JONATHAN, THE PATTERN OF FRIENDSHIP

'And David fled from Naioth in Ramah, and came and said before

Jonathan, What have I done? what is mine iniquity? and what is my sin

before thy father, that he seeketh my life? 2. And he said unto him,

God forbid; thou shalt not die: behold, my father will do nothing

either great or small, but that he will shew it me: and why should my

father hide this thing from me? it is not so. 3. And David sware

moreover, and said, Thy father certainly knoweth that I have found

grace in thine eyes; and he saith, Let not Jonathan know this, lest he

be grieved: but truly, as the Lord liveth, and as thy soul liveth,

there is but a step between me and death. 4. Then said Jonathan unto

David, Whatsoever thy soul desireth, I will even do it for thee. 5. And

David said unto Jonathan, Behold, to-morrow is the new moon, and I

should not fail to sit with the king at meat: but let me go, that I may

hide myself in the field unto the third day at even. 6. If thy father

at all miss me, then say, David earnestly asked leave of me that he

might run to Beth-lehem his city: for there is a yearly sacrifice there

for all the family. 7. If he say thus, it is well; thy servant shall

have peace: but if he be very wroth, then be sure that evil is

determined by him. 8. Therefore thou shalt deal kindly with thy

servant; for thou hast brought thy servant into a covenant of the Lord

with thee: notwithstanding, if there be in me iniquity, slay me

thyself; for why shouldest thou bring me to thy father? 9. And Jonathan

said, Far be it from thee: for if I knew certainly that evil were

determined by my father to come upon thee, then would not I tell it

thee? 10. Then said David to Jonathan, Who shall tell me? or what if

thy father answer thee roughly? 11. And Jonathan said unto David, Come,

and let us go out into the field. And they went out both of them into

the field. 12. And Jonathan said unto David, O Lord God of Israel when

I have sounded my father about to-morrow any time, or the third day,

and, behold, if there be good toward David, and I then send not unto

thee, and shew it thee; 13. The Lord do so and much more to Jonathan:

but if it please my father to do thee evil, then I will shew it thee,

and send thee away, that thou mayest go in peace: and the Lord be with

thee, as He hath been with my father.'--1 SAMUEL xx. 1-13.

The friendship of Jonathan for David comes like a breath of pure air in

the midst of the heavy-laden atmosphere of hate and mad fury, or like

some clear fountain sparkling up among the sulphurous slag and barren

scoriae of a volcano. There is no more beautiful page in history or

poetry than the story of the passionate love of the heir to the throne

for the young champion, whom he had so much cause to regard as a rival.

What a proof of the victory of love over self is his saying, 'Thou

shalt be king over Israel, and I shall be next unto thee'! (1 Samuel

xxiii. 17). Truly did David sing in his elegy, 'Thy love to me was

wonderful, passing the love of women'; for in that old world, in which

the relations between the sexes had not yet received the hallowing and

refinement of Christian times, much of what is now chiefly found in

these was manifested in friendship, such as that of these two young

men. Jonathan is the foremost figure in it, and the nobility and

self-oblivion of his love are beautifully brought out, while David's

part is rather that of the loved than of the lover. The scene is laid

in Gibeah, where Saul kept his court, and to which all the persons of

the story seem to have come back from Samuel's house at Kamah. Saul's

strange subjugation to the hallowing influences of the prophet's

presence had been but momentary and superficial; and it had been

followed by a renewed outburst of the old hate, obvious to David's

sharpened sight, though not to Jonathan. In the interview between them,

David is pardonably but obviously absorbed in self, while Jonathan

bends all his soul to cheer and reassure his friend.

There are four turns in the conversation, in each of which David speaks

and Jonathan answers. David's first question presupposes that his

friend knows that his death is determined, and is privy to Saul's

thoughts. If he had been less harassed, he would have done Jonathan

more justice than to suppose him capable of knowing everything without

telling him anything; but fear is suspicious. He should have remembered

that, when Saul first harboured murderous purposes, Jonathan had not

waited to be asked, but had disclosed the plot to him, and perilled his

own life by his remonstrances with his father. He should have trusted

his friend. His question breathes consciousness of innocence of any

hostility to Saul, but unconsciously betrays some defect in his

confidence in Jonathan. The answer is magnanimous in its silence as to

that aspect of the question, though the subsequent story seems to imply

that Jonathan felt it. He tries to hearten David by strong assurances

that his life is safe. He does not directly contradict David's

implication that he knew more than he had told, but, without asserting

his ignorance, takes it for granted, and quietly argues from it the

incorrectness of David's suspicions. Incidentally he gives us, in the

picture of the perfect confidence between Saul and himself, an inkling

of how much he had to sacrifice to his friendship. Wild as was Saul's

fury when aroused, and narrow as had been his escape from it at an

earlier time (1 Samuel xiv. 44), there was yet love between them, and

the king made a confidant of his gallant eldest son. They 'were lovely

and pleasant in their lives.' However gloomy and savage in his

paroxysms Saul was, the relations between them were sweet. The most

self-introverted and solitary soul needs some heart to pour itself out

to, and this poor king found one in Jonathan. All the harder, then, was

the trial of friendship when the trusted son had to take the part of

the friend whom his father deemed an enemy, and had the pain of

breaking such close ties. How his heart must have been torn asunder! On

the one side was the lonely father who clung to him: on the other, the

hunted friend to whom he clung. It is a sore wrench when kindred are on

one side, and congeniality and the voice of the heart on the other. But

there are ties more sacred than those of flesh and blood; and the

putting of them second, which is sometimes needful in obedience to

earthly love or duty, is always needful if we would rightly entertain

our heavenly Friend.

Jonathan's soothing assurances did not satisfy David, and he 'sware' in

the earnestness of his conviction. David gives a very good reason for

his friend's ignorance, which he has at once believed, in the

suggestion that Saul had not taken him into his confidence, out of

tenderness to his feelings. Their friendship, then, was notorious, and,

indeed, was an element in Saul's dread of David, who seemed to have

some charm to steal hearts, and had bewitched both Saul's son and his

daughter, thus making a painful rift in the family unity. It does not

appear how David came to be so sure of Saul's designs. The incident at

Ramah might have seemed to augur some improvement in his mood; and

certainly there could have been no overt acts, or Jonathan could not

have disputed the suspicions. Possibly some whispers may have reached

David through his wife Michal, Saul's daughter, or in the course of his

attendance on the king, which he had now resumed, his quick eye may

have noticed ominous signs. At all events, he is so sure, that he makes

solemn attestation to his friend, and convinces him that, in the

picturesque phrase which has become so familiar, 'There is but a step

between me and death.' Such temper was scarcely in accordance with 'the

prophecies which went before on' him. If he had been walking by faith,

he would have called Samuel's anointing to mind, and have drawn

arguments from the victory over Goliath, for trust in victory over

Saul, as he had done for the former from that over the lion and the

bear. But faith does not always keep high-water mark, and we can only

too easily sympathise with this momentary ebb of its waters.

None the less is it true that David's terror was unworthy, and showed

that the strain of his anxious position was telling on his spirit, and

making him not only suspect his earthly friend, but half forget his

heavenly One. There was but a step between him and death; but, if he

had been living in the serenity of trust, he would have known that the

narrow space was as good as a thousand miles, and that Saul could not

force him across it, for all his hatred and power.

Jonathan does not attempt to alter his conviction and probably is

obliged to admit the justice of the explanation of his own ignorance

and the truth of the impression of Saul's purposes. But he does what is

more to the purpose; he pledges himself to do whatever David desires.

It is an unconditional desertion of his father and alliance with David;

it is the true voice of friendship or love, which ever has its delight

in knowing and doing the will of the beloved. It answers David's

thoughts rather than his words. He will not discuss any more whether he

or David is right; but, in any event, he is his friend's.

The touchstone of friendship is practical help and readiness to do what

the friend wishes. It is so in our friendships here, which are best

cemented so. It is so in the highest degree in our friendship with the

true Friend and Lover of us all, the sweetness and power of our

friendship with whom we do not know until we say, 'Whatsoever thou

desirest, I will do it,' and so lose the burden of self-will, and find

that He does for us what we desire when we make His desires our law of

conduct.

Secure of Jonathan's help, David proposed the stratagem for finding out

Saul's disposition, which had probably been in his mind all along. It

says more for his subtlety than for his truthfulness. With all his

nobility, he had a streak of true Oriental craft and stood on the moral

level of his times and country, in his readiness to eke out the lion's

skin with the fox's tail. It was a shrewd idea to make Saul betray

himself by the way in which he took David's absence; but a lie is a

lie, and cannot be justified, though it may be palliated, by the

straits of the liar. At the same time it is fair to remember the

extremity of David's danger and the morality of his age, in estimating,

not the nature of his action, but the extent of his guilt in doing it.

The same relaxation of the vigour of his faith which left him a prey to

fear, led him to walk in crooked paths, and the impartial narrative

tells of them without a word of comment. We have to form our own

estimate of the fitness of a lie to form the armour of a saint. The

proposal informs us of two facts,--the custom of having a feast for

three days at the new moon, and that of having an annual family feast

and sacrifice, neither of which is prescribed in the law. I do not here

deal with the grave question as to the date of the ceremonial law, as

affected by these and similar phenomena; but I may be allowed the

passing remark that the irregularities do not prove the non-existence

of the law, but may be accounted for by supposing that, in such

unsettled times, it had been loosely observed, and that many accretions

and omissions, some of them inevitable in the absence of a recognised

centre of worship, had crept in. That is a much less brilliant and much

more old-fashioned explanation than the new one, but perhaps it is none

the worse for that. This generation is fond of making 'originality' and

'brilliancy' the tests of truth.

David's words in verse 8 have a touch of suspicion in them, in their

very appeal for kind treatment, in their reminder of the 'covenant' of

friendship, as if Jonathan needed either, and still more in the bitter

request to slay him himself instead of delivering him to Saul. He

almost thinks that Jonathan is in the plot, and means to carry him off

a prisoner. Note, too, that he does not say, 'We made a covenant,' but

'Thou hast brought me into' it, as if it had been the other's wish

rather than his. All this was beneath true friendship, and it hurt

Jonathan, who next speaks with unusual emotion, beseeching David to

clear all this fog out of his heart, and to believe in the genuineness

and depth of his love, and in the frankness of his speech. True love

'is not easily provoked,' is not soon angry, and his was true in spite

of many obstacles which might have made him as jealous as his father,

and in the face of misconstruction and suspicion. May we not think of a

yet higher love, which bears with our suspicions and faithless doubts,

and ever answers our incredulity by its gentle 'If it were not so, I

would have told you'?

David is not yet at the end of his difficulties, and next suggests, how

is he to know Saul's mind? Jonathan takes him out into the privacy of

the open country (they had apparently been in Gibeah), and there

solemnly calls God to witness that he will disclose his father's

purposes, whatever they are. The language is obscure and broken,

whether owing to corruption in the text, or to the emotion of the

speaker. In half-shaped sentences, which betray how much he felt his

friend's doubts, and how sincere he was, he invokes evil on himself if

he fails to tell all. He then unfolds his ingenious scheme for

conveying the information, on which we do not touch. But note the final

words of Jonathan,--that prayer, so pathetic, so unselfish in its

recognition of David as the inheritor of the kingdom that had dropped

from his own grasp, so sad in its clear-eyed assurance of his father's

abandonment, so deeply imbued with faith in the divine word, and so

resigned to its behests. Both in the purity of his friendship and in

the strength of his faith and submission, Jonathan stands here above

David, and is far surer than the latter himself is of his high destiny

and final triumph. It was hard for him to believe in the victory which

was to displace his own house, harder still to rejoice in it, without

one trace of bitterness mingling in the sweetness of his love, hardest

of all actively to help it and to take sides against his father; but

all these difficulties his unselfish heart overcame, and he stands for

all time as the noblest example of human friendship, and as not

unworthy to remind us, as from afar off and dimly, of the perfect love

of the Firstborn Son of the true King, who has loved us all with a yet

deeper, more patient, more self-sacrificing love. If men can love one

another as Jonathan loved David, how should they love the Christ who

has loved them so much! And what sacrilege it is to pour such treasures

of affection at the feet of dear ones here, and to give so grudgingly

such miserable doles of heart's love to Him!

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