CHAPTER XVI.

ON ECONOMY OF TIME AND EXPENSES.

_On Economy of Time._

The value of time, and our obligation to spend every hour for some

useful end, are what few minds properly realize. And those, who have the

highest sense of their obligations in this respect, sometimes greatly

misjudge in their estimate of what are useful and proper modes of

employing time. This arises from limited views of the importance of some

pursuits, which they would deem frivolous and useless, but which are,

in reality, necessary to preserve the health of body and mind, and those

social affections, which it is very important to cherish. Christianity

teaches, that, for all the time afforded us, we must give account to

God; and that we have no right to waste a single hour. But time, which

is spent in rest or amusement, is often as usefully employed, as if it

were devoted to labor or devotion. In employing our time, we are to make

suitable allowance for sleep, for preparing and taking food, for

securing the means of a livelihood, for intellectual improvement, for

exercise and amusement, for social enjoyments, and for benevolent and

religious duties. And it is the _right apportionment_ of time, to these

various duties, which constitutes its true economy.

In making this apportionment, we are bound by the same rules, as relate

to the use of property. We are to employ whatever portion is necessary

to sustain life and health, as the first duty; and the remainder we are

so to apportion, that our highest interests, shall receive the greatest

allotment, and our physical gratifications, the least.

The laws of the Supreme Ruler, when He became the civil as well as the

religious Head of the Jewish theocracy, furnish an example, which it

would be well for all attentively to consider, when forming plans for

the apportionment of time and property. To properly estimate this

example, it must be borne in mind, that the main object of God, was, to

preserve His religion among the Jewish nation; and that they were not

required to take any means to propagate it among other nations, as

Christians are now required to extend Christianity. So low were they, in

the scale of civilization and mental developement, that a system, which

confined them to one spot, as an agricultural people, and prevented

their growing very rich, or having extensive commerce with other

nations, was indispensable to prevent their relapsing into the low

idolatries and vices of the nations around them.

The proportion of time and property, which every Jew was required to

devote to intellectual, benevolent, and religious purposes, was as

follows:

In regard to property, they were required to give one tenth of all their

yearly income, to support the Levites, the priests, and the religious

service. Next, they were required to give the first fruits of all their

corn, wine, oil, and fruits, and the first-born of all their cattle, for

the Lord's treasury, to be employed for the priests, the widow, the

fatherless, and the stranger. The first-born, also, of their children,

were the Lord's, and were to be redeemed by a specified sum, paid into

the sacred treasury. Besides this, they were required to bring a

freewill offering to God, every time they went up to the three great

yearly festivals. In addition to this, regular yearly sacrifices, of

cattle and fowls, were required of each family, and occasional

sacrifices for certain sins or ceremonial impurities. In reaping their

fields, they were required to leave unreaped, for the poor, the corners;

not to glean their fields, olive-yards, or vineyards; and, if a sheaf

was left, by mistake, they were not to return for it, but leave it for

the poor. When a man sent away a servant, he was thus charged: "Furnish

him liberally out of thy flock, and out of thy floor, and out of thy

wine-press." When a poor man came to borrow money, they were forbidden

to deny him, or to take any interest; and if, at the sabbatical, or

seventh, year, he could not pay, the debt was to be cancelled. And to

this command, is added the significant caution, "Beware that there be

not a thought in thy wicked heart, saying, the seventh year, the year of

release, is at hand; and thine eye be evil against thy poor brother, and

thou givest him nought; and he cry unto the Lord against thee, and it be

sin unto thee. Thou shalt surely give him," "because that for this thing

the Lord thy God shall bless thee in all thy works, and in all that thou

puttest thine hand unto." Besides this, the Levites were distributed

through the land, with the intention that they should be instructors and

priests in every part of the nation. Thus, one twelfth of the people

were set apart, having no landed property, to be priests and teachers;

and the other tribes were required to support them liberally.

In regard to the time taken from secular pursuits, for the support of

religion, an equally liberal amount was demanded. In the first place,

one seventh part of their time was taken for the weekly sabbath, when no

kind of work was to be done. Then the whole nation were required to

meet, at the appointed place, three times a year, which, including their

journeys, and stay there, occupied eight weeks, or another seventh part

of their time. Then the sabbatical year, when no agricultural labor was

to be done, took another seventh of their time from their regular

pursuits, as they were an agricultural people. This was the amount of

time and property demanded by God, simply to sustain religion and

morality within the bounds of that nation. Christianity demands the

spread of its blessings to all mankind, and so the restrictions laid on

the Jews are withheld, and all our wealth and time, not needful for our

own best interest, is to be employed in improving the condition of our

fellow-men.

In deciding respecting the rectitude of our pursuits, we are bound to

aim at some practical good, as the ultimate object. With every duty of

this life, our benevolent Creator has connected some species of

enjoyment, to draw us to perform it. Thus, the palate is gratified, by

performing the duty of nourishing our bodies; the principle of curiosity

is gratified, in pursuing useful knowledge; the desire of approbation is

gratified, when we perform benevolent and social duties; and every other

duty has an alluring enjoyment connected with it. But the great mistake

of mankind has consisted in seeking the pleasures, connected with these

duties, as the sole aim, without reference to the main end that should

be held in view, and to which the enjoyment should be made subservient.

Thus, men seek to gratify the palate, without reference to the question

whether the body is properly nourished; and follow after knowledge,

without inquiring whether it ministers to good or evil.

But, in gratifying the implanted desires of our nature, we are bound so

to restrain ourselves, by reason and conscience, as always to seek the

main objects of existence--the highest good of ourselves and others; and

never to sacrifice this, for the mere gratification of our sensual

desires. We are to gratify appetite, just so far as is consistent with

health and usefulness; and the desire for knowledge, just so far as will

enable us to do most good by our influence and efforts; and no farther.

We are to seek social intercourse, to that extent, which will best

promote domestic enjoyment and kindly feelings among neighbors and

friends; and we are to pursue exercise and amusement, only so far as

will best sustain the vigor of body and mind. For the right

apportionment of time, to these and various other duties, we are to give

an account to our Creator and final Judge.

Instead of attempting to give any very specific rules on this subject,

some modes of economizing time will be suggested. The most powerful of

all agencies, in this matter, is, that habit of system and order, in all

our pursuits, which has been already pointed out. It is probable, that a

regular and systematic employment of time, will enable a person to

accomplish thrice the amount of labor, that could otherwise be

performed.

Another mode of economizing time, is, by uniting several objects in one

employment. Thus, exercise, or charitable efforts, can be united with

social enjoyments, as is done in associations for sewing, or visiting

the poor. Instruction and amusement can also be combined. Pursuits like

music, gardening, drawing, botany, and the like, unite intellectual

improvement with amusement, social enjoyment, and exercise.

With housekeepers, and others whose employments are various and

desultory, much time can be saved by preparing employments for little

intervals of leisure. Thus, some ladies make ready, and keep in the

parlor, light work, to take up when detained there; some keep a book at

hand, in the nursery, to read while holding or sitting by a sleeping

infant. One of the most popular female poets of our Country very often

shows her friends, at their calls, that the thread of the knitting,

never need interfere with the thread of agreeable discourse.

It would be astonishing, to one who had never tried the experiment, how

much can be accomplished, by a little planning and forethought, in thus

finding employment for odd intervals of time.

But, besides economizing our own time, we are bound to use our influence

and example to promote the discharge of the same duty by others. A woman

is under obligations so to arrange the hours and pursuits of her family,

as to promote systematic and habitual industry; and if, by late

breakfasts, irregular hours for meals, and other hinderances of this

kind, she interferes with, or refrains from promoting regular industry

in, others, she is accountable to God for all the waste of time

consequent on her negligence. The mere example of system and industry,

in a housekeeper, has a wonderful influence in promoting the same

virtuous habit in others.

_On Economy in Expenses._

It is impossible for a woman to practise a wise economy in expenditures,

unless she is taught how to do it, either by a course of experiments, or

by the instruction of those who have had experience. It is amusing to

notice the various, and oftentimes contradictory, notions of economy,

among judicious and experienced housekeepers; for there is probably no

economist, who would not be deemed lavish or wasteful, in some respects,

by another and equally experienced and judicious person, who, in some

different points, would herself be as much condemned by the other. These

diversities are occasioned by dissimilar early habits, and by the

different relative value assigned, by each, to the various modes of

enjoyment, for which money is expended.

But, though there may be much disagreement in minor matters, there are

certain general principles, which all unite in sanctioning. The first,

is, that care be taken to know the amount of income and of current

expenses, so that the proper relative proportion be preserved, and the

expenditures never exceed the means. Few women can do this, thoroughly,

without keeping regular accounts. The habits of this Nation, especially

among business-men, are so desultory, and the current expenses of a

family, in many points, are so much more under the control of the man

than of the woman, that many women, who are disposed to be systematic in

this matter, cannot follow their wishes. But there are often cases, when

much is left undone in this particular, simply because no effort is

made. Yet every woman is bound to do as much as is in her power, to

accomplish a systematic mode of expenditure, and the regulation of it by

Christian principles.

The following are examples of different methods which have been adopted,

for securing a proper adjustment of expenses to the means.

The first, is that of a lady, who kept a large boarding-house, in one of

our cities. Every evening, before retiring, she took an account of the

expenses of the day; and this usually occupied her not more than fifteen

minutes, at a time. On each Saturday, she made an inventory of the

stores on hand, and of the daily expenses, and also of what was due to

her; and then made an exact estimate of her expenditures and profits.

This, after the first two or three weeks, never took more than an hour,

at the close of the week. Thus, by a very little time, regularly devoted

to this object, she knew, accurately, her income, expenditures, and

profits.

Another friend of the writer, lives on a regular salary. The method

adopted, in this case, is to calculate to what the salary amounts, each

week. Then an account is kept, of what is paid out, each week, for

rent, fuel, wages, and food. This amount of each week is deducted from

the weekly income. The remainders of each week are added, at the close

of a month, as the stock from which is to be taken, the dress,

furniture, books, travelling expenses, charities, and all other

expenditures.

Another lady, whose husband is a lawyer, divides the year into four

quarters, and the income into four equal parts. She then makes her

plans, so that the expenses of one quarter shall never infringe on the

income of another. So resolute is she, in carrying out this

determination, that if, by any mischance, she is in want of articles

before the close of a quarter, which she has not the means for

providing, she will subject herself to temporary inconvenience, by

waiting, rather than violate her rule.

Another lady, whose husband is engaged in a business, which he thinks

makes it impossible for him to know what his yearly income will be, took

this method:--She kept an account of all her disbursements, for one

year. This she submitted to her husband, and obtained his consent, that

the same sum should be under her control, the coming year, for similar

purposes, with the understanding, that she might modify future

apportionments, in any way her judgement and conscience might approve.

A great deal of uneasiness and discomfort is caused, to both husband and

wife, in many cases, by an entire want of system and forethought, in

arranging expenses. Both keep buying what they think they need, without

any calculation as to how matters are coming out, and with a sort of

dread of running in debt, all the time harassing them. Such never know

the comfort of independence. But, if a man or woman will only calculate

what their income is, and then plan so as to know that they are all the

time living within it, they secure one of the greatest comforts, which

wealth ever bestows, and what many of the rich, who live in a loose and

careless way, never enjoy. It is not so much the amount of income, as

the regular and correct apportionment of expenses, that makes a family

truly comfortable. A man, with ten thousand a year, is often more

harassed, for want of money, than the systematic economist, who supports

a family on only six hundred a year. And the inspired command, "Owe no

man any thing," can never be conscientiously observed, without a

systematic adaptation of expenses to means.

As it is very important that young ladies should learn systematic

economy, in expenses, it will be a great benefit, for every young girl

to begin, at twelve or thirteen years of age, to make her own purchases,

and keep her accounts, under the guidance of her mother, or some other

friend. And if parents would ascertain the actual expense of a

daughter's clothing, for a year, and give the sum to her, in quarterly

payments, requiring a regular account, it would be of great benefit in

preparing her for future duties. How else are young ladies to learn to

make purchases properly, and to be systematic and economical? The art of

system and economy can no more come by intuition, than the art of

watchmaking or bookkeeping; and how strange it appears, that so many

young ladies take charge of a husband's establishment, without having

had either instruction or experience in one of the most important duties

of their station!

The second general principle of economy, is, that, in apportioning an

income, among various objects, the most important should receive the

largest supply, and that all retrenchments be made in matters of less

importance. In a previous chapter, some general principles have been

presented, to guide in this duty. Some additional hints will here be

added, on the same topic.

In regard to dress and furniture, much want of judgement and good taste

is often seen, in purchasing some expensive article, which is not at all

in keeping with the other articles connected with it. Thus, a large

sideboard, or elegant mirror, or sofa, which would be suitable only for

a large establishment, with other rich furniture, is crowded into too

small a room, with coarse and cheap articles around it. So, also,

sometimes a parlor, and company-chamber, will be furnished in a style

suitable only for the wealthy, while the table will be supplied with

shabby linen, and imperfect crockery, and every other part of the house

will look, in comparison with these fine rooms, mean and niggardly. It

is not at all uncommon, to find very showy and expensive articles in the

part of the house visible to strangers, when the children's rooms,

kitchen, and other back portions, are on an entirely different scale.

So in regard to dress, a lady will sometimes purchase an elegant and

expensive article, which, instead of attracting admiration from the eye

of taste, will merely serve as a decoy to the painful contrast of all

other parts of the dress. A woman of real good taste and discretion,

will strive to maintain a relative consistency between all departments,

and not, in one quarter, live on a scale fitted only to the rich, and in

another, on one appropriate only to the poor.

Another mistake in economy, is often made, by some of the best-educated

and most intelligent of mothers. Such will often be found spending day

after day at needlework, when, with a comparatively small sum, this

labor could be obtained of those who need the money, which such work

would procure for them. Meantime, the daughters of the family, whom the

mother is qualified to educate, or so nearly qualified, that she could

readily keep ahead of her children, are sent to expensive

boarding-schools, where their delicate frames, their pliant minds, and

their moral and religious interests, are relinquished to the hands of

strangers. And the expense, thus incurred, would serve to pay the hire

of every thing the mother can do in sewing, four or five times over. The

same want of economy is shown in communities, where, instead of

establishing a good female school in their vicinity, the men of wealth

send their daughters abroad, at double the expense, to be either

educated or spoiled, as the case may be.

Another species of poor economy, is manifested in neglecting to acquire

and apply mechanical skill, which, in consequence, has to be hired from

others. Thus, all the plain sewing will be done by the mother and

daughters, while all that requires skill will be hired. Instead of this,

others take pains to have their daughters instructed in mantuamaking,

and the simpler parts of millinery, so that the plain work is given to

the poor, who need it, and the more expensive and tasteful operations

are performed in the family. The writer knows ladies, who not only make

their own dresses, but also their caps, bonnets, and artificial flowers.

Some persons make miscalculations in economy, by habitually looking up

cheap articles, while others go to the opposite extreme, and always buy

the best of every thing. Those ladies, who are considered the best

economists, do not adopt either method. In regard to cheap goods, the

fading colors, the damages discovered in use, the poorness of material,

and the extra sewing demanded to replace articles lost by such causes,

usually render them very dear, in the end. On the other hand, though

some articles, of the most expensive kind, wear longest and best, yet,

as a general rule, articles at medium prices do the best service. This

is true of table and bed linens, broadcloths, shirtings, and the like;

though, even in these cases, it is often found, that the coarsest and

cheapest last the longest.

Buying by wholesale, and keeping a large supply on hand, are economical

only in large families, where the mistress is careful; but in other

cases, the hazards of accident, and the temptation to a lavish use, will

make the loss outrun the profits.

There is one mode of economizing, which, it is hoped, will every year

grow more rare; and that is, making penurious savings, by getting the

poor to work as cheap as possible. Many amiable and benevolent women

have done this, on principle, without reflecting on the want of

Christian charity thus displayed. Let every woman, in making bargains

with the poor, conceive herself placed in the same circumstances,

toiling hour after hour, and day after day, for a small sum, and then

deal with others as she would be dealt by in such a situation. _Liberal

prices_, and _prompt payment_, should be an invariable maxim, in dealing

with the poor.

The third general principle of economy, is, that all articles should be

so used, and taken care of, as to secure the longest service, with the

least waste. Under this head, come many particulars in regard to the use

and preservation of articles, which will be found more in detail in

succeeding chapters. It may be proper, however, here to refer to one

very common impression, as to the relative obligation of the poor and

the rich in regard to economy. Many seem to suppose, that those who are

wealthy, have a right to be lavish and negligent in the care of

expenses. But this surely is a great mistake. Property is a talent,

given by God, to spend for the welfare of mankind; and the needless

waste of it, is as wrong in the rich, as it is in the poor. The rich are

under obligations to apportion their income, to the various objects

demanding attention, by the same rule as all others; and if this will

allow them to spend more for superfluities than those of smaller means,

it never makes it right to misuse or waste any of the bounties of

Providence. Whatever is no longer wanted for their own enjoyment, should

be carefully saved, to add to the enjoyment of others.

It is not always that men understand the economy of Providence, in that

unequal distribution of property, which, even under the most perfect

form of government, will always exist. Many, looking at the present

state of things, imagine that the rich, if they acted in strict

conformity to the law of benevolence, would share all their property

with their suffering fellow-men. But such do not take into account, the

inspired declaration, that "a man's life consisteth not in the

abundance of the things which he possesseth," or, in other words, life

is made valuable, not by great possessions, but by such a character as

prepares a man to enjoy what he holds. God perceives that human

character can be most improved, by that kind of discipline, which

exists, when there is something valuable to be gained by industrious

efforts. This stimulus to industry could never exist, in a community

where all are just alike, as it does in a state of society where every

man sees, possessed by others, enjoyments, which he desires, and may

secure by effort and industry. So, in a community where all are alike as

to property, there would be no chance to gain that noblest of all

attainments, a habit of self-denying benevolence, which toils for the

good of others, and takes from one's own store, to increase the

enjoyments of another.

Instead, then, of the stagnation, both of industry and of benevolence,

which would follow the universal and equable distribution of property,

one class of men, by superior advantages of birth, or intellect, or

patronage, come into possession of a great amount of capital. With these

means, they are enabled, by study, reading, and travel, to secure

expansion of mind, and just views of the relative advantages of moral,

intellectual, and physical enjoyments. At the same time, Christianity

imposes obligations, corresponding with the increase of advantages and

means. The rich are not at liberty to spend their treasures for

themselves, alone. Their wealth is given, by God, to be employed for the

best good of mankind; and their intellectual advantages are designed,

primarily, to enable them to judge correctly, in employing their means

most wisely for the general good.

Now, suppose a man of wealth inherits ten thousand acres of real estate:

it is not his duty to divide it among his poor neighbors and tenants. If

he took this course, it is probable, that most of them would spend all

in thriftless waste and indolence, or in mere physical enjoyments.

Instead, then, of thus putting his capital out of his hands, he is bound

to retain, and so to employ, it, as to raise his neighbors and tenants

to such a state of virtue and intelligence, that they can secure far

more, by their own efforts and industry, than he, by dividing his

capital, could bestow upon them.

In this view of the subject, it is manifest, that the unequal

distribution of property is no evil. The great difficulty is, that so

large a portion of those who hold much capital, instead of using their

various advantages for the greatest good of those around them, employ

the chief of them for mere selfish indulgences; thus inflicting as much

mischief on themselves, as results to others from their culpable

neglect. A great portion of the rich seem to be acting on the principle,

that the more God bestows on them, the less are they under obligation to

practise any self-denial, in fulfilling his benevolent plan of raising

our race to intelligence and holiness.

There are not a few, who seem to imagine that it is a mark of gentility

to be careless of expenses. But this notion, is owing to a want of

knowledge of the world. As a general fact, it will be found, that

persons of rank and wealth, abroad, are much more likely to be

systematic and economical, than persons of inferior standing in these

respects. Even the most frivolous, among the rich and great, are often

found practising a rigid economy, in certain respects, in order to

secure gratifications in another direction. And it will be found so

common, among persons of vulgar minds, and little education, and less

sense, to make a display of profusion and indifference to expense, as a

mark of their claims to gentility, that the really genteel look upon it

rather as a mark of low breeding. So that the sort of feeling, which

some persons cherish, as if it were a degradation to be careful of small

sums, and to be attentive to relative prices, in making purchases, is

founded on mistaken notions of gentility and propriety.

But one caution is needful, in regard to another extreme. When a lady

of wealth, is seen roaming about in search of cheaper articles, or

trying to beat down a shopkeeper, or making a close bargain with those

she employs, the impropriety is glaring to all minds. A person of wealth

has no occasion to spend time in looking for extra cheap articles; her

time could be more profitably employed in distributing to the wants of

others. And the practice of beating down tradespeople, is vulgar and

degrading, in any one. A woman, after a little inquiry, can ascertain

what is the fair and common price of things; and if she is charged an

exorbitant sum, she can decline taking the article. If the price be a

fair one, it is not becoming in her to search for another article which

is below the regular charge. If a woman finds that she is in a store

where they charge high prices, expecting to be beat down, she can

mention, that she wishes to know the lowest price, as it is contrary to

her principles to beat down charges.

There is one inconsistency, worthy of notice, which is found among that

class, who are ambitious of being ranked among the aristocracy of

society. It has been remarked, that, in the real aristocracy of other

lands, it is much more common, than with us, to practise systematic

economy. And such do not hesitate to say so, when they cannot afford

certain indulgences. This practice descends to subordinate grades; so

that foreign ladies, when they come to reside among us, seldom hesitate

in assigning the true reason, when they cannot afford any gratification.

But in this Country, it will be found, that many, who are most fond of

copying aristocratic examples, are, on this point, rather with the

vulgar. Not a few of those young persons, who begin life with parlors

and dresses in a style fitting only to established wealth, go into

expenses, which they can ill afford; and are ashamed even to allow, that

they are restrained from any expense, by motives of economy. Such a

confession is never extorted, except by some call of benevolence; and

then, they are very ready to declare that they cannot afford to bestow

even a pittance. In such cases, it would seem as if the direct opposite

of Christianity had gained possession of their tastes and opinions. They

are ashamed to appear to deny themselves; but are very far from having

any shame in denying the calls of benevolence.

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