XIII. THE IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL HYGIENE IN FAMILY LIFE

The result of a curious obtuseness to the economics of personal and

domestic hygiene is also responsible for another serious dereliction of

parental duty, by which health and progress have been grievously, though

quite unnecessarily and constantly, hampered. I refer to the general

failure to economise nervous energy or to take any interest in what is

rightly called mental hygiene. Yet Press and people alike deplore the

evident increase of mental abnormalities, and anticipate the future with

undisguised anxiety. It has been well said that though men carry more of

the wood, women carry not less of the worries of life. They _may_ in

some cases escape the physical toil which strengthens; they do _not_

escape the mental toil which demoralises and kills spirit and energy if

not body and health. Now, though the brain tissues do not create mental

activities, nevertheless we all know that they are conditioned in some

inexplicable way by that organ. Derangement in any part of the brain

deranges or diminishes its functions; non-development in any part of the

brain can and does arrest mind growth. Chronic over-fatigue and

exhaustion, anaemia however produced, the circulation through the nervous

tissues of impure blood, alter the character of the mental processes.

The results of starvation may so distort them, that the horrors of the

French Revolution are attributed by some authorities to this particular

cause. That the imperfect lymph circulation associated with adenoid

vegetations accounts for much so-called stupidity is one of the first

fruits of the medical inspection of school children; that a severe shock

may destroy intelligence is a fact familiar to every expert in mental

hygiene. If it were generally known to parents that every impression

received by this, the most sensitive of all organs, is stored up from

early infancy, albeit subconsciously, and can at some future time rise

up into the field of consciousness, influencing both thought and action

for good or ill, a very different line of conduct would be taken towards

the persons or the places which make up a young child's surroundings and

most indelibly impress his brain cells.

It is surely time, therefore, that some broad outline of the process of

normal development of the whole nervous system should be possessed by

all in charge of children. Every mother, for example, should know that

the movements of a new-born baby, such as the facial contortions

observed during sleep, or the stretching and bending of the limbs in

very young infants, involuntary and automatic in character, constitute

the simplest form of nervous activity. They are the necessary precursors

of that intellectual ability, to the development of which parental

ambitions aspire, and should merge into more advanced forms of nerve and

muscle co-ordination, which, rightly utilised, are invaluable agents in

infant education.[119] An intelligent nurse possessed of even this

outline could begin quite early that training in physiological

righteousness and in the strict voluntary control of the whole group of

emotional expressions, of which, as a little reflection will quickly

show, good manners largely consist. Presently, as the brain cells are

stimulated into function by nutrition and a quicker and more extensive

recognition of external sensations is acquired, a child will perform

instinctive movements, such as sitting, crawling, standing, walking,

jumping and throwing. Though considerable latitude must be allowed for

their wide individual variation, failure to display these evidences of

mental progress should call for careful investigation. Later on, skill

in a hundred different forms of muscular activity should be displayed;

but many years will elapse before full control of the body in all its

parts will be acquired, and more years still must roll by before

reasoned control of the mental and moral actions is developed. The last

years of this long period of development are, perhaps, the most critical

of the whole; though all depend for their favourable fruition upon an

infinity of loving care and suitable provision for their appropriate

activities.

There would be a marked reduction in exhausting disciplinary

difficulties were every parent aware that, to the almost vegetative

character of the first few post-natal months (when sleep will or should

absorb at least twenty hours out of the twenty-four), will succeed a

period of extraordinary activity, which lasts till about eight or nine

years of age, when the mind is essentially an exploring organ;

imitative, impressionable, retentive. Every legitimate opportunity for

the liberal gratification of these characteristics should be provided,

as well as suitable surroundings for the eager, inquiring brain.

Elaborate toys are not necessary, nor is premature book-learning

permissible; but freedom to investigate, to experiment, to test, to

explore, is the child's urgent need, as well as suitable arrangements

for the intervening periods of profound sleep. Repressed activity is

often responsible for breaches of discipline; so is insufficient sleep,

following on over-excitement, accountable for "temper" and passions.

The next phase of growth is still distinguished by this continued

capacity for and dependence upon muscular activity, but the mind

becomes more reflective, more productive. The power to initiate should

develop during this stage of development, as well as increased power to

control mental and bodily functions; and, throughout each of these

periods, there should be a steady, unintermittent formation of good

habits. At first, the nature of these will be chiefly physical; the

habitual performance of the bodily functions should be safeguarded,

until their neglect is attended by discomfort and their violation

becomes almost painful. Then, by degrees, the moral and mental nature

develops.

Thus is the child prepared for the stress and turmoil of the long and

anxious years of adolescence; when, under the influence of new emotions,

of fresh temptations, of unfamiliar powers, the character built on the

sands of parental indulgence is undermined, if not swept clean away;

whereas when built on the firm rock of good habits it emerges unshaken

from the storm.

That childhood is an honourable estate must be now evident; pregnant as

it is with possibilities, pathetic in the risks associated with its

plasticity and dependence. Should it therefore be necessary in the

twentieth century to point out that, when the fund of nervous energy is

constantly exhausted by deficient sleep and poor food; when a demand on

function in advance of what nature is prepared to comply with is

persistently made, as it has habitually been in our schools; when

exaggerated and pernicious stimuli are allowed to fatigue and to

paralyse our child population; when inadequate training in the right

conduct of life is provided, and no information given on the dawning

functions of potential parenthood; when premature responsibility is

imposed or precocious and unwholesome independence is permitted; worst

of all, when, through parental disease or alcoholism, the brain tissue

is of too poor a quality to resist the strain of modern life--it is no

matter for surprise that mental instability and insanity are on the

increase, nor that degenerates hamper by their helplessness and crime

the productive capacity of the normal.

The importance of mental hygiene calls for no more emphasis on my part;

though, did space permit, further illustrations might be given of its

scope. It includes the methods in our nurseries, the curriculum of our

schools, the care of our adolescents, the increasing differentiation of

our industrial processes, the character of our often miscalled

recreations. It is concerned with the warding off of nervous breakdowns,

and, with Goethe, it would call the attention of all women to the fact

that the secret of rest is found not "in quitting a busy career, but

rather the fitting of self to one's sphere." It views with anxiety the

growing disregard of religious obligations and restraints, and

emphasises the grave antenatal responsibilities of parents for their

offspring; they who should be the most ardent advocates of a sound

heredity, as well as the promoters of a good home environment for their

children.

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