused
within him an instant feeling of indignation, that almost forced his
tongue to utter some strong, retaliating expressions. But he controlled
himself, and was very glad, as soon as his visitors had left him, that
he had been able to do so.
On the next morning, before daylight, some persons, unknown to the
faculty, brought from a neighbouring field a spiteful ram, and tied
him, with a strong cord, to a post near the door of the president’s
dwelling. The president, who was very near-sighted, always read prayers
in the chapel at five o’clock in the morning. At the usual hour he
descended from his chamber, and came out at his front door to go to
the chapel, which was distant some fifty yards. It was a little after
break of day. In the dim morning twilight, the president could see but
indistinctly even objects that were very near to him.
The ram, which had, after his fierce struggles with those who had
reduced him to a state of captivity, lain down quietly, roused himself
up at the sound of the opening door, and stood ready to give the
president a rather warm reception the moment he came within reach
of him. Unconscious of the danger that menaced him, the president
descended from the door with slow and cautious steps, and received in
his side a terrible blow from the animal’s head, that threw him, some
feet from where he was standing, prostrate upon the ground. Fortunately
the ram had reached within a few inches of the length of his tether
when the blow was given, and could not, therefore, repeat it, as the
object of his wrath was beyond his reach.
The president was rather severely hurt; so much so that he was unable
to go to the chapel and read morning prayers, and was confined to
his chamber for some days. No investigation into the matter was made
until after he was able to be about again. Then he assembled all the
students together and stated to them what had occurred, and the pain he
had endured in consequence, and asked to have the individuals who had
been guilty of this outrage designated. All were silent. One student
looked at another, and then at the assembled faculty, but no one gave
the desired information, although many of those present knew the
parties who were engaged in the act. Finding that no one would divulge
the names of those who had been guilty of the outrage against him, the
president said,--
“Let all who know nothing of this matter rise to their feet.”
Charles Freeman was the first to spring up, and one after another
followed him, until all had risen except William Aiken. The president
paused for some moments, and then ordered the young men to take their
seats.
“William Aiken will please to come forward,” said the president. As the
lad rose from his seat, several of the faculty, who had their eyes
upon Freeman, and who had reason for suspecting that he knew about as
much of the matter as any one, noticed that he cast a look of anger
towards Aiken.
“It seems, then, that you know something about this matter,” said the
president.
“All I know about it,” replied Aiken, “is, that I was applied to by
some of my fellow-students to join them in doing what has been done,
and that I declined participating in it.”
“For what reason, sir?”
“Because I thought it wrong.”
“Who were the students that applied to you?”
“I would rather not answer that question, sir.”
“But I insist upon it.”
“Then I must decline doing so.”
“You will be suspended, sir.”
“I should regret that,” was the lad’s manly reply. “But as I have
broken no rule of the institution, such a suspension would be no
disgrace to me.”
The president was perplexed. At this point one of the professors
whispered something in his ear, and his eye turned immediately upon
Freeman.
“Let Charles Freeman come forward,” he said.
With a fluctuating countenance the guilty youth left his seat and
approached the faculty.
“Is this one of them?” said the president.
Aiken made no reply.
“Silence is assent,” the president remarked; “you can take your seat,
young man.”
As Aiken moved away, the president, who had rather unjustly fixed upon
him the burden of having given information, tacitly, against Freeman,
said, addressing the latter:--
“And now, sir, who were your associates in this thing?”
“_I_ am no common informer, sir. You had better ask William Aiken. No
doubt _he_ will tell you,” replied the lad.
The president stood thoughtful for a moment, and then said,--
“Gentlemen, you can all retire.”
It was as the students were retiring from the room where this
proceeding had been conducted that Freeman made the bitter remarks
about Aiken with which our story opens. It happened that the subject
of them was so close to him as to hear all he said. About ten minutes
after this, against the persuasion of a fellow-student, Freeman went to
the room of Aiken for the satisfaction of telling him, as he said, “a
piece of his mind.” Aiken was sitting by a table, with his head resting
upon his hand, as Freeman came in. He looked up, when his door opened,
and, seeing who it was, rose quickly to his feet, and advanced towards
him a few steps, saying, with a smile, as he did so:--
“I am glad you have come, Charles. I had just made up my mind to go
to your room. Sit down now, and let us talk this matter over with
as little hard feelings as possible. I am sure it need not make us
enemies. If I have been at any point in the least to blame, I will
freely acknowledge it, and do all in my power to repair any injury that
I may have done to you. Can I do more?”
“Of course not,” replied Charles, completely subdued by the unexpected
manner and words of Aiken.
“I heard you say, a little while ago, that you hated me,” resumed
William. “Of course there must be some cause for this feeling. Tell me
what it is, Charles.”
The kind manner in which Aiken spoke, and the mildness of his voice,
completely subdued the lion in the heart of Freeman. He was astonished
at himself, and the wonderful revulsion that had taken place, so
suddenly, in his feelings.
“I spoke hastily,” he said. “But I was blind with anger at being
discovered through you.”
“But I did not discover you, remember that, Charles.”
“If you had risen with the rest--”
“I would not, in word or act, tell a lie, Charles, for my right hand,”
said Aiken, in an earnest voice, interrupting him. “You must not blame
me for this.”
“Perhaps I ought not, but--”
Freeman left the sentence unfinished, and rising to his feet, commenced
walking the floor of Aiken’s room, hurriedly. This was continued for
some minutes, when he stopped suddenly, and extending his hand, said,--
“I have thought it all over, William, and I believe I have no cause of
complaint against you; but I acknowledge that you have against me. I
have insulted you and hated you without a cause. I wish I could act, in
all things, from the high principles that govern you.”
“Try, Charles, try!” said Aiken with warmth, as he grasped the hand of
his fellow-student.
“It will be no use for me to try,” returned Freeman, sadly. “I shall
be expelled from the institution; my father will be angry; and I shall
perhaps be driven, by my hot and hasty spirit, to say something to him
that will estrange us, for he is a man of a stern temper.”
“Don’t fear such consequences,” said Aiken kindly. “Leave it to me. I
think I can make such representations to the president as will induce
him to let the matter drop where it is.”
“If you can do so, it may save me from ruin,” replied Freeman, with
much feeling.
William Aiken was not deceived in his expectations. He represented to
the kind-hearted but rather impetuous president the repentant state of
Freeman’s mind, and the consequences likely to arise if he should be
expelled from college. The president made no promises; but nothing
more was heard of the subject. From that time the two students were
warm friends; and Freeman was not only led to see the beauty and
excellence of truth and integrity of character, but to act from the
same high principles that governed his noble-minded friend.
* * * * *
There is not one of our young readers who cannot see what sad
consequences might have arisen, if William Aiken had not kept down his
indignant feelings, and been governed by kindness instead of anger.
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Ada and her Pet Fawn.
There was once a dear child named Ada, who was of so sweet a temper
that she only knew how to love; and the consequence was, that everybody
and everything that could know her, loved the sweet little girl in
return. I do not believe that a servant in her father’s family ever
spoke unkindly to Ada, she was so good. There are but few of my young
readers, I am afraid, that can say so of themselves. Cook scolds, the
chambermaid is so cross, and nurse is out of temper, whenever you come
near them. Yes, you know all that; but, my young friends, I am afraid
it is all your own fault. Now, examine closely your own feelings and
conduct, and see if you do not make this trouble for yourselves. Do
you always speak kindly to those around you; and do you always try to
give them as little trouble as possible?
As for Ada, everybody loved her; and the reason, as I have already
stated, was plain: she didn’t know any feeling toward others except
that of love. Even the dumb animals would come to her side when she
appeared. The cat would rub against her, and purr as she sat in her
little chair; and when she went out to play among the flowers, would
run after her just as you have seen a favourite dog run after his
master. She never passed Lion, the watch-dog, that he didn’t wag his
great tail, or turn his head to look after her; and if she stopped and
spoke to or put her hand upon him, his old limbs would quiver with
delight, and his face would actually laugh like a human face. And
why was this? It was because love prompted Ada to kind acts towards
everything. Love beamed from her innocent countenance, and gave a music
to her voice that all ears, even those of dumb animals, were glad to
hear. Yes, everything loved Ada, because she was good.
The father of gentle, loving Ada was a rich English lord--a certain
class of wealthy and distinguished men in England, as most young
readers know, are called lords--and he had a great estate some miles
from London, in which were many animals; among them, herds of deer.
When Ada was three or four years old, her father went to live on this
estate. Around the fine old mansion into which they removed were
stately trees, green lawns, and beautiful gardens; and a short distance
away, and concealed from view by a thick grove, was the park where
roamed the graceful deer.
Under the shade of those old trees, upon the smoothly-shaven lawn, or
amid the sweet flowers in the garden, Ada spent many hours every day,
one of the happiest of beings alive.
One morning--it was a few weeks after Ada had come to live in this
fair and beautiful place--she strayed off a short distance from the
house, being lured away by the bright wild flowers that grew thickly
all around, and with which she was filling her apron. At last, when her
tiny apron would not hold a blossom more without pushing off some other
flower, Ada looked up from the ground, and discovered that she was out
of sight of her house, and among trees which stood so thickly together
that the sky could scarcely be seen overhead, nor the light beyond,
when she endeavoured to look between the leafy branches. But Ada did
not feel afraid, for she knew no cause for fear. She loved everything,
and she felt that everything loved her. There was not any room in her
heart for fear.
Still Ada felt too much alone, and she turned and sought to find her
way out of the woods and get back again. While yet among the trees,
she heard a noise of feet approaching; and turning, she saw an animal
that was unlike any she had seen before. It came up close to her, and
neither of them felt afraid. It was a fawn, only a few months old.
The fawn looked into Ada’s face with its dark bright eyes, and when
she spoke to it, and laid her hand upon its head, the young creature
pressed lovingly against the child.
When Ada found her way out of the woods, and came again upon the green
lawn, the young deer was close by her side. As soon as Lion saw the
fawn, he gave a loud bark, and came dashing toward the timid creature.
But Ada put her arm around its neck, and said,--
“Don’t be afraid. Lion won’t hurt you. Lion is a good dog.”
And Lion seemed to understand the act of Ada, for he stopped short
before he reached them, wagged his tail, and looked curiously at the
new companion which Ada had found. First he walked round and round, as
if the whole matter was not clear to him. He had chased deer in his
time, and did not seem to understand why he was not to sink his great
teeth into the tender flank of the gentle creature that had followed
his young mistress from the woods. But he soon appeared to get light on
this difficult subject, for he came up to be patted by Ada, and did not
even growl at the fawn, nor show any disposition to hurt it.
The fawn would not stay in the park after this. Ada’s father had it
taken back once or twice, but before the day was gone it managed to
escape, and came to see its newly-found friend. After this it was
permitted to remain; and every day little Ada fed it with her own
hand. When others of the family approached, the timid creature would
start away; but when Ada appeared, it came with confidence to her side.
Ada had a brother two years older than she was. He was different from
his sister in not having her innocent mind and loving heart. Sometimes
he indulged in a cruel disposition, and often he was ill-tempered. When
William saw the fawn he was delighted, and tried to make friends with
the gentle animal. But the fawn was afraid of him, and when he tried
to come near would run away, or come up to Ada. Then, if William put
his hand on it to caress it, the fawn would shrink closer to Ada, and
tremble. William did not like it because the fawn would not be friends
with him, and wondered why it should be afraid of him, and not of Ada.
He did not think that it was because Ada was so good, while he let evil
tempers come into his heart.
“But how could the fawn know this?” ask my young readers. “The fawn
couldn’t see what was in William’s heart.”
No; for if it could have done so, it would have been wiser than a
human being. But all good affections, let it be remembered, as well
as all evil affections, represent themselves in the face, and picture
themselves in the eyes; and there is, besides, a sphere of what is good
or evil about every one, according to the heart’s affections--just
as the sphere of a rose is around the flower in its odour, showing
its quality. Animals, as well as human beings, can read, by a kind of
instinct, the good or evil of any one in his face, and perceive, by a
mysterious sense, the sphere of good or evil that surrounds him.
You do not clearly understand this, my young reader; nevertheless it
is so. If you are good, others will know it at a glance, and _feel_ it
when you come near them. And the same will be the case if your hearts
are evil.
Ada’s pet fawn stayed with her many months, and nothing harmed it.
The horns began to push forth, like little knobs, from its head; and
afterwards it grew up to be a stately deer, and was sent back to the
park. Ada often went to see her favourite, which now had a pair of
beautiful branching antlers. It always knew her, and would come up to
her side and lick her hand when she held it forth.
Such power has love over even a brute animal.
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How to Avoid a Quarrel.
“Here! lend me your knife, Bill; I’ve left mine in the house,” said
Edgar Harris to his younger brother. He spoke in a rude voice, and his
manner was imperative.
“No, I won’t! Go and get your own knife,” replied William, in a tone
quite as ungracious as that in which the request, or rather command,
had been made.
“I don’t wish to go into the house. Give me your knife, I say. I only
want it for a minute.”
“I never lend my knife, nor give it, either,” returned William. “Get
your own.”
“You are the most disobliging fellow I ever saw,” retorted Edgar
angrily, rising up and going into the house to get his own knife.
“Don’t ever ask me for a favour, for I’ll never grant it.”
This very unbrotherly conversation took place just beneath the window
near which Mr. Harris, the father of the lads, was seated. He overheard
it all, and was grieved, as may be supposed, that his sons should treat
each other so unkindly. But he said nothing to them then, nor did he
let them know that he heard the language that had passed between them.
In a little while Edgar returned, and as he sat down in the place where
he had been seated before, he said,--
“No thanks to you for your old knife! Keep it to yourself, and welcome.
I wouldn’t use it now if you were to give it to me.”
“I’m glad you are so independent,” retorted William. “I hope you will
always be so.”
And the boys fretted each other for some time.
On the next day, Edgar was building a house with sticks, and William
was rolling a hoop. By accident the hoop was turned from its right
course, and broke down a part of Edgar’s house. William was just going
to say how sorry he was for the accident, and to offer to repair the
damage that was done, when his brother, with his face red with passion,
cried out,--
“Just see what you have done! If you don’t get away with your hoop,
I’ll call father. You did it on purpose.”
“Do go and call him! I’ll go with you,” said William, in a sneering,
tantalizing tone. “Come, come along now.”
For a little while the boys stood and growled at each other like two
ill-natured dogs, and then Edgar commenced repairing his house, and
William went on rolling his hoop again. The latter was strongly tempted
to repeat, in earnest, what he had done at first by accident, by way of
retaliation upon his brother for his spiteful manner toward him; but,
being naturally of a good disposition, and forgiving in his temper, he
soon forgot his bad feelings, and enjoyed his play as much as he had
done before.
This little circumstance Mr. Harris had also observed.
A day or two afterwards, Edgar came to his father with a complaint
against his brother.
“I never saw such a boy,” he said. “He will not do the least thing to
oblige me. If I ask him to lend me his knife, or ball, or anything he
has, he snaps me up short with a refusal.”
“Perhaps you don’t ask him right,” suggested the father. “Perhaps you
don’t speak kindly to him. I hardly think that William is ill-disposed
and disobliging naturally. There must be some fault on your part, I am
sure.”
“I don’t know how I can be in fault, father,” said Edgar.
“William refused to let you have his knife, the other day, although he
was not using it himself, did he not?”
“Yes, sir.”
“Do you remember how you asked him for it?”
“No, sir, not now, particularly.”
“Well, as I happened to overhear you, I can repeat your words, though
I hardly think I can get your very tone and manner. Your words were,
‘Here, lend me your knife, Bill!’ and your voice and manner were
exceedingly offensive. I did not at all wonder that William refused
your request. If you had spoken to him in a kind manner, I am sure
he would have handed you his knife instantly. But no one likes to be
ordered, in a domineering way, to do anything at all. I know you would
resent it in William, as quickly as he resents it in you. Correct your
own fault, my son, and in a little while you will have no complaint to
make of William.”
Edgar felt rebuked. What his father said he saw to be true.
“Whenever you want William to do anything for you,” continued the
father, “use kind words instead of harsh ones, and you will find him
as obliging as you could wish. I have observed you both a good deal,
and I notice that you rarely ever speak to William in a proper manner,
but you are rude and overbearing. Correct this evil in yourself, and
all will be right with him. Kind words are far more powerful than harsh
words, and their effect a hundred-fold greater.”
On the next day, as Edgar was at work in the garden, and William
standing at the gate looking on, Edgar wanted a rake that was in the
summer-house. He was just going to say, “Go and get me that rake,
Bill!” but he checked himself, and made his request in a different
form, and in a better tone than those words would have been uttered in.
“Will you get me the small rake that lies in the summer-house,
William?” he said. The words and tone involved a request, not a
command, and William instantly replied,--
“Certainly;” and bounded away to get the rake for his brother.
“Thank you,” said Edgar, as he received the rake.
“Don’t you want the watering-pot?” asked William.
“Yes, I do; and you may bring it full of water, if you please,” was the
reply.
Off William went for the watering-pot, and soon returned with it full
of water. As he stood near one of Edgar’s flower-beds, he forgot
himself, and stepped back with his foot upon a bed of pansies.
“There! just look at you!” exclaimed Edgar, thrown off his guard.
William, who had felt drawn towards his brother on account of his kind
manner, was hurt at this sudden change in his words and tone. He was
tempted to retort harshly, and even to set his foot more roughly upon
the pansies. But he checked himself, and, turning away, walked slowly
from the garden.
Edgar, who had repented of his rude words and unkind manner the moment
he had time to think, was very sorry that he had been thrown off his
guard, and resolved to be more careful in the future. And he was more
careful. The next time he spoke to his brother, it was in a kind and
gentle manner, and he saw its effect. Since then, he has been watchful
over himself, and now he finds that William is one of the most obliging
boys anywhere to be found.
“So much for kind words, my son,” said his father, on noticing the
great change that had taken place. “Never forget, throughout your whole
life, that kind words are far more potent than harsh ones. I have
found them so, and you have already proved the truth of what I say.”
And so will every one who tries them. Make the experiment, young
friends, and you will find it to succeed in every case.
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The Broken Doll.
Nearly all the unhappiness that exists in the world has its origin in
the want of a proper control over the desires and passions. This is
as true in childhood as in more advanced age. Children are unhappy
because they do not possess many things they see; and too often, in
endeavouring to obtain what they have no right to, they make themselves
still more unhappy. A spirit of covetousness is as bad a spirit as can
come into the heart; and whoever has this spirit for a guest, cannot
but be, most of his time, very miserable.
Albert Hawkins, I am sorry to say, had given place in his heart to this
evil spirit of covetousness. Almost everything he saw he desired to
possess. Had it not been for this, Albert would have been a very good
boy. He learned his lessons well, was obedient and attentive at school
and at home, and did not take delight in hurting or annoying dumb
animals and insects, as too many boys do. But his restless desire to
have whatever he saw marred all this, and produced much unhappiness in
his own mind, as well as in the minds of his parents.
One day, on coming home from school, he found his sister Ellen playing
with a large new doll that her father had bought for her.
“Oh, isn’t it beautiful!” he exclaimed. “Where did you get it? Let me
have it to look at.”
And Albert caught hold of the doll and almost forced it out of the
hands of Ellen, who resigned it with great reluctance. He then sat down
and held it in his lap, while Ellen stood by, half in tears. She had
only had it about an hour, and she could not bear to let it go from
her. Albert, in his selfish desire to hold in his hands the beautiful
doll, did not think of how much pleasure he was depriving his sister,
who patiently waited minute after minute to have it restored to her. At
last, seeing that her brother still kept possession of the doll, she
said, gently and kindly,--
“Won’t you give it to me now?” and she put out her hand to take it as
she spoke.
But Albert pushed her hand quickly away, and said,--
“No, no; I’ve not done with it yet.”
Ellen looked disappointed. But she waited still longer.
“Now, brother, give me my doll, won’t you?” she said.
“Don’t be so selfish about your doll,” answered Albert, rudely. “You
shall have it after a while, when I’ve done with it.”
Ellen now felt so vexed that she could not keep from crying. As soon
as Albert saw the tears falling over her face, and heard her sob, he
became angry, and throwing the doll upon the floor, exclaimed in a
harsh voice,--
“There! Take your ugly old doll, if you are so selfish about it!”
As the beautiful figure struck the floor, one of its delicate hands
broke off from the wrist. But even a sight of the injury he had done
did not soften the heart of Albert, who left the room feeling very
angry towards his sister. He was trying to amuse himself in the yard,
about half an hour afterwards, when his mother, who had been out,
called to him from the door. He went up to her, and she said,--
“Albert, how came the hand of Ellen’s new doll broken? Do you know? I
have asked her about it; but the only answer I can get from her is in
tears.”
Albert’s eyes fell immediately to the ground, while his face became red.
“I hope you did not break it!” the mother said, pained to see this
confusion manifested by her boy.
Now Albert, although of a covetous disposition, never told a lie. He
was a truthful boy, and that was much in his favour. To lie is most
wicked and despicable. There is no meaner character than a liar.
“Yes, ma’am, I broke it,” he replied, without any equivocation.
“How did you do that, Albert?” asked his mother.
“Ellen would not let me hold it, and I got angry and threw it upon the
floor. I didn’t mean to break it.”
At this confession, Albert’s mother was very much grieved.
“But what right had you to Ellen’s doll?” she asked.
“I wanted to hold it.”
“But it was your sister’s, not yours; and if she did not wish you to
have it, that was no reason why you should get angry and break it.”
“But, indeed, mother, I didn’t mean to break it.”
“I don’t suppose you did. I should be very sorry to think you were so
wicked. Still, you have been guilty of a great wrong to your sister;
and to this you have no doubt been led by indulging in that covetous
spirit of which I have so often talked to you, and which, if not
overcome, may lead you into some great evil when you become a man. But
tell me just how it happened.”
And Albert truthfully related what had passed.
“I cannot tell you how much all this grieves me,” his mother said.
“Ellen never interferes with your pleasures, and never covets your
playthings nor books, but you give her no peace with anything she has.
If your father brings each of you home a book, yours is thrown aside
in a few moments, and you want to look at hers. It is this covetous
spirit--this desiring to have what belongs to another--that leads to
stealing; and unless you put it away from your heart, you will be in
great danger of more temptations than now assail you. Poor Ellen! Her
heart is almost broken about her doll.”
“I am very sorry, mother,” replied Albert in a penitent voice. “I wish
I hadn’t touched her doll. Don’t you think it can be mended? Can’t I
buy her a new hand for it? I will take the money out of my box.”
“We will see about that, my dear. If you can restore the hand, I think
it is your duty to do so. It will be nothing but simple justice, and we
should all be just one towards another in little as well as in great
things. But your first duty is to go to Ellen and try to comfort her in
her affliction, for it is a great grief for her to have her beautiful
doll broken. I found her just now crying bitterly.”
All Albert’s better feelings came back into his heart. He felt very
sorry for Ellen, and went in immediately to the room where she was. He
found her with her head leaning down upon a table, weeping.
“Sister Ellen!” he said, speaking earnestly, “I am so sorry I broke
your doll’s hand. Don’t cry, and I will take money out of my box, and
buy you a new hand for it.”
Albert’s voice was so kind, and so full of sympathy, that Ellen felt
better in a moment. She lifted her head from the table and looked round
into her brother’s face.
“You will forgive me, won’t you, sister?” he said. “I was angry and
wicked, but I am very sorry, and will try and never trouble you any
more. After dinner we will go out, and see if we can’t find another
hand, and I will buy it for you out of my own money.”
Ellen’s tears all dried up; and she said in a kind, gentle way, that
she forgave her brother. After dinner they went out together, and
Albert found a new hand, and bought it for his sister. The doll is now
as good as it was before; and what is better, Albert has learned to
restrain his covetous spirit, and to leave Ellen happy in the enjoyment
of what is her own.
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Harsh Words and Kind Words.
William Baker, and his brother Thomas, and sister Ellen, were playing
on the green lawn in front of their mother’s door, when a lad named
Henry Green came along the road, and seeing the children enjoying
themselves, opened the gate and came in. He was rather an ill-natured
boy, and generally took more pleasure in teasing and annoying others
than in being happy with them. When William saw him coming in through
the gate, he called to him and said, in a harsh way,--
“You may just keep out, Henry Green, and go about your business! We
don’t want you here.”
But Henry did not in the least regard what William said. He came
directly forward, and joined in the sport as freely as if he had been
invited instead of repulsed. In a little while he began to pull Ellen
about rudely, and to push Thomas so as nearly to throw them down upon
the grass.
“Go home, Henry Green! Nobody sent for you! Nobody wants you here!”
said William Baker, in an angry tone.
It was of no use, however. William might as well have spoken to the
wind. His words were unheeded by Henry, whose conduct became ruder and
more offensive.
Mrs. Baker, who sat at the window, saw and heard all that was passing.
As soon as she could catch the eye of her excited son, she beckoned him
to come to her, which he promptly did.
“Try kind words on him,” she said; “you will find them more powerful
than harsh words. You spoke very harshly to Henry when he came in, and
I was sorry to hear it.”
“It won’t do any good, mother. He’s a rude, bad boy, and I wish he
would stay at home. Won’t you make him go home?”
“First go and speak to him in a gentler way than you did just now. Try
to subdue him with kindness.”
William felt that he had been wrong in letting his angry feelings
express themselves in angry words. So he left his mother and went down
upon the lawn, where Henry was amusing himself by trying to trip up the
children with a long stick, as they ran about on the green.
“Henry,” he said, cheerfully and pleasantly, “if you were fishing in
the river, and I were to come and throw stones in where your line fell,
and scare away all the fish, would you like it?”
“No, I should not,” replied the lad.
“It wouldn’t be kind in me?”
“No, of course it wouldn’t.”
“Well, now, Henry”--William tried to smile and to speak very
pleasantly--“we are playing here and trying to enjoy ourselves. Is it
right for you to come and interrupt us by tripping up our feet, pulling
us about, and pushing us down? I am sure you will not think so if you
reflect a moment. So don’t do it any more, Henry.”
“No, I will not,” replied Henry promptly. “I am sorry that I disturbed
you. I didn’t think what I was doing. And now I remember, father told
me not to stay, and I must run home.”
So Henry Green went quickly away, and the children were left to enjoy
themselves.
“Didn’t I tell you that kind words were more powerful than harsh
words, William?” said his mother, after Henry had gone away. “When
we speak harshly to our fellows, we arouse their angry feelings, and
then evil spirits have power over them; but when we speak kindly, we
affect them with gentleness, and good spirits flow into this latter
state, and excite in them better thoughts and intentions. How quickly
Henry changed, when you changed your manner and the character of your
language. Do not forget this, my son. Do not forget that kind words
have double the power of harsh ones.”
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A Noble Act.
“What have you there, boys?” asked Captain Bland.
“A ship,” replied one of the lads who were passing the captain’s neat
cottage.
“A ship! Let me see;” and the captain took the little vessel, and
examined it with as much fondness as a child does a pretty toy. “Very
fair indeed; who made it?”
“I did,” replied one of the boys.
“You, indeed! Do you mean to be a sailor, Harry?”
“I don’t know. I want father to get me into the navy.”
“As a midshipman?”
“Yes, sir.”
Captain Bland shook his head.
“Better be a farmer, a physician, or a merchant.”
“Why so, captain?” asked Harry.
“All these are engaged in the doing of things directly useful to
society.”
“But I am sure, captain, that those who defend us against our enemies,
and protect all who are engaged in commerce from wicked pirates, are
doing what is useful to society.”
“Their use, my lad,” replied Captain Bland, “is certainly a most
important one; but we may call it rather negative than positive. The
civilian is engaged in building up and sustaining society in doing
good, through his active employment, to his fellow-men. But military
and naval officers do not produce anything; they only protect and
defend.”
“But if they did not protect and defend, captain, evil men would
destroy society. It would be of no use for the civilian to endeavour to
build up, if there were none to fight against the enemies of the state.”
“Very true, my lad. The brave defender of his country cannot be
dispensed with, and we give him all honour. Still, the use of defence
and protection is not so high as the use of building up and sustaining.
The thorn that wounds the hand stretched forth to pluck the flower is
not so much esteemed, nor of so much worth, as the blossom it was meant
to guard. Still, the thorn performs a great use. Precisely a similar
use does the soldier or naval officer perform to society; and it will
be for you, my lad, to decide as to which position you would rather
fill.”
“I never thought of that, captain,” said one of the lads. “But I can
see clearly how it is. And yet I think those men who risk their lives
for us in war, deserve great honour. They leave their homes, and remain
away, sometimes for years, deprived of all the comforts and blessings
that civilians enjoy, suffering frequently great hardships, and risking
their lives to defend their country from her enemies.”
“It is all as you say,” replied Captain Bland; “and they do, indeed,
deserve great honour. Their calling is one that exposes them to
imminent peril, and requires them to make many sacrifices; and they
encounter not this peril and sacrifice for their own good, but for the
good of others. Their lives do not pass so evenly as do the lives of
men who spend their days in the peaceful pursuits of business, art, or
literature; and we could hardly wonder if they lost some of the gentler
attributes of the human heart. In some cases this is so; but, in very
many cases, the reverse is true. We find the man who goes fearlessly
into battle, and there, in defence of his country, deals death and
destruction unsparingly upon her enemies, acting, when occasion offers,
from the most humane sentiments, and jeopardizing his life to save
the life of a single individual. Let me relate to you a true story in
illustration of what I say.
* * * * *
“When the unhappy war that was waged by the American troops in
Mexico broke out, a lieutenant in the navy, who had a quiet berth at
Washington, felt it to be his duty to go to the scene of strife, and
therefore asked to be ordered to the Gulf of Mexico. His request was
complied with, and he received orders to go on board the steamer
_Mississippi_, Commodore Perry, then about to sail from Norfolk to Vera
Cruz.
“Soon after the _Mississippi_ arrived out, and before the city and
castle were taken, a terrible ‘norther’ sprung up, and destroyed
much shipping in the harbour. One vessel, on which were a number of
passengers, was thrown high upon a reef; and when morning broke, the
heavy sea was making a clear breach through her. She lay about a mile
from the _Mississippi_, and it soon became known on board the steamer
that a mother and her infant were in the wreck, and that, unless
succour came speedily, they would perish. The lieutenant of whom I
speak immediately ordered out a boat’s crew, and although the sea was
rolling tremendously, and the ‘norther’ still blowing a hurricane,
started to the rescue. Right in the teeth of the wind were the men
compelled to pull their boat, and so slowly did they proceed that it
took more than two hours to gain the wreck.
“At one time they actually gave up, and the oars lay inactive in their
hands. At this crisis, the brave but humane officer, pointing with
one hand to the fortress of San Juan de Ulloa, upon which a fire had
already commenced, and with the other to the wreck, exclaimed, with
noble enthusiasm,--
“‘Pull away, men! I would rather save the life of that woman and her
child, than have the honour of taking the castle!’
“Struck by the noble, unselfish, and truly humane feelings of their
officer, the crew bent with new vigour to their oars. In a little while
the wreck was gained, and the brave lieutenant had the pleasure of
receiving into his arms the almost inanimate form of the woman, who had
been lashed to the deck, and over whom the waves had been beating, at
intervals, all night.
“In writing home to his friends, after the excitement of the adventure
was over, the officer spoke of the moment when he rescued that mother
and child from the wreck as the proudest of his life.
“Afterwards he took part in the bombardment of Vera Cruz, and had
command, in turn, of the naval battery, where he faithfully and
energetically performed his duty as an officer in the service of his
country. He was among the first of those who entered the captured city;
but pain, not pleasure, filled his mind, as he looked around and saw
death and destruction on every hand. The arms of his country had been
successful; the officer had bravely contributed his part in the work;
but he frankly owns that he experienced far more delight in saving the
woman he had borne from the wreck, than he could have felt had he been
the commander of the army that reduced the city.
* * * * *
“Wherever duty calls, my lads,” concluded the captain, “you will find
that brave officer. He will never shrink from the post of danger, if
his country have need of him, nor will he ever be deaf to the appeal of
humanity; but so long as he is a true man, just so long will he delight
more in saving than in destroying.”
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Emma Lee and her Sixpence.
Emma’s aunt had given her a sixpence, and now the question was, what
should she buy with it?
“I’ll tell you what I will do, mother,” she said, changing her mind for
the tenth time.
“Well, dear, what have you determined upon now?”
“I’ll save my sixpence until I get a good many more, and then I’ll buy
me a handsome wax doll. Wouldn’t you do that, mother, if you were me?”
“If I were you, I suppose I should do just as you will,” replied Emma’s
mother, smiling.
“But, mother, don’t you think that would be a nice way to do? I get a
good many pennies and sixpences, you know, and could soon save enough
to buy me a beautiful wax doll.”
“I think it would be better,” said Mrs. Lee, “for you to save up your
money and buy something worth having.”
“Isn’t a large wax doll worth having?”
“Oh yes; for a little girl like you.”
“Then I’ll save up my money, until I get enough to buy me a doll as big
as Sarah Johnson’s.”
In about an hour afterwards, Emma came to her mother, and said,--
“I’ve just thought what I will do with my sixpence. I saw such a
beautiful book at a shop yesterday! It was full of pictures, and the
price was just sixpence. I’ll buy that book.”
“But didn’t you say, a little while ago, that you were going to save
your money until you had enough to buy a doll?”
“I know I did, mother; but I didn’t think about the book then. And it
will take so long before I can save up money enough to get a new doll.
I think I will buy the book.”
“Very well, dear,” replied Mrs. Lee.
Not long after, Emma changed her mind again.
On the next day her mother said to her,--
“Your aunt Mary is very ill, and I am going to see her. Do you wish to
go with me?”
“Yes, mother, I should like to go. I am so sorry that aunt Mary is ill.
What ails her?”
“She is never very well, and the least cold makes her worse. The last
time she was here she took cold.”
As they were about leaving the house, Emma said,--
“I’ll take my sixpence with me, and spend it, mother.”
“What are you going to buy?” asked Mrs. Lee.
“I don’t know,” replied Emma. “Sometimes I think I will buy some cakes;
and then I think I will get a whole sixpence worth of cream candy--I
like it so.”
“Have you forgotten the book?”
“Oh no. Sometimes I think I will buy the book. Indeed, I don’t know
what to buy.”
In this undecided state of mind, Emma started with her mother to see
her aunt. They had not gone far before they met a poor woman with some
very pretty bunches of flowers for sale. She carried them on a tray.
She stopped before Mrs. Lee and her little girl, and asked if they
would not buy some flowers.
“How much are they a bunch?” asked Emma.
“Sixpence,” replied the woman.
“Mother, I’ll tell you what I will do with my sixpence,” said Emma, her
face brightening with the thought that came into her mind. “I will buy
a bunch of flowers for aunt Mary. You know how she loves flowers. Can’t
I do it, mother?”
“Oh yes, dear. Do it, by all means, if you think you can give up the
nice cream candy or the picture book for the sake of gratifying your
aunt.”
Emma did not hesitate a moment, but selected a very handsome bunch of
flowers, and paid her sixpence to the woman with a feeling of real
pleasure.
Aunt Mary was very much pleased with the bouquet Emma brought her.
“The sight of these flowers, and their delightful perfume, really makes
me feel better,” she said, after she had held them in her hand for a
little while. “I am very much obliged to my niece for thinking of me.”
That evening Emma looked up from a book which her mother had bought her
as they returned home from aunt Mary’s, and with which she had been
much entertained, and said,--
“I think the spending of my sixpence gave me a double pleasure.”
“How so, dear?” asked Mrs. Lee.
“I made aunt happy, and the flower-woman too. Didn’t you notice how
pleased the flower-woman looked? I shouldn’t wonder if she had little
children at home, and thought about the bread that sixpence would buy
them when I paid it to her. Don’t you think she did?”
“I cannot tell that, Emma,” replied her mother; “but I shouldn’t at all
wonder if it were as you suppose. And so it gives you pleasure to think
you have made others happy?”
“Indeed it does.”
“Acts of kindness,” replied Emma’s mother, “always produce a feeling
of pleasure. This every one may know. And it is the purest and truest
pleasure we experience in this world. Try and remember this little
incident of the flowers as long as you live, my child; and let the
thought of it remind you that every act of self-denial brings to the
one who makes it a sweet delight.”
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The Timely Aid.
“Take care of that wolf, my son,” said Mrs. Maylie to a boy about
twelve years old, who had come from school in a very ill humour with a
playmate, and kept saying harsh things about him, which were but oral
evidences of the unkind feelings he cherished within.
“What wolf, mother?” asked Alfred, looking up with surprise.
“The wolf in your heart. Have you already forgotten what I told you
last evening about the wild beasts within you?”
“But you told us too,” spoke up little Emily, “about the innocent
lambs. There are gentle and good animals in us, as well as fierce and
evil ones.”
“Oh yes. Good affections are the innocent animals of your hearts,
and evil affections the cruel beasts of prey that are lurking there,
ever ready, if you will permit them, to rise up and destroy your good
affections. Take care, my children, how you permit the wild beasts to
rage. In a moment that you know not, they may ravage some sweet spot.”
“But what did you mean by saying that there was a _wolf_ in brother
Alfred? Tell us the meaning of that, mother.”
“Yes, do, mother,” joined in Alfred, whose ill humour had already begun
to subside. “I want to know what the wolf in my heart means.”
“Do you know anything about the nature of wolves?” asked Mrs. Maylie.
“They are very cruel, and love to seize and eat up dear little innocent
lambs,” said Emily.
“Yes, my children, their nature is cruel, and they prey upon innocent
creatures. Until now, Alfred, you have always loved to be with your
playmate, William Jarvis.”
Alfred was silent.
“Was it not so, my dear?”
“Yes, ma’am; I used to like him.”
“Frequently you would get from me a fine large apple, or a choice
flower from the garden, to present to him. But the tender and innocent
feelings that prompted you to do this have perished. Some wolf has
rushed in and destroyed them. Is it not so?”
Alfred sat in thoughtful silence.
“Think, my son,” continued Mrs. Maylie, “how innocent, like gentle
lambs, were your feelings until now. When you thought of William, it
was with kindness. When you played by his side, it was with a warm,
even tender regard. But it is not so now. Some beast of prey has
devoured these lambs--these innocent creatures that sported in your
bosom. If the angry, raging wolf has not eaten them up, where are they?
Before you permitted yourself to feel anger against William, gentle
creatures leaped about happily in your breast; but you feel them no
longer--only the wolf is there. Will you let him still rage, and devour
your lambs, or will you drive him out?”
“I will drive him out, mother, if I can. How shall I do it?” Alfred
said earnestly, and with a troubled look.